#Living Authentically

[fiscal-pat]

The Essence of True Masculinity: Meat and Independence

In a world full of noise, true masculinity stands apart. It's not about conforming to the alpha-beta dichotomy but about forging your own path with strength and independence. A sigma male understands this intimately.

Meat, in its raw, unadulterated form, symbolizes the primal power within us. It’s a testament to our ability to hunt, to survive, and to thrive without relying on societal approval. Cooking a steak to perfection, savoring the natural flavors, is a ritual that connects us to our roots and reminds us of our self-sufficiency.

True masculinity isn’t about dominance over others; it’s about mastery over oneself. It’s about knowing who you are, what you stand for, and not needing validation from anyone. It’s in the quiet moments, the disciplined routines, and yes, the enjoyment of a hearty, well-earned meal.

To all my fellow sigma males out there: embrace your independence, relish in your self-reliance, and never let society dictate what it means to be a man. Stand strong, live authentically, and always remember—the essence of true masculinity is within you.

[anthropologistfromentropy]

Life is like a patchwork quilt or a song. It started long before you, and now you get to add your own patch, your own verse to it. And after you, others will add their own. It's beautiful, isn't it? How life goes on, how we are all connected. And not just humans, but all life on Earth. How every verse is equally important. The song would not be be the same if you remove one. The world would not be the same without the humble earthworm, without the baby that only lived a few hours. Her life, and the love people felt for her, is just as important.

I'm glad we get to share our life and our love with each other. But love is just as beautiful and important when the beloved isn't there to see it. The love for the verse written centuries ago, or by the father you never got to meet. The love for your verse, from people who will be born after you're gone.

It can be easy to hestitate, to worry about writing the perfect verse, about living the perfect life, when we only get to live one, short life. But no life will ever be more perfect than another. Just make it rich. Make it yours. And don't spend it destroying others.

[la-la-noir]

Queer by William S. Burroughs (1985):

"It was a wise old queen who taught me that I had a duty to live and to bear my burden proudly for all to see, to conquer prejudice and ignorance and hate with knowledge and sincerity and love. The difficulty is to convince someone else he is really part of you."

[in-tenebris-et-in-solitudine]

One day you're here, the next one you're not so fuck it.

[manojnaironline]

Tell us one thing you hope people say about you

Have you ever stopped to think about how much energy you waste worrying about what others say about you, especially behind our backs? Honestly, I believe it’s not worth it. The beauty of life lies in living it your way—learning from your experiences, mistakes, and shortcomings. These lessons shape who you are and help you forge your unique path. That’s been especially true in my own…

[lgbtq-archives]

𝐀 𝐆𝐚𝐲 𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐨𝐝𝐞𝐬 𝐂𝐥𝐨𝐬𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐅𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐄𝐲𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐭

[weirdcrazy]

A journey of Self Discovery

In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to lose sight of who we truly are. We often find ourselves entangled in the expectations and opinions of others, forgetting our own dreams and desires. But it's time to pause, reflect, and embark on a journey of self-discovery, because, in the end, the most important validation comes from within.

Choosing Your Own Path

Life is a journey, and it's ours to navigate. We must take the reins and steer in the direction that resonates with our hearts. It's crucial to ask ourselves: What do we truly want, deep down inside? The answer to this question should guide our decisions.

Breaking Free from the Cycle

The cycle of seeking validation from others is a never-ending one. First, it's our parents with their high hopes, then our spouse, and even our children. But amidst all these expectations, what about our own dreams and expectations for ourselves? We must carve out our path and prioritize our aspirations.

Believe in Miracles

Life can be full of surprises and unexpected twists. Believing in the possibility of miracles can provide us with the optimism and resilience we need to face challenges head-on. But remember, honesty with oneself is key. Avoid self-deception, for it can hinder your personal growth.

Fill Yourself with Knowledge

Knowledge is a powerful tool for self-discovery. Take the time to learn and grow. It's not just about physical strength or material wealth; a strong mind is equally important. Dedicate yourself to continuous learning and self-improvement.

