#but also on the front of 'you deserve to have healthy communication in your life'

[deoidesign]

something that makes me sad is when people tell me the healthy communication in my writing is "unrealistic."

like guys this is how me and my partner talk with eachother... I'm writing from personal experience...

[harmoonix]

☾ Night Goddess ☽

• Astrology Notes •

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🌃 - Venus/Mars/Mercury in Libra/Cancer/Taurus are the type of people you can get easily get along with, because they are good at making an nice good impression

🌃 - Mercury - Moon/Jupiter aspects can be very wise in talking and always having this nice tone in their voice, they have a pleasant voice

🌃 - Pluto sextile/trine/conjunct Neptune are the good at manifesting things in their life, because they have a rich and powerful imagination

🌃 - Sun aspecting the Moon can be really underestimated, like people tend to make fake scenarios about how these people truly are

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🌃 - Do not force someone with Saturn - Mercury aspects to lie, because they will be always saying the truth even if it hurts somebody, it will be for their own good will

🌃 - Moon/Venus/Sun in the 9th house can really get blessed relationships with their partners, because the 9th house is also the house of fortune

🌃 - Gemini/Virgo or Mercury in the 7th house indicates that the native wants to communicate a lot in their relationships, and aswell with their partners. If they don't communicate they can feel sad about it

🌃 - Chiron in the 10th house or Chiron in Capricorn are very revengeful placements if you mess with their public state, they can end up hating you forever actually

🌃 - Draconic Sun in Sagittarius or in a Sagittarius Degrees (9°, 21°) indicates an soul who travelled a lot, they can be wise when it comes about culture and traditions (To know this placement you have to do your Draconic Chart 🌃)

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🌃 - Draconic Moon at 3°, 15°, or 27° degrees indicates an soul who always seeks for more communication and understanding of the things around them

🌃 - Draconic Sun in Aries or at Aries Degrees 1°, 13°, 25° degrees, is an soul who is here to learn about themselves and to be themselves in the first place

🌃 - Draconic Cancer/Taurus/Pisces in the 7th house indicates an soul who is here to get in touch more with their relationships and partners and of course to be more nurturing

🌃 - For someone who Virgo placements, being clean, healthy, organized and hardworking is holy for them. Because they are very in touch with these things

🌃 - Uranus in the 2nd/7th/8th house can experience being attracted to the same sex (not in all cases but in can determinate that)

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🌃 - Air Moons/Air Venuses and Air Mercuries can have a lot of love for music, and specifically more around the r&b style and strong bass music (it can apply of course not to everyone)

🌃 - South Node aspecting the Moon can be hard to let some things go and can find themselves always looking back in the past

🌃 - South Node aspecting Saturn can find it hard to cope with authorities or with people older than them, like they don't like when the olders came in the picture

🌃 - Saturn aspecting Moon can go numb when they feel pain or they have it low, one thing about them is like you Will never see them crying in front of you. They will always hide it

🌃 - Libra placements (Specifically Libra Moon or Libra ascendant) can find themselves being people pleasers, don't let people to treat you bad and to manipulate you because you don't deserve it at all

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🌃 - Sagittarius/Pisces/Aquarius Placements can also find themselves being attracted to space/planets/the unseen sky, most people I know with these aspects tend to like these things

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🌃 - Aries/Taurus/Cancer Lilith can have an kink for licking/kissing/touching, is like an mix of everything with them, hot and cold

🌃 - Pluto aspecting the ascendant has an energy of the person everyone wants to be like, people will always want to be them

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🌃Hellooo 🥰 It's a great day to post a full observations post since in the last days I posted only "mini - observations 🌃

🌃 In case nobody told you today, I hope you are fine and loved because you are worth of it, you are loved moon child 🌃

🌃 Have a great day full of love and warm energy to everyone reading my notes 🌃

Angel Number for this post :12:12

[buddhamethods]

10 BL Characters I Would Hit With My Car

(I don't have a licence and can't drive so this is just for fun OBVIOUSLY)

LISTEN, I love these characters. They are complex, they are human, they are flawed and yet you can't help but root for them. Or they are just giant assholes.

Regadless, I think they would all benefit from getting hit by a car as a little treat.

Feel free to tag yourselves and participate in a bit of lighthearted negativity and media complaining.

1) Ben From Never Let Me Go (2022)

Of course he would be on this list. Mainly because how are you, a closeted gay in a coming of age bl drama, sitting down in front of a piano next to a beautiful boy and not just completely eat his face in a passionate life altering kiss? I understand that was the whole point of the scene, but personally I would rise above the narrative that was trapping me.

2) Dan from Not Me (2021)

Being a cop, killing Sean's father and selling NFTs is bad enough on it's own, I agree. But Dan's biggest sin was taking the cigarette out of Yok's mouth and depriving us of seeing sad First Kanaphan smoking near a body of water-THE queer cinema experience.

As it turns out, you can be gay and homophobic at the same time.

3) Kenji from My Dear Gangster Oppa (2023)

So you have funky hair and kawnty fashion sense? Oh, you partake in fun bathtub threesomes? What, you're a little unhinged and psychotic? Perfect! THEN WHY THE HELL YOU SUCK AT BEING A VILLAIN SO HARD HUH???

Kenji you better put your helmet on, I'm turning on the engine.

4) Kanghan from Dangerous Romance (2023)

Rich people don't deserve rights in general so Kang was already on thin ice to begin with. But being a bully on top of that? UNDER THE HOOD OF THE CAR YOU GO!

Also he is so attention starved on account of his father being a negligent asshole that he will jump in front of my car willingly just to get a drop of love from dad and Sailom.

5) Yu Xi Gu from HIStory3: Make Our Days Count (2019)

(I'm so so incredibly sorry but I HAD to okay you don't underst- *gets shot immediately*)

6) Mork from Fish Upon The Sky (2021)

I looked at Pond for 0.1 second and fell so embarrasingly in love that for the entirety of FUTS I saw no flaws in Mork's character at all. All he did made sense and I was blissfuly having a great time! So I'm pummeling him to the ground for my own sake I CAN'T KEEP BEING THIS STUPID ABOUT HIM HE IS OBJECTIVELY CREEPY!

7) Vee from Love Mechanics (2022)

Was he in my "I want them carnally" list? Yes. Do I find him beautiful and incredible? Double yes. Am I smearing him on asphalt like a squished bug for causing Mark so much unnecessary pain and heartbreak? More likely than you think.

8) Jiwoo from To My Star/ To My Star 2 (2021-22)

MY BEAUTIFUL BOY!! A crumb of healthy communication is all I'm asking for!

Jiwoo was so emotionally bricked up for the majority of both seasons that it caused ME damage. So me hitting him with my car is both a revenge plot and an attempt to let loose some of those pent up feelings of his.

(But also I'm dead meat if Seojoon finds out it was me behind the wheel. He loves that boy too much.)

9) Zee from Twins (2023-24)

I'm volunteering to do this as public service to keep Sprite and First together without any twins switch drama. One gremlin down, one successful volleyball couple UP!!

10) Winner from Pit Babe (2023-24)

I want to do it as an experiment. I feel like he would make a funny sound under the wheels, like when you sqeeze clown's nose or step on a rubber duck. I would also like to see how this will affect his character. Will he become even more annoying? Will it fix him completely? ONLY ONE WAY TO FIND OUT!!

