#fae/faeself

[chronicallyqueercoining2]

Faegender:

(Alternate spellings may include fairygender, faeriegender, etc.)

A gender that relates to fae/faery/fairies (or other spellings of these beings!) in some way. One who is faegender may have been fae in a past life or identifies with faeries in some manner, perhaps feeling mystical or having a deep connection to gender.

This identity is NOT appropriation as faeries/fae are different spellings of a being from the same root words. They are NOT exclusive to one's culture, and in this usage, they are used in their most basic form: beings who are enchanted/magical, mystical, and deeply connected with nature.

Requested by anon!

[just-a-queer-fanboy]

Hi! My name's Ace, and since I started using neos, I realized not a lot of people know how to use fae/faer, and as I prefer those over most others, I'd like to make a quick little guide on using them.

The way I think about it is that it's similar to they/them, and that's a simple way to explain it.

They went to the park = Fae went to the park

That's their notebook = That's faer notebook.

No, that table's reserved for them. = That table's reserved for faer.

I also use he/him, so if you know me and are still getting the hang of neos, just call me he! I don't mind.

Edit: Many people don't know how to pronounce fae/faer, so here's a little guide.

Fae (Pronounced fay)

Faer (pronounced fair)

[little-witchys-garden]

Me being super happy about pride month and going to the mall to get pride merch cause stores having big pride sales:

Me being called slurs while simply using the bathroom by a group of teen girls then seeing a young lesbian hear that, get scared and not use the bathroom:

[diivinedemons]

fae/faer pronouns flag

a flag for people that use fae/faer pronouns

read my dni before interacting

[kay-the-royal]

Hello

[thisisablogisuppose44]

neopronouns (derogatory)

[scrapbook-full-of-leaves]

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[celestial-scrapyard]

In other news i think i may have neopronouns that make my brain happy, since they/them doesnt really jive with that gender feel for me :< i wish it did! But alas.

So idk im gonna think abt it dhdjbkr

[armysantiny]

btw, when I say I use all pronouns, it includes neopronouns <3

[gendercensus]

GOOD NEWS EVERYONE

I felt like doing some important research between annual surveys, and an offhand comment from @averixus prompted a Tournament. This will be the masterpost.

Me and @averixus chose the pairs in the first round using a random number generator on the top 32 pronoun sets from the Gender Census 2023 results.

Round 1

Poll 1: one/one/oneself vs. void/void/voidself

Poll 2: avoid pronouns vs. ze/zir/zirself

Poll 3: pup/pup/pupself vs. vamp/vamp/vampself

Poll 4: star/star/starself vs. thon/thon/thonself

Poll 5: bun/bun/bunself vs. xe/xem/xemself

Poll 6: mew/mew/mewself vs. ae/aer/aerself

Poll 7: xey/xem/xemself vs. they/them/themself

Poll 8: ve/ver/verself vs. ze/zem/zemself

Poll 9: e/em/emself vs. they/them/themselves

Poll 10: ne/nem/nemself vs. he/him/himself

Poll 11: kit/kit/kitself vs. rot/rot/rotself

Poll 12: fae/faer/faeself vs. ey/em/emself

Poll 13: hy/hym/hymself vs. hy/hymn/hymnself

Poll 14: she/her/herself vs. use name as pronoun

Poll 15: voi/void/voidself vs. bug/bug/bugself

Poll 16: it/it/itself vs. ze/hir/hirself

Round 2

Poll 1: one/one/oneself vs. avoid pronouns

Poll 2: vamp/vamp/vampself vs. star/star/starself

Poll 3: xe/xem/xemself vs. ae/aer/aerself

Poll 4: they/them/themself vs. ze/zem/zemself

Poll 5: they/them/themselves vs. he/him/himself

Poll 6: kit/kit/kitself vs. fae/faer/faeself

Poll 7: hy/hymn/hymnself vs. use name as pronoun

Poll 8: voi/void/voidself vs. it/it/itself

Round 3

Poll 1: avoid pronouns vs. star/star/starself

Poll 2: xe/xem/xemself vs. they/them/themself

Poll 3: they/them/themselves vs. fae/faer/faeself

Poll 4: use name as pronoun vs. it/it/itself

Semi-final

Poll 1: avoid pronouns vs. they/them/themself

Poll 2: they/them/themselves vs. it/it/itself

Final

they/them/themself vs. it/it/itself

WINNER: they/them/themself

[somnambulant-seraphim]

The fourth (and final for now) member of the swamp pals, and my smallest hand puppet:

❀⋆·₊˚☆彡 Simona Snail ☆彡˚₊·⋆❀

She's made with light olive green fur fabric, and dark kelp green with brown for her shell. Fae's got a tan lace and green satiny neck ruffle, a ruffly bonnet, and crocheted book bag (made by Millicent Moth, of course) with some little books inside. Everything has plenty of lace and bows! ୨୧ <3

Simona is a librarian, she's very organized, and likes everything to be catalogued correctly and in proper place. Though she doesn't worry about overdue books or late fees, she's a slow reader faeself, so fae understands! :)

Faer hobbies include reading, bookbinding (she loves repairing and preserving old books), going on walks (very slowly), and lace making! She's a quiet and gentle soul, and prefers to take things slow and easy, always stopping to smell the roses and taking her time to enjoy every little bit of life!

