#neu aplatonic

[allegoriesandepithets]

Large Pixel Size Neu A- Flags

[PT: Large Pixel Size Neu A- Flags]

Neu Ace ~ Neu Aro

Neu Apl ~ Neu Aqp

Neu Analt ~ Neu Asen ~ Neu Anae

Definition: One who is on the a- [attraction type] spectrum, who is neutral on other allo- [attraction type] and a- [attraction type] spectrums.

All credit goes to @ryanyflags, these are basically just higher quality versions of their flags. I did slightly change the colors of the apl and aqp flags, as well as switching the top two colors of the aqp flag.

All flags are 3000x2000 pixels.

@tertiary-attraction-archive @orientation-archive @radiomogai @liom-archive @imoga-pride

[ryanyflags]

Aplatonic (apl for short) flags part 1 :3 ⭐️ (This set uses yellow, there's another set that uses green+blue+purple for apl instead.) (Due to the image limit, this is split into 4 posts.)

I noticed some a-spec flags were missing tertiary counterparts, so I made some. Some of these flags have already been made before, so they're not all original (I still wanted to have all the flags together in a set, and all in the same res).

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greyplatonic | demiplatonic | aegoplatonic

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non sam apl (1) | non sam apl (2) | neu apl

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aplvoid | aplflux | aplspike (1)

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aplspike (2) | apljump | dark greyplatonic

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light greyplatonic | atomoplatonic | delloplatonic

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fictoplatonic | cupioplatonic | bellusplatonic

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reciproplatonic | lithoplatonic (1) | lithoplatonic (2)

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frayplatonic (1) | frayplatonic (2) | apothiplatonic

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orchidplatonic | myrplatonic | aplflexible

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I'll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the "platonic", "aplatonic", & "apl" part being interchangeable. This isn't applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, greyplatonic can also be called greyaplatonic and greyapl.

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[A-spec flag sets masterpost]

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

[ID: Six pixel hearts of various flags in order being Neutral Aro, Alt A-Aesthetic, Affectionaro, two loveless Aplatonic flags and Heartless Aplatonic. End ID]

[floral-atom-collective]

TONE TAG MASTER POST

/srs - serious or not joking

/nsrs - not serious

/j - joking or kidding

/hj - half joking

/ref - reference

/nf - not fake or not forced

/gen - genuine

/pos - positive

/neg - negative

/aff - affectionate

/vpos - very positive

/s or /sarc - sarcastic or sarcasm

/lh - light-hearted

/genq - genuine question

/nm - not mad

/p or /plat - platonic

/r or /rom - romantic

/neu - neutral

/lyr - lyrics

/nbh - nobody here

/ij - inside joke

/t - teasing or teasingly

/q - quote

/c - copypasta

/f - fake

/rh or /rt - rhetorical question

/sx or /x - sexual connotation

/nsx or /nx - non sexual connotation

/th - threat

/cb - clickbait

/ma - manifesting

/lu - a little upset

/nay - not at you

/ay - at you

/hyp - hyperbole

/ot - off topic

/apl - aplatonic

/quo - quote

/silly - silly!

/nav - not a vent

feel free to link this in posts as explanation if needed!

[aroapl]

Shoutout to ALL aromantics! To aroaces, aroallos, neu aros, nonsam aros. To loveless aros and heartless aros. To lovequeer aros, lovelustic aros, arolovic aros. To aplatonic aros, afamilial aros, analterous aros. To nonaesthetic aros, asensual aros, anattractional aros. To aroqueers, unit aros, primaros. To romo aros, partnering aros, polyamorous aros. To nonpartnering aros and nonamorous aros. To polyplatonic and polyerosis aros. To romance favorable, romance indifference, romance averse, romance repulsed, and romance ambivalent aros. To arospecs of all kinds and questioning aros. To aros who love being aro and aros who still have a hard time with it. To aros that are out, loud, and proud, and aros that are closeted. To gay aros, straight aros, bi aros, and aros of every identity under the sun! To aros all over the world! Shoutout to aros!! You're all so wonderful!

[bloomshroomz]

Reworking the A/Grey/Allo/Orchid Attraction System

As it stands currently, the a-spectrum encompasses any identity involving little or no attraction. This includes all grey orientations by default. The allo spectrum is treated as less of a spectrum, but more of a term for people who aren’t a-spec or grey. I think that this ultimately ends up being confusing, and could use some reworking.