(This was so fun I love inflicting imaginary violence on fictional men. If you read this far into this incoherent insanity, consider yourself tagged!💖)

[lu-sn]

what do you see as the most likely thing pete does post canon? is he involved in the family business? does he have a job outside the mafia? are he and vegas both retired?

let's assume vegas has recovered as much as he can from the shooting and that he's done whatever he needs to do to get himself and his family out from under korn's thumb. so we're talking deep post-canon.

if vegas is still in the mafia somehow — in any capacity — i have no doubt that pete will function as his right hand. (or left hand. hell, both.) he's definitely got the skill set for it, and i think he would really enjoy it! it's a perfect outlet for his brand of undying loyalty, and he gets to bestow that loyalty upon someone who is equally insane about him and who will let him beat up as many people as he wants ❤️

but i don't want that for them. i think vegas in particular deserves that soft epilogue — a chance at the life he could have had all along without his father hovering behind him. so let's imagine vegas has found something to do with his time that hits that perfect balance of high stakes and high fulfillment and very very high odds of survival. pete is very happy for him, and also the tiniest bit bereft. unlike vegas, pete needs something physical.

so pete is ambling back from the grocery store, idly wondering whether he needs to be trying to do something with all of his free time, when he stumbles upon some sort of scuffle just waiting to break out in a dank alleyway. and pete manages to spot a kid in there, far too young, definitely biting off more he can chew, definitely about to get his ass beat, and — well. pete's been itching for a fight anyway.

pete hikes up his pha khao ma and lays everyone in that alley flat, and once most everyone has scampered away with their tails between their legs, the kid stares at pete, and scowls at him, and sneers out a "didn't think i asked, old man."

here's the thing. i don't think pete has any sort of affinity or good hand with kids. he's probably the type to get walked over by most teenagers (exhibit A: macau during canon). but there's a particular category of kid that i think pete would immediately have the upper hand on; surly, prone to anger, snippy, sad underneath all of that. in short, kids who are a mini-vegas 😂

(somewhere not so far away, vegas is crouched in front of his vegetable patch, suddenly feeling very annoyed, and has no idea why 😌)

so pete smiles pleasantly, says "better work on your stance then," picks up his groceries and starts walking away — only for this kid to catch up to him and go "i guess you're good enough, so you might as well teach me."

this post is already long 😅 basically, this kid will not stop pestering pete, and pete somehow ends up training the kid on a daily basis in their backyard, and happens to unleash a lot of life advice that this kid is very desperately in need of (e.g. "knowing how to fight isn't worth anything if you don't know which fights you shouldn't pick"). and he notices some other kids peeking through the fencing watching them, so he sighs a deep sigh and tells them they might as well come in.

some of these kids remind him too much of vegas — or of himself. he finds himself wanting good things for them, wanting to help them be just a little bit happier — which is the kind of help neither he nor vegas received when they were younger.

he ends up being pretty damn good at it.

so pete is giving a bunch of kids a safe space and a healthy outlet for their anger, totally by accident. to answer your question, anon, i guess that makes him a community youth counselor 😂

vegas finds this all kind of bemusing, and is more than a little tilted that pete seems to be attracting all of the little vegases in a 30km radius, but hey! he gets to shovel his cooking into more mouths now! he's totally in denial about how much he enjoys that.

(much later, pete abruptly sits up from where he's resting his head in vegas's lap, and he exclaims, "did i accidentally start a gang???"

vegas considers this for a long moment, shrugs, goes "maybe we should have stayed in the mafia after all.")

[plasmasimagination]

Heyy girl hows it goingg! Congrats on ur amazinggg milestone. Totally deserved 🪼🪼 I was wondering if i cld get a matchup for genshin and hsr ! I totally loved the others u did.

I go by the she series and id love to be matched up w a hot man 🤤 my mbti is enfp and im a gemini! Im around 5’3 with tan skin and hv super grown out long dyed brown hair. I have 8 piercings total on my ears and i know im gna cop more next summer bless up. I wld say i def have a more summer oriented aesthetic i loveee me a tank top n shorts and bikini.

Im not surr what kind of personality i have .. but i think im a freak. I love to party nd go out w my friends obviii but i absolutely love spending time by myself bc im chill like dat. I think im pretty funny but i also follow my heart a lil too much and do whatever i want when i want, so i cant set boundaries w myself.. im def tryna work on that and have a healthy grindset and balance. Im down to do anything w my friends BUT im also a lil bit of bitch ngl… a lil bit of a hater if i see some weird activity in front if me

I love the beach and summer and drives with loud music playinggg. My ideal day is a warm summer day on the beach with some Js and scrolling thru the x reader tag on tumblr on my ipad.

My interests are surfing and paddleboardinf!! Im super into gymming and looking up wikipedia horror movie summaries. Im pursuing health rn too 😜 and i try to write in my free time but it never works out LOL. I also love thrifting and flea markets and im down to rage if u are 🤙

If i had a short life id probably honestly spend it at home w the fam and w my dog and w all my friends. Id love to do some epic in state road trips or have bonfires by the beach. i think itd be sick to be surrounded by all the simple things i love.

When it comes to my love life…. Erm… i definitely can be attracted SO easily but im quick to find icks tbh. I dont think i fall in love easily but i definitely get high on the possibility of it. Lets just say im hard to get and hard to want 😈 My ideal type is someone whos athletic and good at math and is FINE AF. My lovr language is quality time (i LOVE ft) so someone whos willing to do stuff w me is a plus. I think i also like someone who can match my speed and humor bc i hate miscommunication and awkwardness

Thanku sm if u decide 2 do my req! ⭐️⭐️

Hello there fellow darling >:)

As for your request, I would say I found just the right manz for you, but i didn't, so work with them a bit and they'll be vibing with u in no time(ㅠ﹏ㅠ)

So let's go

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AL HAITHAM

Smart collected calm and rational, just to balance you out

introvert x extrovert

He's definitely impressed by your carefree attitude, and often gets dragged into your small adventures, he might complain around a bit but he doesn't mind as much as he says he does

Hes confused as to how you have the energy to go out to parties and surfing and everything, he's just way too tired to even think about such things, so he'll prefer to watch you from the distance, in the comfort of a chair and a good book

Listen listen, I know I know, he's pissy and awkward, but I like to think he wouldn't be like that in a relationship, and is actually very good at communication and explaining his struggles and emotions

It might take him a bit to trust you but when he does, he's a good partner

He might not be able to match your humour, but he can match your speed, he's very efficient.

And if that relationship doesn't work out, do try with kaveh, because that could work out more (and yes i did just recommend to get with with your matchups roommate)

MR.RATIO

Nerd x his cool partner

This one is more to match your vibe kind off

He's a sassy and confident dude

He'll definitely be a fan of your bitchy attitude , he likes dealing with bests

Can match your energy, occasionally, sometimes not sometimes yes, but most of the time he'll just follow you around and watch you do your hobbies and interests while reading something

Cold colour dressed boyfriend x summer dressed partner, just perfection

He's an ambivert after all, so he can keep up with your trips and enjoyments, but sometimes will distance himself off to a corner to recharge his energy

Generally he's the first that came to mind when I saw your request so consider it fate

[countessklair]

i disagree with most of the fandom's takeaway from the episode. i want to preface this all by saying that i don't hate Nate and i think he's a very complex character with traumas and issues of his own that led to his whole new thing of 'evil' or whatever that Rupert's pushing him into further now, but still.

Nate knew what he was doing by destroying the sign. that's why he did it in the first place. he was angry and hurt and he wanted to cut the team and Ted, especially, very deep. so he destroyed the sign and left for 'the enemy' who'd offered him a job. he's been shit-talking them and their beloved coach Ted in the press all preseason and ostensibly all season so far.

and yes, the goldfish mentality and the 'let it flow' from episode one are very good for the team, and they've managed to ignore Nate shit talking post episode one, but they have every right to be furious with Nate. he essentially spat of the uniting element that makes them all better teammates, better players, better people. they used to be pretty not great people, bullying Nate being the biggest but only one of the examples therein, but the team's all changed their behavior and they learned and became better people. they respected Nate as a coach and as a fellow Greyhound and they supported and even loved him. and Nate betrayed them.

just the move to west ham i think they would have been supportive of. they wouldn't have held it against him for wanting a head coaching position. but the move, plus the shit talking, PLUS the ripping of the believe sign?? that's the betrayal. it's layered, and of course it cuts deep when the sign represents so much more than the word emblazoned on it. the sign has become a representation of Richmond itself. and they were already looking for answers, they would've figured out who ripped it eventually. i definitely think that they shouldn't have told the team at half-time, and i agree on the thing coach beard said about them overcorrecting and playing with hate, but still. i think the team has every right to be angry.