She also enjoys writing, especially handwritten letters for her friends (snail mail) and poetry. Fae's quite the little author!

[sebcosmothetransguy]

(i don’t mean liking them for yourself, or liking them for me, but i mean liking them in general, if anybody is confused about that) (explain why you like the ones you do the most in the comments)

[graveboywalking]

★彡[ʏᴜᴍᴇᴋᴀᴡᴀɪɪ ɪᴅ ᴘᴀᴄᴋ]彡★

Yumekawaii is a Japanese Kawaii sub-culture based on being "dreamy cute", centered around centers around fantasy themes in pastel colors.

𝙽𝚊𝚖𝚎𝚜:

Amethyst ☆ Astrid ★ Lyric ☆ Delilah ★ Lorelei ☆ Iris ★ Ditzy ☆ Daphne ★ Anastasia ☆ Vivienne ★ Angel ☆ Angelica ★ Soda ☆ Koko ★ Lain ☆ Ella ★ Strawberry ☆ Saz ★ Sair ☆ Siri ★ Lavender ☆ Addy ★ Bunni ☆ Kitty ★ Dolly/Dollie Puppi ☆ Gummie ★ Fae ☆ Moon ★ Pixie ☆ Dreamie ★ Yuna ☆ Cotton ★ Mochi

𝙿𝚛𝚘𝚗𝚘𝚞𝚗𝚜:

Ey/Em/Emself Shi/Shis/Shiself Shy/Shys/Shyself Bun/Buns/Bunself Pup/Pups/Pupself Dream/Dreams/Dreamself Cotton/Cottons/Cottonself Darling/Darlings/Darlingself Pas/Pastel/Pastels/Paself/Pastelself Candy/Candies/Candyself Moch/Mochi/Mochis/Mochiself Fan/Fantasy/Fantasyself Fae/Faerie/Faeself Pink/Pinks/Pinkself Cute/Cutes/Cutesy/Cuteself Rib/Ribbon/Ribbons/Ribbonself 🧸/🧸s/🧸self 🔮/🔮s/🔮self 🩷/🩷s/🩷self 🩵/🩵s/🩵self 🎀/🎀s/🎀self

𝙶𝚎𝚗𝚍𝚎𝚛𝚜:

Cutegender ☆ Cutemaiden ★ Genderadored ☆ Yumekawaesic ★ Dreamgender ☆ Fairylexic ★ Fantasygender ☆ Pinkgender ★ Pastelgender ☆ Bungender ★ Pupgender ☆ Cutecreature ★ Mooncute ☆ Magiera ★ Adoriune ☆ Cutepastellicgalaxy

𝚃𝚒𝚝𝚕𝚎𝚜:

(Pronoun) The (Animal) ☆ Bunnisyrup (or replace animal) ★ Wrap Me In Ribbon ☆ Little Lovely Teddy Bear ★ Cutest Darling ☆ Soft Pink (Animal) ★ Cloudy (Animal) ☆ ShyShy ★ Faeling ☆ Darling Faerie ★ Dreamiest Cloud / Cloudiest Dream

[starscatteredsky]

Could you please do some faekin tips/tricks? Thank you for all you do!

fey/fae/fay/fairfolk/etc tips and tricks!

pt: fey/fae/fay/fairfolk/etc tips and tricks!

do your best to always remain truthful. if ever you *must* lie, do it in a roundabout way where you’re *technically* telling the truth

avoid things made of iron

be playfully mischievous, but avoid causing real harm

reconnect with nature in your area!

ear cuffs or fake pointed ears!!

Dress in cottagecore, or clothing that your faeself would wear!

angular, ethereal, inhuman makeup looks

try reading or writing poetry, painting nature scenes or creatures you love (perhaps with watercolours), or other traditional art forms!

eye contacts!!

be respectful of the fae, and learn about the kinds of fae that are rumored to live in your area!

learn more about how to leave offerings for/ communicate with your fellow fae! you may even wish to learn about spiritualities/religions regarding them! (remember to respect closed cultures and religions though!)

collect things relating to nature or your faetype!

do your nails(/makeup) in shimmery, magic looking, or holographic colours!

have fun fae friends!

-🩸

Requests open!!!

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[sister-lucifer]

Lucifer’s Neopronoun Masterlist!

i use all pronouns including neos, and prefer when people use a variety and make things up as they wish! here are some of my fave neos to inspire you:] this will probably be extended as time goes on and is open to suggestions!!

