#the self esteem issues

[a-dauntless-daffodil]

charlie brings a certain air of "i COULD care that my gay gf did so many crimes, bi I don't~" to the show that i really love

[theambitiouswoman]

Emotionally healthy people are quitters ✨

Emotionally healthy people are quitters. They make choices that align with their well being. Quitting a relationship, partnership or job that makes you unhappy is a sign of self awareness. If someone stays in something bad for too long, it's not because they're strong, but because they're afraid or have low self esteem. Being emotionally healthy means having awareness, setting boundaries, and knowing when it's time to move on from situations that no longer serve you. It's about prioritizing your mental and emotional health over sticking with something that's causing you harm or making you unhappy.

Emotionally healthy people also tend to have good communication skills. They express their feelings and needs calmly, openly and honestly. They also look for guidance and enlightenment because they understand that seeking help is a sign of strength not weakness.

They make decisions out of self love rather than attachment or fear. When you prioritize loving yourself, you make choices that align with your happiness and growth, rather than staying in situations out of comfort or insecurity.

Recognizing when you have an unhealthy attachment or that your feelings may not be conducive to your well being is important. It allows you to take a step back, evaluate the situation objectively, and make choices that are in line with your best interests.

Sometimes holding on can lead to more pain and struggle than necessary. It's a sign of emotional maturity to recognize when a situation is no longer good for you and to have the strength to let it go.

Things that are genuinely right for you should not cause you harm or emotional pain. Choosing pain is a sign of a lack of self love. Recognizing the need for change, prioritizing self love, and making healthier choices is how you begin to change your life.

Reframe your mindset from “this is hurting me because I love it” to “this is hurting me because I do not love me.”

[bizarrelittlemew]

calling it right now that season 3 starts like this

[snoozefm]

[arthursfuckinghat]

"Some say he is as dumb as he looks.. but I think, well, he's not quite that dumb."

[fumifooms]

Chilchuck analysis speedrun: As a hardworking half-foot who grew up poor and discriminated against and had his gullibility taken advantage of multiple times in his early adventuring days, Chilchuck thinks optimism is a dangerous flaw. He’s stressed and strict all the time because his job is noticing details like traps that could get everyone killed before anyone knows it, he takes the lives of everyone to be on his shoulders, and with the way he speaks about it that probably partly reflects how he felt about taking it upon himself to provide for his family too. His life’s always been pretty centered around work and has become even moreso now that his wife left and everyone is independent, and due to past events he’s very iffy with bonding with coworkers. He thinks feelings and job are a disaster mix. Like with his wife or with parties hiring him as sacrifice, being open or having good faith is vulnerability which can get you hurt, so he processes and shows all his stress as anger instead of worry. Doing strict dieting probably isn’t helping the irritability what with hunger, and on top of being a hunger suppressant alcohol might be the main stress reliever he has.

His grey hairs are so earned

[raygirlramblings]

The Eden marketing meetings for this concept must have been really weird for Rayman.

[mewvore]

If I had a nickle for every time this has happened I'd have more than one nickle

[jabberwockprince]

nanami kiryuu youre the only girl ever

right and tsuwabuki is also there

[topaz-witch-tea]

Dan Heng and Blade trying to get to know Yanqing: He’s very polite and diligent. He also loves swords and is impulsive, but otherwise, delightful. Jing Yuan did a wonderful job raising him.

Dan Heng and Blade after getting to know Yanqing: Aw, he needs therapy.

[comradekatara]

katara’s fatal flaw when it comes to politics and also just general communication is that she cannot fathom why anyone would wish to act in a cruel manner and knowingly harm others, whereas sokka’s is that he does not understand how people can be willfully ignorant or even just plain dumb. it’s why sokka is always having to point out to katara that someone is a malicious actor who is taking advantage of her compassion and idealism (jet, hama, aunt wu, etc) because he knows that not everyone has pure, altruistic intentions, but he also doesn’t understand that king kuei isn’t just sheltered, he is also straight up an idiot (or that hahn isn’t just arrogant, he is also incompetent, etc etc) until it’s too late.

[im-totally-not-an-alien-2]

Cullen: *trying to distract Ras Al Ghul for his sister who he just found out was Blue Bird* Why do you worship Lazarus anyway? What does it give you?!

Ras Al Ghul: It gives me endless life and eternal youth.

