sometimes I think of all the on-the-surface warm, well-meaning but deeply ineffectual advice and attention john gives harrow through harrow the ninth (make some soup and get some sleep! get a hobby! don't be so hard on yourself! self care harrow! as long as I need take no actual responsibility in this relationship whatsoever I would have loved to be your dad!) set up against the stark truth that with his other hand he has been staging her attempted horrific murder again and again and again like a living nightmare on the logic that it will 'put her down or fix her'. and then I find that I wish there is a hell. a special hell where twitch streamers turned necromantic death emperors go
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I think it would really benefit people to internalize that mental illnesses are often chronic and not acute. Some of us will never be able to jump the hurdle of managing illness, much less sustaining a sense of normalcy. Many of us will never "recover," will never manage symptoms, will never even come close to appearing normal - and this is for any condition, even the ones labeled as "simple" disorders or "easy-to-manage" disorders.
It isn't a failure if you cannot manage your symptoms. It isn't a moral failure, and you aren't an awful person. You are human. There's only so much you can do before recognizing that you cannot lift the world. Give yourself the space to be ill because, functionally, you are.
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what if when (if?) the bells hells and the crown keepers reunite aabria gets to DM at least the first half of that and for the first time in almost 10 years matt gets to be a player in a main campaign and gets to interact with his friends as a player WHAT THEN
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pretty much all binders are designed for small chests, they’re just scaled up directly not accounting how bigger chests behave and whenever you point this out people just go ‘oh you’re just using one thats too small’ like when i was binding i wasn’t often using the largest size i could order and i’d still have spillage out the sides and half tanks would ride up within minutes. given i havent been binding for about 3.5 years now maybe binders have changed but they way that conversations about binding are carried online always made me feel like i was just doing it wrong when in retrospect binders are just not designed for large chests at all and the ‘alternatives’ like transtape are also pretty much impossible to do over a certain cup size so no wonder trans guys with larger cup sizes might get a little pissy when you keep telling them they’re just doing it wrong
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