sometimes people forget that you have to FEEL your emotions in order to process them. and that more importantly it's ok and even GOOD to feel those emotions, and that feeling anger or hatred aren't necessarily 'evil' emotions. if someone hurts you and stamps and spits on your values and your beliefs, if someone you thought of as family betrayed you, that's not something you can just be a goldfish about or let it flow through you and pass you by. it's a deep cutting wound, and that's why Nate, in his fit of fury at the promotion, ripped the sign in the first place anyway. because he knew how deeply it would hurt them not only to have the sign defaced, but for it to be HIM doing it. the team is gonna have to process this and hopefully now that they have the initial fury all out they'll be able to deal with it in a healthy Ted Lasso show way we all love. also, ever since the introduction of Zava to the team, there's been a severe disconnect between the team and the Ted Lasso way: remember that scene in the locker room with Zava physically stepping in front of Ted every time he moved to try and look at the team?

i fully believe that Nate will get a redemption arc, and i fully believe he deserves one. but i don't think Nate fans remember sometimes that it's never a friend's job to always be stroking someone's ego and to be the personal caretaker of their mental health and social equilibrium, especially when that friend themselves have big, BIG issues going on in their personal life. Ted was never responsible for Nate's happiness and ego and he shouldn't be treated like he is. he recognized talent and he rewarded that talent accordingly and gave Nate a platform to grow on. Nate's paternal trauma didn't allow him to reach out and communicate with Ted about feeling left behind, and that sucks and it's not Nate's fault that he has those issues to contend with, but it's not the team or Roy's or Ted's fault either.

fact of the matter is, no one is the villain but Rupert. Nate made some hurtful choices that the people he hurt have every right to be upset over, and the biggest one - outing Ted's very private mental health issues (imo mental health issues being way way worse to out than physical health issues) isn't something anyone on the team but Ted and Beard and Trent are aware of. there will be a redemption arc, and i believe there will be forgiveness, but i don't know if Nate will ever come back to Richmond. I think maybe a fresh new start outside of both Richmond AND West Ham would be best for him, because he needs to get out from under Rupert, but i think there's just too much history at Richmond, even without factoring in Ted.

tl;dr: nate will get the redemption arc he needs and deserves but that doesn't free him of having to face the fact that he hurt people deliberately, that he needs to apologize. there has to be consequences for his actions. next episode i need there to be a 'come to jesus' moment for the whole team to process this hurt together and to get back on track with the Ted Lasso way.

also: the richmond team are all my angels and i love them dearly and i'm SO GLAD this episode had very little to do with Zava.

[gildeddlily]

i just love bsd light novels, you have the heart-breaking shit and than this

Tanizaki looked around the café uncomfortably. However, this café was in the same building as the Detective Agency. The customers and the clerk alike were accustomed to both Dazai's eccentricities and Kunikida's yelling. [...] Kunikida was still shaking Dazai, and Dazai still seemed to be quite enjoying being shaken.

the whole scene is perfect, them fighting screaming and laughing in a café and Tanizaki watching them (like when you go out with your friend and they do those fucked up but funny thing but you dw to laugh cause it's still embarrassing to be associated with someone like them?) and Dazai is there enjoying being strangled

Kunikida's face slowly morphed into one that resembled a patient with neurotoxins circulating through him. "[...] Tanizaki, why were you also at that sort of place? Were you skipping work, too? An 18 year old, skipping work and going drinking at noon? The adverse effects of underage drinking differ in their statistical theory, but it's certain that alcohol affects the secretion of testosterone. And even without considering statistics, if you only drink alcohol at your age, in a few years you'll end up like Seaweed Brain over here!"

(me when every person in my school) not him being the mom friend™- I love Kunikida, I love the way he talks shit ab everyone, sometimes when they do the "we're like a big happy family, x's the dad and x's the mom" I wish that Kunikida was put as the sassy aunt, cause he definitely would be that one aunt who judges you for like every single trait of your personality until you cry. but like in the good way. tough love ig. love him

"[...]Solving such a bizarre case in a single day, and even sheltering a kid with an ability-you guys really do deserve the Detective Agency's stamp of the Detective Duo." "Oh, now I'm embarrassed." "Don't equate me with him." Dazai and Kunikida said at the same time.

just love their duo. like I'm a skk enjoyer for my life, but dazai and kunikida are so beautiful I'm crying (almost how soukoku would have been in a more healthy environment. ok not really but I just love this. but the Detective Duo hurts)

It should be noted that her main surgical tool is a hatchet. [...] "As you can see, I'm reading the newspaper," [...] "What are the interesting articles?" "Well, the most interesting one is the obituary. Of everything in this world, it judges those people the most fairly." "It sure does," Dazai said with a smile, standing in front of the entrance.

just love her.just- her. this woman (and this man) woah

Tanizaki was also a newcomer, and what he meant by the time of his entrance was that he had passed a very harsh entrance exam. However, due to its excessive severity, Tanizaki had firmly sealed away the memories of that time into his subconscious. This is because remembering it revives the psychological trauma.

I LOVE THIS GUY HE'S LIKE THERE AND HE'S GORGEOUS and ig we stan attempted murderers (someone give him therapy please)

THE DYNAMIC im crying rn give me a moment

no alr I'm ok

it's giving "x's Bad at Communication" "Psychological Trauma" "They Laugh But They're Suffering" "Lost Childhood" "Parental Fukuzawa Yukichi" "Fukuzawa Yukichi Is a Dad" "Armed Detective Agency as Family"

he scares me but I love him (context-it's just before Atsushi's entrance exam and they're choosing what to do basically)

now I need to see this animated like rn (some kind soul could draw atsushi being thrown in the cage of a bear) (this shit is fucking canon)

"Well, whatever. How about this? If he kills Dazai, he passes." "I see" Tanizaki said and clapped his hands, impressed. "...Other than that" Dazai said, looking at Kunikida with half-closed eyes. "If he can render Dazai speechless and make him reflect on his bad deeds up until now, he passes" "I'm okay with that" Tanizaki said, nodding. "Other than that" "Then...! He can sandwich Dazai between two planks of wood or something, and while blowing him with hot steam he can stab him with countless needles, and while occasionally passing an electric current through him he can repeat 'This is your fault, all your fault,' and then, and then...!" In the heat of the moment, Kunikida was gesturing at something invisible; hitting, twisting, and shaking it. His eyes were bloodshot. Tanizaki and the others in the conference room pulled away from him a bit. "Um... I'm sorry," Dazai said in a small voice, but Kunikida did not hear him.

I'm done with this. kunikida is my god from now (the holy trinity with sigma and bram ig) but I do really love him and the way he's so math teacher (hey I love math and I know how to boil water for tea. and how to make a sandwich ig) (gotta re-read stormbringer cause I want to suffer)

(not my translation, credits in the link attached to the photo ppl)

[cryptidsnackpack]

okay this discussion is going to be SO LATE but i’m playing dream daddy (again) and i have ~thoughts~ about our friendly neighborhood youth pastor and his family.

so i’m going on dates with all the dad’s i haven’t in previous playthroughs. (i saw mat and damien and was like good day i do not need to peruse ANY other fathers today).

i’d never done joseph’s route before, bc he’s married duh and i have religious trauma. and he looks like every white man that is a problem. but this time around i wanted to watch the world burn and break that man. ANYWAY. he is- actually… delightful? and i love his dates?? i though that with (potential spoilers ahead i guess but this game is old af) his affair with Robert he would immediately start laying it on thick. but he just invites you to very fucking domestic events, and gets frazzled with basic intimacy.

so i GET that joseph cheated. i understand that a large part of mary’s drinking may be due to that. and i know the “good” ending is not really good at all, and pulls a weird moral gotcha on you. i am all for making players face the consequences of their actions in games but this one falls flat for a few reasons.

