#I am demiromantic

[theautisticfroglord]

I genuinely hate when people invalidate demiromantic/demisexual/other labels in general by saying somethin like "OMG!!!! why do these labels exist that's how every relationship is!!!!! what has this generation come to?!!?,!?!!"

some people out here are dating someone they just met two days ago. while it literally took me two whole years of getting to know someone before having a crush on them. can y'all please not find excuses to invalidate aspec/arospec people. thanks

[itsinkwell]

Tumblr how do i get a romance

[captainjackscoat]

I want to go to a gay bar

However I do not want to go to a gay bar because I do not, nor will I ever, drink alcohol. I do not particularly want to be around drunks.

So instead of a gay bar, I propose a Queer Cat Cafe.

Non allergenic cats ofc

There's a section of the cafe where the cats can't go if you don't want cats near you. That section is the library.

There are lil pride flags everywhere, even the obscure ones.

They sell pride pins for £1.50ish each at the counter.

There are LED lights.

It's autism friendly, lights can be toned down if needed and everything is neatly spaced out

You can have a sticker to write your pronouns on

Mostly queer artists/songs played

feel free to add on

[metukika]

he was feeling brave

[turtleblogatlast]

Don’t think I ever quite said what my LGBTQ+ headcanons are for the boys, so these are my current thoughts! Always changing of course but this is what I feel most strongly right now.

[demi-romantics]

If you are comfortable, feel free to put your age in the tags! But, if you are a minor, I recommend to keep such information private and only anonymously respond to the poll!

[cha-mij]

Apparently I'm a dragonfly.

Darting wings of manganese

Fly solo ‘mongst the swarm

Other colours pair, or blend

And twirl, and dance, conform.

 

To outmoded convention

Of What “always has been”

Ignoring the wings that

Circle freely, unseen.

 

Others purples have entered

The kaleidoscope dance

In harmonic singularity

Meeting only by chance

While the bonded wings dance

Their coupling operation

Their solitary companions

Fear no infatuation

 

Instead they dance together

A gamble of kinship

Purple dragonflies happy

No desire for courtship.

[aceoffangirls]

You know sometimes I doubt being on the aromantic spectrum but then I hear people talking about dating for fun or being in a relationship even if they know it won’t last and realise I would only be intrested in a romantic relationship if it would be endgame and would skip the dating aspect and just like be in love

[thedo0zyslider]

Mcyt Aro Week Day Five: Baking with BigB!! Get yourself a flag cookie

Full list below the cut, since I'll probably for to tag most of em

[aceofspaces16]

Ok as some who is under the aromatic umbrella and is experiencing having an actual crush (not gender envy I’ve made sure) I need to ask

HOW DO PEOPLE FIND THIS FUN!?

Like I am freaking out over here because my thoughts are killing me, like how is this supposed to be a good feeling

[captain-mozzarella]

Inspired by this post

They’re so in sync <3

[jollycryptid]

I am a unique type of dumbass

[a-lonely-dunedain]

a "friends with benefits" relationship but you're both asexual so the benefits exclusively consist of hand-holding and forehead kisses

[tacofriend]

Being demisexual/demiromantic is such a strange experience because you spend so much of your life in complete befuddlement as to how allosexual and alloromantic people and then if someone enters like the secret combo or some shit all of a sudden you're thrust into this new world of feelings that you never had before, and suddenly all your aro-ace friends don't understand you even though they've been the ones who have always gotten you.

I feel like it would be easier just being one extreme or the other but being demi, you live your whole life feeling fine being on your own and then someone accidentally enters a fucking cheatcode on your soul and unlocks a bunch of Feelings in you, and you've gotta flip the coin of whether or not this person who has been your friend for at least a year is ok with these sudden feelings, and if they're not, you've gotta UnKonami your code fucking somehow and this is only like the second time this has happened because ↑↑↓↓←→←→BA Start is not a common input apparently.

[fuck-off-im-ace]

The thing with being a lovesick demi is that i'm filled for longing for a romantic partner in theory but in practice?? As soon as an opportunity presents itself it makes me want to fake my own death and move to France under a new identity. Simply cannot deal with this kind of pressure.

[nyxfaei]

Soooo my partner @strawberryking and I are writing a Christmas Jarthur fic if anyone’s interested- I know it’s after Christmas but hush we started before

So far it’s pretty slice of life (with bickering) but-

There will be a Kayne moment in an upcoming chapter