#dear parents

[whumpetywhump]

Whumptober Day 20 - Blanket

Ancient Detective - Ep. 17

Dear Parents - Ep. 25

Killer And Healer - Ep. 8

Mysterious Lotus Casebook - Ep. 30

White Christmas - Ep. 7

[emelinet]

dear parents,

Please stop/don't tell your kids that "one day they will want *insert cishet, allosexual narrative*". I was gonna go into detail but I don't think I need to, this is pretty straightforward hopefully.

[simply-whump]

Dear Parents (亲爱的爸妈) - Whump List

Whumpee : Li Bing played by Zhai Xiao Wen and Jiang Lin played by Zhang Yi Jie

Synopsis : A story of a blended family follows Liu Bi Yun and Jiang Tian Huai who became husband and wife in their second marriage. Each with children of their own, they not only face outside challenges in their career but also have to handle family members with very different personalities. Although Jiang Lin and Li Bing are not biological brothers, they are always ready to help each other through difficulties. (MDL)

Genres : Family, Slice of life

Note : @dramaplant, here is the list !

Warning ! Possible spoilers below!

Li Bing

Ep 1 : Falls from a roof

Ep 2 : Manhandled, thrown to the ground, grabbed by the collar — Worried for his father

Ep 3-5 : None

Ep 6 : Beaten and thrown to the ground (offscreen), manhandled, clothes ripped — Bullied, dead animal put in his school desk — Chased, cornered, saved — Manhandled, restrained, pinned to a wall, struggling, thrown against a wall, hit his head, passes out — In the hospital

Ep 7 : None

Ep 8 : Beaten with a belt by his father (offscreen), in bed with marks over his body, concern for him, has a fever, helped to get up and walk — In the hospital, IV drip

Ep 9 : None

Ep 10 : Crying

Ep 11-18 : None

Ep 19 : His father wants to make him drop out of school, upset — Vision blurry, passes out — Sick in bed

Ep 20 : In the hospital — Almost beaten by his dad — His father gives away the new shoes his friend got him to pay some debt

Ep 21 : Exhausted after a run, holding his side, passes out, carried — Had appendicitis, in the hospital, hit on his wound (by his dad, yeah this guy is the worst), in pain

Ep 22-28 : None

Ep 29 : Blamed unfairly, runs away from home — Missing, everyone concerned and looking for him, found, crying

Ep 30-33 : None

Ep 34 : In a fight — Face bruised

Ep 35-43 : None

Jiang Lin

Ep 1 : Falls from a roof, unconscious, concern for him

Ep 2 : Head an wrist bandaged — Punched — Nosebleed, concern for him

Ep 3 : Worried for his father

Ep 7 : On a hunger strike, hungry

Ep 31 : Sleeping outside

Ep 34 : In a fight, bottle smashed on his head — Unconscious in the hospital, concern for him

Ep 38 : Angry, shouting at Li Bing — Drunk, angry — Found sitting on the ground with his head bleeding, probably drunk, concern for him, crying

Ep 39 : Sleeping after drinking, kicked off his chair

Bonus Whumpee : Jiang Sen played by Wang Zi Rui

Ep 25 : Has a high fever, in bed, looked after, coughing, sweating, concern for him — Temporarily loses his hearing, taken to the doctor 

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[perasperaadastratoday]

I'm sorry for not being perfect

All you wanted

Was a perfect daughter

I'm sorry I was so busy

Taking care of things

Cooking, cleaning, bending to your needs

Keeping myself, keeping all of us afloat

I'm sorry for being a human being

With needs and feelings

I'm sorry for drinking behind your back

And doing things you would never approve

But it was my attempt at an escape

From your control

It was my sweet little secret

It was the only thing that belonged only to me

Should I really be sorry for that?

I'm not a saint after all

And neither are you

[marbearwrites]

Dear Folks...

I wish you had let me be a child

Instead of expecting me to be an adult

Now I struggle to function

In the "real" world

A thousand steps

Behind everyone else

[agere-agender]

dear parents,

if your kid tells you that they dont feel good. just believe them. idc if you think theyre faking it or not. fucking believe them.

if theyre not feeling good dont tell them "you have to go to school anyways" or "you look fine".

and dont you dare say, "you were fine yesterday".

things can change.

one day they might feel great, the next they might have the worst headache or are just really not okay.

dont say theyre fine. dont assume.

they might not feel good mentally.

not all feelings of not feeling well are physical.

if you dont believe them,

have fun fucking suffering when they tell you that youre fine if you complain you dont feel well.

sincerely,

a kid.

[cryptidnest]

I hope the playful flame happily dances in your eyes, as you watch everything you ever loved, the people, the memories, the places, the trinkets burn to ash.

[hi-parents]

(Trigger warning for Suic/de mention and swearing)

Hello mother.