1. Joseph objectively isn’t a bad person. Yes he’s had an affair, yes he’s a youth pastor (okay only a little joking). BUT Joseph has his shit together for his 4 kids and i admire the FUCK out of him for it. As someone who was raised by alcoholic parents, seeing Mary’s attitude at her kids’ well being REALLY struck a chord with me. the game wants me to believe Joseph is the bad guy, but i’m watching his wife chug five bottles of wine while her toddler is missing AND SUPPOSED TO BE IN HER CARE. and then i see this dad who is trying, who is involved in community outreach, and keeps a stable home. also i see a lot of “well Joseph puts on an act to make Mary look bad in front of the neighbors”. I’m sorry??? he does not have to make Mary look bad, she does bad all on her own. the “wine mom” and “type a dad” schtick is so fucking heteronormative and played out, even for 2017 when the game was released. and hey maybe that was the point! but if it was, it wasn’t done well.

2. The worst parts of Mary’s character get glossed over in lieu of her being a “wine mom” stereotype. Maybe it’s because i’m an ex alcoholic myself, but i don’t have a lot of patience for the character and i know that. objectively i like Mary, i think she’s funny and tough. but she is a deadbeat fucking mom, and the game WHICH IS CENTERED LARGELY AROUND BEING A GOOD PARENT puts Mary on a pedestal that she doesn’t deserve to be on. would i get dinner with mary? hang out? go shopping?? fuck yeah. would i think, “this person who goes out every single night and flirts outrageously with everyone, ignoring their children and household responsibility for their husband” is a “good” person?? fucking hell no. i would not let that woman look after a hamster. let alone four children.

3. DIVORCE IS A VALID AND HEALTHY OPTION THAT SHOULD BE SHOWN MORE IN MEDIA. i cannot tell you how many nights i lay awake listening to my parents drunk and fighting and prayed (when i believed in prayer) that they would divorce. i WANTED my parents to divorce, because i, at the ripe age of 12 could see what apparently the adults could not. that these two people did not, and should not, be together. now that’s not saying that your “good” ending in joseph’s route should end in a typical romance. i don’t. what i mean is that two people should have come to the conclusion that they are doing irreparable damage to their family by staying together. and your character could have helped and supported in that decision. it is obvious that Mary is living a life she doesn’t want, and i do feel for her. BUT GET A DIVORCE THEN. I know the characters are married and staying together largely in part because of religion… but…. Joseph’s not “that” kind of christian? because i grew up in the church, i know the type. this guy ain’t it. So the “well divorce is a sin” for the character doesn’t work for me.

i love the game grumps and i LOVE this game, but this was an area where i feel like the characterization and “message” was a like clunky and more than hard to follow. i really felt like they missed the mark with this one, i mean hell just make the non-canon ending canon at this point. at least that would make more sense.

also this is not me saying that Mary should be responsible for all household duty bc she’s a woman or blah blah blah. but whether you wanted those kids or not, whether you want to be in that marriage or not, YOU made decisions. your kids didn’t choose to be born YOU did, so you need to step up and idk?? maybe not spend every night out at a bar with the local loner who boned your husband? also maybe your husband sought comfort in the arms of a relative stranger… for… a reason? not a morally sound or correct reason but we can maybe follow the dots.

[lurkingshan]

The Eighth Sense 9&10

Gosh Jae Won looks so sad

Yesssss therapist call him out. Avoiding Ji Hyun is not helping anyone. Hurting and confusing someone because you want to avoid hurting and confusing them - this logic never holds up.

Joon Pyo calling him narcissistic 🤣 You’re right though, Ji Hyun

Ae Ri giving such good advice you truly are a queen👑

Ji Hyun has the best friends. They’re kind, empathetic, supportive. He’s lucky to have found them so quickly.

No Ji Hyun don’t let Eun Ji get into your head!

The hands!!! I am screaming

Yoon Won really feels clueless sometimes, geez. Can she not see that her friend is traumatized? Why is she making him relive the trip? And yeah clearly she is going through her own stuff but ma’am look outside yourself. Even in the state he’s in, Jae Won sees her pain and responds and I wish she could do the same for him.

Jae Won please stop letting this girl hang all over you, she is so manipulative and you must know exactly what she’s doing. Also pretty disgusted with her trying to get him into bed when he’s in this state. She’s despicable.

Oh poor Ji Hyun, that was awful

Yes Jae Won you are being cruel to Ji Hyun at this point. Sit with it, process it, do something about it. That little smile when he stops in front of Ji Hyun’s restaurant - that felt like him making a decision.

Detective Joon Pyo!

Ji Hyun giving him a camera and a sketch 😭

Time to dump her, Jae Won! Yesssss I knew it

She really was a cheater, huh? I’m not surprised.

I like that Jae Won has snapped out of it and now recognizes that allowing himself to slide back into things with Eun Ji was him actually being out of his mind, whereas being with Ji Hyun was real.

LOVE Jae Won going to boss lady for advice. He seems so much lighter just having ended it with Eun Ji.

Not Ji Hyun flashbacks my heart can’t take it

IS THAT CONAN GRAY OMG THIS SHOW IS TRYING TO KILL ME

Omg I’m crying he went to him!!!

THAT WAS SO BEAUTIFUL

This bed montage… how am I supposed to recover

Aww Ji Hyun is still scared

Jae Won reassuring him so clearly, these boys have communicated

Joon Pyo gave them the room for the night, what a great pal

They’re so cute how do I live how do I function

Jae Won looking at Ji Hyun with naked adoration, teasing him about using banmal, putting his jacket on him… I may never recover

I love Ji Hyun asking for clarity, and them talking so openly about why they’re happy. Healthy kings!

Aww yay, glad something good happened for Yoon Won.

Not Ji Hyun admitting he doesn’t actually care about surfing 🤣 and calling Jae Won out on pretending to need a lighter 🤣🤣

Ji Hyun is low key a little scared to part from Jae Won and I get it

Yes Ae Ri put it together!!! I love her, she is officially my favorite woman character in a bl

Jae Won looks so much better. Just putting an end to denying himself Ji Hyun has done wonders for his mood.

This asshole is actually asking for an apology from Jae Won? Get fucked, Tae Hyung

Ahh Jae Won you need to cut this toxic friend out of your life. But we can’t expect him to change his entire personality in a day. And I do like this explanation for why Jae Won keeps him around - he is comforted by his lack of filter and mask. He always knows where he stands with him, and maybe admires a little that he’s so open.

Jae Won openly smiling at Ji Hyun in front of everyone, we love to see it

They gotta figure out when their day one is, this is very important in dramas!

Yesss Bit Na drag him!!!!

Jae Won if you did not actually mean to come out to Yoon Won you need to be more subtle than that 🤣

Yoon Won and Joon Pyo… I’m picking up a vibe

Jae Won is so much kinder to Eun Ji than she deserves

“I want to be alone with you” 👀

Ji Hyun’s endless list of cheesy couple stuff he wants to do is honestly so cute

Hahaha I knew it

“I have no time to think about anything but you”

Ji Hyun, gracious in victory. Not totally buying Eun Ji suddenly being this chill in defeat, though.

T8S is unfortunately doing the very common kdrama thing of giving shitty characters unearned redemption at the end. Tae Hyung and Eun Ji deserved to be cut off, not receive forgiveness they absolutely did not earn.

Ahh that ending was nice. Ji Hyun coming into his confidence - emotional and physical - is such such a great place to leave that character.

I absolutely loved this show. Episode 9 was the peak for me - that was such excellent emotional catharsis and every moment of it felt earned. The final episode was not perfect - some annoying kdrama tropes reared their heads and I thought tonally it was a little too celebratory - but overall I am ending this series feeling fantastic. What a great ride.

[healing-fire--rewrite]

I love the concept that the cats choose which afterlife the dead go to! How do they decide who gets what kind of burial?

There's a point before every funeral where it's expected that if you have a problem with the deceased, you step forward and announce it. There's a deliberation on whether the offence is bad enough for a dishonorable burial before a choice is made.

No one expects a cat to lie about their problems. In fact, you're expected to be 100% honest. A burial cannot be undone. Once a cat is in the afterlife, they can't move to a different one. Lying about an offence, even if the deceased still ends up getting an honorable burial, is bad enough that the liar will have a dishonorable burial when they die.

