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[skywitchmaja]

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[agirlwithglam]

Hi!! I hope I'm not disturbing you but I wanted to ask how do I work hard. Because when I was younger I got really good marks without trying and now the subjects are hard and social media is distracting but I can't seem to delete it. This is also why my grades are even low then before and I'm really afraid to disappoint my parents (being the eldest daughter doesn't help). So can you please just give me some pointers on how can I actually study and not just cry because I don't know how to. Have a great day!! <3

literally omg. is this past me asking me a question?? like actually u have no idea how much i relate and understand this. the "gifted child" who always got good grades without needing to study now finds things more difficult. i know many people have said this, but i actually have been through this not too long ago. i hope these tips help <3

how to work hard + actually study (realistic)

forget hard work. at least do the work! (its so funny because i literally had a post about this all ready in my drafts about to get posted, so i'll keep this short and link the post.) stop focussing on doing hard work like studying 24/7. just put in the basic necessities you need to get a better grade. hard work post link

use the disappointment and embarrassment as fuel. (basically find a very strong why) (mini story-ish thing coming up, skip to the blue text for the actual advice) i still remember the day i got such a bad score on my math and science test, i was FURIOUS at myself and i cried about it! telling it to my parents was one of the hardest things i had to do and feeling their disappointment was even worse. but that became my turning point. i was so ashamed of myself and i resented me so much that i basically just told myself "i dont freaking care what you feel *with distaste*. you brought this on yourself you failure" (a bit very harsh, yes i know) but the way i studied that week- i studied more than i every had before! also doing this doesnt really lower my self esteem a whole lot, but if it does with you, please be gentle with yourself. : so what i'm trying to say it; use that feeling of shame and disapointment as a fuel, a motivation. The big “why”.

ALTER EGOOOSSSS. this helps SOOOO MUCH its so underrated. embody the energy of your fav people who are the academic inspiration you wanna be! example: rory gilmore, paris geller, elle woods, blair waldorf, etc etc! not only is this so helpful but it also makes it so much more fun and easier!!

parent yourself. i used to tell myself to do stuff like "go study now!" or "get up lazy-butt" but in my mind. but what if you tried to say those stuff out loud to yourself? it just creates a whole new level of real. So start telling yourself to do stuff out loud.

honestly just start. stop letting yourself think about how "uncomfortable" and how "annoying" it will be. All you need to know is that you need to get it done. Right? Ok. So now what’s the next smallest step you can take to getting to do the unwanted task? It may be taking out your material, opening your book, etc.

( !! tough love, but very important rant coming up)

You privileged brat. Your parents gave up EVERYTHING so you could have the education that you are having. They worked so so hard for YOU. So YOU can have the life you want. And all for what? Just for you to throw it all away and say “oh im lazy”. HELL NAH.

And also, do you realise how fortunate you are to be even living in such a time/ era where you have access to basically EVERYTHING? You’re stuck on something? You could easily search it up!! And whats more is that you can further learn. You can search up and find out more about the thing that you’re studying, become the smartest person in your class, get so ahead in life. I hope you realise that if you do use all the resources and materials and help that’s been given to you, just imagine how far you could go! Further than Albert Einstine, Elon Musk, etc. you may be like “what! No that’s gonna be too hard!” But did they have the tools that you have right at your hand? No! They made it all the way with just simple stuff and having to work super hard. But you live in a time where you can do TWICE as much without working as hard!!

And one more thing, QUIT WHINING. “Oh school is so hard!” “Oh school is so boring!” Like whattt???? You are so FORTUNATE and LUCKY to be even getting access to such education! MILLIONS of kids out there would kill to be able to learn what you are so easily dismissing right now. So TAKE ADVANTAGE OF WHAT YOU HAVE. Put your ALL, your very BEST into studying and getting good grades because THAT is whats gonna take you so SO far in life.

Thank you very much, *mic drop*. (i still ly pookie)

dealing with social media:

put the screen time widget on your phone home screen. i did this, and i became so embarrassed by the amount of screen time i had in one day (*cough* 12 hours *cough*) that i made certain to stop using it as much.

screen time limits. this may or may not help you, bc i know that when i knew the screen time password, it didn't do a lot of help but when someone else did (like parents or someone you trust), then it definitely worked. this is probably only best if you're a child around under 14 ish bc thats around the age when most parents put screen time limits + after that age you're gonna be a lot more independent.

more *extremely* helpful resourses:

tips to decrease your phone screen time by @imbusystudying

how to reduce your screen time in the digital age? (an article)

studying tips from a straight-A student by @universalitgirlsblog2

how to study like paris geller by @4theitgirls

more blogs i recomend:

@elonomhblog @mindfulstudyquest @study-diaries @thatbitchery

xoxo, vanilla

[magicaa777]

I have my ideal, sexiest, stunning, beautiful, body. I am the most beautiful, gorgeous person I've ever seen.I am so perfect and to my ideal standards.I have my ideal appearance.

Above all, I am healthy and I am so grateful. 🙏🏼

[phoenixcatch7]

Persephone captain marvel au. Hear me out.

Associated with duality, reincarnation, resurrection, childhood innocence (and it getting ripped away by adults), and her 'counterpart' Kore, which is her in her returning aspect of spring, youthfulness, new life... Come on. Is that not the closest thing to Billy you've ever seen in ancient Greece? Where he gets his powers?

It all starts with Teth Adam, and his devastation at the death of his son. He finds the old paths, breaks them open, and storms down into the underworld to demand him back. His is not a new story.

