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timecrack · 4 months

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little rant incoming

#had a great time last night #was getting ready to see a friend/fwb/idk that i really like and hadnt seen in very long but i wasnt sure where we stood #singing paramore in the shower #and i realized in real time as i was beltint still into you that i was.....well #still into him #and i was like fuck #cause i knew he was in a committed relationship b4 but i didnt know if they were still together and i didnt know if it was a monogamic one #but i was like ok we're still friends we'll hang out and stuff #but then i had that moment in the shower and got kinda bummed cause damn i still am really into him #like i really like him and i have really liked him for a really long time and he's the last/only?? person i've really liked that was like #reciprocal and healthy?#and the shower thing was funny too bc i had also had in the past a moment where i was singing a song in the shower and it kinda made me #why does tumblr have character limit to tags now #anyway #and it made me think of him/kinda realize i liked him a lot/think fondly of him #bixinho da duda beat #enfim #eu tive esse momento no chuveiro e fiquei tipo puts #SÓ QUE #mais tarde naquela noite/dia estava eu de volta no chuveiro. com ele #and as it turns out he's also still into me #i really really like him #he's really great #it was so nice and intimate and caring and loving and hot and honest #it was a little frustrating cause there was another friend there kinda third wheeling lmao #but it was so nice #he makes me feel very good #about myself and about sex #its always very honest and open with him. always has been #apparently i cant put more tags than this. ok ig. tumblr vc ja foi melhor

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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 5 months

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I want it back / I drag its dead weight forward.

#Better drawn mdzs #mdzs #wei wuxian #lan wangji #digital art #This was a style experimentation doodle that took on a life of its own.#In a way it is a great example of 'beautiful failure'. The original goal was to try a pure black and white contrast piece.#Which I very much failed at doing. Not quite ready for that! However what this turned into is something I like a lot!#Different but in a way that really pushed me as an artist. A little less simple; a little more proportional.#I was also recently thinking about LWJ's grieving that we only catch glimpses of.#LWJ grieved his first love for 13 years. His love that was never reciprocated.#He chose to dedicate his heart to that mourning and most painfully of all - he did so knowing there was no end to that grief.#Wei Wuxian comes back to life in MDZS but that is an exception. Not the expectation.#He was dead. Not missing. Not 'maybe in hiding'. He was dead and his spirit unreachable.#Jiang Cheng went forwards with denial but LWJ takes that grief on. He copes by continuing to carry the weight with him.#Let me be clear. Neither are healthy approaches. It is a way to cope but it does not mean that is healing or healthy.#Grief is loved transformed but it is also about endurance and letting go. Grief can change you. You can also change your grief.#It isn't a good or evil thing to experience. It is just an experience.

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beautyandlifestyleblog86 · 1 month

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Nutrient-Packed Salmon With Roasted Vegetables ——-

Ingredients:

* 4 salmon fillets

* 1 large sweet potato, cubed

* 1 red bell pepper, sliced

* 1 cup Brussels sprouts, halved

* 1 tablespoon olive oil

* 1 teaspoon garlic powder

* 1/2 teaspoon paprika

* Salt and pepper to taste

Instructions:

* Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C).

* In a large bowl, combine sweet potato, bell pepper, and Brussels sprouts. Toss with olive oil, garlic powder, paprika, salt, and pepper.

* Spread vegetables on a baking sheet and roast for 20-25 minutes, or until tender and slightly browned.

* While vegetables are roasting, season salmon fillets with salt and pepper.

* Heat a large skillet over medium-high heat. Cook salmon for 3-4 minutes per side, or until cooked through.

* Serve salmon with roasted vegetables.

Optional: For an extra boost of nutrients, serve with a side of quinoa or brown rice.

This dish provides a good source of —-

* Protein from the salmon

* Vitamin A from the sweet potato

* Vitamin C from the bell pepper

* Vitamin E from the olive oil

* Iron from the sweet potato and Brussels sprouts

* Zinc from the salmon

* Healthy fats from the salmon and olive oil

This dish combines lean protein, healthy fats, and a variety of vitamins and minerals for a delicious and nourishing meal.

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becca-e-barnes · 4 months

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Before I go back to writing requests again, I'm fully obsessed with 'Too Sweet' by Hozier and I just need to talk about it 🤤

Like dbf!Bucky laying you down on your bed, maybe in a little bit of a hurry before your parents get home.

"You're too sweet for me." Even as he's saying it, he's tugging your dress up, kissing up the insides of your bare thighs, letting you enjoy the gentle scratch of a couple of days of beard growth.

You pull your dress off the rest of the way, lying on your bed in only your underwear and it forces him to take a second that he really doesn't have to pause and just admire you.

"Far too sweet for me." He confirms, drinking in the sight of you. All those soft curves and kissable expanses of bare skin weigh on him because with so little time, where is he supposed to start? It's not fair to rush this but it's not like either of you would benefit from getting caught.

The way he looks at you gives you a confidence you've found you really benefit from.