(Some people might be getting a little anxious about where I'm going with this, especially if you're greysexual/demisexual/etc, so I want to make it clear right away: This rework is not designed to invalidate or exclude you.)

I keep seeing the a-spec get stretched to encompass more and more experiences, such as meneromantic: a term for people who experience romantic attraction easily, but prefer not to act on it unless they think their crush will reciprocate… Which just describes how most alloromantic people approach their attraction.

This was described as an “aro-spec” orientation, and as an aromantic person, I feel like that misses the point of the spectrum completely. I admit, it is a pretty niche term, and isn’t the end of the world, but it’s a symptom of a larger problem.

It’s becoming clear, at least to me, that people are unsure how to draw the line between a-spec and allo, due to the subjectivity of what “little attraction” even is, to the point of both terms becoming less meaningful over time. I don’t even know where I’m supposed to fit among those terms myself, at least when it comes to sexual attraction. I’ve actually opted not to label my sexuality largely for that reason; it’s why I’m a neu aro.

So I wanted to take a shot at proposing a change. Not for the sake of excluding or assimilating, but for the sake of making attraction/orientations more easy to navigate and explore, especially for people who are questioning. I made an effort to make this rework as inclusive as possible, while also being much more clearly understood. If you experience attraction and identify as a-spec, don’t worry! The rework still includes you; it just includes you in terms which are easier to define.

A-spec

The a-spectrum, under the rework, includes any identity which is defined by zero attraction, as well as experiences adjacent to that. In other words, if a person experiences absolutely no sexual attraction, no romantic attraction, and/or no tertiary attraction, they are a-spec. This includes:

Asexual: Experiencing zero sexual attraction, or having an adjacent experience to this.

Aromantic: Experiencing zero romantic attraction, or having an adjacent experience to this.

Aplatonic: Experiencing zero platonic attraction, or having an adjacent experience to this.

Cupio: Experiencing zero (sexual/romantic/platonic/etc.) attraction, but desiring a relationship commonly associated with that attraction anyway. For example, desiring a sexual relationship as an asexual person.

Apothi: Experiencing zero (sexual/romantic/platonic/etc.) attraction, and feeling repulsed by relationships and/or activities associated with that attraction. For example, being asexual and sex-repulsed.

Icula: Experiencing zero (sexual/romantic/platonic/etc.) attraction, but being open to relationships/activities commonly associated with that attraction anyway. For example, being asexual and open to sex.

Etc.

“Experiences adjacent to that” refers to anyone who doesn’t necessarily experience zero attraction, but still:

Feels strongly represented by a-spec identities/experiences.

Strongly relates to a-spec identities/experiences.

Needs access to a-spec resources, communities, and support.

Finds it easy, useful, and/or helpful to identify as a-spec, especially as opposed to not identifying as a-spec.

Finds one’s attraction to be irrelevant to one’s life, either because it’s so vague or infrequent that it has no impact, because one has negative interest in acting on it, or because one’s attraction otherwise has no relevance.

Note that “experiencing little attraction” is not a qualifier on its own, because what’s “little” is entirely subjective, and can be incredibly difficult to define. Note that you do not have to check each bullet point in the list above to be a-spec; just one is enough.

Greysexuality, greyromanticism, etc. can be a-spec, but these identities are not a-spec by default. It depends on the individual, their own experiences, and how they define/feel about their own identity.

Grey-spec

The grey spectrum, under the rework, includes any identity which doesn’t fit neatly into an a-or-allo binary. This includes:

People who aren’t sure whether they’re a-spec or allo-spec.

People who resonate with both a-spec and allo-spec identities/experiences.

People who resonate with neither a-spec nor allo-spec identities/experiences.

People whose identities are in constant flux, and thus difficult or impossible to pinpoint as a-spec or allo-spec.

People who fit into the a-spec category, but feel like the a-spec category is still insufficient in some way.

People who fit into the allo-spec category, but feel like the allo-spec category is still insufficient in some way.

People who feel like they fit somewhere between “experiencing attraction” and “not experiencing attraction” in some way.

Anyone else who can’t or won’t fit themselves into an a-or-allo binary.

Greysexuality, greyromanticism, etc. can be a-spec and/or allo-spec, but these identities are not either by default. It depends on the individual, their own experiences, and how they define/feel about their own identity.

