#neutromme

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Hello again!

This month, let's talk about genders that exist in between genders. Those are called centrigenders! Is this something you experience yourself? Tell me about it!

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[gender-jargon]

[Image ID: the Trinteri pride flag by Gent of Gender-Jargon. The Trinteri flags consists of three down-pointing chevrons of the same size, with negative space above, between and to the left and right bottom corner of the flag. The top negative space is very light green. The left-botton negative space is very light pink. The right-bottom negative space is very light blue. The chevrons from top to bottom are indigo, grey and teal with very very light grey space in between. ./. End ID]

Trinteri: a gender amidst the Gender Trinary; a gender that is centered in the middle of the Male-Female-Neutrois trinary.

[PT: Trinteri: a gender admist the Gender Trinary; a gender that is centered in the middle of the Male-Female-Neutrois trinary. ./. End PT]

Etymology

[PT: Etymology ./. End ID]

From Latin, "Tri-", a prefix meaning "Three" + "Inter" meaning "Between" + "-i", an English neologistic suffix indicating genderness. Literally "between the three". Coined by Gent (Gender-Jargon) (link) in March 2024.

Elaboration

[PT: Elaboration ./. End ID]

Trinteri was created as a result of this post (link) by @your-bigender-big-brother (link). The post posed the question, "what gender quality is right in the center of the trinary?". Most replied, including myself, neutrangity, while others cited epicenity or neutrœmmity, but the more I thought about it, the more I began to feel like these suggested designations were only approximate and didn't quite get to the root of the question.

As Stormy said emself in eir essay (link) ey wrote, the Gender Trinary contains qualities aside from masculinity, femininity and androgyny. Aside from these three, some others are effeminacy, femmulinity, epicenity, neutrommity, neutremmity, neutrœmmity, gynxemity, androxulinity, gyndroxity, neutrangity, tomboyishness and janegirlishness, to name a couple. This got me thinking, which lead me to coin Trinteri as a centrigender that includes the entire Gender Trinary.

Here is the graphic that Stormy included with eir question, which I edited to add Trinteri in the center for reference:

[Image Id: a graphical representation of the Gender Trinary. It is a down-pointing triangle with the left corner labeled "masculine", the right corner labeled "feminine" and the downward-facing point labeled "neutral". Between masculine and feminine, feminine and neutral and masculine and neutral are double-pointing arrows. In the left corner, there is a point labeled "Man". In the right corner, there is a point labeled "Woman". In the downward-facing point, there is a point labeled "Neutrois". Between "Man" and "Woman" is a point labeled "Androgyne". Between "Neutrois" and "Man" is a point labeled "Neutromme". Between "Neutrois" and "Woman" is a point labeled "Neutremme". In the very center, circled and pointed to by a large arrow is a point labeled "Trinteri", which is located at the very center of the diagram. ./. End ID]

I propose the term trinterinity to refer to the quality of gender that is located in the very center of the Gender Trinary. I would be very interested to hear about Stormy's thoughts on this post to see if ey agree, if I missed the mark or if ey have any other kind of feedback for me.

Trinteri is can be considered a midtrinary aporagender. Trinteri is:

a single, specific non-binary identity.

located in the very center of the Gender Trinary of Male-Female-Neutrois.

a centrigender of all trinary gender qualities.

[PT: a single, specific non-binary identity. located in the very center of the Gender Trinary of Male-Female-Neutrois. a centrigender of all trinary gender qualities. ./. End PT]

Trinteri is quite similar to, but distinct from Neutrangi, Neutrœmme and Epicene:

[PT: Trinteri is quite similar to, but distinct from Neutrangi, Neutroemme and Epicene: ./. End PT]

Neutrangi

[PT: Neutrangi ./. End PT]

Neutrangi and Trinteri are both in between Male, Female (rationalized as Androgyne) and Gender-Neutral, but Trinteri is also centered/in between all other trinary genders.

Neutrœmme

[PT: Neutroemme ./. End PT]

Neutrœmme and Trinteri are both in between Male, Female (rationalized as Femache) and Gender-Neutral, but is also centered/in between all other trinary genders.

