“I don’t want to do what your post suggests because I think it would make things worse for me.”
Okay, I realize this is going to sound rude, but I’m so exhausted from the comments on my posts like this and the asks I keep getting.
But… if you think it’ll make it worse for you then don’t do it.
There’s never been a single one of my posts that says “everyone must do this specific coping skill”. My posts are suggestions for people that want to try different methods.
I realize a lot of the comments are not meant with malice or anything. But they’re still exhausting.
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That old guy who evaluated me for autism really should have asked me about percabeth, he would have gotten to his answer much quicker
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i don’t understand why people hate gale.
“he’s annoying” or “he talks too much” or “he’s too clingy and got offended when i was in a relationship” (which was a BUG, it takes two seconds to do some research before jumping to conclusions) are the most stupid reasons to actually hate a character.
he’s the one that has the warmest personality when you first meet him as well, so i just don’t get it?? i’m not saying you’re not allowed to dislike him, and this doesn’t apply to everyone, but SOMETIMES it feels like people just hop on a “hate bandwagon” because i see so many comments (especially on tiktok… where most of the people only started playing because it’s “trendy” now) about him that are the exact same as each other and it’s like people have lost the ability to think for themselves and form their own opinions after actually playing the game properly and learning about the characters.
so many people even go on about how it’s a turn off that he “doesn’t shut up about his ex”… like maybe actually continue playing the story to understand why it’s a significant conversation to have and why it’s a huge part of his character arc, and stop being weirdly bitter/jealous/annoyed when the man is also a VICTIM that has been manipulated and abused in a relationship with a massive power imbalance.
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I think hydrated people are fucking lying it’s a trick there’s no way it’s possible how the fuck are people hydrated hydration is my worst enemy it’s impossible
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Staring down that weird feeling of feeling like too much or out of place or annoying if I say too much or say things too loud or too off-putting to be like- WANTED in any given social situation. To try so hard to socialize just to- idk. I’d very much like to stop defaulting to that scared kid that was pushed away or talked over until I got old enough and desperate enough to say any and every rapid fire thought that comes to mind. Like filling space when there’s dead air then wondering if maybe I did the Too Much™️ thing again and A. Scared everyone away or B. Pushed everyone away so it would hurt less when they leave BC of A.
Of feeling like I need to be useful or smart or talented or pretty or SOMETHING worthwhile so people want me around. I can just be but then it’s like just being has never been enough for anyone to like- stay. Or care. Running is always a mistake bc it’s like riiiight.. no one noticed you ran, babe. You’re not even at the top of their list people to want around. And just feel so low about it that I talk myself into feeling miserable again.
I’m happy, ive been so much happier lately and i dont take it for granted bc it’s so rare that things go okay or that there’s a sense of peace for a moment. I’m creating again and im less hard on myself about it. I have hobbies again, I’m making friends. And still I’m like seeing the other foot start to drop in real time bc it’s like. You’re in, but are you? That constant nagging voice that sounds so much like my own going “lonely again? Good you deserve it”
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I’m getting reported to whoever one reports things at a university because I made a “death threat” to another student when I told him “Israelis aren’t settlers. Die mad about it.” He and the professor both take the stance that I told him to go die. And listen, I agree that that wasn’t the best turn of phrase and I should have worded myself differently-you’ll get no argument from me there-but are you freaking kidding me?
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