#nomasexual

[gendergasm]

NOMASEXUAL

nomasexual — the attraction to all genders except binary men.

not coined by me, just making a version of the flag that i like :)

[t-cypionate]

ABROFREYIC AND ABRODIONIC!!

i guess this counts as a coining post?? i havent seen anyone else make these and i wanted to use it for myself ABROFREYIC- experiencing fluid attraction to all but binary men ABRODIONIC- experiencing fluid attraction to all but binary women links to the original orientations for elaborate definition- https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Nomasexual https://lgbtqia.wiki/wiki/Nowomasexual

[isobug]

Dionifreyic / Dionic Freyic

One who is both Dionic and Freyic for any reason ( Fluid/flux identity, uses both labels, doesn't feel attraction to or simply chooses not to date Exor- / Xorgender / Binary Men & Women, etc. ) Intentionally broad like Dionic & Freyic and can be used alongside other terms.

The flag is just a combination of the Dionic and Freyic flags! Made for myself as I couldn't find an existing combo flag / term. Free for anyone to use as always and help with accurate ALT text is appreciated.

Taglist - @revenant-coining, @radiomogai

[beccapaintmore]

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[areyouthisidentity-polls]

Are you...

Nomasexual (also known as Nobrosexual or Freyic) is the attraction to all genders except binary men. Genders attracted to includes women, non-binary individuals, masculine aligned non-binary individuals, feminine aligned non-binary individuals, unaligned non-binary individuals, agender individuals, etc. The term was made with non-binary individuals in mind but binary individuals can use it.

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Femboric Pride Flag

Femboric or fenboric: an umbrella term for those attracted to women and non-binary people; being both femaric and enboric.

This includes trixenamorics, neptunics, mestric lesbians/darcians/feminamorics, pansexuals, panromantics, nomasexuals, nomaromantics, variangled people, and more, for example.

Not every femboric consider themself to be mspec, it depends on the person. Also, this doesn't mean essentially that they are attracted to binary women or every form of nonbinary.

Flag source. Term by mod A-p.

[genderstarbucks]

Heyo, I need help finding some sexuality flags. Not for me, just for two of my ocs.

1st: A sexuality that describes being attracted to any gender but men

2nd: A sexuality that describes being a nonbinary person who's only attracted to women.

I know that these flags exist, I just can't remember their names 😭

Thanks! :]

Nomasexual (also known as Nobrosexual or Freyic) is the attraction to all genders except binary men. Genders attracted to includes women, non-binary individuals, masculine aligned non-binary individuals, feminine aligned non-binary individuals, unaligned non-binary individuals, agender individuals, etc. The term was made with non-binary individuals in mind but binary individuals can use it.

Trixic or orbisian is a juvelic orientation that refers to non-binary individuals who are attracted to women. This attraction can be an exclusive attraction or not. A trixic or orbisian individual may or may not be attracted to other genders as well. If one is exclusively attracted to women, one might also identify as feminamoric. While only orbisian was specifically created as a non-binary equivalent of sapphic, both terms can be used as such. Trixic or orbisian can be used by any non-binary individual, regardless of alignment, though non-binary individuals attracted to women do not have to identify with these terms. It may be abbreviated to NBLW, (non-binary loving women).

Feminamoric is a diamoric orientation that refers to non-binary and/or genderqueer individuals who are attracted exclusively or primarily to women.

[skin-slave]

Solidarity™

[bilesproblems]

Short Piece: the Principle of Self-Exclusion (and why it's better than mandated exclusion)

I have referenced this principle in the past and said I need to write something on it, so now I'm actually doing that. The definition I will use for the principle of self exclusion is "it is only necessary for a term to define what it is and who it does include, not what it isn't or who it doesn't include. People who the term does not describe and who do not belong will naturally feel no sense of identification with it, and will self-exclude, and people who do not self exclude must feel some sort of genuine sense of identification with the term, and therefore belong."

This is a general principle, so there are of course exceptions based on circumstance. There are terms, such as nonbinary, faunic/daunic and floric, nomasexual/nowomasexual, and cisn't or straightn't that are very specific about what they aren't and/or who someone isn't attracted to, and hence the principle of self exclusion isn't entirely applicable to, but generally the idea of "it isn't necessary to enforce exclusion because people who it doesn't describe won't identify with it and people who identify with it are described by it in some way, else they wouldn't identify with it" can apply. There are also times when co-opted definitions become popular, like stud for example being used outside of its black-only context, in which case it is necessary to correct the record on the original definition and its exclusivity. So don't take this as a 100% infallible principle in every instance - it is a general rule of thumb.

