#love and light!

[marvey-sideblog]

sorry but harvey being submissive in bed is the most delusional take ever this man is dominance incarnate, “i like to bend people to my will”… “good boy”..”puppy”….”I want it to know who it’s DADDY IS” like cmon now!!! that man dcks mike down each time he gives lip and it’s cannon..

anon he contains multitudes! yes he would do these things, yes he could dominate mike and enjoy it. but! that man has to be macho in-control all the time and sometimes, anon, he really fucking enjoys (like, a lot) when someone he's attracted to completely manhandles and controls him.

He LOVES it. It is so so sexy to him.

And he LOVES when Mike talks back to him, when Mike is telling him what for. Yes sometimes the sexual satisfaction would come from putting Mike in his place over that...That would 100% be sexy to him. And Mike would 100% LOVE being subm/ssive to Harvey; that boy has Fantasised. Yes, Mike's "aye-aye, Captain" did things to Harvey, that is a scene of all time (and, tbf! Mike is actually the one taking the lead there! Harvey Captain fantasy where Harvey still gets to be subm/ssive.......). BUT. Harvey would also LOVE Mike turning the tables on that. Mike's an equal to him, and Mike taking control would be so hot, for both of them. There'd be a lil amusement for Harvey and then he'd genuinely be so turned on by it. I'm not talking about Season 1 Mike. I'm talking about the people they became together, to each other. Sometimes their sex is pure vanilla just love...Sometimes Mike would tell Harvey what to do and relish in it; they both would.

And, for the matter at whole...You think when Harvey's mind wandered about Jessica, he was thinking about domming her? NO. It would be Jessica domming him in every never-gonna-actually-happen flitting fantasy. Yes, ma'am. Come now. He'd be giddy at that.

Harvey is not one dimensional he actually loves to be playful and feminine and pushed into the mattress and told to take his shirt off.

[grasslandgirl]

dealing w the new t*ylor sw*ft album that I Don’t Care About by listening to fob on t he way to a concert for an indie band so small no one has ever heard of them

[promethes]

kal im a freshman in college and i feel like college has made me completely lose my sense of self i used to be sarcastic confident funny teachers pet etc and now just constantly fucking up at every opportunity and failing tests and i always have this feeling of anxiety and being unable to do things by myself and i dont even know what to do anymore and im asking u because i dont even have any real connections here to figure myself out im just so so lost and its so scary that im mentally not here

that’s rough bc at the end of the day ur in a huge transition period that’s going to suck at least a little no matter what. my advice

mindset wise: detach yourself from the idea of who you think you are and embrace a sense of self that is ever evolving. we hold ourselves back and source so much misery by constantly thinking about how the “real me” would respond to situations. you create the real you every day and that person will never be stagnant. who you are today is never not who you are

tangible action items:

- stupid and self explanatory but cover the basics: eat, hydrate, vitamins, good sleep schedule, take walks in the sun, stretch, etc.

- stay social: whatever you do don’t isolate yourself. try to do something social at least once a week if not once a month outside of academic contexts. this could be getting a job, hanging out with friends, joining a club, attending local venues, going to campus events (highly encourage finding an event calendar - most schools have tons of free stuff/events). whatever works for you. could be something as simple as going to a cafe and striking up a small conversation with a rando. you need it.

- take full advantage of office hours, campus resources, etc and who gives af let your instructors know you’re struggling 9 times out of 10 they will help you out or cut you some slack! not being ashamed of emailing professors for extra support/extensions is a game changer. and sometimes we just fail! i failed 4 classes in college (2 of them were the same course i retook lol. not my best work) and still ended up at a place many ppl call a “dream job” it sucks but it’s not the end of the world and if you play your cards right it teaches you a lot about what works for you in terms of how you learn and retain knowledge. and in ten years when you’re post grad with a steady job and smooth sailing you can look back and be like wow i failed that sophomore year queer poetry class so bad lol. good times

- find something that you are good at and do it regularly, whether it be a hobby or physical activity or cooking or some kind of arts/crafts or whatever. just regularly indulge in something that gives you a sense of satisfaction and pride

i’m sorry ur having a tough time and i hope it gets better. from personal experience my first two years sucked ass but starting junior year i let go of who I was and latched on to who I was becoming and it was beautiful. always rough but worth it. best of luck to you

[blowflyboyfriend]

puppy's so cute and needy they just jerked me off to get themself to sleep.

[lazarusphenomenon]

thinking about jason and reyna joyriding. jason sticks his hand out to put on the roof of the truck and focuses really hard to eliminate wind resistance so they can go faster.

they drive until the tank’s nearly empty and only stop to fill up at the gas station. there they get slushies and gas station snacks. they get back into the camp truck and reyna asks “what if we just kept driving until we run out of gas? and what if we kept going after that. what do you think?” and jason smiles because smiling comes easy when reyna’s involved. he says “i’d like that.” and reyna starts up the truck and she thinks about it long and hard. her best friend is in the passenger seat humming along with the radio and she tells herself “this time. this time for sure.” but they never do.

born a roman die a roman.

[playlistbaby]

added my bottoms soundtrack playlist to my pinned post :)

[louisegluckpdf]

they won't tell you this in therapy but sometimes the best way to stop catastrophizing/anxiety is to interrupt your spiraling with "girl what the hell are you talking about"

[halflifesk666]

[letsbelonelytogetherr]

— Nikita Gill

[bexiescorner]

[lunamonchtuna]

to be seen without performing. to be heard without screaming. to be missed without disappearing. to be enough without proving it. to be held without falling apart. to be understood without explaining. to be wanted without conditions. to be. to be.

[poetryforall]

[sleeplessv0id]

what doesn't kill you makes you weird at intimacy

[arylleth]

to love someone is firstly to confess: i'm prepared to be devastated by you. by A History of My Brief Body by Billy-Ray Belcourt

[xtroor]

All roads unfortunately lead back to tumblr.