#fucking aphobes should die

[quemirabobo]

Friendly reminder 🥰

[knifearo]

"asexual discourse" is so funny cause dude that's not discourse and it's never been discourse. it's not an argument and it's not a conversation bitches are just yelling at us unprompted and then making up people to get mad at 😭

[aro-bird]

I do have to say, as someone on the camp of "you could probably ship someone else who isn't non-partnering but honestly I don't care as long as you don't harass people over this", I think it's lost on some people that the reason why so many non-partnering aroaces may become defensive over these characters even if "it's just fandom" is the fact that a lot of aroaces who do fit these stereotypes and who may fall into this camp genuinely had horrible experiences about their social circles and yes, especially this fandom site, harassing them and saying they don't exist or that they're mentally ill and should "get fixed" among other things.

As common it is to see aspecs here on Tumblr, the queer social media site, you need to understand that there's still a lot of contempt for aroaces outside and inside this place. Hell, I received an ask calling aros and aces delusional just last Christmas Day 2023 that came with a wave of increased arophobia around that time. As much as that time period was definitely discourse against aroallo men, aphobes did not cherry pick on who they're sending hate to.

Besides this, a lot of non-partnering aroaces often receive this kind of dismissal in real life too and as much as some people may think it's not a big deal, it definitely fucks up your brain when people say you and your experiences not only don't matter but you are doomed to live a lonely and miserable life if you don't find someone. Even my otherwise very supportive relatives expressed this concern and it's absolutely out of care but it's fucking damaging to constantly hear that I will die alone if I don't find a partner (romantic, platonic, or otherwise).

This is besides dismissals like this or even non-acceptance had literally barred me from mental health care when I was a teenager because my specialist said I had a "distressed sexuality" and had specialists focused on that aspect rather than all my other issues.

The shipping of a non-partnering (typically romance repulsed or uninterested) character feels like another form of dismissal for someone like me, like my sexuality is not good enough or serious enough to be respected. The shipping of these characters sometimes reinforce the narrative that non-partnering aroace people can't find happiness on their own and do need someone (romantic, platonic, or otherwise) to be happy or they will become happier if they do find this someone. People are having fun with their ships but there are still many people who don't want to spend the time actually extending grace and understanding towards me and my experiences. I'm just another discourse topic and someone who's inconvenient to some of them.

This doesn't even account for how these fan communities aren't just filled with aspec people and do extend to allos who may take some of the discourse and actively apply it in real life to other real life aspec people. People who go and interact with real human beings and may hurt them or harass them. It isn't even accounting for the fact that even online things affect real people too.

Of course, I do understand that a lot more complex aspec identities often don't get the spotlight so they may express themselves through shipping fandom characters but non-partnering people should deserve more than these people isn't really the point of this post.

The point here is that there's a reason why a lot of non-partnering (typically repulsed or uninterested) aroace people get defensive about these things even in fan communities and it's very likely that it's because aphobia and especially against the stereotypical aroace™ still very much exist outside of our little community and they can be informed by media and the fans that consume it and this shit could genuinely have negative consequences. This of course extends to those who do have complex aspec identities as society does not treat those who don't live up to what is expected as "normal" in terms of romantic relationships and sexual attraction kindly.

Distancing yourself from these aroaces who do have frustrations with how media and fandom treat their sexuality because they're being "prudes" or are just affected by "purity culture" is unhelpful to say the least and honestly veers eerily close to shit I hear aphobes say about us.

Absolutely do stop people and block them if they're instigating and participating in harassment over shipping of all things, even these aroaces, but trying to say that every person who do have issues with shipping aroace characters are the same way with this is extremely lacking nuance and absolutely dismissive of other members of the community and why they may have the opinion they hold.

[babblable]

For the record, just in case some people don't look at my tags.

If you think the below are NOT part of the LGBTQ+ community- Unfollow and block me. Get the fuck off my blog. This blog is Safe for:

-Trans/GNC folk who do not "pass" or choose not to "pass", transition, etc.(Pass is in quotation marks bc quite frankly the concept of passing is ridiculous when used against us and should not be a factor in us using someone's fucking preferred pronouns)

-Trans/GNC folk who DEtransition

-Lgbtq+ poc and native americans

-My fellow aros and aces ALL ACROSS the aro/ace spectrum

-Pan and Bi folks in a relationship with someone of the opposite sex

-He/him lesbians, She/her gays, etc etc

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-Questioning

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Hi, hello! I am holding my hand out to you. You are safe here! I would fight God for you! I love you!

And if ANYONE thinks you don't belong? Motherfuckers better unfollow and block me then.