In the context of mspec lesbians, it is an obvious application. There are no bisexual people wrongfully invading the lesbian label, because bi people who are not lesbians do not feel a sense of identity with being a lesbian. When a bi person does identify as a lesbian, there is a reason they feel connected to lesbianism, some of these being simple and obvious reasons like "I experience split attraction" or "I am bi and not attracted to men" but some are deeper and more personal such as "I had heterosexuality enforced on me so harshly that being a lesbian and centering my love of women is the best way to reclaim my autonomy and defy enforced heterosexuality, even though I am bisexual."

It's also true for lesboys, specifically aptobinary cis man lesboys. It's not usually defined as trans exclusive, but there is a reason that the vast majority of lesboys are trans. Most aptobinary cis men will not feel like lesbians in earnest, because the word doesn't describe them. Most aptobinary cis men who identify as lesboys later come out as trans and/or nonbinary, and the reason that it resonated with them was because they weren't actually men and didn't know it yet. If an aptobinary cis man does identify as a lesboy, then it can be assumed that there is some reason that its resonating with them, if they are identifying with the lesboy term in earnest and not as a joke. It isn't necessary to kick them out.

Sometimes, yes, people will claim to be an identity they do not genuinely hold. Does anyone remember "I'm a straight lesbian, I'm straight but I like the lesbian aesthetic" thing? Yeah that person came out as saying they weren't actually a straightbian, and invalidating anyone who did identify as a straight lesbian in earnest. Though there can be some good done in reinforcing that this particular person was not a straightbian and misrepresented the identity, it would not be necessary to tell them "NO, you're NOT A STRAIGHTBIAN" because people who do not earnestly hold the identity simply don't care. Straight men who jokingly say they're lesbians don't need to be strictly kicked out of the lesbian and lesboy labels because they do not genuinely identify that way. It makes them basically immune. You cannot stop people from joking even when it isn't funny, and when people with complex identities are thrown under the bus for the sake of proving why someone's pretend identity isn't valid, you're just further hurting the community. The actual best way to hurt an unfunny jokester is to take their identity 100% seriously, and act like you don't even get the joke. Now there's no one laughing. The punchline is lost when "straight lesbian" "lesbian man" and "bi lesbian" are normalized identities. Plus the joking party is usually someone with some queerphobic beliefs, so if their joke identity isn't succeeding at pissing off anyone nor is it funny, rather they're being associated with and assumed to be a "weird" queer, suddenly they won't want to say that's what they are anymore.

So yea that's pretty much it. People will exclude themselves based on if they fit the meaning, and if they seemingly don't but still identify with it, then something about the term's meaning is resonating with them and they have a reason and right to use it. When people joke, just ignore them and take it seriously and then when they don't get a reaction they want, they too will self exclude

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woagh u know Dandy’s world.. <- can't find it in ANY OTHER SOURCE LISTS of blogs we like!!! could we request a glisten from Dandy’s world,, thank u!!! ur blog looks super duper cool!!!!!!

Requested pack ᯓ★

Glisten Dandy’s World

// keep in mind headmates may not form exactly like the pack! //

Names: Glisten, Glitter, Shine, Goldie, Prince

Titles: The Prettiest Mirror, (prn) Who Deserves Attention, (prn) Who Loves (prn)self, (prn) Whos Pretty In Pink

Source: Dandys world

Age: 25-32

Pronouns: He/Him, She/her, H<3/H<3m, Hy/Hym, Glitter/Glitters, Mirror/Mirrors, Shine/Shines, Bow/Bows, Tune/Tunes, Song/Songs, Hum/Hums, Show/Shows, Play/Plays, Playboy/Playboys, Pretty/Pretties, Cute/Cutes, Pink/Pinks, Gold/Golds, Royal/Royals, One/Ones, 🌸/🌸s, 💄/💄s, 🌷/🌷s, 🌟/🌟s, 🥇/🥇s, 👑/👑s

Genders: Nonbinary, 80sgender, Artificialboy, Loverboysongic, Pinkribbon, Pinkangeldigital, Pinkadored, Pinkpresentic, Prileotegic, 👑gender, Bowavir, Fancyperfumic, Royalcoric

Sexualities: Nomasexual, Cycleflux, Impulsimor

Roles: Hoarder holder, Romantic trauma holder, Janusian holder, Container

Likes: Looking at ones appearance, Correcting people, Complimenting Royalself and others, Shades of pink, 80’s photos, Makeup, Old fashion, Bows and ruffles, Gold colors, Long dresses, Photographs, Being the center of attention, Records/Record players, Mangle from FNAF