I think this is a much needed change, not just because this is easier to define than figuring out what “little attraction” means, but because grey-specs don’t always want to be pigeonholed into being a-spec by default. It is a grey area, after all.

Allo-spec

The allo spectrum, under the rework, includes any identity in which one experiences attraction, no matter how much or how little. This includes:

People who experience little attraction.

People who experience a moderate amount of attraction.

People who experience a lot of attraction.

I’ve decided to include all experiences of present attraction in this spectrum because it can be extremely hard (or impossible) to quantify how much attraction you experience in comparison to other people. If you experience attraction, it isn’t necessarily going to be clear whether you experience a lot or a little or something between. Including all present attraction under the allo-spec, no matter the amount, makes it much easier to define where you fall within these spectra.

Greysexuality, greyromanticism, etc. can be allo-spec, but these identities are not allo-spec by default. It depends on the individual, their own experiences, and how they define/feel about their own identity.

Orchid-spec

This is an additional spectrum for people who experience attraction, but do not want to act on that attraction. For example, an orchidsexual person experiences sexual attraction, but does not want to have sex under any circumstances.

I didn’t come up with this spectrum, but I’ve decided to include it here, because a person may feel that orchid-spec is the only spectrum that feels relevant to their experience, with a/grey/allo being completely irrelevant or inapplicable. Though, a person may resonate with orchid-spec in addition to other spectra, which is also valid!

Overlapping spectra

All spectra within this proposed system can overlap in some instances.

For example, if a person experiences attraction, but feels strongly represented by a-spec identities, they could be a combination of a-spec, grey-spec, and allo-spec. They might identify with one spectrum more than the others, but they would be included in all three.

As another example, a person may fall under all four spectra, because:

Their attraction is irrelevant to them, so they identify as a-spec.

They relate to both a-spec and allo-spec, so they identify as grey-spec.

They experience attraction, so they identify as allo-spec.

They don’t want to act on their attraction, so they identify as orchid-spec.

A person might also identify as both grey-spec and a-spec, but not allo-spec, because they don’t know whether they experience attraction or not, but they relate to a-spec identities and experiences.

Another person might fall under both allo-spec and grey-spec, but not a-spec, because they experience attraction, but feel that the allo-spec is insufficient to describe their identity, while also not resonating with the a-spec at all.

These are just a few examples of how spectra could possibly overlap. There are other ways that these spectra could be combined which have not been listed here.

And of course, it's up to you how you identify! I just wanted to propose a system which (hopefully) makes attraction easier to understand and navigate.

[mouthwilloing]

Polle Says ... Mystic Flour Cookie Mocktail + Painkillers !

⟣ requested by anon ! waah tysm for this request ... we're collectively fictkin of her so this one was rlly rlly fun ahehe !! hope u enjoy :) ⟢

Name

Misty , Alice , Lowen , Merritt , Wynn , Apolline , Alexandra , Aurelia , Eleanor , Ivanna , Adara , Daria , Clara , Grace , Emmeline , Serenity , Caroline , Victoria , Helena , Adelle , Ivory

Pronouns

she / her , shy / hyr , they / them , it / its , ix / ixs , x / x , no / nos , fog / fogs , mist / mists , apathy / apathys , ivory / ivorys , web / webs , silk / silks , 🌫️ / 🌫️s , ⚜️ / ⚜️s , 🕸️ / 🕸️s , 🕷️ / 🕷️s

Age

immortal (presents 30-50)

Species

humanoid , cookie

Gender

fem , neu , genderfluid , agender , apathflux , whiteglitric , mistgender

Attraction

straightbian , omnisexual , aromantic , asexual , aplatonic , afamilial

Role

apathy holder , rationalizer , apathy manager , guardian , cassmate , buffer , intimidator

Likes

silence , meditation , dogs , water

Dislikes

not being thanked , their work being overlooked , greedy people

Interests

history , psychology , thanatology

Personality (simple)

quiet , apathetic (SHOCKING!!!) , sarcastic , definition of "mr obvious" , acts stupid to piss off ppl they don't like

Moodboard

[losergendered]

ID: a set of 60 images in 30 pairs. each has one image of the listed character from futurama with a white outline in front of their corresponding flags, and a second image which is a blank flag splice. END ID

Philip J. Fry from Futurama is a bipan nonbinary man with autism, ADHD, and PTSD that uses he/they!

