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cadyrocks · 5 months

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No more "is transandrophobia real" discourse please. It's so fucking exhausting. To quote the eminent scholar James Stephanie Sterling (@jimquisition ) "The gays can do whatever they want". Even if the people denying that transmisandry and transandrophobia are useful concepts are right, I don't really care - they're still being dicks about it.

Whatever marginal value is gained from a strictly accurate use of terms to describe oppression, there's no fucking universe in which it's worth this much ink and invective. Trans men suffer from transphobia. We can all agree on that, right? As an academic discussion, sure, it could be useful to tease out the ways that the transmasc and transfemme experience of transphobia, misogyny, and [insert preferred additional terms here] differs... But it's a curiosity of language, not a fundamental split in the community. Posting "transandrophobia isn't a real thing" isn't Praxis, you're just being a dick. I guarantee you that anyone earnestly discussing their experience with transandrophobia has a better understanding of patriarchy and transphobia than, like, 95% of the general population, on account of, y'know, being trans.

Don't like the term trans guys use to describe their experience of oppression? Okay. I don't care. I think it's much more important that we understand what they're going through than that we split semantic hairs over the number of privilege points that can dance on the head of a clit.

If you are starting shit about transandrophobia, I am 100% certain that you have bigger problems. How can I be so sure? Because we still live in a world where being any kind of trans or gender non-conforming makes you a target for marginalization and violence, and if you're starting shit about this, you are, statistically, a trans woman posting on Tumblr.com, a website that keeps randomly nuking trans people's blogs. We're on the same side here, and if semantics are dividing us or causing members of our community to feel mocked or unwelcome, we've completely lost sight of the larger goal - trans liberation, community, and joy. (And, let it not go merely implied, mind-blowing T4T sex).

Inspired by @yak-leather-whips posting on the subject.

#trans #transandrophobia #transmisogyny #infighting #hornet's nest meet baseball bat #the gays can do whatever they want

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some---weirdo · 29 days

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If this post gets:

100 notes I'll explain my gender to my friends and tell them my pronouns

500 notes I'll explain my romantic orientation to my friends (they think I'm aroace, I just identify as ace) ✓

1000 notes I'll come out to my sibling (they're agender, I know they'll support me)

10 000 notes I'll come out to my sister (she has pronouns in her discord bio, it'll be fine)

100 000 notes I'll tell my best friend I love her

1 000 000 notes I'll come out to my homophobic, transphobic conservative Christan family that I live with (they still talk to my agender sibling, so it'll just be very awkward for the next few years...)

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gayvampyr · 2 years

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“queer spaces should be inclusive of people who don’t enjoy sex and who have “strange”, negative or repulsed relationships with sex” and “sex is an important aspect of lgbt community, history, and activism and queer people should be allowed and able to talk freely about sex without stigma or shame” are ideas that can and should coexist.

#‘queer people were banned from and shamed for having sex and that’s where a lot of our activism stemmed from’ and #‘not liking or having sex is considered abnormal and a mental illness and also needs to be destigmatized’ are concepts that not only can but #often do coalign #it’s esp important to consider that a lot of lgbt ppl who have a tricky and strained relationship with sex are like that because of trauma #which is very common for queer folks #it’s really not an ace-only thing #like i am sex repulsed but it’s very hard to discern if it’s because i’m asexual or if it’s the trauma. either way i deserve to have those #feelings and be included in lgbt spaces and discussions about sex and treated as just another queer person with a different experience #instead of being alienated because my feelings about sex don’t directly line up with yours #im so sick of people in this community trying to pit us against each other. as an ace lesbian that shit is so toxic and harmful #my relationship with sex is fluid. im sex-positive always‚ but i often find myself sex repulsed. im otherwise neutral about it but im sick #of people acting like it’s either you enjoy sex and have it frequently or you hate it and you shame everyone who has it like youre a puritan #and it’s often aphobes who bought into that ‘aces are puritanical celibate straights who want ppl who have gay sex to die or think they’re #‘dirty’ or some shit. and it was literally 90% crypto-aphobes pretending to be aces to get people to adopt that into their belief system #the same way crypto-t/rfs pretend to be trans women who want to prey on the ‘innocent women’#and y’all will use those posts/screenshots as ‘evidence’ that whatever scapegoat you’ve selected is actually inherently bad/homophobic/#misogynistic/etc and not even #acknowledge the giant hole in your logic cuz you’re too busy trying to find a scapegoat #it’s the same tactics and y’all fall for it every time #text post #like. lesbians are CONSTANTLY getting hounded and told that we’re broken or mentally i’ll for not showing interest in (having sex with) men #for the same reason asexuality is considered bad or wrong or weird #not showing interest in heterosexual relationships or sex is why this is so important #anyone that falls outside the scope of heterosexuality is part of this community whether you like it or not

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l48yr1nth · 3 months

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hi. art requets. poob n pest beign. Fagged Gots. Put thEM bitches in a. situation............. :3333333333

IN SITUATIONS THEY WILL BE!!!!