Cullen: But I bet it can't give me a boyfriend.

*Lazarus green portal opens up in the sky and shoots a guy down at Cullen feet*

Ras:

Cullen:

Nightwing:

Bluebird:

Robin:

Cullen: Dibs

Robin: That is a demon. A pit demon.

Cullen: and I called dibs

Phantom: ????

Phantom: I know a place if you like burgers

[cadiebug]

Steve tries to not take up space. He tries so incredibly hard to not exist too much in someone else's space. He avoids occupying even his own space. The house he's supposed to be living in, is barely lived in at all, and his bedroom looks like an interior design ad straight out of an outdated magazine.

He doesn't have many things to physically take up space either. He's got like two books, one from Robin and one from Eddie, a couple photos that he shoves into his wallet when he decided that he would rather live in his car than his own house, and a coffee mug that was a joint gift from all the kids that said "world's best grandma" on it.

A lot of the clothes he had ended up at Robin's or Eddie's. And Steve swore he would get them at some point, but before he could do anything, Robin microfolds half of her own clothes and makes a space in her drawer for Steve's clothes.

Steve just thinks that she likes to steal his sleep shirts.

The clothes left at Eddie's get washed by Wayne and they just end up in Eddie's dresser.

Eddie steals Steve's sleep shirts too. He says they're comfortable and Steve just tells him to avoid smoking in them.

His books end up sitting on Eddie's bedside table, next to the weird little container Eddie keeps his rings in.

Steve loses his coffee mug to the Munson kitchen cabinet, and he finds it on a Sunday morning before he has to go to work.

It was nestled between two stacked pink plastic cups, and Wayne's ridiculously old portable mug.

He knows for a fact that Eddie had to have seen it in his car, taken it inside and washed it with last night's dishes.

And he almost cried, he didn't, but the sound he made was close enough to a choked off sob that it got Eddie's attention, who had been sitting on the couch, watching something with the muppets in it, and chewing on a metal spoon.

Eddie almost tripped rushing over to Steve, and Steve didn't say anything, he just pointed between Eddie and the cabinet, and pointedly ignored the wetness in his eyes, before Eddie reached his arms out and Steve just fell into them.

He would have been embarrassed, but Eddie had on hand in his hair and one on his back and Steve just says thank you, over and over again, like a mantra.

And Eddie was probably confused and concerned, but he just kept telling Steve it's okay, and he just kept holding onto him.

[cry-ptidd]

who hurt his feelings >:(

[lastofthe20thcenturygirls]

(ln8 spoilers) jinshi thinking except for my godly looks i am just average and then his smartass goes and kills around five birds with just one brand. someone whose status is so high that even his name can't be said by anyone except the emperor jinshi branded himself with the crest of the empress vowing loyalty to her assuring her he doesn't wants to take the place of her son. one-upping his "bro" with this who refuses to let him leave the line of succession wouldn't let him become a commoner doesn't wants to let him become a servant to the royal family. only slaves get branded and if this ever got out there will be chaos in the court. gyokuyou tho considers jinshi like a brother and he did swear loyalty to her but if she ever tried to cross his family her clan's brand on his body would be enough to prove her as an adultress which would be bad for her and her clan.

and jinshi did this in front of these two people and maomao so now she is the only one who can see him naked and the emperor cannot order him to marry anyone which was something that was definitely gonna happen had he not done what he did. as a bonus he gets to spend more time with maomao after a long time and he did all this while saying the exact words: empress gyokuyou, your enemy i shall never be in front of maomao reassuring her because she once muttered i don't want to be an enemy to empress gyokuyou and he had heard her but before he could tell her that he had no intention of doing that either he couldn't because of the lishu incident. one of the major reasons maomao hadn't accepted her own feelings for jinshi one of the obstacles he promised to remove for her. even though he doesn't even know that maomao's concerns about her becoming gyokuyou's enemy had to do with his birth secret his true status. that no matter what he is the rightful successor. something jinshi himself isn't even aware of and yet without knowing that he did this to deal with it all in a single way most preferable to him: masochism

[eeldritchblast]

Me playing Early Access: Sounds like Gale just doesn't take no for an answer, I feel sorry for Mystra.

Me playing the Full Release: Gale sweetie honey listen to me. That bitch used you like a wet tissue and does not deserve your devotion. Gale sweetie honey listen to me. Fuck Mystra.