His girlfriend is Leela, a transgender, intersex, aceflux woman that uses she/her and xe/xem! She has autism, ADHD, anxiety and PTSD!

Philip's nephew, Professor Hubert J. Farnsworth, is a bisexual man with synthesia who is neurodivergent! Philip is his 30-times great uncle!

Philip's best friend is Bender, a bisexual robot with autism, NPD, HPD, and depression that is okay with being addressed with he/him!

Amy Wong is a straight demigirl who is autistic, has an eating disorder, and is hypersexual! She goes by zi/her!

Her boyfriend is Kif, a genderfae, paraboy, aliengender, asexual, bi straight, ply straight alien with anxiety, PTSD, and autism! Kif goes by any neutral-based masculine pronouns!

Hermes Conrad is an omni straight, omniflux man with OCD and anxiety!

He is married to LaBarbara, an intersex, nonbinary woman who is a straight sex-favorable asexual! She is also polyamorous!

Their son is Dwight Conrad, who is a trans boy that is gay and questioning his romantic orientation!

He is best friends with Hubert's son, Cubert, who is a pansexual boy!

Hubert is close friends with John F. Zoidberg, an abrosexual, omnipan, straight, AMAB, transmasc decapodian that is autistic and has OCD, depression and ADHD!

Calculon is a heteroflexible, quoiflux, bifluid manbot that is neurodivergent!

Linda van Schoonhoven is a butch-femme, trans lesboy that uses she/xi/he, is autistic and has depression!

Xi is friends with Morbo, an aroace, bi turian, aplatonic alien with bipolar disorder!

Randy Munchnik is a femme, trans gay man with autism!

Hubert's rival, Professor Ogden Wernstrom, is a polysexual man with synthesia!

Hurbert ex-lover, Carol Miller, who also goes by "Mom," is a frayromantic, asexual woman with NPD and bipolar disorder!

Her eldest son, Walt, is trans and gay!

Walt's young brother, Larry, is agender and uranic!

Their younger maternal half-brother, Igner, is xenogender and marsic!

All three brothers are autistic!

Leela's parents, Turanga Morris and Munda, are both intersex, genderless, T4T mutants!

Yivo is an agender, genderless, abrosexual, polyamorous being! Shklee's sexuality is fluid between omnipan, omnisexual, pansexual, omniflux, panflux, pan gaybian, omni gaybian, mesque, and violenatian! Yivo's pronouns are shklee/shkler!

Roberto is a demiboy, masculine, demisexual, trans manbot who is gay and uses he/it! Roberto has psychosis, is schizospec, has PTSD, is autistic and has ADHD!

The Donbot is a mafiacoric, libramasculine straight manbot! The

Donbot's wife, Fanny, is a sex-ambivalent, high femme, asexual heteroromantic fembot!

Their daughter, Bella, is a nonbinary, femme, dyke, straightbian, lesboy who uses feminine and neutral pronouns!

Joey Mousepad is a demisexual, genderqueer, fag, gay manbot who is dyslexic, has ADHD and uses he/xe/they!

His colleague/friend is Francis X. "Clamps" Clampazzo, who is nonbinary, an azurenby, butch, masculine, toric, and gay! He is auDHD, dyslexic, bipolar, has PTSD, and uses they/he/xe/she pronouns!

The Robot Devil is a transmascfem, trans/FTM, transsexual, GNC, genderfluid, aroacespec, frayromantic, greyromantic, nebaeromantic, demisexual, demiT4T, ambiamorous, femme, masculine, turigirl, gay man! He is pronounfluid depending on what his gender is and goes by the name "Bee" which is short for Beelzebot! He uses he/him for when masc presenting, she/her for fem presenting, they/them for neutral presenting, no pronouns for no gender presenting, they/he for masc/neu presenting, they/she for fem/neu presenting, he/she for masc/fem presenting, and all pronouns for masc/fem/neu/non-gender presentation! He has autism, BPD, anxiety, PTSD and hypersexuality!

For @transsexual-jackskellington !