The time where you air your grievances about the deceased are meant to be completely judgement free. A cat can bare their soul and speak about the worst experience of their life and it will never be brought up again after the funeral. Is this healthy? Probably not. But it's also deeply terrifying to stand in front of your entire community and talk about how one of its members hurt you so badly you don't believe they deserve to go to kitty heaven. It's extra insurance to allow any possible victims the chance to insure their final form of justice.

Of course, there's also things that everyone just kinda... knows about. Everyone knows Commonshine had an affair with Plainpelt, and everyone knows they'll both have dishonorable burials because of it.

[doomsdayradio]

!! THIS POST IS ABOUT CDD SYSTEMS WHEN I SAY SYSTEM I MEAN CDD SYSTEMS ENDOS IM BEGGING FOR MY LIFE RN😭😭😭 !! /lh

i feel like we should eventually talk about how the culture around dating in online system spaces is kinda weird?

like i'll be honest, the idea of like dating applications is weird to me in general personally as someone who's on the aromantic spectrum, but i can't help but feel extra weirded out when i see those kind of partner system applications.

i feel like maybe looking for random people on the internet to date with the first and foremost thing you're mentioning being that you have a severe trauma disorder is kind of. dangerous? and? not a good idea? and i have to emphasize that if you do this kind of thing and someone does end up hurting you, that is in no way at all your fault, that is completely on them and you did not deserve that, i just think we should be talking about the safety precautions of this kind of thing.

abuse survivors are very likely to be abused again later in life and just because someone else is a fellow system/trauma survivor doesn't automatically mean they're a safe person who has your best interest at heart. like it feels like a situation where it's very easy to be taken advantage of. i also feel like this kind of partner system applications thing is more common among younger systems who most likely haven't gone through recovery and might still have a skewed view on how healthy relationships and connections work.

and at the heart of this, i feel like that is a big thing, that the system community is by default made up of extremely traumatized individuals. i'll be the first to admit that making connections isn't easy, our biggest social issues consist of a fear of/inherent feeling of embarrassment so intense we literally feel embarrassment by just existing in front of other people, but i don't feel like this whole applications thing is the best way to go about it?

i also feel like this sometimes can go hand in hand with like. fictive dating and source calls? i feel like some introjects specifically go out of their way to find another introject of the person their source dated and, again, that can be dangerous and not work out well because at the end of the day, you don't actually know that person that well? introjects aren't their source and source seperation needs to be made to a certain degree during recovery and healing, this kind of thing feels like it's encouraging introjects to not view themselves as seperate from their source.

and this isn't to say that it's wrong like if an introject meets another introject who just so happens to be from their source and they click as individuals and they date i mean hell we have parts in our sys like that, i'm specifically talking about introjects who only date other introjects because they share a source.

im not really sure how to close this out and this is mainly a ramble just to get my thoughts out because i've been thinking about it over the last couple days feel free to add on or ignore or wtv lol

btw this isn't meant to be judgemental towards anyone and im genuinely sorry if it comes off that way, i just wanted to throw out my thoughts on some parts of the system community i've seen that seem like. off.

[woomycritiques543]

(STOP SUPPORTING AND IGNORING DISCRIMINATION OVER A CARTOON! Liking Helluva Boss does not make your superior to other human beings! Liking Vivziepop or her content does not give you the excuse to treat others like shit under the guise of being "superior for (toxic) "positivity!" Helluva Boss and Hazbin is not the most important thing in the world just because it gives you 2005-level fetishized bigotry content that most creators now refuse to make! Toxic positivity exists, and the standom using it to try to force people to like Helluva Boss and Vivziepop and using fear tactics to do so is true harasser behavior! and soon- no other fandom will want to be around said harassers as in you for your behavior, worshipping Vivziepop does not give you the equivalent of a god while everyone else are somehow "stupid anti haters that dont deserve a say, better representation, or human respect! -wanting better for minorities makes you entitled and greedy! Just ignore the bigotry and keep the representation the same so us creeps will get benefits while you basically get nothing!" like you people have been saying for the past 6+ years yet in the end- will get nothing for except being seen as a goddamn joke! -your reputations aren't going to make it past 2025, -and you can't force people to like something or someone, and the Helluva Boss fandom is now dying because of your own actions!)

"You're the exact kind of person this post is targetting."

What? People with disabilities? People who cant even move their fucking legs or have trouble in school? People with something they were born with that's outside of their control and most of which, have 100% more emotional intellegence than you have. Also, you even admitted that it was a slur and expect people outside of other creeps that are so desperate for rape porn to be normalized that you excuse bigotry as right in front of you. When that's the thing, if Helluva Boss was "so progressive!" why would it keep appealing to literal bigots and homophobes on 4chan that unironically call people a "F^^GOT!" and use every slur in the book, including anti-black ones- wow, could it be that the "progressivism!" is faaaaake?

That the slapping on "progressive!" labels and our flags is only a cover up so less minorities would defend themselves against people like you? People that jack off to abuse, and then convientally forget that representation exists and go "LOL ITS FICTIONAL YOU'RE SAYING THAT WE EXCUSE A REAL LIFE THING IF YOU DONT LIKE SEEING YOUR REPRESENTATION SHIT ON!" entirely forgetting the fact that no one said they are "excusing abuse" but tha they are fetishizing it. Something that could hurt people in the BDSM community in real life that arent yet aware of how safe words work or physical restraint work- this shit could hurt real people yet all you're focused on is shitting on minorities to defend your rape porn instead of normalizing healthy BDSM and safe words! CREEP!

You dont actually care about the lgbt+ and poc community, you are just using us and our desperation to get people to support bigoted content!

You are the exact kind of crowd that's causing Desantis, a literl transphobe, to be in office while he's trying to cause a fucking genocide towards the lgbt+ community! Stereotypes are not a joke, they're a weapon used against minorities to ruin our reputations so they can kill us off silently and barely anyone will care and are only called a "JOKE!" so more people will fall for it and unwillingly cause their own goddamn deaths!

Your normalization of stereotypes is literally KILLING US! FUCK YOU!

So really, are you on a substance? Is that why your brain isn't fucking working right now and suddenly all your morality is gone out the goddamn door?! Or are you that much of a spoiled brat that you're willing to harass minorities for five whole fucking years and waste your life when you could have been using it to help yourself and others instead of your own selfish bullshit! -and soon, once Vivziepop gets called out after Hazbin is released, oh boy, because one of the first groups of people that will be called out, lose their followers, and be left alone with their pettiness is the entire Helluva Boss standom, including you! -and the only people that will like you are other bigots, that will also soon leave you because the show you're supporting also includes things that they hate, while you will be left alone, in your own sadness, and no one will come for you because that's exactly what will happen once people see how much of a piece of shit you've been to minorities for 5+ years!

Your efforts will be in vain! You're the one that's going to end up suffering once Hazbin Hotel comes out, not minorities, but people like you that will become the laughing stock of the internet the same way the Rick and Morty and SU fandom became the same! So how about you grow the fuck up before your repuation is destoryed by your own goddamn actions! -same for the rest of this pedo supporting (YOU CREEPS SUPPORTED STOVIA! OCTAVIA IS A MINOR AND STOVIA IS STILL CP THAT'S BEEN KNOWN TO HURT REAL KIDS BY GETTING THEM GROOMED!) rape fetishizing, homophobic, racist hell hole!

You want to discriminate people with disabilities over a cartoon?

Well shit, you're the exact kind of person this post is talking about.

You're the exact piece of shit that goes "OOOOOOOOOOOH representation is so important guys!" but the moment it's trauma victims or the disabled the story turns into "LOL WHAT A RE^^^^^ haha rape and kids are so hot and is TOTALLY a fetish so imma call it "non-con" so people who arent traumatized will treat them that way and fuck those smelly victims and they're stupppppid representation! HAHAHA SLURS FUNNI!" Like- you're like 12 years old or something, why are you interacting with an adult fandom if you cant even interact more than on the level of a child? Why would an adult act like a whiny brat and want everyone to disregard their needs so they can jack off to racial stereotypes and rape scenes that are framed as a "fetish!" Why would any adult that claims to be able to handle "adult themes" not act like an adult at all?