Epicene

[PT: Epicene ./. End ID]

Epicene is a gender related to Male-Female indeterminance, having characteristics of both Maleness and Femaleness and/or having no characteristics indicative of Maleness or Femaleness. Epicene is a relatively complicated identity, as it can be considered masculine, feminine, androgynous, neutral and a sort of genderless all-in-one.

Both Trinteri and Epicene encompass experiences of masculinity, femininity, androgyny and neutrality, but Trinteri involves all other trinary identities as well. Trinteri is explicitly a centrigender, where as Epicene is generally considered not to be. Epicene is definitively indeterminate with regards to the Male-Female binary, but Trinteri may or may not be indeterminate in it's nature.

Pride Flag

[PT: Pride Flag ./. End PT]

The Trinteri pride flag was created by the coiner at the same time of the term (Gent, GJ, 3/24). The flag consists of three down-pointing chevrons of the same size, with negative space above, between chevrons and to the left and right bottom corner of the flag. The top negative space is very light green. The left-botton negative space is very light pink. The right-bottom negative space is very light blue. The chevrons from top to bottom are indigo, grey and teal with very light grey in between. The colors have the following meanings:

The very light-green negative space represents neutrinity.

The very light-pink negative space represents femininity.

The very light-blue negative space represents masculinity.

The purple chevron represents androgyny.

The grey chevron represents neutremmity.

The teal chevron represents neutrommity.

The very light grey negative space between the chevrons represents the center of the Gender Trinary.

[PT: The very light-green negative space represents neutrinity. The very light-pink negative space represents femininity. The very light-blue negative space represents masculinity. The purple chevron represents androgyny. The grey chevron represents neutremmity. The teal chevron represents neutrommity. The very light grey negative space between the chevrons represents the center of the Gender Trinary. ./. End PT]

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Neutrœmme Pride Flag

Neutrœmme (neutroemme or neutreomme): the combination of neutremme and neutromme; a centrigender of neutral, male, and female, meaning a gender in-between femache (or femasle) and neutral.

Different from neutrangi, it's specifically femmache instead of androgyne (although some use interchangeably). Also it can be considered a mix of two circa-binary centrigenders, for example: gender shuffler or multigender.

[stormy-talks]

Is it weird/bad that I don't like the circa-binary model? Like that little graphic with all the colorful balls?

Proxvir and juxera are placed between femache/male and femache/female respectively. Why? Proxvir and juxera don't exist between those things. That's what androgyne is (not androgynous. Androgyne.) Proxvir and juxera should exist on the outskirts of the graph near the points they resemble - proxvir outside of male and juxera outside of female.

Proximal genders and centrigenders (androgyne, gynx, androx, neutremme, neutromme, etc.) should be two different concepts, all a part of the circa-binary. Wouldn't that make more sense? I also don't think nixic genders fit the model at all. Why are they even included? They're just agenrine identities related to the gender binary.

I have a model in mind that I need to doodle real quick and add to this post. I just wanted to get my thoughts out there about this thing. I think we can make it better, more concise.

[neopronouns]

Could tromme be the man version of troy? Based in neutromme

it could be! and i've used traman in the past (ex: bennetraman)

[isobug]

Is there a term for being man and nonman?

"nonman" can mean literally anything that isn't "man" so for the sake of simplicity I'm going 2 mainly include umbrella terms and static terms (so no fluid/flux or genderfluid fragment sys) because otherwise this would be 2 long.

EDIT: I also want to state that "nonman" is a racist term (as well as exorsexist) and I'm not comfortable coining something with that (or "nonwoman" as definitions). I didn't know this at the time but I do now.

If you don't like any of these I'm happy to coin you smthn more specific !!!

Nonbinary

Bigender / Man-leaning Bigender

Manby/Guyby

A-Faunic

Demiman

Agender Man

Libramasc/Libraman (more under the cut !! )

Mxn

Miaspec

Mprox/Man-proximal

Non-Binary Man

Androx

Autimain (exclusive to autistics!)