Ideally my blog is assumed to be safe for everyone, with my only exception being if you're a fucking dick. But apparently the above needs to be said! So I'm saying it. at 5am. TERFs and Aphobic assholes can fucking Die Mad About It.

Pls lemme know if I forgot anyone. It is currently 5am and I am cranky over my insurance calling me.

[bumblebeerror]

I’m a normal amount of rage now so I can articulate myself I think

I understand a lot of online talk is hyperbole. I understand that not every single thing said on the internet is meant to be taken completely literally, the way my brain interprets it at first.

But. But.

The thing is that suicide bait and telling people to die and harassing others online has, historically, not only been incredibly harmful - I will have been on tumblr for a decade this coming spring. I have known people who, as far as anyone could tell, at the very least suddenly deactivated, and likely killed themselves because of a constant barrage of hatred and suicide bait for things like being aro or ace, being pan, being sexual abuse survivors and writing sexual assult fiction to cope and work through their trauma, the ‘reasons’ are endless at this point - it’s also just. Not an effective way to make fandom safer in any way, and the perpetrators of that behavior are never being hyperbolic.

It did not make tumblr safer when a group of people harassed me for misunderstanding the difference between Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder at the age of 16, nor when they continued for two full years to harass me because my first url contained the word “crazy” in refrence to myself. It didn’t make tumblr safer when they told me to kill myself. It didn’t make it safer when they told me they were happy my father died, because I was hurting and that’s what they wanted. It didn’t make tumblr safer when I felt so personally in danger that I had to send an ask containing the address and phone number of the person who started all of it, someone I knew In Real Life and Knew My Schedule, to them, just to get them to stop for fear I would contact their mother or call the police, because the harassment was that intense. And I was one of the lucky ones - someone who knew their harasser irl and could properly leverage a threat like that in exchange for finally being left alone after two full years of nonstop hell every time I opened the site.

And before it crosses anyones mind - yes, it is suicide bait to tell someone they should die. We aren’t playing this game. Just like when aphobes said it so fucking often that prominent ace bloggers actually did end up hurting themselves, and got mass reported for it and changed it to “piss your pants”, saying “you should die” is the same intent as “kill yourself”. Don’t fucking kid with me.

It doesn’t make fandom safer for minors to tell sexual assult survivors to die because they wrote fiction to work through their trauma.

It doesn’t make fandom safer for trans folk to tell trans fans of shitty authors to die.

It doesn’t make fandom safer for mentally ill or disabled folks to tell people to die.

What it does, is convince vulnerable people that they really are better off dead. What it does is convince people you barely know, who have friends and family and lovers, to kill themselves, on the basis of what fucking fandom they’re in. I cannot imagine a more fucking morally depraved reason to say that to anyone.

It helps no one to do this. It benefits nobody. It doesn’t make you a virtuous person, it doesn’t make you morally correct.

It makes you someone who, without the threat of irl consequences, would happily, eagerly, and with sick relish, make someone’s life hell because you don’t like that they like a certain media.

And regardless of what that media is, the very idea of that is absolutely disgustingly wrong.

Human rights don’t only extend to people you like. They extend to everyone. So should your goddamn morals.

[the-owl-house-takes]

https://www.tumblr.com/the-owl-house-takes/739908070705070080/people-should-be-allowed-to-ship-lilith-nothing

Shut up, aphobe. Lilith is canonically aromantic and asexual and she isn’t interested in or attracted to anyone and that is a solid, unchangeable fact. People like you need to learn that, 1. Shipping is not the be all and end all of enjoying media and, 2. To fucking respect LGBT+ representation REGARDLESS of if it was stated in the source material or by crew outside the show. It’s not that goddamn hard to support and respect representation and you’re not going to fucking die if you can’t ship one character.

Like for fuck’s sake, you do realize that platonic ships are important too, right? I seriously can’t stand the amatonormativity in fandom, perfectly good and interesting platonic / familial ships are completely ignored in favor romantic ones. Idk it’s just very telling to me that someone like you has pretty much just said ‘I only care about this character if I can ship them romantically / sexually’ and ‘I don’t care if she’s aroace, I should be allowed to erase that and do whatever I want despite how aphobic and disrespectful it is to the people whose identity she shares.’

If you’re that obsessed with romantic shipping, there are plenty of other characters you can do that with that haven’t been confirmed aroace and uninterested in those kinds of relationships.

Honestly, why aren’t us aroaces allowed to have even the bare minimum in regards to representation and respect? It’s fucking exhausting and I’m tired to death of the aphobia and how so many non-aroaces don’t take it seriously bc ‘lol shipping is more important.’

