#low/no empathy positivity

[no-empathy-culture-is]

happy disabled pride month to low/no empathy people

happy disabled pride month to low/no sympathy people

happy disabled pride month to low/no compassion people

happy disabled pride month to empathy/sympathy/compassionflux people

happy disabled pride month to conditional empathy people

happy disabled pride month to dotermpathy people

happy disabled pride month to anyone who struggles to relate to other people outside of empathy/sympathy/compassion

happy disabled pride month to anyone who struggles to relate to people because of their disability, whether physical or mental

and most of all

happy disabled pride month to people w/ nonstandard relation modes who are absolute cunts

[frogsforthefrogwar]

We love people with low and no empathy here!

[quietlyqueering]

Loveless people are so cool! If you're loveless you're cool! I hope you know that.

[titan-god-helios]

people who are good and kind and uplifting and say and do nice things for other people, solely for the purpose of gaining attention or upholding your reputation, i love you, and you still are good people.

i don't care if you're seething with anger or jealousy or hatred inside whilst you do the nice things. you're still a good person. i don't care if you're constantly criticising the other person in your head whilst you do nice things. you're still a good person. i don't care if the entire time you help someone or say something nice you're constantly thinking about yourself or how much you want them to say something nice back or only doing the good thing to get praise or for your own sense of achievement. you're still a good person. i don't care if you're messy or find it extremely hard to do nice things for others and in general. you're. still. a. good. person.

[lemony-ink]

having low/no empathy doesn't make you evil or less-than someone else

you don't owe empathy to anyone

having NPD or ASPD doesn't make you a bad person

[deceiver-of-god]

Honestly, I think apologizing is just a form of manipulation. It bothers you that the other person doesn't have a good attitude towards you, so you explain the situation, make any excuse, try to make them understand your perspective, and in the end you manage to soften them and change their attitude.

I don't think I've ever honestly apologized. When someone is upset with me, all I want is for them to stop being upset, because their attitude is inconvenient, and the only thing on my mind is "how can I talk my way out of this situation?".

[communitygardensystem]

where is the love for people who are manipulative by nature and are trying their best to fight it? we tell cluster Bs all the time that they're not inherently manipulative or toxic but what about those of us who are? some of us are inclined towards being toxic or manipulative by nature. some of us lack essential social functions like empathy and compassion, and it's not because we're evil, it's because repeated trauma degraded our brain's ability to perform those functions. it can be a constant, exhausting battle to not want to be cruel, but to have to fight your very nature to avoid cruelty. i think that those of us who have to carry that burden deserve love.

[puppyoclock]

if you have low/no empathy, no guilt, no remorse, apathy about others, things like that: i appreciate you. talking to you guys is so much easier. i dont have to worry about making you feel guilty on accident. i dont have to tiptoe around your feelings. i worry less about accidentally guilting you, about upsetting you by showing any negative emotions, about making you feel bad for me by mentioning any of my trauma.

of course i wont just be rude and inconsiderate, but i feel more at ease, you know? like its easier to just chill with you; i feel like i dont have to play the social juggling act with your feelings nearly as much. like being kind is good enough. i hope this makes sense hakdhskdks

and ofc this is a broad generalization, so this wont apply to everyone - and if you DO still need validation that's cool too! i just want you to know that there's someone out there who appreciates this about you. there are upsides to things like this, and there will always be someone out there who likes you MORE for it. have a nice day :3

[narcissism-positivity]

I love narcissists who don’t go out of their way to mask or present as neurotypical. I love narcissists who aren’t interested in learning empathy. I love narcissists who like feeling evil. That’s neuropunk af of you

[npd-hottakes]

Normalize not caring about shit that doesn't affect oneself. Just because someone doesn't care doesn't mean they support it.

Respect people without empathy.

[no-empathy-culture-is]

polite reminder that empathy, sympathy and compassion are not what makes a good person. what makes a good person is their actions towards others, and the choices they make, not what they feel

[epick-cluster-b-blog]

hey fellow pwNPD i have a question. do you guys lack sympathy, empathy, or both (or neither)? i find that even when i can put myself in other people’s shoes so to speak, sometimes i just don’t care lmfao. like i have absolutely no sympathy and i feel apathetic. wondering if any other fellow narcissists can relate.

[falloutboyyaoi]

my ex had high empathy. reblog to support victims of empath abuse

[titan-god-helios]

people with npd. i love us. narcissist nation RISE UP !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

anyway yeah jokey bits aside every single damn narcissist, you're awesome and i hope you're having a good day filled with supply.

yes that includes overt narcissists. yes that includes narcissists who manipulate others or take advantage of situations (AND ARE WORKING ON IT OR TRYING TO (i do not condone manipulation please don't kill me you tumblrinas with piss poor reading comprehension)). yes that includes narcissists who constantly brag about their achievements or cannot mask their symptoms. yes that includes narcissists who are easily angered. yes that includes narcissists who are the stereotype of narcissism. yes it includes quite literally every single narcissist and not only those who are covert, can mask or use their narcissism to fuel them to do good.

cause quite frankly, thats not the experience of every person with npd, or even the majority. yet all of us are people (or critters !! i see you therians and nonhumans <3) and deserve to get treated with as much respect and care and kindness as one another, no matter if you're trying to get better now or will in the future or don't know if you can, or if you're "one of the good ones" (ew i hate that phrase) or whatever.

yeah go and have a good day <333

[symphony-calamity]

Feeling kinda blech right now so. Shout-out to low empathy people who aren't always great at compassion. Low empathy people who come off as callous or rude. Low empathy people who are kind of dicks, regardless of whether or not they act like it. Low empathy people who have to actively convince themselves to respect boundaries that they can't understand. Low empathy people who are only nice for the sake of preserving relationships, even when they don't want to be.

We're not evil. Being low empathy is not a moral failing even if it manifests in ways other people don't like. We deserve good things.

[chronicsymptomsyndrome]

Why is “selfish” a bad word?? If you don’t ever put yourself first you will die?? I don’t mean to sound facetious or hyperbolic but I feel very strongly about this. Be selfish. Be your own biggest supporter. Love and care for yourself in a way that nobody else ever would. Why wouldn’t you?? You’re the only one that has to live your whole life as you. You’re the only one that has no escape from your own company. Be selfish.

If the only reason you help others is because it feels good to be helpful, or because you want to be perceived as a good person, or because you like when people are indebted to you, that’s not bad that’s just human. Be selfish. Good for you for looking out for yourself. Bonus points if you’re able help other in the process, regardless of your motivation for doing so.

(Inspired by this post)