Man+ / Man Plus

Menby/Minby

Masculenby

MAINgender

M-gender

Kenoman

Kaochisagender

Helian

Gendervir

Fluoman/Fluoguy

Nixvir

Femache / Male-female

Eiri

Cassman

The Mid-Binary system

Stellisian

Scaleman

Neuvir

Sarculin

Androx

Quoiman

Pomoman

Paraguy/Paraman

Neutroman/Neutromale

Neutromme

Xenoman/Xenomale

Virnull

Verdeman/Verdemale

Variman

Virvoid

Themismasculine

[yeehaww-sims]

hi, are you still taking pride flag requests?? if so, do you mind adding xirl, gynesexual, gyneromantic, skoliosexual, androsexual, androromantic, and biromantic? and any others that go along with these :) thank you :)

Howdy, I sure am! I've gone and added those, I'm so sorry I don't have a proper preview image for it, I haven't had the time to make one. It has been tested and works in game though!

You can find them in Requests part 2, since I got a request on twitter that got the first file to 100 swatches fdsjklsdfkjl Part 2 starts with Duaric!

[SFS] | [MF]

[Original flags post]

Also, skoliosexual's flag is in the original flags! It's listed under it's newer name, ceterosexual. If there was a specific flag you were looking for, I didn't see it in my search, and feel free to request it!

And to the anon who forever ago requested a pastel bisexual flag, I was originally going to do a full set of them but didn't know what ones I would want to do, so it's here now sdfkjldfs.

All flags in the Requests files as of posting:

This round of requests starts from Aliquaroace and ends at Xoy. Also just to have everything in one place, here's the requests I got from Twitter:

Aliquaroace, Aliquaromantic, Aliquasexual, Apothigender, Cupioromantic, Denromantic, Densexual, Epicene, Intrafeminine, Intragender, Intramasculine, Ipsogender [Man & Woman], Koiromantic, Koisexual, Lithosexual, Lithoromantic, Neutrangi, Pseudogender, Psuedomars, Pseudovenus, Ultergender. <- All of the twitter requests.

Duaric, Intergender, Julietian, Neutremme, Neutromme, Pluralian, and Romeric were added with those.

Androromantic, Androsexual, Biromantic, Pastel version of the Bisexual flag, Gyneromantic, Gynesexual, Xirl, and Xoy!

[imoga-pride]

hi! is there maybe a masterlist of masc-neutral leaning terms that one can look at perhaps? if not is there a good place to start looking?

I will list the ones I can remember:

Neutromasculine, neuvir, neutrovir/virtrois, masculitrois, mascuneutral/mascneutral, neumasc/neusarian, cenrell/dracosaris, verrneu, neutromme

[mogai-headcanons]

Glimmer from She-ra (2018) is an autistic sapphic asexual nonbinary glimragender girlflux pinkgender autigender femdoux sparklecoric genderfae glitrella trans woman with anxiety, depression, and insomnia who uses glit/glits, shey/shem, fae/faer, ny/nyts, ✨/✨s, 🎀/🎀s, 💫/💫s, and 🌠/🌠s as well as they/them auxiliary pronouns! ✨ is in a QPR with Bow, an autistic dawnian demipangender genderfaunflux ampligender neutromme mingender indivisc-mal autogender trans man with ADHD who simply describes his orientation as ‘multisexual’ due to not having the terms to describe it and uses he/him, ze/hir, flut/fluts, and thon/thons pronouns! Glimmer is dating Catra, an autistic butch aceflux nonbinary genderfluid felisgender polywave xenique binaryprox agenderflux lesbian with PTSD who uses xy/xym, it/its, clo/clor, kit/kits, ri/rim, claw/claws, ey/em, khey/khem, 💀/💀s, and 💉/💉s along with he/him auxiliary pronouns!

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Thinking of those who have in-between genders:

Androgyne: Between male and female.

Androx: Between male and androgyne.

Gynx: Between female and androgyne.

Neutromme: Between male and neutral.

Neutremme: Between female and neutral.

Neutrangi: Between androgyne and neutral

I think that's really cool, and I like what I'm learning!

- Your Bigender Big Brother 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Newly Coined Centrigenders

These are some centrigenders I came up with that won't have any flags made for them, but will have symbols made at some point. These can be posted to any gender wiki, as they already exist as part of a larger system of terms that wasn't coined by me. Just be sure to credit me!

