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Having aspd is basically just idgafmaxxing

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“Mental health matters!” Until it’s conduct disorder/Aspd and we do the most destructive sabotaging shit or just make up problems because we’re bored and we need the Adrenaline 

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Hot take but I don’t think when a system is asked to take accountability it’s always the systems fault. First of alters are always there for a reason they form from when we are in a stressful situation or need care/protect/gatekeep etc etc. a lot of the times I’ve been called out for my system “acting out” was whenever my “interact with caution” alter would be fronting or the ones that you’re not allowed to talk to at all. But despite this boundary people would still provoke or try to talk to that specific alter despite us as a system recommending not to do that for that exact reason. Now I don’t say what my alter did www right (insulted my friends threatened and harassed people) but if our boundaries could’ve just been respected and you wouldn’t of have provoked such an aggressive alter this whole thing could’ve been avoided. See,now I don’t say it’s an excuse but it’s rare that alters act out for no reason. Most of the time it’s because they feel threatened or scared so they behave strangely or act out. For me personally our alters like that can be normal as long as you treat them normally or are very cautious with them. Whenever people tell me “x alter did —-“ my first question is on what happened. I doubt my avenger alter would’ve harassed someone for fun! I mean their whole role is being an avenger. Besides they are normal to people outside the system if they don’t feel scared so whenever I get reports like that I honestly can’t feel like I am in the wrong for it. You provoked, talked, scared and aggressive/sensitive alter and they responded badly. What did you expect honestly?

No matter what if my system caused serious damage for no reason (which has never happened there was always a reason as to why my alters did “bad stuff”) I will take accountability and even if they did bad stuff for good reasons I will take accountability but I won’t ever feel sympathy for you if you know alters like that act out and still enable them.then get mad that they react like they do. That’s your fault. Fuck around find out

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are you german

No. I speak german though 🔥

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Being a fictive and have fellow fictive friends is so funny why does my friend group consist of shigaraki tomura, Celestia ludenberg,haruka sakurai,spider Gwen and Kangel

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LMAOOO

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RIGHT. As long as you understand what’s “right and wrong” it’s not as necessary as people make it out to be

Bitches be like “you need to be able to feel empathy to be a good person” and then are the most horrible person alive

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I don’t forgive people for their comfort I forgive them for my comfort.

I do not owe anyone forgiveness

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No seriously I’m extremely glad my friends left me because I don’t wanna keep hurting them cause of my suffering it’s not their responsibility

Unpopular opinion but if you do shitty things during survival mode/ being in a shitty mental health state doesn’t make the people you’re close to obligated to stay with you if it’s toxic for them

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Unpopular opinion but if you do shitty things during survival mode/ being in a shitty mental health state doesn’t make the people you’re close to obligated to stay with you if it’s toxic for them

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Bitches be like “you need to be able to feel empathy to be a good person” and then are the most horrible person alive

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Sorry for being aggressive I grew up in constant fear of my safety and now am more prone to lashing out because idk how else to protect myself if I’m not controlling people , do you still love me?

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I don’t understand why some people truly believe you need to feel empathy in order to be a good person. It does not make sense to me. As long as i understand the person is suffering and understand the issues on why they act the way they do, shouldn’t that just be enough? Why am I supposed to feel empathy to be a “good person” ? It doesn’t make sense if anything it helps me in most cases not feeling empathy isn’t an issue for me i don’t understand why people make it out to be one as long as you learn to understand people that’s all that matters. Why would you have to be able to feel empathy in order to understand? I don’t get it

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INTRODUCTION

Tulipe it/(s)he - 16 Lesbian (no gender)

This blog will mainly be speaking about mental health and cluster b struggles amongst others.

I “suffer” from Autism,bpd,schizophrenia,npd, conduct disorder, ocd, adhd And DID so most of my stuff will mainly be focused around those topics

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