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d1rtb · 4 months

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having fun with colors and OFF

#art #fanart #off #off batter #off game #off zacharie #zacharie #the batter #they seem gay to me #i think everything is gay to me actually #they’re in love whatever i can do what i want

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mwagneto · 5 months

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rtd really is living the dream tho. gets to do whatever he wants to his favourite show. even got to bring his special little guy back in a way that ensures he's in the story alive and happy forever. AND gay

#sorry im insane the way he's been trying to make dr who and scifi in general as #gay as possible and now they Begged him to come back. he can do whatever the hell he wants #and the whole reason why he's able to make everything gay now is coz he #was fighting tooth and nail to do that in the 2000s!!! laid the foundations now he gets to reap the rewards #(15 getting a male love interest)#OR ELSE . but like he definitely is right. please I've been manifesting for so long #doctor who #14th doctor #rtd #the giggle

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aunmenosheteroenespanol · 1 year

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911 3x06 Monsters and the award for funniest B-plot goes to: adult man terrorized by small bird

#this is legitimately the most insane episode I've seen so far (though I've only seen up to here)#chimney's badge subplot. buddie divorce subplot. literally framing buddie like a couple having relationship troubles #also when maddie is insane it's ok. she can do whatever she wants shut up mind your business #911 fox #911 on fox #911onfox #911edit #911 gifs #chimney han #howie han #howie 'chimney' han #911 chimney #gay firefighter show #my edits #how the hell do people edit this show why is it so bright and yet you still cannot see shit. I don't understand soap opera lighting #literally found a scene that's poorly lit and I breathed out a sigh of relief like ok. this I can do. no gaffers no problem

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hey-i-am-trying · 6 months

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Apparently blue and red teams supports enjoy them as a big found family or unusual group of friends

Team green's men are two minutes of a orgy. Bagi just want her girlfriend and her best demon friend back

#qsmp #qsmp purgatory #qsmp team green #qsmp green gay ninjas #green gay ninjas #I don't know why people were surprise with bagi given their spawn location #or let bad and tubbo kill her #she wants bad to win more than she does want to win #she had already said that #bad can do whatever it takes to save dapper

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camelspit · 8 months

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idk sokeefe just feels like the kind of ship that should never go canon. like spirk. do you get it.

#let me. elaborate a bit.#i just think that. one of the big draws to sokeefe was when people didnt know if they really would be canon #especially when keefe was still more a background character #and a lot of sokeefe comes from the fact that they werent canon until stellarlune! people could do whatever they wanted with them #and even up until unlocked it was never explicitly stated that keefe liked sophie. just heavily implied.#and sophies feelings could have gone either way for forever.#theyre the kind of ship that should never be canon and just be so heavily implied that it drives people insane. do you understand.#like in straight media when gay ships can be heavily implied but they wont flat out say theyre canon #thats them! that should be sokeefe!#they function the best when they are not canon #kotlc

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boxdstars · 2 months

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Only in the HL fandom would the take that “all the companions could be bisexual at the very least” would be a hot take but here we are

#IM YAPPING AGAIN GRAHHHHHHHHHH #have you guys considered that the mc is not by default a woman #all the so called ‘tension’ between seb and the mc #‘exists’ regardless of what your mc looks or acts like #though i don’t believe it really exists outside of shipping goggles #that’s okay though! people can do whatever they want!#it’s just weird for yall to be like ‘ominis and sebastian are straight!!’ and be obnoxious about it when we on the gay website #yall alienating the few gays in this fandom already it’s weirdo behavior #boxd chitchat #also shout out to the tired aro and ace folks in this fandom cause yall are troopers

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taffywabbit · 3 days

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me: i wish someone other than intsys would make a good tactical RPG with Fire Emblem-style gameplay for me to enjoy

studio: look we made a cool new tactical RPG that fans of strategy games like Fire Emblem will enjoy

me: is the gameplay Final Fantasy Tactics or Advance Wars

studio: it's a good tactical RPG ma'am. fans of strategy games like Fire Emblem will enjoy it :)

me: *plays 20 minutes of it*

(it's FF Tactics or Advance Wars)