Mavrinix: Between maverique and androgyne.

Mavrox: Between maverique and androx.

Mavrynx: Between maverique and gynx.

Neutrautonome: Between neutral and maverique.

Mavautre: Between maverique and outherine.

Neuxomme: Between neutral and neutromme.

Neuxemme: Between neutral and neutremme.

Neudrox: Between neutral and androx.

Neugynx: Between neutral and gynx.

Below are my ideas for symbols, doodled so I don't forget them. I'll refine them and remake them in Photoshop in the next few days!

A little bonus under the cut: Symbols for centrigender terms that already exist. Just for fun.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

I finally decided to make flags for the centrigenders I recently coined. I thought I couldn't make them look good but then I went with a format that might work. The flags are under the terms and for easy archival, I won't put them under a Read More.

Angidrox: A gender between androgyne and androx.

Angigynx: A gender between androgyne and gynx.

Mavautre: A gender between maverique and outherine.

Mavrinix: A gender between maverique and androgyne.

Mavrox: A gender between maverique and androx.

Mavrynx: A gender between maverique and androgyne.

Neudrox: A gender between epicene and androx.

Neugynx: A gender between epicene and gynx.

Neutrautonome: A gender between epicene and maverique.

Neuxemme: A gender between epicene and neutremme.

Neuxomme: A gender between epicene and neutromme.

- 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Do you think a gender in between neutromme and androx would be the same as a gender in between neuboy and androx?

Or does it depend if neuboy is interpreted as a single gender?

Neuboy is a mixture of male and neutrois. It can be a multigender or it can be a singular gender. Sometimes it's defined as a centrigender depending on how it's used. Neuboy is male and neutrois while neutromme is between male and neutral - neutral is a broader term here while neutrois is a specific ningender. Centrigenders are not the combination of the genders they sit in between. Neutromme is not a mix of neutral and male, but it sits in between those two points. Therefore, it isn't the same as neuboy even if it sat between neutrois and male. A gender between neutromme and androx would be different than one that's between neuboy and androx. - 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Here is a term I wanted to coin called centrine. It's a gender quality for centrigenders, midgenders, midbinary genders, and any of those that sit between two genders. It can include androgynous genders and lingenders. I'm thinking it can be centrine-in-nature, or CENIN (I'm still deciding on this.)

Genders that might be considered centrine: Androgyne, androx, gynx, neutromme, neutremme, neutrangi, trinteri, and many more. - 💙💚

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Here's a big list of male-related terms! 💙💚

I did my best to stick to terms that specifically mentioning boyhood or boy-alignment in their definitions, and to avoid terms with “boy” in the name that only mention masculinity. The distinction is important! Also, some of the definitions for these terms interchangeably use "boy" and "masc". It’s inevitable.

Boy (Can also be called man, guy, dude, lad, etc. Feel free to replace any instance of the word “boy” with one of these terms if it fits better!)

Trans boy

Demiboy

Magiboy

Nanoboy

Pixelboy

Boyflux

Boyfluid

Nonbinary boy

Xoy

Neoboy

Paraboy

Miaspec

Rosboy

Softboy

Xenboy

Xenoboy

Enboy/Boyby

Boygirl/Girlboy/Guygal/Galguy

Proxvir

Gendervir (and all related terms)

Voy (a gendervir person)

Vemme (a feminine gendervir person)

Vutch (a masculine gendervir person)

Linumgender

Neuroboy

Neurobxy

Wergender

Boything

Jupiaspec

Sortaboy

Neutromme

Hyperboy

Boyflip

Wystavian

Eldurian

Xoyvague

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Mavrinix, mavrox, and mavrynx can be synonyms of angiverique, homaverique, and femaverique I guess. The difference is that yours are based on androx/gynx and the others on homme/femme (from neutromme/neutremme/neutrangi).

Thank you. I tried to look around to see if any maverine centrigender terms had been coined, but I couldn't find any. I always feel a little silly when I accidentally coin something that already exists. My bad! 😅 - 💙💚