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I wish some aces would stop excluding other aces with complex sexual experiences. like I get why but you have to realize that being ace does not mean they don't enjoy sexual experiences and it's weird when you complain about allo people and boil it down to "people who have sexual experiences" and also shame people for their sex life and kinks as if your own community doesnt INCLUDE those people. because there are other aces out there who still masturbate, who feel sexually attracted to their own body, who barely experiences sexual attraction but still enjoys sex, who like consuming sexual media, who like sfw kink. being ace is so so much more complex than just "disliking sex". and also aromantic exclusionism in the same genre of posts is something i see a lot. especially aro allos. I hate hate hate seeing a community that SHOULD be inclusive boil down sexuality and exclude people.

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Some of you really need to realize that appreciating and including other people's queer experiences does not undermine your own and you need to leave them alone.

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I wish some aces would stop excluding other aces with complex sexual experiences. like I get why but you have to realize that being ace does not mean they don't enjoy sexual experiences and it's weird when you complain about allo people and boil it down to "people who have sexual experiences" and also shame people for their sex life and kinks as if your own community doesnt INCLUDE those people. because there are other aces out there who still masturbate, who feel sexually attracted to their own body, who barely experiences sexual attraction but still enjoys sex, who like consuming sexual media, who like sfw kink. being ace is so so much more complex than just "disliking sex". and also aromantic exclusionism in the same genre of posts is something i see a lot. especially aro allos. I hate hate hate seeing a community that SHOULD be inclusive boil down sexuality and exclude people.

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why is toy exclusionism even a fucking thing. you can be like "I don't like this design" in your free time but I've had people come onto my posts about toys just to complain about ?? one of them being "too ugly"?? god forbid people have other tastes I guess. let me enjoy my ugly ass pink dog, it is not my problem that you do not personally enjoy it. I did not make that post with you specifically in mind, I made it for people who also enjoy ugly ass pink dogs. " x brand ruins the entire post " eat my entire asshole I do not care

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any other trans masculine or gender neutral people out there who can't read self insert fanfic anymore because every fanfic has a female or feminine reader? A lot of GN fanfic has the reader super feminine, just with they/them pronouns instead of she/her. It hurts because x readers used to be a huge comfort for me when I was extremely depressed and now I can't read one without getting extremely uncomfortable. I UNDERSTAND that a lot of fanfic authors are female, but it still hurts so much when I can't find anything made for us because I'm not a woman.