Re-evaluate yourself and why you think it should be okay to erase a character’s identity to suit YOUR tastes.

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[demiaroacejolynekujo]

I literally had to delete an anon ask from someone (either a cishet man or an MRA) calling me an incel for calling out men for shitting on The Marvels movie and Brie Larson. I'm not a man hater. I don't think that all men should die since that's literally eugenics. I interact with men all the time at my job, I live with two men (my brother and my stepdad), and all my relationships have been with men.

Also, I'm aroace and calling someone who is aroace an incel is incredibly aphobic. Aroace people don't go around saying that women should be forced to have sex with men. And aroace people aren't mad that people are not having sex with them because they experience little to no sexual attraction. Lastly, being an incel is a choice while being aroace isn't. Men who identify as incels put that upon themselves because they refuse to acknowledge that their views on women are really shitty and they refuse to improve themselves (both physically and personality wise).

If you're that mad that people are defending The Marvels movie and Brie Larson, then that's your problem. Stop acting like a sweaty neckbeard and grow the fuck up.

[chocolatepot]

6, 12, and 23 for the GO ask meme please! :)

(I answered 6 in the last ask, so I'm skipping that one! Though I will also shout out MURIEL I LOVE YOU again!)

has your interaction with the good omens fandom been overall good or bad?

Overall good! I haven't been as active in this fandom as I am in OFMD, so I don't have too many opportunities for interaction, but in general I've been pretty happy with it.

The only real negative thing for me - if I may soapbox a moment - is the fight between the "if you don't want them to fuck, you're a prude and a homophobe" and "if you do want them to fuck, you're an aphobe and should die" factions. I want more ace rep but I also want more shows that don't shy away from gay sexuality, so ... I tend to feel alienated and attacked by both sides. But this only turns up rarely on my dash, so it doesn't color my overall experience too much.

what's a good omens headcanon that you considered canon?

I never know where the line is between headcanon and interpretation. Like, does "Crowley gets off on watching Aziraphale eat" count? It's technically not canon but it's so obvious ...

Other than that, every single "Crowley invented [deeply annoying facet of modern society]" one.

list of questions

[baybeered]

On one hand being really aggressive towards people who are misinformed about aorace stuff and so ignorant and privileged to live in their little allo bubble is counter intuitive. Nobody learns anything and if anything at all they've gotten a negative experience to justify their aphobia.

On the other hand;

I'm so fucking exhausted of you assholes fuck off and die. You can never understand what it's like to live in a world that consistently treats you like you don't exist. That hurts your fucking community and you can't do anything about it because people have decided its better to treat you as a joke or a disease that needs to be stopped. And heaven fucking forbid you stand up against other queer people for their aphobic treatment and remarks because then you're the problem, then you've slighted the queer community, you're not queer enough or your existence is "inherently homophobic/lesbophobic/biphobic."

I don't want to have to dance around your fucking feelings when I tell you this character and the experience they represent IS NOT FOR YOU. Like a child when told you can't have one singular thing, you bawl your fucking eyes out and throw a tantrum because the mere thought, the guilt of knowing that you've done something bad or that you've hurt us isn't as horrid to you as not being allowed your ships. YOUR QUEER IS NOT MY QUEER AND YOU HATE ME FOR IT.

And even those who don't actively take from us are more than happy to sit aside and let their fellows do so, there is little to no ally ship and we're all worse off for it.

Every time one of you fucks talks a character our of their aroace canon because it doesn't suit your needs, some who isn't aware of the label but can't fit in with their peers, can't fit in with societies demands is kept in the dark. I cannot express enough how important it is to keep aroace characters aroace and to talk and celebrate their queerness. I cannot express how many times I seen someone come to the labels of aromantic and asexual through these celebrations and said

"this is how I feel, I didn't know there was a word for it"

"I didn't know this was a thing! I think I might be this!"

"I'm less scared now that I know what I am"

less anxious

less afraid

You kill our community without second thought because people understanding themselves either scares you or you're privileged enough not to care.

You open the door for a queer revolution and when the A in LGBTQIA follows you in you slam in in our faces.