You complained about me getting an A- because it wasn't an A.

It is still a goddamn A, it just has a little symbol attached to it, saying that I got less than one one benchmark. That's IT.

IT'S STILL A GODDAMN A, THEY STILL SEE IT AS ONE

IT DOESN'T EVEN LOWER MY GPA

AND IT STILL ALLOWED ME TO GRADUATE

How about fucking this: I barely even passed that class! I was failing it all trimester and you didn't even know.

I was struggling with every goddamn class I had and was suicidal more than half the time and guess what

I still got straight A's

But oh, because it has the minus symbol there it isn't fucking good enough

I'm never fucking good enough for you, am I?

I'm just your little fuck up of a daughter? Aren't I?

Can you ever fucking be proud of me for anything?

Sincerely, your child,

Siri.

P.S. I hate your guts you bitching fucking dick.

.

[motherinfinity]

Dear parents,

I’m not giving you attitude, I’m just dead inside

Sincerely,

Your overly anxious child who will do anything to avoid interactions with actual human beings

[voicesandthoughts]

You didn't even try to save me

You didn't see the signs I wore so vibrantly

Even when I hid them, they had become me

Biblicalized strength and biblical lies were shoved down my throat instead

I only needed safety

and maybe today, sometimes, you're in my stead

but when it mattered most, you didn't even try to save me.

[regulusandpandora]

Dear Parents,

If your child, no matter what age they are (toddler, teenager, adult et cetera.) comes to you and says that you have hurt their feelings, made them sad, made them angry, or says that you are making them uncomfortable, or asks you to stop making comments about such and such, or (fill in the black), you. do. not. get. to. make. them. feel. invalid.

You may not understand why they are upset or why your comments hurt their feelings or why they feel uncomfortable, but you have to respect it.

As Louis C.K. said, “When a person tells you that you hurt them, you don't get to decide that you didn't.”

Just because you are the parent, does not make you better than your child or means you get to decide whether or not their feelings and emotions are valid based on how it benefits you. You do not get to tell someone their feelings aren't real, or that they're over reacting because you don't understand or don't want to take accountability for your action or don't want to deal with the drama or whatever garbage reason you have.

If your child comes to you for any of these reasons or any reason at all, it is your job as the parent and a mature adult, to take responsibility, listen to your child, and find a way to stop doing what caused the issue in the first place.

No child should feel like they can't talk to their parents about things that bother them because they know they will just be gaslighted and nothing will end up changing.

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Whumptober Day 29 - Examination

Chimera - Ep. 6

Dear Parents - Ep. 25

Eien No Kino - Ep. 2

Hospital Playlist 2 - Ep. 11

National Security (2012)

[whitesandbrowns]

I was listening to Matilda by Harry styles today, and it made me realise something. I have already heard that song too many times, have related to it, have cried to it, have laughed to it. I have seen thousands of other girls relate to it too. And the only question that came to my mind:

Were they really not loved by their families?

It can't be possible. Can it? I've seen some of my friends put this song on their stories saying they relate to it so much. Where i actually have seen their parents being most supportive and loving parents. Not just in front me, but even when I'm not there too. I just couldn't understand how they can feel that they're not loved by their parents.

I then thought about my parents. About how i related to the song but do I really feel like I'm not loved? Not taken care of? The answer was no. I do not feel that way in real. I do feel loved in many ways. Then why I am feeling this feeling of hatred or of being misunderstood? The answer that i got is:

They do love me. But I do not feel loved by them a lot of times because i expect them to understand my pain. I expect them to share it with me. I want them to just be there while i cry so hard and tell me it's going to be fine. I'm doing so good. They haven't done that ever. I wish they had. But doesn't mean they didn't love me. They did. They still do. Their love language is different. They are just incapable of showing the love that i expect them to show. But it's okay. They're my family later, humans first. Just like i can't always love someone in a way they want. Same is with our families. That's all i realised.

05.07.22

[billysigudla]

Dear Parents

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might. Keep these words that I am commanding you today in your heart. Recite them to your children and talk about them when you are at home and when you are away, when you lie down and when you rise. – Deuteronomy 6: 5-7 Our families are in a state of crisis. Every day there is more horrific news about…

[bzjohndory]

I’ll do whatever it takes (i’ll make a million mistakes)

[deadly-flowers]

Dear parents,

Don’t teach your children hate

For themselves or others

(My mother dreams of a skinny body)

(I think its rubbed off)

Don’t let your temper get the better of you

it’ll stick their whole lives

(My father has a temper, loud and terrible)

(I think we have the same)

Dont assume your children are okay

A performance can be just as convincing as reality

(My parents think I’m okay)

(I don’t think I am)

(...)

(...)

(...)

(I’m not)