If rejection, desertion, or betrayal played a part in your loss, it is not just your sense of security that has been shattered but your belief in yourself, your sense of self-worth.
Susan Anderson, The Journey from Abandonment to Healing
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The thing is… they’re not worth my brain space. None of them are. Whether any of them were abusive or not - the people who aren’t in my life *are not in my life*
I’m working on not giving any of them the attention.
However, I will contextualize MY healing and growth with respect to what’s happened.
What IS worth my brain space are all the lessons I’ve learned so I can love myself and my people more authentically and honestly… without causing excessive harm to myself.
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If you knew that you would find someone who treated you in all the ways you dreamed... Would you still be wishing they would come back?
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good morning, tumblr
im taking care of myself and that makes me happy ☺️
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Self-Assured.
Miley Cyrus - Flowers: https://youtu.be/G7KNmW9a75Y (TW: sensual visuals)
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A month later
What a month its been. I’m learning to love myself and pick up the pieces from past hurts.
And I actually like who I see when I look in the mirror. I feel so alive. And my emotions are out and full for the world to see.
I don’t feel like a blank page anymore. Or incomplete. I was never incomplete in the first place. I was just wearing a blindfold apparently.
I am truly happy and truly sad some days. But all that matters is I’m living my truth and relishing every second. Every laugh, every tear. Even every shout.
Signed, I feel fucking alive again.
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For all of its pain and intensity, abandonment serves as a catalyst for profound personal growth.
Susan Anderson, The Journey from Abandonment to Healing
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Get over your ex with the SNAP of your fingers...
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