#ftm transexual

[toyb0y-tboy]

i hope you enjoy a glimpse of how i dress in public

[nonbaznary]

t4t any way and every way ⚧︎

plus variables with tits & scars!

[ganem-ouchie]

Morn'

-Entry for the Trans Hannibal hcs event - day 2; Hannibal Lecter.

[binders-and-beanies]

1-2 years on T is just the beginning btw. Yes things change significantly during that time, you can and should be excited about it, and after a while being on T will be more about maintenance than new or continued visual changes. But at 1-2 years you still don’t really know what you’re gonna look and feel like long term, especially if you start young. You’re also gonna age, just like cis men do. Expecting your transition to be over the second you see any changes will leave you unprepared to live the rest of your life being perceived as a man, and it will also leave you susceptible to treating other transmascs poorly for having gone through changes you’re scared of experiencing yourself. Your experience is not only not universal, you haven’t even seen *your* entire experience yet

[amelia-jack00]

[saturnballz]

never underestimate how much confidence is important in passing

when I was in my very early social transition I'd cut my hair very short and wear only boardshorts and oversized hoodies and speak in my deepest voice (when I spoke at all) and refrain from doing anything remotely feminine, and I still got misgendered every single day because I just wasn't comfortable, I was just forcing it too much

now I haven't had a haircut in months (I really want to but don't have the money currently), I wear crop tops and fitted shirts, skinny jeans, speak in my gayest™ voice and I still pass at least 90% of the time because I assert myself in a masculine position and I am confident about it. confidence had such a big impact on my ability to pass that people that knew me three years ago now don't recognize me anymore + assume i'm a cis guy when interacting with me.

obviously if passing is important to you there's a lot of things that impact that, but genuinely don't underestimate how important confidence is. instead of forcing yourself to adhere to hypermasculine stereotypes you don't fit in, focus on becoming comfortable in yourself & your manhood

stay safe, love y'all

[tsflangel]

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[gayhenrycreel]

#ftm is a fetish tag

disclaimer, i am a trans man

#ftm is a fetish tag. i dont know if its always been like this but it is a problem.

i can hardly find any transmascs in that tag.

there are cis women misgendering trans men as a kink, and talking about our bodies like sex dolls everywhere in that tag. its mostly cishet women using OUR tag to objectify our bodies because they are too afraid to consider that they might not be straight. it is at least half detransition kink. im very uncomfortable with cis people doing this, but if they want to i wont stop them.

but this is in OUR TAG. this is horrible. they write disgusting smut about women who are short twinks with soft tits and dripping cunts and no dysphoria at all.

they just call them trans men.

ive seen other transmascs complain about this too.

these fics are written by and for cis women. they are chasers. the way they talk about our bodies is revolting. they know nothing about trans men at all.

i know that not all trans men feel dysphoric about their bodies, but these women are still treating us like a fetish that only occurs in fiction, rather than people who have emotions and often want to have a flat chest and/or a penis.

in particular they fetishize gay trans men. all these fics are about femboys who are horrified by the concept of transitioning getting fucked by bears. the people writing this view transitioning as mutilation. its very obvious.

ive noticed that this occasionally extends to fetishizing cis men with gynecomastia. its clear they want to fuck women but think lesbians are disgusting, so they call the women in their fics men, but misgender them throughout the text.

i hardly see any representation for trans men who even want to transition. newsflash: a lot of us do want to transition. many of us have already had surgery.

if you genuinely do want to write smut with GOOD portrayal of trans men, heres some tips on what we want in our representation:

trans men who dont want to transition deserve rep too, but many of us are entirely uncomfortable with our bodies. very few of us want any attention given to the parts we are born with. a lot of pre op trans men wear a binder during sex. we're not all bottoms, and some of us wear strap ons.

when we're on testosterone, it causes vaginal atrophy, similar to menopause. it gets very dry down there and easily irritated. this means that vaginal sex can be very painful and could even damage tissues. even without T, vaginal penetration is usually no where near as fun as it is for cis women. anything being in there is awful and sometimes painful.

anal sex is a thing. its not gross. its perfectly normal. it just requires some lubricant, and for a trans man, is a lot more comfortable than vaginal sex.

shockingly, most of us do not want to be called girls.

dont misgender a trans person in a sex scene. at all. some of us like to be called good boys during sex. stop calling us girls.

some of us have had surgery. it is NOT mutilation. it is life saving. top surgery is one that we get most frequently. the results do look just like a cis mans chest. there are long thin scars under the pecs, but these fade after a few years. they may not even be visible. bottom surgery exists too.

metoidioplasty creates a micropenis out of the clitoris. it does look real. it looks like a regular micropenis. it has full sensation.

