#IT GETS BETTER
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I remember the first time I cut a butch’s hair for them. The nervously asking them if they were sure and explaining I wasn’t a hairdresser, just a femme, and wouldn’t they rather find an inclusive barber. The cutting a tiny little bit and checking the length was okay. The fumbles of trying to figure out how use the trimmers and the scissors, and the butch being so so so patient with me.
I remember watching YouTube tutorials and researching what products were good, and researching different styles popular across the butch and transgender community, and learning the vocabulary, and practicing.
I remember what it felt like to cut my butch friend’s hair yesterday. They sat on a stool in their kitchen and had a cup of tea, and we listened to gospel radio. My nails were extra crisp and pointy because I’ve just had them done, so the sectioning was easy as pie. We did a restyle, and they loved it. We had a laugh trying to wash their hair out in the sink whilst their cat tried to ‘save them’ from being ‘drowned’ by me.
In a little million ways, every day, we tell people that we love them.
In a little million ways, every day, it really does get better.
#Femme#femme lesbian#femme4butch#butch4femme#butch/femme#femme support#it gets better#femme pride#femme positivity#butch positivity
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Ah! But the trick is that current-you only has to take the next step.
Once that step is taken, you're someone else who is more capable, and all they have to do is take one more step.
You, current you, has never been responsible for the entire journey. You just need to get started :)
fuuuuck i just realized that the future idealized version of myself cant exist without current me being the catalyst for change and doing hard things. has anybody heard about this
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#positive#positive life#positive quotes#strength positive#self love#self worth#loveyourself#body positive#positivity#happy#know your value#know your worth#know yourself#knowyourself#mental wellbeing#proud of me#mental health support#mental wellness#mental help#mental health awareness#mentalhealth#positive mental attitude#youre worth it#i deserve it#its okay#worth it#it gets better
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I promise you it gets better.
A version of you somewhere in time and motion is smiling, eyes bright and heart full. Please wait to meet them, they have something to tell you.
When days are gray and mind in decay, close your eyes and picture another day. They exist I can assure you, new days with better beginnings and happy endings. All ahead of darkend times, the sunlight peeks golden in due time. Its going to be fine.
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Reasons To Keep Going:
♡ 1. finding stray cats on the street ♡
☆ 2. late night star-gazing ☆
♡ 3. lana del rey's alive, you should be too ♡
☆ 4. drinking the nicest bottle ever ☆
♡ 5. overly decorated cakes need to be made ♡
☆ 6. out-of-state carnival dates ☆
♡ 7. your aura is heart-shaped ♡
☆ 8. stealing somebody else's hit off the blvnt ☆
♡ 9. your pet{s} will miss you !! ♡
☆ 10. don't you wanna outlive trump ? ☆
♡ 11. you haven't found your soulmate yet ♡
☆ 12. getting cr♡ssfaded with him ☆
♡ 13. living through world war three ♡
☆ 14. surfing in a different country ☆
♡ 15. having a family of your own ♡
#girlblogging#reasons to keep going#girlblogger#i love you#just a girlblog#i love him#girlblog#lana del rey#lizzy grant#lana del ray aka lizzy grant#lana is mother#lizzy grant summer#coquette#summer core#coquette angel#coquette girl#femcel#girl memes#girlcore#girlhood#manic pixie dream girl#dream girl#it girl#it gets better#it girl diary#hyper feminine#divine feminine#white swan#pink swan#dollette
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Tag yourself! I'm a perfectionist and resilient!
Unhealed Wounds Your Character Pretends Are Just “Personality Traits”
These are the things your character claims are just “how they are” but really, they’re bleeding all over everyone and calling it a vibe.
╰ They say they're "independent." Translation: They don’t trust anyone to stay. They learned early that needing people = disappointment. So now they call it “being self-sufficient” like it’s some shiny badge of honor. (Mostly to cover up how lonely they are.)
╰ They say they're "laid-back." Translation: They stopped believing their wants mattered. They'll eat anywhere. Do anything. Agree with everyone. Not because they're chill, but because the fight got beaten out of them a long time ago.
╰ They say they're "a perfectionist." Translation: They believe mistakes make them unlovable. Every typo. Every bad hair day. Every misstep feels like proof that they’re worthless. So they polish and polish and polish... until there’s nothing real left.
╰ They say they're "private." Translation: They’re terrified of being judged—or worse, pitied. Walls on walls on walls. They joke about being “mysterious” while desperately hoping no one gets close enough to see the mess behind the curtain.
╰ They say they're "ambitious." Translation: They think achieving enough will finally make the emptiness go away. If they can just get the promotion, the award, the validation—then maybe they’ll finally outrun the feeling that they’re fundamentally broken. (It never works.)
╰ They say they're "good at moving on." Translation: They’re world-class at repression. They’ll cut people out. Bury heartbreak. Pretend it never happened. And then wonder why they wake up at 3 a.m. feeling like they're suffocating.
╰ They say they're "logical." Translation: They’re terrified of their own feelings. Emotions? Messy. Dangerous. Uncontrollable. So they intellectualize everything to avoid feeling anything real. They call it rationality. (It's fear.)