#buny text #no shade to either of those games but ff tactics is not really my thing and advance wars is EXTREMELY not my thing #and you would not believe the number of times i have been recommended something like Wargroove when i complain about the decline of FE game #i want more shit like FE Echoes #like literally i'd be overjoyed if i could just play ports/remakes of older FEs with modern difficulty balancing and QoL features #it's deeply frustrating to me that if i want an FE game without permadeath i have to also deal with dating mechanics and a persona calendar #i'm just really surprised i've seen so many indie devs and other studios play off of classic TRPGs but they never seem to do FE #i really thought fuckin uhhhh. triangle strategy or whatever was gonna be it. but i played the demo and it's FF tactics #anyways all the more reason for me to get into gamedev so i can make my OWN indie fire emblem. with gay nonbinary space furries or whatever

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kneel-gayman · 7 months

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good omens is just found footage of a couple of queers with VERY different god complexes

#crowley #good omens 2 #aziraphale #good omens #good omens series 2 #go2 #aziracrow #good omens spoilers #neil gaiman #michael sheen #david tennant #terry pratchett #gay people can do whatever they want #queers #god complex #god canonically uses she/they pronouns #i love gay people #ineffable partners #ineffable husbands

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wullfric · 2 months

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1000+ years? She should be at the clubbbbb

#Umineko no Naku Koro ni #I am gay but she can do whatever she wants to me #Who said that

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hajihiko · 6 months

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I gotta ask, what is your, like, relationship circle w the gang I gotta know I love it. Hajime is engaged (or would be) w Nagito and.chiaki, moirails with fuyuhiko and soul bros w souda (possibly also moirails I assume????), souda has a flirty kinda thing with Nekomaru, who also has a flirty kinda thing with Akane, who also.jas a flirty this w Sonia, who is in a relationship w Gundham. Ik there is prob more and that's why I ask if you have like a circle graph or smth made cause....your relationship dynamics fascinate me. I love them and how u write them so much

I don't lol. It's all ~loosey goosey~

#Oh wait I did have a graph but it was about feelings not relationships #The relationships are ... All vaguely open! That way I can do whatever I want forever #The engagement parts are a maybe AU thing since I don't think legal marriage is as much of a thing when you're. Well #not an art #Me who cannot define relationships for the life of me: disappears Looney tunes style #Looks at the camera waves in a gay way takes a running pose and disappears leaving a dust replica of myself #glad you enjoy it! Feel free to make your own hcs about it all

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sonknuxadow · 4 months

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please tell me people are joking when they say sonic prime is queerbaiting with sonic and shadow. that is not whats going on here please be serious you guys just see sonic and shadow interact in any way and become unable to turn your shipping brains off

#and even if it is a joke its still kinda annoying because people get the definition wrong all the time and this sort of thing isnt helping #queerbaiting is when they On Purpose hint at characters being gay just to appeal to gay viewers with no intention of making it official #NOT ''these characters read as gay to me but thats not what the writers were actually going for''#NOT ''my favorite ship didnt become canon''#(whatever happened to just liking a ship without expecting for it to become canon anyway)#you can think sonic and shadow are gay if you want to i literally do not care #unlike most other sonic and shadow interactions i can definitely see why people think some of their scenes in sonic prime are gay #but i highly doubt the writers were intentionally trying to hint that theyre in love like . come on.#nothing they do is inherently romantic whatsoever some of the sonic and shadow moments that get labelled as gay #are things sonic does with his other friends too and people dont freak out nearly as much in those cases #why is it always the so/nadow obsessed people who are annoying about this stuff #like sonic and knuckles are gay as hell but i never see people accuse sega of queerbaiting with them

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luigi-core · 1 year

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WHY DOES HE SPIN HIM LIKE THAT LMFAO I’M LAUGHING SO HARD

cuz why would he wanna spin him around if he wasn’t checking him out 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

#bowuigi #mario movie #luigi #smb #super mario #bowser #super mario movie #guys……#i’m onto something here #i’m not ready to see the movie in theaters and it’s not as gay as everyone thought 😭😭😭#i just want bowser to have a redeption arc in a future movie and they can like hold hands and ride off in a cart into the sunset or whatever #is that so much to ask #imagine a luigi’s mansion movie but bowser fucking shows up #and defeats king boo with him and they kiss at the end or something #the fact that charlie day wants to do a luigi’s mansion movie is just SO !!!!!#LET HIM COOK FR !!!!!#i love charlie day as luigi i think it’s perfect casting #same with jack black #if you read this far into my tags you deserve government compensation #because what am i even talking about LMAO

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