phalloplasty uses a flap of skin, usually from the forearm, and turns it into a penis. this surgery is more complex and is done in multiple stages. after it is complete, it looks like a circumcised penis. its size is dependent on the flap of skin used to make it, so it can actually be larger than average. (on r/phallo someone even got a reduction surgery because his dick was 7 inches long). the area the skin flap was taken from has pretty big scarring. it looks like the result of a severe burn. it is sometimes covered by a tatoo. there is a lot of misinformation about phalloplasty. it is a big surgery, but it is no where near as dangerous as the internet would have you believe. after it has fully healed it does look real, and a genital nerve is usually hooked up to the penis. it can take a while to heal (years), but after a few months sensation begins to return as the nerves heal. the clitoris is often buried in the base of the penis, and if a genital nerve hook up is done the penis can have full sensation, including the tip. not everyone gets full sensation, and it can take years for sensation to fully return, but 93% of men who get phalloplasty are satisfied with the results. that is a lot. it is quite rare that sensation is fully lost, so yes, you can orgasm after phalloplasty. one thing to note is that a phalloplasty penis cant get hard on its own. there are two types of implant for erections. one is a rod inside the penis, which can last over 20 years before needing a replacement. the rod is flexible, so can be positioned as an erection. the other implant is a internal pump that is more complicated than the rod, and needs to be replaced roughly every 15 years. it is filled with water and sits inside the penis. to get an erection, you squeeze one of the testicles, which is a pump implant, pushing the water into the penis, causing an erection.

most importantly, we are men. we can be feminine. we can be masculine. we can look exactly like cis men. dont forget that we are people, we are real. we are not some sex fantasy.

[toyb0y-tboy]

do you like my boxers

[splinkoplinko]

Crazy thought.

If someone was born female and named Romania, and they end up wanting a more masc name (🏳️‍⚧️), they should consider Chad.

This is because the flags of both Chad and Romania are the same.

So it represents how they're still the same person, but different now.

The same could go the other way round with an MTF named Chad who should consider the name Romania.

Though, it could also be taken the wrong way, as the appearance stayed the same and everything else has, which is kinda neg for trans people.

But idk! Just a little brain fart :P

[transpossumboy]

trans and need help picking a name?? 🏳️‍⚧️

oh boy, do i have a method for you!!

i do this as the step before i have people try out names for me just to make sure i'm personally happy with them first. as someone who's been out for almost 10 years and tried a bunch of different names, this way helped me narrow down my options with the most confidence!

write any name you like on a piece of paper like a list.

make a column every time you look at the paper, maybe every few days or so.

check off the names you like going down the columns based on your preference for the day. (i color code the ones i like for first names and middle names with different color checks.)

after you do this for however long you want, see which name you like consistently! (you can also easily add names that you like as you go, just add it to the end of the list.)

here’s what my list looks like right now as an example (i do my work in OneNote, the green checks are first name and the yellow is middle name):

[nathank77]

3/28/24

11:43 p.m

FTM and Proud

I love my trans body.

Transbodies are beautiful 🩵❤️🩵❤️🩵❤️

[candela888]

Right to change legal gender around the world (as of April 2023)

Some more information:

Gender self-determination: Started in Argentina, Gender self-identification is the concept that a person's legal sex or gender should be determined by their gender identity without any medical requirements, such as via statutory declaration. (Found in much of the Americas, Western Europe, Oceania, and Pakistan)

Prohibitive requirements: Right to change legal gender without surgery, but a court order, physician/clinical recommendation, therapy, or medical record requirements might be necessary. (Found in the Americas, most of Europe, Southern Africa, parts of Asia, and Oceania)

Sex-reassignment surgery required: Must get a sex change/surgery in order to change legal gender. (Found in Eastern Europe, Asia, Middle East, Oceania, Namibia, several US States, and Panama)

Potential legislation pending: Law currently pending to legalize gender identity change or upgrade to gender self-determination. (El Salvador, Peru, Scotland, Sweden, Thailand, Cambodia, the Philippines)

No legal gender identity change: Can't change legal gender, other laws and views on transgender people vary by country. (Most of Africa, and some parts of the Caribbean, Eastern Europe, and Asia)

[transexualpirate]

yes i Know that transexual/transsexual isn't a medically recognized term in most spaces anymore but i think that term defines me as a binary trans man quite well so i'm going to use it informally for funsies. and i think tumblr's pretty informal. and also because i'm sexually attracted to trans people

[robynochs]

The US Trans Survey has extended its deadline to December 5th.

If you're 16+, transgender, non-binary, or any form of gender non-conforming, and live in the United States, I encourage you to fill it out.

“This is the kind of data our community is desperate for, fighting against bigotry that trans people have to endure,” said Josie Caballero, the director of the US Trans Survey and special projects at the NCTE. “This is a community-led survey by trans people, for trans people.”