Go fuck yourself, allo pieces of shit, you exhaust me and I'm tired of having to explain to you what you should already fucking know. We deserve a seat at your table, and representation that holds up the full aromantic and asexual spectrums for all to see and understand even if that means its not for you because guess what? NOT EVERYTHING IS FOR YOU ♥

[jongins-gf]

The utter fucking INUNDATING amount of aphobia that seeps through almost EVERY OTHER single post on this hellsite is so......exhausting. asexual/aromantic people are constantly shit on, not respected, or dismissed because "ace discourse is OPTIONAL and I (A NON-ASPEC PERSON) am SO TIRED OF DISCUSSING IT!!! there's no point in discussing whether these actual people deserve respect or not! God will you SHUT UP about it, I THE NON-ASPEC AM TIRED OF IT! :))))))"

Aphobia is in so many of the posts that people I (follow/respect/am friends with) reblog. People I like CONSTANTLY reblog aphobic shit, no matter how blatant it is to the core of the post or not. People I am FRIENDS with keep doing this shit too. It's exhausting how invisible aphobia is to allos, how aspecs can't even fucking explain it without being laughed it.

It's so exhausting how much of this shit gets passed under the radar, how aphobia is NOT considered a thing AT ALL (even the thought of aphobia as a concept is completely laughable for most people, like, they consider this shit on par with goddamn HETEROPHOBIA).

It's exhausting seeing huge blogs with huge followings constantly fighting issues like biphobia, lesbophobia, transphobia, etc., (things that are all GOOD to fight against and SHOULD BE FOUGHT), and then, when it comes to the aspec community.......literal utter silence, or annoyance/""""exhaustion"""" at the """"discourse"""". Like. As if the existence of our struggles and oppression are up for debate at all???

If you're not with us, if you're fucking "neutral" on """"ace discourse""", you're against us. Fuck everyone. I'm so tired of this shit.

[dykesprentiss]

ok at the ppl that are vagueing about me but dont want to have an actual discussion - i am not attempting to shame anyone for relating to certain characters. i am not saying to not create content for those characters! i am just expressing my frustration at certain overarching trends in the fandom, and asking people to consider the way they approach female characters. thats literally it. if you read my post and your takeaway was that i think jonmartin gets too much attention+ than idk what to tell u lol clearly u need to learn reading comprehension. jonmartin is some of the best gay (and ace!) rep i have ever seen and i have no issues with them, their writing, or the fandoms enthusiasm about them. if me saying "consider how the fandom treats female characters" makes you angry then like. maybe u should look inwards at your own reactions and problems instead of getting pissy at a tired lesbian lmao.

[magsdomino]

Shitty Hot takes on this hellsite regarding LGBT+ be like

[ghostlygunk]

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[silvermoon424]

Today I was having lunch with friends and one of them said to my face I was only ace because I lost all hope of somebody ever sleeping with me like if was the most normal thing to say to me, and I just, stare back at her in disbelief, and my other friends didn't even say anything, like they agree. I just, gathered my stuff and left. What am I supposed to do in that situation? I need better friends.

What the fuck? I'm so sorry you had to deal with such blatant aphobia from someone who is supposedly your friend. Not only is that aphobic (saying that ace people only don't have sex because they're not able to get any), it's also a really fucking shitty thing to say to anyone, let alone a friend. What's next? Telling you you'll die alone?

I don't really want to jump to a snap decision like "dump them immediately" because idk if this is normal behavior from them, but you should know that nobody should talk to you that way. I'm glad you left, that was definitely the right thing thing to do. It sends a message that you won't tolerate that sort of behavior.

[liathgray]

Ranking fmab characters worst to best

(Please don’t take this seriously)

1. Khymbleigh

- Lives in the sewers

- Committed mass murder

- Has a silly idiot hat

- Called me a dyke :(

2. Shou Tucker

- fuck this guy.

- Electric chair

- Also hes balding what a loser

3. Dwarf in the Bong

- mike wazoski lookin ass

- Literally the greasiest motherfucker on the planet

- Was one of the only characters introduced by NOT beating up Ed or Al..??

- Smells like rotten cabbage

4. Moy Rustang

- Incel

- Has stupid hair

- War criminal

- Teen dad

- Canon fat tits

- Useless🥰

5. Envy

- a bitch

6. Whorehenheim

- deadbeat

- Has never taken a shower in his life

- Only wears glasses because he thinks its quirky and cute

- Took the fattest bong rip of all time

- Also killed thousands

7. Tim Marcoh

- doctor and deserted the military

- honestly pretty chill

- But his name is Tim so... *cocks gun*

8. Bradley

- :/

- Killed a lesbian and thus is homophobic

- He wears an eyepatch despite having both eyes.

9. Elicia and Gracia Hughes

- tax evaders

10. Jean Havoc

- cool dude

- Cohntry boyy i luv youuu

- Did not look respectfully

- Smokes. Must be executed

11. Gluttony, pride and Sloth

- assholes but also what the fuck

- This boy like 10

- Wheres his babysitter

- fast????????

