let virgin godesses/eternal maidens be virgin godesses and eternal maidens !!!!
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this year my challenge for everyone is to unlearn the association between love and morality. love is not something that is inherently morally good, and the absence of love is not something that is inherently bad. sex without love isn't morally bankrupt, it's just an action. people without love aren't less kind or less good, they're just people. when we can get past this false (and often unnoticed) dichotomy of good love/evil lovelessness then i think we are going to be able to take leaps and bounds in sex positivity, aro advocacy, certain discussions of mental health...
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NO NO NO WERE ARE NOT DOING THIS RIZ IS ARO ACE HE DOES NOT HAVE A CRUSH ON ANYONE
I WILL PUT YOU IN A ROOM WITH GREEN HEAVEN PLAYING ON REPEAT UNTIL YOU STOP WITH THE RIZ SHIPPING
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Does officer roosevelt get the straight pride or what
Because he's a fantasy cop, yes lol
but also lol
this guy wants nothing to do with nobody
Buy your local Bitrans Man a Kofi!
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tldr; i don't like how even within the aspec community we still associate validity/humanity with ability to feel love
i love being part of the aspec community for the most part . but one thing that always frustrates me is how we tend to throw each other under the bus when trying to claim that our lack of attraction is valid,,
like. a common sentiments i see are "aces are valid cause we still feel romantic love :D we aren't heartless!!" or "aros are valid cause we still feel platonic love :D we aren't heartless !!" and i understand where they come from but it frustrates the hell out of me! for 2 reasons:
1) why do we have to defend our humanity!! what the hell!! terfs aren't gonna see this and be like "oh yeah that makes sense i respect aspec people now !" they're gonna scroll past!! or worse, argue it!! who are you trying to convince!!!
2) why. do we tie our humanity to love..?? like. yayy positivity but why are we excluding ppl from our own damn community???? ive seen SO many posts that wholly exclude me & many others bc apparently love makes people human. like even if it's temporary & even if it's not, loveless / aplatonic people are valid!!
sorry for the rant & i understand that ppl just want to spread positivity but i don't think we should do it by excluding others ^_^
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The current AroAce mood is being frustrated that I can’t talk about characters I like without someone trying to make it sexual or romantic.
When I’m admiring a character, I’m obsessed with their design, looking at them like they’re art in a museum. I’m obsessed with the way the design elements can hint towards a deeper meaning. I’m obsessed with the fact they look good.
It just drives me up the wall that people immediately assume I have sexual or romantic intentions. No, I’m obsessed with them in a purely platonic sense and your assumptions sicken me.
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Hellooooooo! For your pride art requests, could we please see the daycare attendant with the aroace flag? I feel like Sun or Moon would look great with that palette.
I couldn't decide which one to draw, so I decided to draw them both(?)
(Requests are open :D)
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i think interpreting dynamics that dont have any canon basis to be familial as familial is totally fine but a) you cannot act like this is canon fact and, in tandem with that, b) you cannot attack people for interpreting it differently. believe me i am all for killing people who sexualize ACTUAL familial/familial-coded dynamics with knives but you have got to understand that just bcuz these two characters are friends does not mean they are siblings and it does not mean you get to get mad at others when they inevitably ship them
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Saw a post of a sex repulsed person being incredibly respectful about kink at pride and expressing how people say they don't belong at pride but then give no alternatives that help them find queer spaces that are safe for them, especially in rural places, and the replies just... Y'all REALLY hate repulsed ppl don't you? Like genuinely the queer community HATES us. The replies had ppl insinuating op was homophobic or sex negative all because they asked for a place where they could feel comfortable. At no point in their post did they say kink was bad or didn't belong at pride all they asked is that if they, a sex repulsed person, was not allowed at pride then where are they to go?
This is a question that never gets taken seriously by the queer community because they hate the idea that someone dislikes sex. They take our feelings as a personal attack on them and their sexuality. When all we want is a space for us. We are trying to find our own space like we are told but we get met with aggression when we try to do that. They hate the idea of a space that doesn't allow sex. They hate a space that doesn't allow them. It's all "Pride is for everyone" until it's repulsed people. Then it's " no where in the queer community is for you. You don't belong here"
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https://www.tumblr.com/oilith/756685882611924992/in-your-pinned-post-it-says-queerphobes-dni-so-i
Sorry for the late reply. The person who made the orange/blue flag is a queerphobe who thinks lesbians can be men (cis or trans) or be attracted to men, which is literally not true. It’s lesbiphobic bc lesbians aren’t men and aren’t attracted to men, and it’s transphobic bc saying a trans man can be a lesbian is saying they aren’t a real man. That’s the issue with it.
Yeah no. Genderfluid, bigender, etc. lesbians who identify as male (cis or trans) exist. Identity is complicated and sometimes contradictory, and gatekeeping labels is just stupid, and helps no one. Imo, it's very much a live and let live situation and i won't argue further.
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i'm rly trying to grasp the perspective of aphobia from within our own community but it just isn't fathomable to me. like how can you oppress a group like this after being oppressed yourself? it makes us on the aro or ace spectrum feel unwanted in a place we're supposed to be safe and that fucking sucks. we just wanna live and be supported by the people around us and instead we're being told we don't belong in our own community. you can't take that away just because we don't fit the exact type of different you are. that's just as bigoted a line of thinking as the people who oppress you. i'm actually begging y'all to take a step back and actually think abt it because it shouldn't be this hard to accept people.
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twt users insane … wdym mona isnt canonically aroace she told me herself source you can trust me
LITERALLY she is so aroace 2 me and moge Did point out she wont be gettinf a love interest soon (or probably ever for that matter) so huge win on that end too
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