[pride-flag-planets]

Masterpost pt 1

Individual pieces

‼️‼️ A lot of these are old and don’t represent my current skill level. I am 100% willing to re-do any of the drawings I’ve already made to make them better ‼️‼️

Key:

🪐 #pride flag planets 🐠 #queer koi 🫙 #pride potions 🌳 trees ☁️ clouds/fog 👾#arcade rug 🌼 #mandala ❓IDK how to categorize these

��Abrosexual

👾Abrosexual

🐠Achillean

🫙Achillean

🪐Agender

🐠Aplatonic

🪐Aro Neu/Neu Aro

🪐Aroace

🌳Aromantic

👾Aromantic

🌼Aromantic

🪐Asexual

🌳Asexual

☁️Asexual

🫙Asexual

❓Asexual

🌼Asexual

🪐Autosexual

🐠Autospec

🪐Bigender

🪐Bisexual (no rings)

🪐Bisexual (with rings)

🫙Bisexual

👾Bisexual

🐠Demiboy

🐠Demigirl

👾Emojiself neopronouns

🪐Faeflux

🐠Gay (mlm)

🐠Genderfluid

🪐Genderfluid

🫙Genderfluid

👾Genderfluid

🪐Genderqueer (no rings)

🪐Genderqueer (rings)

🪐Girlboy

🪐Intersex

🪐Lesbian

👾Nebularomantic

🐠Nonbinary

🪐Nonbinary

🐠Omnisexual

🪐Pansexual

🐠Pansexual

🐠Papyrusromantic

🪐Polyamorus

🐠Polyamorus

🪐Queerplatonic Relationship / QPR

🐠Queerplatonic Relationship / QPR

🐠Quoiromantic / WTFromantic

🐠Sapphic

🪐Transfem

🪐Transfemmasc

🐠Transgender

🪐Transgender

🫙Transgender (corked)

🫙Transgender (pouring)

🌼Transgender

👾Transgender

🪐Transmasc

Fandom

(Probably won’t make a lot of these)

Generation Loss: Showfall Media supports all of our viewers

Deepwoken: Asexual Sharko

Deepwoken: Genderfluid Sharko

[aroclan]

i read sounds fake but okay (the book, authored by the podcasters) and it does not cover anyone allo aro. it also has no awareness of loveless aros, non-sam aros, or apl aros. it even includes a "what makes us human is... love! of all kinds!!" section to finish up the book.

tl;dr: this is, first and foremost, a book about asexuality, by an asexual and a demisexual. to broaden their perspective, they surveyed/interviewed ace and acespec people for additional quotes. throwing in the greens on the cover, and having separate aro and ace flags as the section break within chapters, makes it promise something it never delivers.

i also checked their podcast, which is how i found out this book is one year old (as of recording an episode for release on 25 Feb 2024), meaning the writing process itself probably happened in 2022. given the lack of perspective, i had not expected it to be so recent.

(going to cut the rest of this because it is long)

the focus on and centering of asexuality while borrowing a bit of the aromantic symbols seems rude at best for people who are clearly aware of the difference between aro and ace. they discuss the split attraction model early on, and they consistently use aspec, acespec, and arospec accurately. oh, and they happen to run what might be the biggest aspec podcast (as in, the only podcast I could name if someone asked me, "are there aspec podcasts?")

i also noticed that alterous attraction rates a mere footnote with a brief definition (and that definition is "between platonic and romantic") when one person being quoted used it. somehow, this doesn't come up for discussion in the relationships chapter. or anywhere.

overall, i got the feeling that the authors were approached with a book deal based on their podcast, but didn't actually have much to say. or just, like, phoned it in. it's a relatively short book. it dives deep into an AITA reddit post because apparently only that one person could be found for the topic of housing. and that's a topic that would have to be revisited to pad out the final chapter.

[i wanted to know what other people thought, so i checked reviews, and the answer is: there's a lot of criticism of the authors' position that you can hate JKR but like HP. accurate and valid; i have nothing to add to that.]

i wanted to be objective, so i scanned the book again. out of 82 quotes, Phoebe gets 3, and Rai gets one. Phoebe, she/they, responded as ace but realized they were bisexual (allosexual, alloromantic, trans) afterward; Rai, they/them, included neither an acespec label nor allosexual.

ten quotes are from people who use a sexuality label other than asexual:

2 gray-ace

4 demisexual

2 aspec

1 acespec

1 aegosexual

(i didn't track individual names; Phoebe and Rai just stand out.)

so in the final accounting, five of every six quotes are from people identifying as asexual, and none are from people who are unequivocally arospec and not acespec (including loveless aros, non-sam aros, neu aros, unit aros, allosexual aros, and aplatonic aros. and yes, there is overlap between those terms, but they all have zero representation in the text.)

i want to be clear before signing off... it's not that i think everyone should know everything about our community, necessarily, but i do think that people who claim to write for the whole aspec community owe it to us to be well-informed and inclusive before publishing.