12. Armstrong

- his arms are strong

- Lil bitch

- Got his ass beat my his hot lesbian sister

13. Lust

- is sexy

- Murderer :(

- Big tibbies so she gets extra points

- She was just checking if roy and havoc were cake

14. Scar’s brother

- Truth took his cock.

15. Truth

- took Scar’s brother’s cock

16. Barry the chopper & the slicer

- criminals

- Almost killed Ed and Al

- Kinda sexy tho 😳

17. Greed (OG)

- greasy garbage man

- Got cucked after two eps

- Has dumb hair

- Was funny

18. Yoki

- He yo the ki or whatever

- I dont remember him

19. Fu and Lan Fan

- Legs for days!!!

- Breaking and entering

- Lan fan smugly cutting off her arm and saying “I beat you” awakened something in me

- Fu got shanked :(

20. Rose Thomas

- Maybe im gay. What of it?

- Almost shot Ed lmaooo

- Probably owns a ukulele

- Local

21. Greed 2.0

- stupid

- Beats the fuck out of Bradley

- Might’ve eaten dirt

- Went camping for five months instead of being helpful

- Aphobe :/

22. Ling

- freeloader

- Diabetic??????

- Smells like broke

- Gay little bitch boy

23. Sheska

- haha nerd

- I’m in love with you

- Was only in two episodes :(

24. Captain Buccaneer

- Off his shits always

- Took ten years to die lmfaooo

- MLM but a gatekeeper

25. Major Miles

- His facial hair is atrocious

- Otherwise? King

- Sunglasses indoors... ur on thin ice

- Turn around bright eyes...

26. Father Cornello

- So theres this middle aged man...

- Won the sexiest character poll on twitter

- Re🤢🤢 l🤢🤢. r-r-religous🤢🤢🤢c-cor🤮🤮 religious corruption

- Got gunched lol

26. Kain Fuery

- Has watched pulp fiction

- Haha glasses

- Probably volunteers at a animal shelter

27. Vato falman

- Skinny legend

- Genuinely cool and has development at briggs

- Go white boy go

28. Heymans Breda

- Has a moped

- Could crush my spine but wouldnt ❤️

- Crew cut 🤢🤢

29. Xiao Mei

- small and filled with rage

- Has good taste

- Gunch??????

- Literally so small please be careful

30. Gay chimeras

- TWO MEN

- WE’RE BURLY

- WE’LL DO WHAT YOU WANT

- cottagecore

31. Pinako Rockbell

- has been high off her ass for the past three years

- Sultry doctor who lives in a faraway town 😳😳😳 hello ma’am 😳

- Hair is definitely a weapon. Shits pointy

- Home wrecker

32. Sig

- wide

- Very wide

- Kiss kiss

- Only eats potatoes

33. Riza Hawkeye

- big arms big arms big arms biG ARMS BIG ARMS

- Would kill roy on sight

- she should kiss me

- rn

34. Maes Hughes

- had a band in highschool named frog soda or some shit like that

- Pretty cool! Nice to ed and al and winry

- Good dad

- Dead lol

35. Olivier Armstrong

- goth gf

- Sword.... sword hot.....

- Killed a dude for being annoying and I respect that

- Snorts snow and says its coke to freak people out

- Gay ass....

36. Ed Elric

- ok gay boy

- Makes everyones life hell. Good for him

- NERD????? A FUCKING NERD???

- I’d steal his lunch money

- No tiddies?

- :/

- Short king

37. Maria Ross and Denny Brosh

- wlw mlm solidarity

- maria ... hold my h-hand...

- literally had nothing to do with this but got McFcuked anyways

38. Scar

- acab

- Was right

- Dilf

39. Al Elric

- likes cats so he’s automatically superior

- Malnourished 😔✌️

- Cha cha slide in full armour

- Mean but only to Ed ❤️

- I love when he *king noises*

40. Izumi Curtis

- kiss me sexy woman

- Stole from briggs because fuck the military

- .. m...milf..

41. Paninya

- fucking superb you funky little lesbian

42. Winry Rockbell

- NERD!!! NERD !!

- Curb stomps her enemies

- Acab but also stole Riza’s look so 😳

- Is she.. u kno💅

43. Mei Chang

- her life is a YA drama

- gained a dad by being perfect

- bullies Ed

- is better than everyone

And finally..... the best character in fmab...

Resurrected Trisha

- 😳😳😳

- Yes i do the cookin yes i do the cleanin

- 😩😩😩

[susie-dreemurr]

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