#life truth

[l-u-v-l-y]

May you never again get attached to anyone who isn’t for you. May you find a love who makes you laugh, never lets the flirting phase end, and gives you unquestionable loyalty. You deserve a love that calms your heart, mind, and nervous system — a love that never hurts you.

[dreamsofhannah2]

𝓓𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓶𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓗𝓪𝓷𝓷𝓪𝓱 2

[neverluckygoldfish]

Walt Whitman

[zostac-soba]

Życzę tobie abyś znalazł/a osobę, która zrobi herbatę gdy źle się czujesz, która cię przytuli po ciężkim dniu, zrobi obiad kiedy nie będziesz miał/a siły. Takiej osoby na dzień dobry i dobranoc, przy której ten dzień i ta noc będzie naprawdę dobry. Która poprostu będzie obok mimo wszystko.

Tego życzę każdemu...

[eyeonpalestine]

[thunderon]

i was in the library and the lights went out and i whispered “dark academia” and only one person laughed but ive been having a bad enough week that it felt like a win so cheers

[letsberealgenz]

The BIGGEST regret of my life 🥹😏

[r3arv13wm1rr0r]

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[destiny2shine]

Kuch keh gayh...kuch seh gayh,

Kuch keh teh keh teh reh gayh,

Mai sahi aur tum galath ke chakkarh mein nadjane kitne rishte behgayh.

(Translation: Somethings were said..some were tolerated. Somethings were left unsaid. In battle between "i'm right and you're wrong", so many relationships fell apart.)

[itsbydevanshi]

30 things to remember when you turn 30 (that no one told you)- Exclusively for women -[Part 1]

Turning 30 is not a joke. You enter a phase where things turn differently, pivoting to something you never expected or imagined. So read on to find out what are the 30 things that you must know after turning 30. Some of them you might have heard of but I’m damn sure that you’ll find something very hurtful yet useful in this blog. Is 30 really that serious? Hell yeah! I’m not saying you have to…

[dreamsofhannah2]

𝓓𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓶𝓼 𝓸𝓯 𝓗𝓪𝓷𝓷𝓪𝓱 2

[neverluckygoldfish]

31 -

Something I’ve been thinking about lately: we really aren’t in control of anything. Life is going to happen, people are going to people. I think having a false sense of control, a false sense of ego - this is our ultimate hubris.

Why do we care so much about the opinions of others? They never have the full story.

I recognize I speak from a place of privilege and not everyone has the same opportunities or freedom to choose.

If you think about it, we are all so wrapped up in our own heads. No one, NO ONE, is thinking about me as much or in the same way I think about myself. It’s a double-edged sword: we don’t really matter to anyone else as much as we matter to ourselves. It’s a lonely thought. At the same time, it’s so freeing. Those humiliating moments, those mistakes & regret we hang onto and let color everything we think about ourselves moving forward - people aren’t thinking about them the way we do. In fact, I’d venture to say that most of the time, they may not even remember.

Example: I went to a meeting with my good friend while I was visiting my mom. He’s in recovery and he brought up this time that he was being irresponsible & drove over my foot with his car and I was so angry at him. I can’t even recall that happening. Same thing - I brought up this time that he was telling me how broken he felt and I condescendingly told him “well if you know there’s a problem, then go fix it - maybe you just don’t care enough to”. Lol not my most empathetic moment. He barely remembers that conversation.

Everyone is living their own reality. I’m coming to realize truth and fact are not the same - truth is actually incredibly subjective. It’s dependent on the individual and their perception/their beliefs can skew it. It’s like when two people look at the same picture and feel something different. Or when two people are asked to recreate a work of art and their creations are different from each other, in addition to being different from the original. Similar, but not exactly the same.

Wealth, status, power - these are all social constructs. These are ideas. Who came up with them? Certainly not a higher being, but another human before our time. I won’t delve into this too much, but none of it really matters in the long run. That fancy car, being a CEO, being with someone “out of your league” - it won’t give you the validation you seek. It won’t add or take away from who you are, what your intrinsic values are.

So what to do with all of this? Still trying to figure it out but I think it boils down to - do whatever the fuck you want. No one cares, no one’s looking at you (if they are, they’re looking at themselves in you - projecting). This is life, we all get one shot, so don’t be afraid. Acknowledge your past but don’t let it consume you. Every day is a new day, a new opportunity, to: do what you love, say what you feel, start again, change the future.

I’m sitting on a plane to go back home & I’ve had a bit of caffeine lol.

[kaeelom4now]

I think adults need to go outside and play more.

[bouncinghedgehoghasattitude]

[eyeonpalestine]

BREAKING: Israel is currently bombing Syria’s capital city of Damascus, targeting residential areas.

Within a single day alone, Israel has dropped bombs Gaza, South Lebanon and Syria.

This is not victim behavior.

This is terrorism.

[something-sweet-n-spicy]