[ryanyflags]

Aplatonic (apl for short) flags part 3 :3 🍏🟩🟦🟪 (This set uses green+blue+purple, there's another set that uses yellow for apl instead.) (Due to the image limit, this is split into 4 posts.)

I noticed some a-spec flags were missing tertiary counterparts, so I made some. Some of these flags have already been made before, so they're not all original (I still wanted to have all the flags together in a set, and all in the same res).

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greyplatonic | demiplatonic | aegoplatonic (1)

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aegoplatonic (2) | non sam apl (1) | non sam apl (2)

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neu apl | aplvoid | aplflux

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aplspike (1) | aplspike (2) | apljump

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dark greyplatonic | light greyplatonic | atomoplatonic

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delloplatonic | fictoplatonic | cupioplatonic

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bellusplatonic | reciproplatonic | lithoplatonic

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frayplatonic (1) | frayplatonic (2) | apothiplatonic

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orchidplatonic | myrplatonic | aplflexible

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I'll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the "platonic", "aplatonic", & "apl" part being interchangeable. This isn't applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, greyplatonic can also be called greyaplatonic and greyapl.

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[A-spec flag sets masterpost]

[beepidybeepidy]

Sometimes it feels weird to be aroace, possibly aplatonic, and also objectum.

Like, I like objects, but attraction is genuinely so weird for us and it makes it very confusing !!/neu

-Blurry :((

[ijustwannamakeemojis]

requests : aplatonic (purple blue green cream flag), loveless apl, heartless apl, plato repulsed, lovelustic aro, sexuromantic, attentionpunk, and affectionaro (all the flags other than apl and loveless apl (as someone else made those flags) can be found on entropy-terms, our sideblog if you have trouble finding them by searching) , and also non sam aro and neu aro (sorry if any are repeats of ones youve made), oh and apothiplatonic (purple blue green cream version) flag by ryanyflags !

Okay! So we think we got all of em done, honestly not entirely sure because we had a little trouble reading this /nm so if we missed some let us know! But everything should be posted today and tomorrow aside from non sam aro which was posted here <-link

[the-seventh-hound]

Proper list of my ID ‘ s below the cut finally . Use them against me in asks ( hot ) or something I don ‘ t know :

TRANS - IDS :

Catholic ( Roman Catholic specifically )

AAL experiment victim

MKULTRA victim

Brainwashed

programmed

owned

housewife

autopsied

amputee ( specifically one of my legs )

DPD

OCD

Service dog

lobotomized

cult leader

influencer

slasher

virtual / digital

cannibal / cannibalized

torturer / tortured

Lobotomized

Kuru

Cocaine addict

Kidnapper

Veil

DBMC / TBMC victim

Medical torture victim

Stigmata

younger sibling

consang relationship

PERMA - IDS :

Hypnotized

1950 ‘ s - 1970 ‘ s

Adored

In love

Teary eyed

Final girl

Hunting

Teenaged ( 17 - 18 )

shota

AAM

TRIS - IDS :

Groomed

Stalker

Manipulator

Smoker

Caffeine addict

Tail , horns & wings

Mobility aid user

Delusional

Sunday ( HSR )

CIS - IDS :

Atheist / demon worshipper

BPD

NPD

Autism

Schizophrenia

Dead

Ethnically German ( Bayern region )

American

Mean - spirited

Paraphile ( necro , chrono , automasc , objecto , 1nc3st )

DID system

Otherkin ( concept of love , Whore of Babylon , Bugsnax , Jirduay , parasite , bloodborne aesthetic )

Medically fucked ( born with hypodontia , Craniosynostosis , and now experiencing joint pain , glaucoma , chronic headaches and endometriosis )

The Devil ( from the Bible )

DARL - IDS :

Necrophiliac

Gay / mlm

Harmful

Cannibal

Owner

GENDER TERMS :

FtM

lovegender

corpsegender

doggender

deadlovegender

lambthing

scaredboygender

fem - neu - presenting

masc - neu - iding

ATTRACTION IDS:

