My sexuality is not up for debate. I don’t care if you disagree or accept me for who I am but you’re not going to stand there and try to invalidate my entire existence.
Part one: After my complaint this year about my experience of discrimination in the kitchen of HH, located in Theddingworth. They only put this statement up to cover their backs but really the story goes like this. Earlier this year, round March time I opened up to one of the heads of colleagues about my being transgender then the micro aggressions started and it became a snowball effect into more blatant trans. For example I told my now former boss I’m transgender and he proceeded to ask questions like is the surgery free or do you have to pay for it to which I replied “No it’s free on NHS” “Our taxes have to pay for that” he responded. At the time it did make my blood boil but I brushed it off. Then around June time I told him about my traumatic experience with a male stalker. Then he mentioned that one of my colleagues brought up my old name/dead name and after that followed “your a woman to me” thinking it would justify what he said prior. I also remember him inappropriately touching me with a feather duster from a bulk batch of stuff ordered for the kitchen. During all this time I was in a very bad place mentally to the point I was self harming and my colleagues thought it would be funny to make a mockery out of my scars. I was also having moments of being very high and very low in mood which made me an easy target for bullying let alone being transgender. Excuse this being very scattered but my dyslexia doesn’t exactly help matters. I also remember other staff laughing/giggling at me but then when I would go into a room they would stop talking. This also became true for my colleagues which is among countless other things I hate about work place bullying. They’d rather keep shut then confront the bullied about what’s being said about them. And as I said it continued like a snow ball effect into worse bullying/Name calling and dead gendering. For example dead gendering like “He’s angry today isn’t he”? My boss would say to a fellow colleague. “He’s always having up and down moments isn’t he”? He would say to another colleague whilst grimacing at me. In another situation he smelled the area in which I was standing and said “I smell butty” in front of a younger part timer. And I think this younger part timer is one of the main antagonists of this problem in which many others participated, mainly men. Men who have very little understanding of lgbtq problems but in my case it was mainly transgender problems. I’ve had this problem all my life when men sexualise me then bully me because I’m some sort of experiment to them. And this has been ongoing from the age of 14. There is a part two.
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I will never be able to fathom how some people can be so hateful. Discrimination being made legal througout different business and practices effects us ALL, EVERYONE.
I often post little things here abt my own views, as this is mainly a writing blog and where I dump stuff about my interests and whatnot but I will not be silent about this. We have been going backwards and it is getting worse.
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Just so you know, lumping any group of people together because they have something in common, then complaining about them as a group, is discrimination and it is wrong!
That goes for skin color
Sexual preference
Religion or belief system
Age
Abilities and Illnesses
Anything else you can use to label
So can we please quit knocking “Boomers” and “New Agers”?
Part two: please read part one before you read part two and excuse the grammatical error on the tenth line of part one. This was before I went to Lincoln on Thursday the 18th of august. I was nearly at the end of my shift when I was getting some black bin bags to fill the bins. And they happened to be damp from my washing up the pots and pans. My boss approached me and came too close for comfort then I started shaking because I knew what was going to transgress then he proceeded “The sacks are a bit moist” I tried to avoid the conversation going any further by saying “they are probably just a bit wet from washing up”. “Have you wet your sack”? he pushed it further. I was nearly at the end of my tether and this was when me and him were alone together so I was pretty vulnerable but unfortunately there were no witnesses which is what a lot of bullies do, attack when no one’s around. I came back on Tuesday the 23rd after having a chat with a councillor who told me i have the right to leave work on certain circumstances therefor I gave it another go on the 24th but by the end of that shift I had enough so I left. I also had a word with HR the next day who then told me to put my experiences into a grievance which felt like a complete waste of time because my ex colleagues banded together and made out that I was delusional. But I wouldn’t make up “I smell butty” which basically implied I smell like 💩. Because I didn’t even know what I smell butty meant until I looked it up and on one forum it means I smell like shit. So no I wouldn’t say this place advocates for inclusion of minorities of any kind. And further down the line I actually remember having a chat with one of my now ex colleagues about my boss and he revealed to me that my boss was actually fired from his job before this one and I really wish I knew why. I really hope my experience gets to everyone and enables people to feel comfortable to open up to me about being victims of workplace bullying. Thanks for reading. Kind regards, Aphrodie