"Maybe I'm not too sweet." You can't stop yourself, letting your hand trail from your breasts to the elastic band of your panties, sliding under the thin material.

Your fingers stray towards your clit, the tip of your middle finger circling the little bundle of nerves, very aware that you've got such a keen audience. Fuck, you're so wet already. You can't help it when he kisses the way he does; like he fucking needs you.

"Maybe I'll do all the naughty things you've ever dreamed of and then some. Maybe I'll be the one to ruin you." You're almost convincing yourself with this and it's thrilling to watch him squirm, his dick twitching in the confines of his jeans.

"I'd like you to." He hadn't given that a whole lot of thought until now. Up until this point, you were the sweet young woman who was entirely too wholesome to get tangled up with him.

That all changes quite quickly. It's hard not to when you remove the hand from your panties, trailing your arousal soaked fingertip along his bottom lip, keen to see how long it would take him to engulf it with his eager mouth. Not long at all, it appears.

#becca's thots #becca writes spice #bucky barnes smut #bucky barnes x reader smut #this has rattled around in my head for too long #everyone wants a partner who's just a little bit obsessed with them #in a fun healthy reciprocated way of course #wtf am I doing in France rn

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thegreatyin · 1 month

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ive officially entered the stage of OC brainrot where i start putting him in outfits for fun and (zero) profit

#giving urself a crisis over ripping your own heart out? simply dont feel sad!#go to a fancy ball with all the friends you definitely dont have!#bury all of your feelings forever!#distract yourself from the urge to curl up and cry into a pillow via putting on your best worst bat in a fancy outfit cosplay #specifically to impress another way older actual bat (that may or may not be an ex god)#that doesn't care about you and doesn't reciprocate your attraction in the slightest #simply stop thinking about it. stop thinking about everything. be a bat. be the bestest bat in the whole wide world.#this has been great and totally healthy life advice with the scoundrel <3 #yin art #legally FL but if i put this in the main tag i might actually die <- is shy #anyway ponytail scoundrel is unfairly cute. must the gradient on their hair 'make sense' and 'follow logic'?#is it not enough to simply be a little bat with zero thoughts in its head and a winning little :3 smile?#he puts a little gold drapery in his hair bc he thinks it helps hide the fact that the horns arent a head adornment and are in fact #Very Much Real. and Growing.#it hides literally nothing. he thinks he's so subtle. everyone knows you're a furry buddy it's okay you can stop being smug about it #fallen london

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howifeltabouthim · 7 months

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There's a belief that to take care of someone else, or to let someone else take care of you—that both are inherently unfeminist. I don't agree. There's no shame in devoting yourself to another person, as long as he devotes himself to you in return.

Curtis Sittenfeld, from Eligible

#relationships #feminism #reciprocal #two way street #relationship advice #mutual love #healthy relationship #devotion #quotes #lit #words #excerpts #quote #literature #curtis sittenfeld #eligible #partners #partnership

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skrunksthatwunk · 9 months

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aurghhh ok still rewatching '97 and the way guts and casca only have the room to breathe and really come to understand and care for each other in griffith's absence because he has such a strong hold over them both.... and the way their mutual dedication to him is what causes them to bicker for years (casca thinks he's not serving him well enough, guts thinks she doesn't get that he cares/how much he cares, casca's jealousy over griffith's feelings for guts, how he won his heart without even trying or being aware of it or doing anything with it) and is also a big part of what brings them together (earlier when guts deviates from the plan to save griffith and she commends him, in the cave casca opening up about griffith and her's past, showing that vulnerability, while it's mostly confrontational, leads to guts kinda getting her better, and his efforts to save and protect her (falling off the cliff with her, taking on the 100 men so she can escape, encouraging her to return to griffith so she can help him because it's what she feels she's meant to do (her dream, the direction in life guts shares and yet is questioning because of griffith's speech at the fountain, whether or not it's enough to serve him if it means he'll never be a true friend in griffith's eyes because he's not an equal), supporting the idea of her being with griffith/being his most important person like he won't because he doesn't view it as a competition like she has been since day one) leading to her realizing that he's kind of not that bad a guy and they have a lot more in common that she thought. and how the bonfire of dreams conversation is guts opening up to her in kind, the answer to her talking about how griffith saved her, how she feels. how neither of them ever call it love but it's something they know they both have for griffith. how it's something they're beginning to have for each other, different in ways they couldn't put a word to. because they're equals this time. the way griffith kind of becomes less and less important as they find other reasons to live and fight, as they become less singularly obsessed with him. how griffith is unable to stand it, guts' personhood, that agency and peer-to-peer equality he claimed to want (and perhaps truly did) that disappeared guts from his life, his plans, his side. how it barely even matters to griffith how casca changes because he never wanted her like she wanted him. god i can't fucking stand their shakespearean nonsense drama (<- hopelessly in love with their interpersonal dynamics)