MLM / Gay

Aplatonic

Aniforesexual ( no sexual attraction to anyone but a romantic interest )

Uniromantic ( romantic interest towards one person for a long period of time / entire life )

Nebularoace ( can ‘ t tell if I experience sexual and romantic attraction or not due to neurodivergency )

Autistic 4 autistic

Trans 4 cis ( male ) ( primarily , will do trans 4 trans but almost all my romantic interests are cis . )

Nonhuman 4 human

Hypersexual / romantic ( random episodes of it . Sad )

3RD PERSON PRNS :

He

Hymn

Rot

Hæl

I / me / mine / my / myself

Artery / Arteries

NAMES :

Caine

Dogbane

Lucifer

Saleos

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[just-fnd-things]

Who is behind this Tumblr:

This is a sideblog for @fully-embracing-my-autopsy

I am a (suspected) DID system, with a number of alters, but this blog will be run by the alters our FND affects most (when they front)

Bodily 21

Those of us you'll see on this blog: Lucki (🍀🪴), Jack (♥️🦊), and Chaya (☄️🗡️) {whoever's fronting will sign-off in the tags}

Lucki: xe/it/he, queer/saturnic, genderfaun and aplatonic, ageless

Jack: they/he, aroace, agender, abrosexual, aplatonic and ambiamorous, 21

Chaya: pronouns not really known - just no feminine ones, transmasc, ageslider (15-21)

What this blog is about:

Sharing our experiences with Functional Neurological Disorder (FND)

You can also share yours in asks. Be it a vent, something positive or something neutral, or just an observation, whatever

Our DNI (and it is strict):

This is for people with FND. Whether you have done your research and think you have it (self dx, always valid), or whether you're professionally diagnosed - you are welcome here. If you are a "radqueer" or "tran-id" and call people "cis-fnd" or "trans-fnd" you are NOT welcome here. Non-traumagenic "systems" and those pro/neu, even with FND are not welcome here. Zionists are not welcome here. Ableists are not welcome here. Those who call it conversion disorder are not welcome here. Homophobes, transphobes, and any sort of queerphobia isn't welcome here. That also includes transandrophobia and interphobia and those against xenogenders and neopronouns. Those who are anti good-faith queer identities aren't welcome here (ie: transmasc transfem, bi lesbian, gaybian, etc). Anti furry and anti therians aren't welcome here. The big-3 paraphiles aren't welcome here. I'm not anti recovery, but please stay away. Racists DNI. Conservasharts and fascists DNI.

Thank you :3

[bloomshroomz]

Non-SAM aro

Non-SAM aro is a term for aromantic people who don't use the split attraction model (also known as the SAM). The split attraction model separates attraction into different labels/experiences. For example, being asexual and aromantic is an example of the split attraction model in use, because sexuality and romance are labeled separately.

Non-SAM aros don't use a separate label for their sexual orientation. They might label their sexual orientation in the same way that they label their romantic orientation (e.g. "my sexual orientation is aro"), or they might leave their sexual orientation completely unlabeled.

Non-SAM aros may or may not label their nonrose orientations separately*, as the split attraction model is most commonly used in reference to sexuality and romance specifically. It is generally accepted that non-SAM aros can use separate labels for their nonrose attraction or lack thereof. For example, a person could be an aplatonic non-SAM aro, a bisensual non-SAM aro, etc. as long as they don't label their sexuality separately.

*Nonrose is a term for attractions and orientations which are neither sexual nor romantic. This includes platonic, queerplatonic, alterous, aesthetic, sensual, etc.

Neu aro

Neu aro is a term for aromantic people whose identities are neutral on allosexuality and asexuality. The phrasing "neutral" is intentionally vague, so it may mean different things for different people.

For example, it could mean:

Being somewhere between asexual and allosexual

Existing somewhere beyond asexual and allosexual

Refusing to label yourself as asexual or allosexual

Feeling apathetic as to whether you're asexual or allosexual

Etc.

Neu aros may or may not use the split attraction model. Neu aro is also known as aro neu, and neu can be expanded to neutro or neutral.

this has probably already been done, but it popped into my brain and I had to make it so here you go

+ aroallo, non-sam aro, and neu aro variants

➹DON'T TAG THIS AS ASEXUAL/ACE OR AROACE➹