Oh wait, that's right, Helluva Boss is secretly catered to bigots and hides bigotry to cater to people like you while trying to bank off minorities that are oblivious to your bullshit due to lack of experince as a "have your cake and eat it too!" Wow, it's almost like the creators doing that by going "BY THE WAY- representation doesn't actually matter, be a creep as much as you want and anyone that tells you to stop being queerphobic, racist, and pe^dophillic are meanies!!!!1" makes them- hypocrites or something! It's almost like saying this shit means that you dont fully care about queer or poc rights at all and only say that you do so for clout! When trying to use bullying as an attempt to force people to like HB or the fandom, is just making even more people dislike the show and the fans, which is sad, because not all of us are like you, and just want to talk about a goddamn cartoon demon show in peace yet you creeps over at Spindlehorse (the lead artists) and the fandom are trying to use force and public shaming/emotional "I accept criticism just not- criticism!" manipulation/bullying to try to force people to like everything about Hazbin and ruining the Hazbin experince for the rest of us!

-and since you, like any other ableist, are ok with treating us like shit over a slur that has an entire history of being used against the disabled by trying to make us look "stupid" as an excuse to physically abuse and discriminate us under the guise of having the "right" to do so because you're so "intellectually superior!" despite having the logic and emotional maturity of a walnut:

Never go near anyone with disabilities ever again! Never speak to any of us until you can learn basic goddamn respect! You creeps really are ok with risking your entire online reputation if it means going back to 2005 huh? That's just fucking sad. You arent going to be accepted for this garbage anymore. Stereotypes and Slurs have no place in minority spaces! NONE! I dont care if you like a cartoon or not- Being supposedly positivite (hateful!) about a cartoon gives you no right to treat minorites like shit!

News flash! Liking Vivziepop or what she makes does- NOT make you superior to other human beings!

Everyone has a say! This isn't a fucking cult!

No one is less valuable or less human for not liking almost everything about a cartoon! That's some- toxic positivity shit!

This goes for what Ignis and Vivziepop have said- actions speak louder than words- and if you cant accept criticism or be an adult yourself -barely anyone is going to like you! Especially when we get another cultural shift like we did in the 1950s but for the queer and disabled community! GROW UP! Helluva Boss is NOT going to last. -and using bullying and borderline abuse to try to force people to like Vivziepop or her shows- will just make less people want to be around you OR HB! Because the standom is THAT BAD that people are turning away from the fandom entirely and HB has been losing millions of viewers since EPISODE ONE! So really.You creeps never had the advantage. -and you definitely won't once more outside fandoms see how awful you truly are. You will get nothing from this in the end except being seen as an absulote joke! Goodbye!

[theprofoundthoughtsworld]

Life is a glitch so don’t fill your brain with hocus- pocus.

- First comes with the worst , I have wondered whether there is less effulgent sunshine, to shine like a diamonds but although you may see some demons hiding behind evil sign, so basically the flower could be bloom when you plant it around a healthy environment.

- Starting when I was toddler, I never understood why there was so much hate in the world. I couldn’t grasp why people weren’t kind to one another, we just acting a roles to preserve the rule of love ,obviously Not everyone has capacity to hold you, because they haven't yet cultivated the capacity to hold themselves, and at the end of the day I just didn’t feel like I fit in anywhere In fact somehow you feel like a hostage in your body approximately your body embodies the extent of society's hatred and nobody gives you what you deserve unless you serve their benefits by the way, I chose to be misunderstood in order to keep my integrity and sanity so spite of all our world is full of immoral hearts can actually use your sacred heart to devastate you .

I always say that my mind is outwit to other minds and I don’t resemble for 90 percents to other people likewise you see paradox to our community however you can master the art of ignoring so unquestionably I live in the prison of my body prudent ,and nobody can control my present.

- I can't please everybody once you lease everybody matter of fact paper tails make you feel undoubtedly awesome as long as you gambling on people nothing could covers your excitement because you’d want to cover your resentment and melancholy in meantime you try to cook pain on the pan at least to switch those memorable pictures through your head however it doesn’t work like that then you paint malicious images make you forget the dark past but unlike what it seems like sometimes suffering makes you feel different when you grow up prolly once you surf a tremendous waves you’d say i’m not a slave of secret society because the system cuffed your hands to live normally in a small cave however you ain’t learn from it paying bills feels like you climbing an amount of hills but you ain’t reached to what you deserved what a cold world filled of cowards community

- That’s the main feeling when you overcoming failure.

So essentially don't ever bury yourself into something you won't able to endure it and don't use sacred hearts to make you feel pleased.

I've realized that you can completely change people’s life by a little tiny word and do everything they want and they will still not see your worth you might ask dear reader why is that exactly, !! how come !! the reason is simply than you think when you born around unhealthy environment you become savagely animal but often you try to be an angel in front of the world until you get revealed from angels.

there is a saying ideologically « « 

[ The crow taught us to bury each other however humans being taught us to kill each other ]

So Prevent yourself from negative guesses and Present your future to a positive gazes.

- everything that irritates us about other can lead us to an understanding ourselves and brings us some. Maturity.

- Let me debate on something is important most of us know that woman is a future column once she knows her worth but many of them tried to demolish that column by feeding babies poison and guiding them to a wrong path.

- Money trauma is real.

- Generational trauma is real.

- Survival patterns are real.

- slavery trauma is also real.

we vilify our humanity in the way the world did to us, thus anyways, what happens on earth stays on earth.

[monratarot]

Hi Moni❤ I would like to request a love reading from you.

My question: How will my future relationship dynamic be like with my crush S?

I've been crushing on him for a while but things have been stalemate for me, meaning there is nth going on as of rn between us. Jux want to see if we will have any type of connection in the future and if it will develop into sth more. Tbh, anything that comes up related to our future connection pls. Thank you.

My initial: A, my sign: ♊(june born), his sign: ♌(aug born)

Hello, dear ! Thank you for your patience and interest in my blog and your request.

Feedback is very much appreciated and if you consider tipping me, you can do so on my ☕️ko-fi.

Count of questions/requests and answers 21/30

Without wasting any time, let's get into your reading!ღ¸.🌸´`🌸.¸¸ღ

I can see that you are going to be disappointed and sad because of this person. I think that you will deal with some change because your situation is kinda stagnant for the moment. Because of this person, you are going to feel confused and there will be a lot of arguments. You will be upset because of this situation but no matter what happens you will be able to move on. You will deal with a difficult decision that you must make when it comes to your person and don't forget that this can have consequences(not necessarily a bad thing, it can be seen more as an elaboration of an unpleasant connection). If you have the courage to take this step and understand that there is nothing bad in moving one from an unfulfillment situation you will be blessed with a new beginning, stability, and renewal. You will deal with lots of communication, and positive news, just be careful not to say yes to everything(you can refuse everything that you think isn't good for you). Choose wisely and enjoy all the good news. You can travel to see a person that you have been separated from. You will put a lot of amazing work into improving yourself, especially after that break up with your person. You may face an intense love situation, with a lot of compatibility with a person. Also, now you can deal with a person who is in a hurry to be in a relationship, someone who wants to make you feel special(just keep in mind that sometimes things that start too quickly can have an abrupt end). You two will communicate a lot through messages, and WhatsApp, but keep in mind that things might move pretty fast. Try to take it easy and also make your person understand that there is no need to rush. Apart from that you need to understand that this connection can be with the person you are talking about(but definitely not now because now they will disappoint you - it can be due to the fact that they have someone else in their mind and think that the grass is greener on the other path and after seeing the true face of their other person they will come back to you - it's your choice if you want to take them back but if you ask me better not)or someone new(they can work as an event organizer, pilot, postman, computer programmer, web designer). Because of the influence of Aries, someone can be impatience(can be you or your person) and I guess this is why your person wants to move on fast to the next step in your relationship. But the good part is that there are great indicators that this will be an important relationship for you. You can communicate and express yourself in front of this person, you will gain more confidence in yourself due to the influence that they have in your life. Both of you will communicate about your communication and for a healthy connection you must be open about your expectations(by doing this you will both have emotional support from each other). There can be some minor dishonesty but you will make efforts to build the right foundation. So my dear, don't be too focused on your person right now. They won't be able to give you what you want, deserve, and need especially at this moment. Now is the moment to focus on yourself and after that, you will see what decision to make. I don't have indicators that this wonderful connection will be with the person you are thinking about, they can only come back to your life after leaving you sad and disappointed. But as you can see in the reading everything will be fine in the end. So if you feel that there is no future with that person after a period of focusing on yourself just move on, don't try to force things because everything will be fine in the end! Angel message: Change your attitude to one of acceptance. Relax and take stock. Ask your angels to enfold you during this waiting period so that you can listen to the promptings of the Divine. So not rush off on some wild goose-chase of your lower will. Patience is always rewarded. Affirmation: All things happen at the perfect time.