╰ They say they're "loyal to a fault." Translation: They mistake abandonment for loyalty. They stay too long. Forgive too much. Invest in people who treat them like an afterthought, because they think walking away makes them "just as bad."
╰ They say they're "resilient." Translation: They don't know how to ask for help without feeling like a burden. They wear every bruise like a trophy. They survive things they should never have had to survive. And they call it strength. (But really? It's exhaustion wearing a cape.)
#911? i've just witnessed a murder#you come into my house and attack me like this#the trap of perfectionism#it gets better#therapy helps
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merry gay christmas yall
#it gets better#halloween#gay halloween#i hate gay halloween#gay christmas#lgbtqia#wait that was ru paul???
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“nobody is coming to save you”
wrong. i’m coming to save me
#you have to save yourself#girlhood#life quotes#thought daughter#spilled words#life#girl blogger#hell is a teenage girl#spilled thoughts#digital diary#positive energy#get up#get motivated#it gets better#mental wellness#save yourself#save yourselves#nobodys daughter#motivational#positive suggestions#positive mindset#positive affirmations#positive quotes#hopecore#lovecore#motivation#motivating quotes#motivateyourself#motivatedmindset#feeling motivated
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#you're not too old and it's not too late#live your best life#growth#progress#perfectionism#imposter syndrome#midlife crisis#quarter life crisis#ongoing crisis#here and now#healing#recovery#one day at a time#doing the work#doing the hard stuff#self compassion#you are enough#you are worthy#you can do this#your life isn't over when your 20's are#new dawn new day#starting over#now is the time#in the present#happiness#you deserve happiness#new beginnings#it gets better#the best is yet to come
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it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again. it has gotten better before and it will again.
#self care#self love#recovery#mental health#selfcare#selflove#i want to be okay#it will be okay#it gets better#girlblogging#coquette#girlblog#girlblogger#lana del rey#it girl#cinnamon girl#dollette#taylor swift#lana del ray
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A Dragon's Hoard pt.1
(Mythical AU of the 141)
(This fic is inspired by bluegiragi and docdudo.)
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You've never been one for the warmth that most people eminate. The kindness that sparkles in someone's eyes when they see someone they know and love. The way a person's tone changes to show their interest in a conversation, or how families get close and share hugs amongst one another. It's sweet, you think. Sweet but pointless. Smiles can be faked, tones can be raised and lowered on a whim. Scrunchingbupbyour nose in disdain as you spy another group of travelers walking along the beaten path. The sounds of their laughter and idle chatter already fading as the sounds of gravel underfoot growing fainter.
A pang of envy settles between your ribcage. The feeling of it twisting and festering almost burns. Never once had you ever experienced that. Never a tender smile or a kind word was ever directed at you. Thinking back as far as you can, there was always one constant: being alone. Ever since the great fire raged six summers ago, you've been displaced. Wandering and begging for scraps of food or even taking refuge within the churches when the bitter cold sweeps across the land. It is a harsh life for a child your age. Eleven years old and orphaned. Truly, if the orphanages weren't so full and if the staff cared, you figured you'd be stuck there. But seeing as they were full to bursting and low on income, you were throw. To the curb and barely spared a glance by any passersby.
Which brings you to the present. Living in the woods as best you can, your lean-to near the city's walls, but far enough to be undisturbed by mercenaries and gangs. The farther out away from the city the more people fear to tread. The tales of the great dragon who prowls the far edge of the woods have been told by young and old alike. Each story growing more fierce and bloody with each retelling. But so long as you're living without being pestered by people it's fine by you. Scowling as the bright sun shines brightly overhead, you practically have to squint to make out the shapes of birds flying overhead or in the trees. Sling shot in hand and a pain in your empty stomach spurs you on to find a meal. There are plenty of edible roots this time of year, with a few already back safely tucked into the confines of a nook in your lean-to. The only piece left to a decent meal would be some protein. With the birds twittering and chirping overhead. The sounds of mother birds feeding their squalling chicks is grating to your ears. Already irritated beyond compare from hunger pangs and envy. You screech out an angered shout as you set off your loaded slingshot amongst the trees. A sick hope of the rock somehow hitting a bird makes you smile bitterly. But the only thing you can hear is a gruff chortle followed by a accented baritone voice.
"Well now, what have we got here so far in my end of the woods?"
Your eyes widen as you can see a figure come stumbling out of the foliage. His tone possessive as he mentions the woods being his. A large hand on his head rubbing the sore spot of where the rock made impact. An apology rises to your warbling vocal chords only to be cut off as you see the large, curling horns protruding from his head. Smoke billowing from his mouth in a steady stream as he lets out an amused chuckle at your speechless state. Stretching his arms overhead in a mocking show of strength. You can see one large green wing furled in close to his back.
"Well?"
His deep voice sends a wave of fear through your bones. He could easily snap your neck with a flap of his wing, or crush you with his bare hands if he wanted to. Gazing wide eyed in fear...you can only think of how the stories that were told were true. Looking up at the hulking figure, you can see why the stories were never the same. This dragon...this man...this creature is somehow both. A hybrid of sorts.