But where Persephone might ordinarily be inclined to ease her husband's scorn, give the troubled mourner a chance, she is speaking to the champion of magic, the world's mightiest mortal. The chance of success is too high. The challenge would not be enough. The death was too high profile and would risk too many attempting to follow in his footsteps. The man is too unstable, too powerful, too close to the heart of magic for it to be safe - for any of him - to grant his wish and risk his false hope.

They deny him.

Enraged, implacable, Teth Adam lashes out. The battle is long and drawn out, neither side tiring even as both weaken, but Persephone, in either form, is not one of war, and she is felled as her curses shatter, her furies tossed aside like dolls. The sound of Hades' scream as Adam's surprise leaves him open flattens the rubble of their throne room.

The wounded champion escapes, hounded by cerberus and skeletons instead of his son's shade, as her husband crashes to his knees beside her. She has not a mortal soul, and thus will be going where even Death cannot reach.

But Adam killed the goddess of reincarnation, and Billy has odd dreams. He's pretty sure he needs to ease up on the stress. He's restless in winter and distracted in summer, he can sleep outside in howling storms as long as he's tucked snug in the boughs of a tree, he's had the luck of never tasting a rotten fruit. Sometimes it feels like there's ghosts in his hideouts and the kids at school try and bribe him to curse their enemies.

When he chosen to be Captain Marvel the wizard chokes on his own speech when the smoke clears. They stare at each other.

"Well," says Persephone, "that was unexpected. Hullo."

"Hello," the wizard replies, "I was under the impression..."

"I don't think the laws of interference quite apply until I'm immortal again," he says.

The wizard's relief is palpable. It's understandable, he looks ready to keel over from old age. "Can I ask...?" he gestures at the new body. It takes a second to understand.

"Oh, I'm a boy now. For a while."

And that's that.

Until green lantern is killed in battle.

[qzse-rtv]

Got some shitty skullmask its so cringe i might kms over it

[grungepen]

[cigarettebabylove18]

[dollcakess]

i love god sm ✨✝️

[sofiacoppolaslut]

[lanachampion]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JACK!!!!!!!!

[a-dowryofblood]

Watching House of The Dragon like:

[astridcookie]

there comes a time in life when you have lied about your foot size a little too much and your parents will find out

[agirlwithglam]

*+:｡ 🧷📌 introducing... ┊͙ ˘͈ᵕ˘͈

✨agirlwithglam✨

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self improvement

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it girl tips

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[magicaa777]

𝑳𝒊𝒍𝒍’𝒔 MANIFESTING CLASS 101 -

In this post i will share with you all my tips and best tricks for wanting to manifest ANYTHING. Some of these tips are small and might seem insignificant but don’t let that fool you. THEY WORK.

Reminder ❗️

- these are things that work for me ! if you don’t agree with anything then keep that to yourself. thank you <3

Trick-Tip 1

journaling !!!!!!!!!

- I keep a journal that i call "everyday life/gratitude" and i try to write something small in it everyday. i always always write something about gratitude

example of what format i write in;

- someone/something i’m grateful for.

- A prayer or Angel numbers (depending on what your main belief is, i personally use both.)

- i draw some cute little things that make me happy

- finally i write something i want. BUT instead of saying "I want this, I want that" i say " I already have this, I already have that".

Trick-Tip 2

BELIEVING I ALREADY HAVE IT!

now, if you want to manifest something you must STOP saying stuff with "want" in it.

if you constantly want want want.. your going to get it but not now. because you want it it’s going to come eventually but not instantly.

when your manifesting or saying affirmations start by saying "have" if you start believing you already have it then you do.

Trick-Tip 3

MY YOUTUBE PLAYLIST!

this playlist has taken me quite a while to create but it has some of THE MOST !!!!! helpful videos about manifesting.

some of my favourites from this playlist

- How i manifested my mans - Anila Sita 101

- If you’re ready to give up on manifesting, this is for you. - Here Nor There

- Law of attraction… You’re doing it WRONG - Adonis Bjornson

- How we manifest - terrycolewhittaker

Trick-Tip 4

I often listen to vibration frequencies, it helps me calm down and helps my higher self focus on my manifestations

One of my all time favourites!

Trick-Tip 5

Believe Believe Believe.

You must believe ANYTHING can/will happen to/for you.

i know it’s so hard sometimes to imagine your dream life and it’s actually your reality now when your reality is … not so the same. i understand but please when i say BELIEVE. believe in yourself and believe in how powerful you are !

You are so powerful and you CAN do anything. you CAN manifest anything/anyone.

BELIEVE ! ♡︎

yours truly, 𝑳𝒊𝒍𝒍 .

[multi-kpop-fanfics]

I am so sick of pledis and shua himself gatekeeping his hotness. Especially during rock with you and hot era. Like come on.

at first I read "I'm so sick of pledis and shua himself" and I was like what the hell did I miss😭😭

[art3mistic]

ever since i was a child i wanted to be like the “other woman” type, however i didn’t want the affair part. it was just the thought of being the pretty woman instead of the wife character. Now I don’t believe that neither character is good or bad, nor the husband, i just want to be that vibe or something. idk what really, i feel as though this is kinda exploiting me a bit but idk. i really just dont know. 

if it’s bad then sue me but probably no one would read or find this. 

the movie and book The Age of Innocence is a good example, I’d rather be a little like Countess Olenska rather than May Welland.