#trans post

[love-ardour-anarchism]

idk why TERFs think lesbians and transfems should be enemies making out with a closeted lesbian is a transfem rite of passage making out with a closeted transfem is a lesbian rite of passage where would we be without each other?

[sapphic-sprite]

your daily reminder that transfems can be butch and still be transfem

[yourdailyqueer]

Jay Lynn Gomez

Gender: Transgender woman

Sexuality: Queer

DOB: Born 1986

Ethnicity: Mexican

Nationality: American

Occupation: Artist

[spirit-fingers22]

Y'all I am 100% convinced that four year old me knew I was gay before I was gay. But not only gay that I was low-key trans/nonbinary as well.

Like little story time here.

So when I was but a young kindergarten lass I had a fun play friend named Jasmine now Jasmine was in the same class as me and we spent time together ALL THE TIME. We sat together in circle period, Snack time we'd share our lunches, and play time we were always each other's playmates. Not gonna lie it was pretty serious for a kindergarten relationship.

Now we were only friends at that time BUT I already knew there was no one other than her I'd love to spend my life with.

So one night as I'm having one my nightly chats with mother dearest as she braids my hair I tell her that I'm gonna marry Jasmine.

Immediately my deeply catholic conservative mother tells me:

Oh no sweetie. Girls can't marry girls. But I'm sure you'll both be very good friends!

As you can tell I was immensely disappointed. And I tell you this was where the little Gaylord in my head starting their scheming cause immediately after my sweet conservative Catholic mother uttered those words I began cooking up this idea in my head that I'd dress up as a groom and marry Jasmine. And let me tell you I had this all planned down to the shoes I'd be wearing. It was a mix of Gomez Addams and Mafia boss down to the pinstriped suit, black and white spats, mustache and all. The only thing that was missing was grey sideburns and a caramia.

Hell I even planned how we'd rendezvous at the park and get married in the little chapel then go to the petting zoo beside it.

It got to the point that I'd DREAM about it.

But then I changed classes and since my mother refused to network for me like she did with my other siblings I never heard from Jasmine again. Nonetheless, I still await the day where we can meet again and hopefully rekindle our spark.

So yeah. Four year old me was woke but I was just sleeping.

[chaoticsorceressztc]

I am a Normal person

The 4 Blahaj on my bed:

[e17omm]

Got the best birthday gift today

[trollocs-ooc]

I made a helpful graph that isn't a graph and isn't helpful at all

I should have put slashr in the in-between of ??? And trans but whateva

[angelthingy]

btw random but people online aren’t entitled to know if ur trans or not (ppl irl too tbh if ur at that stage). if u wanna just say ur cis and/or have the gender affirming characteristics u want, fuckn go for it who cares

[thrift-store-shrek]

Trans things that make sense pt1

My deadname means "pure and innocent" right. It's Latin. Search it up if you wish, it's going to be one of my middle names. But I won't say it here.

My current name (Oberon) is the name of the very much not pure and innocent Fairy King from Shakespeare.

I noticed about two weeks ago with my good friend that around the time I realized I was transgender, I began losing my innocence and acting out. I started vaping, hanging out with Bad Influences, and started to be more rebellious than before.

When I fully realized I was transgender, it was like my deadname fell off of me and I fully knew I was Oberon, A Boy. That was the time I made some of the worst decisions of my life. I'm a mot better now.

But the symbolism of losing my innocent and what made me "pure" (not sex) and embracing myself as Oberon, a child made of chaos and rebellion, full of tiny armies of words to wreck havoc on my poor mother (bless her soul, she did a great job and still does when it comes to dealing with me.) Is interesting.

Especially when you hear the story of my deadname.

It came to my mother in a dream, where toddler me going to kindergarten told her what my name was. When I realised my name was Oberon, I dreamed that too. I dreamed of a snake shedding it's skin and becoming a housecat with a collar that said Oberon.

Weird dreams, insane symbolism, interesting stories.

[squirrel-gay]

this isn’t something that would have kept me up at night five years ago

[brontesaur]

Support you local "femme presenting" nonbinarys! nonbinaries?

happy tdov my loves. don't let anyone else define your transness for you.

help trans women evacuate gaza

[sapphic-sprite]

[image description: a tweet by @/stellarissys that says “trans masc? we’re in a pandemic of course they should” end id]

[nattousan]

*doom music starts to play* I actually kindof like scheduling these kinds of appointments now...

but seriously Fellas, don't forget to schedule a pap smear every couple of years just in case. If you still have a cervix you can still get cervical cancer. ilu

this has been a psa

[thinkspam]

[gammadoppler]

Alien pulling your sleeve to get your attention: and who is this Cunt you all serve