#personal development insights

[quotelr]

We sometimes get together with others hoping their mood will elevate ours. In a way, we want to bring leftovers to the potluck and we're hoping to fill our plates with apple pie. Energy tells us why this won't happen.When we show up for a buffet of conversations, we will be drawn to the moods that reflect what we brought with us. Our feelings, beliefs, and thoughts seek similar energy fields.

Jeanne McElvaney, Personal Development Insights

[lifestylebychi]

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[thesophistiicate]

maybe an unpopular opinion but despite my passion for self development, i honestly dislike most typical 'self development' books and really believe you get a lot more self-expansion out of reading creative non-fiction, essays, philosophy, and literature. engagement with these types of works will expand your intellect and teach you how to grapple with big ideas for yourself, rather than following the rules set out by some girl boss or hustle bro in their glorified marketing pamphlet 'book'.

[sorry-not-feeling-it-right-now]

One thing about Smitten is that he is quite good at recognising the emotions of others, but this part of him is highly overlooked because of, well, his unhealthy attachment towards to princess. The only time he’s shown that part of his character is in the Thorn chapter, where he recognises the pain and self hatred Thorn has for herself and is 100 percent on team cutting her free from her bindings. He’s not even mad at Oppy siding with killing the Princess at all, as he just quickly forgives him and be like “oh water under the bridge”. With how protective he is over the Princess you’d think he’d be more angry at him, but he isn’t. Which is very interesting to me. One of the ways you can get Smitten in the Thorn route (aside from flirting) is to by recognise that the two of you are putting yourself in a cycle of pain, and then handing her the weapon (symbolising your trust) despite that, logically, you’d know that you would be stabbed. And yet he did that anyway.

The differences of the two versions of Smittens in HEA and Thorn lies in how much you know about the Princess. In Thorn, he’s seen how we’ve hurt her. He’s seen how much it had changed her, turning her into someone who is bitter and untrusting. So with he intention to redeem himself and to show that he is apologetic for what we’ve done, he gave her the implement (aka letting down his walls). For HEA however, he literally just met her. To get to HEA, he recognises that the Princess is upset with your decision of wanting the stay in the cabin forever. But because he(and by extension Quiet) fears being alone in an unfamiliar environment he pushes those doubts aside in order to make the both of you happy.

Both Smitten and Broken are emotionally open people, except when one sees the other upset his first instinct is to lift them back up and gently remind them that they’re worthy of love and kindness, while the other would sit down quietly with the other and listen to their woes.

(Reminds me of a fic that @/writingdevil wrote… it’s a poly fic between Smitten Broken and Oppy. Go read it. It’s really sweet)

I am on the team of “Smitten can become better if we just get him away from the Princess for a little while”. While his love and devotion for her is genuine, his fear of being alone that leads to his unhealthy need to please her and make her happy is. Something. Actually a lot of the Voices need some time out away from the Princess.

(Edited to have this cause I have a stupid idea. Ignore this)

[soulhealingastrologywithamanda]

The Shadows of Mercury: When the Messenger Bears a Heavy Cross

Mercury—the planet of communication, intellect, and perception—shapes how we think, speak, and process the world. But when harshly aspected (conjunct, square, opposite, Saturn/Mars,Pluto,Neptune, Uranus), its gifts twist into burdens.

The Hardships of a Struggling Mercury

The Mind That Never Rests *Overthinking, anxiety, racing thoughts—your mind is a prison of "what-ifs." *Sleep? Difficult. Silence? Rare. Every conversation replays in loops.

Words That Betray You *You stutter, second-guess, or speak too sharply—either misunderstood or accidentally cruel. *Sarcasm becomes a shield, but it cuts deeper than intended.

The Curse of Seeing Too Much *You analyze every micro-expression, tone shift, or hidden agenda—but this "gift" isolates you. *Paranoia whispers: "They’re lying. They hate you. You’re being played."

Learning Feels Like Climbing a Mountain *ADHD-like focus struggles or perfectionism that paralyzes. *You either absorb knowledge like a sponge or drown in self-doubt.

The Loneliness of Being "Too Much" *People say: "You overcomplicate things." *But the truth? They can’t keep up with how deeply you see.

The Hidden Gift in the Wound A challenged Mercury is also a Mercury that can master the shadows. *You detect lies, patterns, and truths others miss. *Your words, once honed, can cut through illusions and heal. *You think outside the box because normal paths never worked for you.

Advice for a Tough Mercury: *Write before you speak—channel the chaos into art or journals. *Meditate to silence the noise. *Own your depth—not everyone will get it, but the right ones will.

Remember: The most brilliant minds often bear the heaviest storms. Your Mercury isn’t broken—it’s forging a sharper wisdom.

Does your Mercury feel like a curse or a superpower? Share below.

~Amanda~

[amelikos]

The Horizons stage show in AnimeJapan 2024 (last year) was interesting and the bits with Friede and Amethio's VAs are still on my mind. They got to talk about their battles and their characters in general. (The event took place one day after the initial broadcast of HZ044 and before chapter 2 ended and thus reflects the events of the anime at the time.)

Either way, Horie Shun (Amethio's VA) talked about how Amethio changed through his battles with Friede. How Amethio battled out of a sense of duty at first, but gradually, feelings of frustration and his personal desire of wanting to win began to develop inside of him.

And Yashiro Taku (Friede's VA) talked about how through his encounters with Amethio, Friede grew to respect/acknowledge his will/conviction even though they had different objectives at the time.

Very interesting insights from their VAs, hopefully the same this year too.

[feminiel]

The purpose of healing is to develop the power to connect to our core, so we can express our authentic self and follow the best path for us to pursue. Healing gives us direction and clarity on how to connect to our highest purposes.