Dislikes: Ugly photos of Playboyself, “Gross” colors, People calling him egocentric (or stuff like that), Hateful speech, Politics, Ugly outfits, Newer styles (HATES skinny jeans), Bugs (specifically beetles)

Extra appearances: Sparkly pink top with ruffles at the end, Sparkly pink shorts with rugfles at the bottom, Tall pink boots, light pink bow around his waist and neck, Dark purple eyeshadow, Pink blush, Long eyelashes, Light gold marking on his chest in the shape of a star

Extra info: Has a more feminine appearance, Fictokin of Mangle from fnaf, Will judge peoples outfits in headspace or outloud in front, Will front to do makeup or dress the body, Likes to shit-talk alot, Pretty caring towards middles/littles (reminds 🎀 of toodles), Not so caring to older headmates, Favorite source-friends were Toodles/Scraps/Flutter

Faceclaims:

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Thank you thank you thank you!!! We loved making this pack, specifically our glisten who really enjoyed writing about another glisten..

First post of the year! I dont know who started writing this one, but i decided to finish it!! Hope its okay..

[aholotte]

Introducing Fictomasexual and fictowomasexual. I don't usually coin terms and have no intention of becoming a MOGAI blog, but I've seen multiple people who experience these attractions but didn't have the word for it. They are under the fictosexual umbrella.

Fictomasexual is when you are only attracted to fictional men. Anyone can use this - exclusive fictosexuals, lesbians who struggle with heteronormativity and only like men if they're fictional (believe me, I've seen A TON of them), mspecs who only like men in fiction but like other genders irl, etc

Fictowomasexual is when you are only attracted to fictional women. Anyone can use this - exclusive fictosexuals, gay guys who struggle with heteronormativity and only like women if they're fictional (I haven't seen as many of them as I've seen lesbians who like fictional men, but I have no doubt that they exist), mspecs who only like women in fiction but like other genders irl, etc

You can be both fictomasexual and fictowomasexual.

The flags are based on the fictosexual flag and their meanings are in the alt text. The labels are based on nomasexual and nowomasexual

These labels have no DNI, so don't steal or recoin them or something.

[gendergasm]

NOMANDROSEXUAL

nomandrosexual — the attraction to masculinity as it is expressed by those who are not binary men

this term (if it is not obvious) is a mix between nomasexual and androsexual

coined by me

[queer-polls]

i'd like to just say that lesbian is not "the only sexuality that excludes men", here are some sexualities that fit the "exclusively attracted to women and nonbinary people" definition:

nomasexual

neptunic

trixensexual

trixic

nominsexual

enbitrix

venusic

lunaric

(you can find all of these on the lgbtqia+ wiki - there's probably more, i didn't search for very long)

Thanks

[lgbtqflags]

Neptunic

neptunic- attraction to all genders except man/man-aligned

aka: nomasexual

coined (8.31.2017) & flag by: @mad-dyspunktional (9.17.2017)

[reverse-queer-dictionary]

is there any specific term for being attracted to masculine women, feminine men, women, androgyny, but not masculine men? it's really hard to explain it doesn't matter to me what parts someone has, but i've never been attracted to someone who looks totally masculine it would fall under the umbrella term of bisexuality i'm pretty sure but i haven't seen anything in particular, i was convinced i was straight for most of my life until i realized i was a bit more flexible then that

Hello!

I wasn’t able to find a term that was that specific, but I came up with a potential one below the bullet points if you want to check it out!

Here are a few other, somewhat similar sexualities I found that sound like they could potentially fit:

Nomasexual - Someone who is attracted to all genders except binary men

Inmosexual - Someone who is attracted to 2 or more genders (but not all) and has no preference between those genders/is “gender-blind”

I also found the term minmasexual (someone who is exclusively attracted to masculine in nature men)—it sounds like a “no” version of this sexuality (nominmasexual) would likely fit what you are describing. I was unable to find a coining or mention of this sexuality, though. This post could be used as a coining or you could coin the term yourself, if it sounds like it would fit, though!

If you or anyone else would like to officially coin and/or make a flag for nominmasexual, feel free!

@crump-laude

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Noma- Sapphic Pride Flag

Noma- (nomasexual, nomaromantic, nomaplatonic, nomasensual, etc.): Feeling attraction to all genders except men; or attraction to every gender but not to binary men; or nomain- (nomainsexual, nomainromantic, nomainsensual, etc.)/nomia- (nomiasexual, nomiaromantic, etc.): being attracted to any gender but not to maingender/miaspec folks.

Sapphic: juvelic umbrella term for women attracted to women; woman-aligned individuals loving women-aligned individuals (WLW); femaric queer people (queers attracted to fiaspec people); inclusive of non-binary people attracted to non-men (exclusively or not).