Not bothering to stay around and chat. You bolt as if the devil himself were after you. Your tiny legs running as fast as you can. With the way your autonomic nervous system is kicking in. Your legs feel both like jelly and pins and needles from all the adrenaline. Panting heavily as you run the feeling of copper rises to your tongue as your lungs strain for air. Running was never your strongest attribute. The hybrid could tell that as well as even over the beating of your heart in your ears you can hear him running not to far behind you. His strides much longer than yours, a grin on his face as you can hear a giddy sort of chuckle rumblebfrom his chest.
"What's a hatchling like you doing all the way out here sweet thing?"
A pair of strong arms wrap securely around you as you flail and kick wildly. The scent of smoke and sweat fills your nose as you scratch at the arms holding you in place. The rumbling timbre of his voice sends vibrations through your body as he holds you securely against his chest.
"Been watching you for a while hatchling, all alone in these woods. Should have been eaten a long time ago."
As if those words weren't frightening enough, deep down in the pit of your belly you know them to be blaringly true. The amount of times you've stayed up in the night fending off wild animals were more than enough to prove his point. Tensing in the Hybrids strong arms, he adjusts his hold as if holding a squirming newborn fawn. His hot breath ghosting over the top of your head and neck. As if sensing your blinding fear, the hybrid chuckles, a rumbling purr rising from the chest behind you.
"Hush now...Papa's here, lil treasure. Papa's here."
Stilling immediately out of fear at the hybrid’s words. Whether condescending or not, you can't help but relax slightly. The fight leaving your tired body as soon as the adrenaline runs out. Your heart pitter pattering in your chest almost painfully. Sucking in greedy lung fulls of air, you can't help but relax begrudgingly against the warmth that the massive body behind you eminates. You're stuck here now.
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We all know who the dragon is :) it's everyone's favorite tired dad Price!
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#motivating quotes#life quotes#inspirational quotes#relatable quotes#depressing quotes#relationship quotes#inspiring quotes#quotes#motivateyourself#get motivated#motivation#motivación#motivating myself#it gets better#tw depressing stuff#tw depressing thoughts#depressing shit#positive mental attitude#mentally exhausted#mental health#book quotes#quoteoftheday#books#mental illness#actually mentally ill#disordered eating mention#mentally unstable#mentally fucked#mentally tired
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#positive#positive life#positive quotes#strength positive#self love#self worth#loveyourself#body positive#positivity#happy#its okay#it gets better
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Election
I would like to make one thing very clear. I voted for Kamala, I support Kamala and I do not support the man who is about to be the first convicted felon to take office.
My page will always be a safe space for queer people, trans people, People of color, women, children of immigrants, immigrants, democrats, liberals, pro-choice, people of all religions. if you voted for Trump unfollow me, if you support Trump unfollow me, and if you don't support any of the groups listed above you need to remove yourself from my page.
this wasn't a normal election, I respect everyone's right to their opinion but this was different. this was an attack on minority rights, on women's rights, on the department of education. this wasn't an election it was a slaughter.
as a US citizen, I am terrified, if you need someone to talk to please reach out I am here.
Please remember; you are loved, you are worthy, you deserve the same rights as everybody else. please don't stop fighting, please stay.
#election 2024#us elections#presidential election#kamala harris#donald trump#fuck trump#abortion#queer#womens rights#immigration#trans rights#it gets better
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🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ GOOD queer news for the TL: a bunch of students across the U.S. are using grants to make their schools more welcoming for LGBTQ+ youth

Queer students deserve to feel safe at school! We're in our third year of giving grants to put the power in their hands to make their schools more welcoming - students know what they need most in their own communities and their own schools.
Through 50 States, 50 Grants, 5,000 Voices, we've awarded over $1.5 million in grants across the U.S. to support student-led projects. Our third season has some of the most badass projects yet, like these:
❤️ “With this grant, we’ll establish an LGBTQIA+ community space in the library, open to all students, with guest speakers, arts and crafts, LGBTQIA+ books and literature, and LGBTQIA+-specific resources.” - Pocatello, Idaho
🧡 “Our project aims to support LGBTQ+ students through teacher training, development of gender-neutral bathroom protocols, and the organization of a district-wide Queer Prom.” - Gypsum, Colorado
💛 “We’ll take students from the 3 middle schools and our local high school to Honolulu Pride to make local LGBTQ+ friends, feel accepted in a large group, and see the community beyond just school.” - Ewa Beach, Hawai'i
💚 “We’re going to increase access to queer literature by working with a local nonprofit to expand our school’s collection, host storytelling events, and foster community connection." - Mobile, Alabama
💙 “Our plan is to create new Inclusivity Zones across the state in critical areas for local GSA clubs to meet, plan shared events, and be their own safe space.” - Charleston, West Virginia
💜 “We’ll host the Rainbow Youth Summit for LGBTQIA+ youth from across southern California to network, learn, and have fun in a safe, judgement free and supportive environment.” - Cathedral City, California
These students are truly the definition of making things better - you can see the rest of the amazing projects lined up across the country on our blog here!
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