#unstable household

[unwelcome-ozian]

[witchyykitten]

[chickennuggetslover143]

i just wanna move to a new city and start a new life

[kxnma-w1fey]

I’ve never found something I can relate to so much in my life💀💀💀

[thebluelagooncompany-567]

Revy and a distraught Roberta

[the-owl-tree]

the use of sparkpelt in general is just so shitty imo. she clearly doesn’t like her father and is very aware of how he treats her mother. the fact that she feels she must protect squirrelflight from him, even in the same book we’re supposed to think squirrelflight is foolish and in the wrong for going against bramblestar speaks so many volumes it’s insane. she all but screams to us as the reader that she knows this is a domestic violence situation.

and then ashfur in bramblestar’s body sending her to be attacked by dogs… again going back to the fact that they thought he was normal at the time. even the narrative tells you that bramblestar is bad.

in a way I kind of feel like sparkpelt is the stand in for the readers who notice all the fucked up horrible shit going on but are ultimately powerless in the end.

how can anyone say or pretend this is alright

the way she puts herself between the two, constantly checks in on squirrelflight and worries about how bramblestar will treat her mother when squirrelflight does something she knows will upset him.......like it is fucking depressing and hits a little too close to home.

[khabrikii]

you cannot fix someone if they are not willing to because then no matter how much time and effort you put in, it's a waste

[whalesfall]

don't think I've ever seen the sheer level of instability (emotional, mental, literal) that growing up and living in volatile spaces will do to a mf portrayed quite as well as in the bear. the guts and the total in it you as the viewer are. moment after moment after moment going so fast that the ones where the characters become slow and communicative are like blissful reprieves that feel so long and too short in comparison to the many moments where the volatility takes over, people scream, people throw things, they cry, they panic. god the panic attacks. and the thing about the bear is that all of these characters in their cycles of abuse and instability and emotional disconnect and dissociation and anxiety and mental illness are all given such grace by the eyes of the camera and by the eyes of the viewer. never is anyone here anything but a tragedy in their own right. the pain you did unto others while you were in pain is a tragedy. the pain others did unto you is a tragedy. "please just tell me it's okay." "it's okay." <- top ten scenes I'll be thinking about forever, I think.

[frogfrog557]

My taste is not that bad-

Oh…😭😭😭😭

[sailermoon]

9 times out of 10 kids with behavior issues are the ones that need the most care and compassion how are u gonna deny them that when their world is likely unstable enough as it is

[lunasberry]

living in my family home is so exhausting.

it drains my energy, more and more.

I wish that I would be able to function normally so that I can earn money and move out.

It's going to take some time until I can move out. I'm afraid that I won't have any strength left by then.

[shittygaypornmagazine]

I honestly don't understand people who want to keep their blogs small. I, unlike them, lack this kind of modesty, due to the very specific circumstances - that has occurred to me while being raised as the eldest closeted neurodivergent sibling of an unstable household - which lead to me wishing to unleash the horrors of my thoughts on as many people as I can.

[witchyykitten]

[chickennuggetslover143]

i just dont care anymore.

[kazumasougi]

if moving out was an option….

[shyfrog-says]

How to alienate your autistic child:

- Deny them easy access to their special interests

- Play obnoxiously loud music through speakers at unpredictable intervals

- Say "because I said so" instead of giving them an actual reason

- Deny them a social life outside of the home in order to make it even more difficult for them to make friends than it already is

- Force them to eat food that makes them uncomfortable

- Punish them when they have a meltdown

And best of all:

- Do absolutely no research on autism and do not put any effort into organizing a support system for them even though you know for a fact that your child is autistic