**THIS IS NOT A DEFINITIVE LIST AND YOU ARE COMPLETELY FREE TO MAKE UP PRONOUNS FOR ME!**

my faves are highlighted in green!

purr/purrs/purrself 

mew/mews/mewself 

 pearl/pearls/pearlself 

med/meds/medself

mo/moon/moons/moonself 

bloo/blook/blooks/blooks/blookself 

tux/tuxedo/tux/tuxes/tuxself 

fox/foxs/foxself 

dar/dark/darkself 

fog/fog/fogself 

fro/frost/fros/fros/frostself 

beau/beaus/beauself 

abstra/abstras/ abstractself 

abyss/abyss/abysself 

li/light/lights/lightself 

um/umbra/umbra/umbraself

 ink/in/inks/inkself 

claw/claws/clawself 

mrrr/mrrrp/mrrrps/mrrpself 

xe/xey/xer/xemself 

boo/boos/booself 

gore/gores/goreself 

gri/grim/grime/grimeself 

gro/gross/grosself 

haun/haunts/hauntself 

rie/eer/eri/erie/eeriself 

sin/sins/sinself 

ske/skel/skels/skeleself 

rive/river/rivers/riverself 

mel/mello/mellos/melloself 

alie/alien/alienself 

dragon/dragons/dragonself 

dry/dryad/drys/dryas/dryaself or dryadself 

ecto/ects/ectself 

gar/goyle/gars/gars/garself 

ghou/ghoul/ghous/ghouls/ghoulself 

gor/gorgon/gor/gors/gorself or gorgonself

 imp/imp/imps/imps/impself 

kye/kyr/kyr/kyrs/kyrself 

le/lem/les/les/lesself 

txt/txts/txtself 

ti/time/times/times/timeself 

art/art/arts/arts/artself 

voi/void/voids/voids/voidself 

x/x/xs/xs/xself 

bug/bug/bugs/bugs/bugself 

uni/verse/universe/universeself

galax/galaxy/galaxyself

hor/horror/horrors/horrors/horrorself 

clou/cloud/clouds/cloudself

angel/angelself 

freak/freaks/freakself 

prince/princeself

star/stars/starself 

rot/rots/rotself

enigma/enigmaself

fae/faerie/faeself/faerieself

please suggest more pronoun ideas if you have any:] i am a hoarder and i love creativity

big thanks to @seraphim-the-lover-system for suggesting most of these!

[clownrecess]

I want to talk about my identity as a queer person, because it is a lot more complex than what I usually present it as.

On a base level, I am a gay trans man. When people in person ask my pronouns I typically give them the answer of Xe/He/They.

However, my identity is so much more complex than that, so I wanted to take the time to talk about it.

Sexuality: I am gay, which in a basic form means that I am a non-woman, who is attracted to other non-women. I identify as a boy, and I am attracted to people who also identify that way, as well as masc leaning nonbinary people. Along with being gay, I am also greysexual, which is an identity on the asexual spectrum.

Gender: I am trans (FTM). This means I was assigned female at birth but am actually a boy. Whilst my gender CAN be dumbed down to just "boy", it is a lot more than that. Imagine a square, and what is inside that square is boy. My gender fully takes up that space, it is fully boy, but then a small bit of my gender overflows out of the square. Typically, this would fall into demiboy, however, I am not a demiboy. The part of my gender that falls outside of boy is so so little, that I don't feel comfortable using the label of demiboy to describe myself. So why is my gender complex then? I am a person that very much believes that gender as most people think of it is a human made concept, and that "true gender" is only experienced by the one experiencing it. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that animal bones feel like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that the concept of being dead feels like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that frogs feel like a boy. My gender, as a boy, feels like a boy in the way that You Know What They Do To Guys Like Us In Prison by MCR feels like a boy. And more! My gender being a boy has absolutely nothing to do with what society deems a boy. My gender being a boy is ONLY a boy because for me, all of those things feel like a boy, and all of those things feel like me and my gender. I am also autistic, and my autism also wildly changes the way that I experience myself, and of course, part of myself is my gender. Due to this, I also identify as autigender.

But, that still isn't super complex. What I just described is an autistic boy who uses xenogenders, and that IS what I am! However, it is messier than that, because I am in a system (which typically isn't something I talk very much about online, but it is important for this post) and we all experience gender differently. Some of us are nonbinary, some of us are girls, some of us ONLY use xenogenders, and some of us identify in a way that I didn't list off. Some of us use she/her pronouns, some of us use auti/autis pronouns, some of us use he/him pronouns, some of us use they/them pronouns, some of us xe/xem pronouns, some of us use frog/frogself pronouns, some of us use fae/faeself pronouns, etc. Point is, we all have unique, complex genders, sexualities, and identities.

So why do we not say we are genderfluid and pansexual, as a way to make all of us feel represented and truthful in our identity? Because being a xenogender using, gay, complex identity boy is what describes us as a whole the best. Yes, we are absolutely separate people, but as a whole, this is who we are. We also label ourselves as a multipluralic boy, which is another way to show that we have different Identities whilst still having one whole identity as a system.

All of these aspects of my identity as a queer person intersect and influence each other in complex ways. It's not always easy to navigate, but it's also incredibly rewarding to be able to explore and express myself in a way that feels true to who I am.