Wish you only the best!🍀

Moni🧚‍♀️

[velvetporcelain]

I am not crazy, I’m beautiful

A little red corvette holds nothing a bitchin fox body mustang.

Smoke break. Today has been eventful. I had many different experiences today. By the time nine p.m. came I was the tires marks of an old burn out.

I’m sitting in the passenger seat of my absolutely stunning convertible fox body “black beauty” mustang.

THINKING. 💭

Today I got rid of my lustless red nails. I exchanged them for the most beautiful, deep, vintage green. Paired with my gold jewelry that I never, ever, dare to take off, my hands take the show! Ah! I absolutely love my nail girl. She called me by my first name instead of using “mam” and to me that is respect. So I respect her. She seems willing to work with indecisive nature so it is a good match. I like that she suggests colors because her nails are always perfectly manicured and that tells me she has a good eye for color. She sets the trend.

I was gracefully able to plant my new live plant bulbs in my little aquarium world. I told those fish if they came near me— and I swore to god at them. Ha. It was a good time and I enjoyed our connection this morning and it made me feel accomplished. Which set the tone for the rest of the day.

Actually I lied. Maybe it was my outfit that set the tone. I tend to allow it to do that majority of the time. You know, the creative mind at work is a beautiful and flowing thing. No stress = no stress. Sometimes I do let it get in the way of my day when I fall out of the creative mindset. But you know a good friend of mine said “practice, practice, practice “ and my mind took that seriously. Which obviously is a healthy thing for the mind to do- exercise itself.

After feeling fabulous and beautiful, I was able to actually go home and eat lunch! Now, I have a few ideas here. The first is - who the fuck set the time frames for breakfast,lunch and dinner? Because fuck that. I’m gonna eat what I want when I’m hungry. These invisible time frames got to go. I have control over when my body eats because I know when it’s hungry 😂 like what the fuck , it’s the simplest logic but again, humans tend to complicate things on a regular fucking basis. Yet, I still forgive for this, always.

My son had his first sleepover today and I feel good for him. He needs connection. He needs an outside source of reset. Time to be himself. If that makes sense? To be around likewise minds makes more sense. His sibling relationships can be difficult sometimes considering the age gaps in all of them. That’s natural disconnect due to knowledge and life experience. Nothing I’m worried about. My kids love each other, but we all need breaks from the ones we love. 😉

I decided today I was gonna buy myself a good pack of pre-rolled cannabis flower. I got a floral indica called Violet Fog. I can tell you right now that after smoking that? My aura is radiating purple. A beautiful, perfectly violet, violet. 💜 I am not crazy, I’m beautiful.

I got to spend one on one time with my beautiful and blooming daughter. I want to know so much about her, and I want her to teach me how to be a girl in this world. We went on a search for a new beanie boo, she is an angel and deserves the entire world. After the second store we finally found the perfect new addition to her deeply valued collection. A black dragon we named Dungeon. 🖤

My teenager needs to learn that I am his ally, not his enemy. He needs to learn communication skills, problem solving and self regulation. He needs to be able to sit at the captain’s table with his father and I and collaborate. I plan to make a schedule applying this ideology. I look forward to implementing it as healthy discipline that will also be advantageous to him on the outside world. It’s fucking tough, but I’m a tougher bitch. Again, not worried.

I’m starting to feel like my name should come with a “your majesty” in front of it. I want my kids to feel safe enough to constructively teach me about themselves in order for me to cultivate the healthiest connections I possibly and humanly can. I’m trying to active their creative minds. Thinking of ways to get them to truly show themselves. I believe in solid parental guidance and pushing, it never ends, we will always and forever be wiser than they are. Why watch them crash? No, teach them how to fly in the home and they will soar out your door. I promise.

BUT naturally parents want control, which doesn’t even exist, so they are doomed. 👀🤭 kidding - but am I?

Kids don’t understand the “in between” that it takes to establish connection. They just immediately want. I like to think that I the ability to show people this “in between” in hopes that I open up new neuro pathways in their mind. I am the messenger sis, like what else?

I’m having a great time with this very intimate and interpersonal relationship that I am building within myself. Allowing me to do the same in all my relationships. Yes, there are bad days. Yes, there is pain. Yes, there is grief. But it cannot always be night, so- the sun will always rise.

I got my kids almost right where I want them and that keeps me driven. Because when they get where I want them, then it’s time for the next level of lessons and leadership. You have to reevaluate the situation while considering all your new experiences and knowledge every once and while in order to thrive. Change is the only existing constant in the world. The only.

It’s getting late and my throat hurts. I’m sure I will have the most sexiest voice in the world in the morning. I think my voice is stunning, lulling, influencing, silver, maybe even gold. I’m loving myself hard as fuck right now. Hell yeah. My hand is freezing but it still looks fucking stunning so cold therapy sets in and I’m calm again. I want to go upstairs and hope that the classic tv section on Pluto tv 📺 is playing The Rat Patrol or Sea Hunt. I would not even get back out of bed to brush my teeth if these were playing. I’d even consider The Twlight Zone. I came across The Rat Patrol mistakenly and I was captured immediately. I laid in bed for a good hour and a half with my bebe boo boo baby child laid behind me, back to back just like we like it. We were comfortable and content so I was able to pay attention to the plot line of this series. IN LOVE. YOU MEAN NAZIS? AGAIN!? MISTAKENLY?! 😩👀🥰🥰❤️😑😑😑😑🤭😂👀

What is the world trying to teach me right now? I don’t know and some days that makes me so fucking angry, and some days it makes me so fucking holy. And I want it to be holy for the rest of my life while indulging in the angry with lust, sex, passion, rebellion. All healthy of course. Regulate it into something healthy. It’s there. You’re just not looking. Stop TRYING to look and just stare. It will sorta feel a bit cross eyed at first but it will focus itself eventually, and you will know exactly what it looks like when it comes INTO focus.

Till then. Be good for mommy. 💋

-x

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Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit

Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit @Bangkok

Mulberry Grove Innovates And Develops The Finest Intergeneration Living Communities, Enhancing Family Well-Being And Bonding Through Holistic Design And Services In Lively, Healthy, And Sustainable Environments.​ ‘INTERGENERATION’ BONDING CREATES TRUE HAPPINESS FOR ALL ATTRACTIVE PRICE 1 BR (47.5 to 56.5 sqm) from THB 12,810,000 2 BR (87. 0 to 135 sqm) from THB 24,330,000 3 BR (162sqm) from THB 67,000,000 Duplex (216.50sqm) from THB 91,000,000 Penthouse (180-241.50sqm) from THB 70,000,000 ✔ Super Luxury Freehold Condo in Ekkamai, by renowned developer - Magnolia Quality Development Corporation  ✔ Big and spacious layout for intergeneration living  ✔ Full facilities with front desk concierge, wellness manager and caregiver services  ✔ Located 250m (8 mins walk) from BTS Ekkamai  ✔ Buyback Guarantee Program after 7 years backed by Developer  "DESIGN FOR FINEST INTERGENERATION LIVING" Intergeneration spaces add joy to the life of every family. In this inviting space each generation can share ideas, find inspiration and make precious memories together in a place called home.​ "RESIDENCE SERVICE" At Mulberry Grove, we live together as a big family, which is why we also take care of you as one. Our well-trained staff team is ready to go the extra mile to ensure that you and everyone at Mulberry Grove receive the best service and care from us in every day.​ COMPLIMENTARY AFTERNOON TEA​ CONCIERGE SERVICE​ WELLNESS MANAGER​ CAREGIVER SERVICE​ "SAFETY AND COMFORT" To enhance your safety, comfort and convenience, each household enjoys the support of :​ SECURITY AI robots through a collaboration between MQDC and a leading tech company​ ERV technology efficiently ensuring the quality of indoor airy​ AUTONOMOUS GARAGE the latest, simplest and effortless parking 30-YEARS WARRANTY from MQDC​ ✔ Freehold Super Luxury Category ✔ Strategic Location 250m to Ekkamai BTS ✔ Buy Back Scheme available ✔ 100% Car Park Provision (Rare in Bangkok) ✔ Growth potential & excellent investment  ✔ Concierge Service ✔ Advanced AI Technology/ Automations in the development.  ✔ 30-Years warranty from MQDC​   https://youtu.be/1B82gjDLLGQ Live The Life You Deserve Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit, a 150-metre tall tower “designed for the finest intergeneration living.” Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit is a condo project developed by Magnolia Quality Development Corporation Limited, Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit has 37 floors and contains 287 total units, Units range from 1 bedroom to 3 bedroom. Mulberry Grove Sukhumvit at Phra Khanong, Khlong Toei has the following facilities: cctv, concierge, fitness, garden, parking, security and swimming pool. Local amenities include Transportation close to public transport stations of BTS Ekkamai. MULBERRY GROVE is world’s first super-luxury residence under the concept of “Intergeneration Living Community”, developed from “For All Well-Being”, the watchword of Magnolia Quality Development Corporation Limited (MQDC), a thought-leader in real estate. Mulberry Grove aims to bridge the gap between generations in families that can lead to family and social issues. In collaboration with the Research & Innovation for Sustainability Center (RISC) and other research firms, Mulberry Grove has conducted researches and examined global studies to discover the benefits of intergeneration living:

- Higher emotional bonding, intimacy, and support between generations - Better social skills in children through interaction with grandparents - Improved social care among children through taking care of grandparents - Higher self-esteem and vibrancy and improved physical and mental health among grandparents through being part of their grandchildren’s lives - Reduced tension among children of divorced parents through having grandparents to compensate for weakened family bonds - Improved family finances as support from grandparents reduces the need for nannies or caregivers - Higher likelihood for children to develop good financial management habits - Intergeneration families with 3 generations living together enjoy priceless shared moments and enduring happiness MULBERRY GROVE therefore develops luxury multi-platform residences to serve the needs of every family, centered on building shared moments among all generations of families. Each detail is designed and developed around the true needs of every generation for sustainable well-being. Project NameMulberry Grove Sukhumvit Developer NameMagnolia Quality Development Corporation LimitedLocationSukhumvit Road, Wattana District, Bangkok 10110 ThailandTenure of LandFreehold Expected Date of Completion (T.O.P.)Estimated 2024Site areaAPPROXIMATELY 2 1.1 RAITotal No. of Units287 units in 37 (2 basement)Car Park Lots100% provisionUpdated Fact Sheet

At MQDC, we adhere to DTGO's beliefs and values in working collaboratively with all stakeholders to shape a better design for quality living and lifestyle enhancement. As an international company that invests in research-oriented property development, our holistic innovations are applied based on advanced technology and a thorough understanding of the balance of nature. We push boundaries not only by setting design trends, but by adopting frontier human behavioural research and development, creating quality living solutions that are beautiful, inspiring and safe. Of equal importance, MQDC commits to align its businesses with leaders who share an environmentally conscious mindset in advocating for sustainability, ensuring positive social impact and a better quality of life for all. At MQDC, it is also our belief that the design and development for sustainability can be achieved from a small change in detail to a disruptive innovation. We value differences of viewpoints and ideas from both local and international contexts to make those changes possible. MQDC positions itself to be a house of brands where Magnolias takes the lead role in showcasing global standards that harmonize the finest qualities of a luxury lifestyle with the heritage and cultural values of its neighbouring communities and natural settings.

- 30-year warranty (structure, roof, doors and windows as well as sanitary and electrical system (leaking) - 250 metres to Ekkamai BTS, close to schools, malls, restaurants and hospitals - Tailored to suit every generation through universal design; wide frontage, unobstructed views and multipurpose balcony nook in every unit and 3-meter-high ceilings - Mulberry Special Services; Daily Complimentary Afternoon Tea, Caregiver Service, Wellness Manager and Front Desk Concierge - Full Facilities for intergenerational living: 4 Swimming Pools designed for every generation, Private Study Studio, The Mulberry’s Library, Sky-High Gym Studio, Private Spa, Private Sky-High Onsen, Sauna, Yoga Suite, Ballet Suite, Patio Gym and Grand Private Living & Dining Room - Home Automation Controlled by Mobile Application & ERV Air System with IAQ CO2 Tracker - Security with AI Technology - Over 100% Parking - Complementary Afternoon tea​ - Caregiver​ - Wellness manager​ - Concierge Service​ Key Highlights of Project

It perfectly meets intergeneration needs thanks to its location on Sukhumvit Road, one of Bangkok’s most important business and lifestyle districts. The residences are just 250 meters from BTS Ekkamai, very close to direct links to expressways, and surrounded by schools, business amenities, lifestyle destinations, and leading hospitals.

Facilities designed for intergeneration wellness. A CAREGIVER service can provide healthcare specialists to help with urgent need 24/7. Four swimming pools meet the needs of everyone in the family: INFINITY SKY POOL, HYDROTHERAPY POOL, THERMAL POOL, and CHILDREN’S POOL. The SKY-HIGH GYM STUDIO provides health-conscious residents with a fully equipped world-class fitness studio and a stunning panoramic view of the city. The PRIVATE SPA offers exclusive spa rooms with a choice of relaxing and revitalizing spa treatments. The PRIVATE SKY-HIGH ONSEN is a traditional Japanese-style private onsen for everyone in the family. Other wellness facilities include the BALLET SUITE, PATIO GYM, and YOGA SUITE, where learners can enjoy private classes with their instructors.

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Floor 37 - Mulberry Greeting Gallery - Autonomous Garage​ - Caregiver’s Office​ - Gourmet Courtyard - English Courtyard​ - Intergeneration Courtyard​ - The Mulberry’s Library​ - Private Study Studio​ - Children’s room ​ - Infinity sky pool​ - Thermal pool​ - Hydrotherapy pool - Children’s pool​ - Sauna​ - Private Spa - Private Sky-high Onsen - Private Style Atelier - Sky-High Gym Studio​ - Golf Simulator & Entertainment room - Yoga suite​ - Ballet suite​ - Patio Gym​ - Residence lounge​ - Grand Private living &dinning room​ - Family Living Room​ - BBQ Garden​ - Game Room & Pool Table​ - Children’s Play Room​ A variety of learning spaces are available at MULBERRY GROVE. Everyone can reserve a private space in the PRIVATE STUDY STUDIO for work, homework, or small group private tuition. Whatever your age, the MULBERRY LIBRARY has a vast collection of books for you to read. The CHILDREN’S ROOM has been designed to encourage every kid to discover new talents and social skills. Units Mixes:  1 Bedroom (144 Units) 47 sq.m. - 56.5 sq.m.​ 2 Bedrooms (136 Units) 87 sq.m. - 135 sq.m.​ 3 Bedrooms (2 Units) 162 sq.m.​ Duplex Penthouse (1 Units) 216.5 sq.m.​ Penthouse (4 Units) 180 sq.m. - 245.5 sq.m. Floor Plan: All rooms have wide windows with full unobstructed views. The living room and dining room are conveniently connected and provide a useful space for everyone to interact in family activities. There’s always enough space for all the family. The master bedroom is spacious, with room for a wheelchair or an extra bed for kids. The extensive, fully equipped kitchen has an enclosed design and 2 ventilation systems to prevent cooking odours from creeping out to the rest of your residence.  Typical Floor Plan:

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