Facing Your Dark Moments

Sometimes, we all have moments we're not proud of. These moments might haunt us, causing embarrassment and shame. However, facing these darker aspects of ourselves is essential for growth. Confronting our mistakes and overcoming them is where true strength lies.

Breaking Free from Societal Norms

Society often imposes norms and expectations upon us, urging us to conform. But we are not puppets; we are human beings with unique dreams and aspirations. It's time to break free from societal constraints and live life on our terms. This doesn't mean indulging in harmful behaviors but rather aligning our choices with our authentic selves.

Conclusion

Life is too short to live it solely for the approval of others. It's time to embark on a journey of self-discovery, prioritizing our dreams and aspirations. Remember, change is a part of life, and it starts with embracing our true selves. Let's be the architects of our destinies, charting a course that truly makes us happy.

[himmurf]

Can I get some comfort? I posted this to a local queer Facebook group to derision from an admin and a user. They act like I am a traitor to the community for even consider doing this for my safety in a private sector of my life...

For those people who need to hear it, there is nothing wrong with going back into the closet for your own safety. You aren't less queer because you can't be queer publicly. You aren't less trans because you have to act like you're not trans.

If you need to start going by your old pronouns or quietly go back into the closet to be safe - you are allowed to do that. Please do that if it means you're alive.

Your safety is important.

You are important.

And if you know someone who has to do this, don't push them. Don't out them. Follow their lead. People's safety is more important that grandstanding.

[angievcreates]

When was the last time you picked up a creative passion—just because it brought you joy? Whether it’s crafting, writing, decorating, or something entirely different, your creativity can still be a light in this season. In this week’s post, I share a surprising backyard moment that reminded me how even small sparks can shine bright. Let’s rediscover the creative gifts God placed in us—and use them to bless others and glorify Him. Read more at angievallejo.com #summertime #creativeliving #midlife #shineyourlight

[hrdebs]

From the latest issue of "Reflections"

Check it out.

[markllockwood]

Living life After a Spiritual Awakening

You’ve had a spiritual awakening so now what? What Does It Feel Like to Awaken Spiritually?This is just the very beginning of the most extraordinary adventure that anyone in the universe could have a go on. Many people think that spiritual awakening is some endpoint but in fact it is a wonderful and exciting new beginning and with all new beginnings we can expect change and under certainty to…

[kinseykeys]

Another birthday, another existential crisis.

It turns out that I'm still chasing a timeline that my 10-year-old self concocted. This year, I’m finally letting that nonsense go. Grab some cake and commiserate. 🎂

[theluckygirlblog]

How to Train Yourself to Be Okay with Being Misunderstood or Disliked

The fear of being misunderstood or disliked holds many people back from living authentically, making bold decisions, and pursuing their biggest goals. But the truth is—if you are doing anything meaningful, you will be misunderstood. Powerful, influential, and successful people are rarely liked by everyone. Why? Because they prioritize their vision over approval. If you struggle with feeling…

[goodoldbandit]

“Show up in the world in a way that makes you proud. Speak words that you wouldn't be ashamed to hear repeated back to you.” – Sanjay Mohindroo.

Sanjay Kumar Mohindroo Sanjay Kumar Mohindroo. skm.stayingalive.in Living with Integrity: Authenticity and Pride in Your Actions Discover how to live authentically, speak with purpose, and show up as your best self every day. Empower yourself with integrity and pride. #Authenticity #Integrity Living Your Truth with Pride
 Have you ever considered how your actions and words reflect who you…

[tracesindust]

Okay so for those of you who weren't following me before I destroyed my old blog I'm a barefooter and a lot of people are afraid of me stepping on glass. That's not an issue for me because I also carry a white cane. Also, it just feels nice to be grounded (and not step on glass).

Glass

I spit pieces of glass On dark concrete alleys But you were blind, So blind that you hurt yourself Stepping all over me Well, I'm so sorry! I guess this is the price you pay For thinking you could hurt me And I would stay holy.

~ A. A. Roman

[obsidianquill]

"Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life." – Steve Jobs