@feminiel

[reinterlacing]

upon developing the ability to be truly present with others and to adjust to the needs & interaction style of others, I firmly believe that everybody needs at least one extremely sensitive close friend.

[vulpinesaint]

I was taking your angel/devil quiz and I took it twice for embarrassing reasons and I swear I picked all the same answers and got a different result. Did I pick a wrong thing by accident? Did I forget that quickly? What the fuck

I mean I agree with the second result more anyway but that's not really the point

there are a good number of questions so it's possible that you hit another one by accident! another likely explanation, though: the way the quizzes work is by tallying up the number of answers you chose that match up with a specific result, and when you end up with a tie between two results, uquiz automatically chooses one of them and doesn't tell you about the other. i'm not sure how it makes that decision, but it might be that you were tied between two results and it gave you a different one each time :)

or. y'know. live in my beautiful mystical impenetrable world with me. the quiz knew it didn't do it right the first time and gave you a better one on the second time around. <3

[quotelr]

Our story is the raft we ride in our ocean of life. We cling to it even while we might lament our story because it feels safer to be on the raft than swimming in the currents of possibilities. When you are ready for change, jump off the raft and swim with a different story.

Jeanne McElvaney

[esco-gambino]

Your perspective will either become your prison or your passport…

[aigeneratedbest]

21 Hidden Motivations Behind Why Women Cheat

[youtubeshareschanel]

21 Hidden Motivations Behind Why Women Cheat

[soulhealingastrologywithamanda]

Astrology for June 10th, 2025

Mars in Leo Trine Chiron in Aries--The Fire of Healing

Today Mars (ruler of action and assertion) in bold Leo forms a harmonious trine with Chiron (the wounded healer) in Aries—a energetic conversation about identity, courage, and deep healing. Since Mars rules Chiron, this aspect is a powerful pact: The universe is urging us to confront the wounds tied to who we are, how we show up, and where we shrink from our truth.

“As above, so below”—this alignment mirrors an opportunity for radical self-acceptance, but not without vulnerability. The bravest thing you can do right now? Call yourself out on your B.S. Dig into the ego’s defenses: Where have you been performing instead of embodying your authenticity? What outdated stories are you clinging to? This trine supports undoing these patterns with fiery compassion.

Mars Square Uranus: The Disruptor Awakens

Meanwhile, Mars clashes with Uranus (the cosmic disruptor), sending shockwaves through our sense of control.

You might feel: *A gritty restlessness—like something needs to change now. *Emotional tremors—old fears or frustrations surfacing without clear words. *An urge to act impulsively to reclaim autonomy.

Lean into the discomfort. Uranus shakes us awake, and Mars in Leo demands we honor our truth without apology. This week isn’t about neat resolutions—it’s about courageous honesty and trusting the chaos as part of your metamorphosis

~Amanda~

[youtubealgo]

21 Hidden Reasons Why Women Cheat and How to Prevent It

[letsberealgenz]

3 Keys To Success You Must Know About

3 keys. These are the keys that would elevate your growth to an entirely different level only if you understand this. What are you waiting for? Let’s dive into it!

Time is our biggest asset of life and with the fast pace of technology it has definitely reduce our reading retention span. So I am going to do you a big favor by keeping this short, simple and sweet. (YOU CAN SAVE THIS AS YOUR “READING LIST” FOR FUTURE REFERENCE)

Grow 1% better each day

Yes I know we have been hearing this a lot lately. But there’s always 1 question that lingers which is “how-to” do it. Spilling the magic portion.

Read for a couple of minutes. Even if time is constrained for you but there’s always time to at least read 1 page. Right?

Oh yes I have to say this. If you can’t read, listen to audiobooks/podcasts then. Life savior for real (alternative for reading.)

Learn a new skill/tool/technology that would help you to improve your productivity and get you closer to your goals.

3 steps to grow 1% better each day.

Just do it

The Nike slogan fits so well for our 2nd key to success. I believe more than ever today we live in a paralysis analysis society where we ALL can really make use of our research skill to the fullest.

Hey, I mean that’s great! I do this too all the time but the key is this. You have to know when to STOP collecting data/information and to just START executing your plan. For instance let me share with you a real-life scenario:

If you’re planning to grow your business digitally utilizing social media platforms such as Instagram and TikTok. It would make sense for you to research the do’s and don’ts for the platform. The algorithm and hacks for boosting your content. The best time to schedule your posts and a lot more that goes with the online tech.

But here’s the thing. Once you start digging into these articles there won’t be a “STOP” sign for real. It would take you down into a rabbit hole of links where you just wish to know more and more about what you’re researching about. You would reach to a point of even though you have everything that you need yet you still feel there’s something more for you out there.

So please avoid this and save yourself a ton of time and effort by just executing your plan. Just do it. You can only learn best when you just do it.

“Your action is the greatest teacher.”

Here’s the hack. Once you start executing your plan, with every post and step of yours you are going to extract the most valuable lesson which is your data. Every post of yours have its in-built data analytics where it greatly helps you to track on what’s working best for your business and what’s not.

So this gives you a room to improvise your next step. That's’ how you achieve tremendous success in a short span!

Reflect

I should highlight this as the main key of success. Reflection is the game-changer for real. It gives you the room to:

Identify what works best for your growth.

Eliminate the unnecessary.

Improvise your current method.

Jot down your biggest achievement for the day.

Reflect on what you’ve learnt throughout the day.

Plan your next step strategically.

Gives you the idea on what to focus on.

These are just some of the main questions you can ask yourself or your team at the end of the day. Personally for me I insert this during my night journal. Here’s how you do it. Now it’s time to realize that it’s not only how you start your day but how you end it is way more important too!

Start applying these 3 keys into your life and comment your go-to key for success!

Yours, Asrajjit Kaur