#god they're the only healthy part of this unholy mind-palace love triangle/throuple aren't they #they could have been the worst qpr/throuple in your social circle. like just insufferable when they're not getting along #if griffith hadn't [oh god oh fuck oh jesus christ] all over everything even remotely good in his life anyway #poor casca's in love with a gay man and then falls for his not-quite-boyfriend and when not-quite-boyfriend reciprocates said gay man fucki #g. Does The Eclipse Stuff. at least partially to get back at you two. oh my godd #i'm sorry i'm so not normal about them. it's starting to leak out into the blog bc i'm finally having a Berserk Moment since starting tumbl #but whewwwww. gotta get this outta my system #hope this wall of text makes sense oops <3 #berserk #berserk 1997 #how do i even tag their thang. their disastrous just horrible agonizing 3 guy dynamic. hm.#gutsca #griffguts #don't even know if anyone tags for griffith and casca. fair because 1) he raped her. yikes 2) he just straight up isn't into her #and i don't know if there's a tag for the three of them but trial and error led to nothing #but i wanna talk about their dynamic. their. (gestures wildly) whatever. it's not about thinking griffith should kiss anyone it's about lik #the agony. the pining and the torment and whatever miura so beautifully crafted for me specifically. sheesh #hope it's clear that i Don't Want Them To Be An Uwu Little Polycule Bc Casca Should Not Be In A Cutesy Throuple With Her Rapist #it's more that i think they kind of are or almost are part of this (gestures wildly again). Thing. with each other and i wanna talk about i #same with griffguts like oh man they should NOT be in a relationship. but i have this deep intense Need to study them and frankly they're #kind of crazy about each other for a while. like they care about each other so so much it's crucial to all three of their characters.#so it's kind of unavoidable. and i wanna talk about it. and have this read by people who also want to talk about it. yeah? yeah.#(and yeah i think griffith raping casca was about her and guts. like 'fuck you for making him okay with leaving me' type of vibe. even #though it wasn't her fault he's just. god. but it sure as hell isn't Mostly about casca because griffith's making eye contact like the Whol #time with guts. he makes him watch. it's just. shooooooooooo aughhhhghhghh fucking. jesus christ. that or it's the fear that his two most #important pawns are going to leave him Together and he just. can't deal with that. especially after the torture internment thing.#he's so weak and he was so close to his dream and now it's falling apart and they're leaving him and he can't even move. it's about making #damn sure they can't escape him or forget him ever again.#or maybe it's even a 'you can't have her she's mine' to guts but it's still largely like. spiteful/about possessing her as a soldier/human #because i don't think you could convince me it's about having her as a lover or about controlling/hurting/possessing her body.)

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malpractice-husbands · 8 months

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House all for flirting and sexual innuendos, but the moment it actually works he's like walking panic attack

#It's so pathetic and adorable #Like a little dog that barks behind the fence but is all shy the moment you open the gate #house md #Imagine if Wilson actually reciprocated his advances #God he would be a mess #His relationship with Wilson is so stable and healthy Because of Wilson's no homo behavior #Smh

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pinkopalina · 9 months

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I love hearing people's batjokes shipping origins because a lot of them are like omg yeah the lego movie omg yeah telltale omg yeah deadly duo and killing joke meanwhile mine was learning about batman who laughs :)

#lego and telltale are both wonderful dgmw #but i am absolutely shipping them because of the obsessive world ending meta possibilities for which jokers love for batman allows #and batmans reciprocation of that obsession bc it goves HIM purpose and drive and need and he loves the clown for that #im shipping them in the wooooorst way #im impregnating joker just to fuck with bruces dad complex #like. 😵‍💫 im insane over them #i loved batman for a long time but didnt ship batjokes until so recently #i used to hate it actually? i was really into healthy best friend lover ships so i took the three seconds of cute in justice league #and shipped batflash and i was so on board for that despite never having seen much of jl to justify it lol #but then it was october 2023 and i was on my period and there was a batman who laughs video randomly on youtube #and then i became the creature i am today

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a-lilacsong · 3 months

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So, here's my first Sofia the First fanfiction! It features Roland II and Miranda having a conversation about something that they definitely needed to talk about eventually, and what better place to do it then there? (Trying not to give spoilers but I did put tag warnings on it just in case, because there are some heavy topics discussed).

#sofia the first #Queen Miranda #King Roland #King Roland II #sofia the fandom #stf #And since she is also in this I am also tagging #Queen Lorelei #my writing #In regarding one certain moment in this fic: I like to think that the friendship is two sided and reciprocated #even if one side is on the other side #I believe Miranda is a kind and understanding oddball with a healthy view on death after years of experience #meanwhile Roland was given the impression that death is a thing that he was not supposed to think about past the official mourning period

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aro-culture-is · 2 years

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Romance favorable aro culture is being a little sad that you won't get to meet someone who you'll have a fairytale ending with becuase you don't really fall in love. I'm still upset that I dont

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#ask-deltale-twins2 #aro culture is #aro #aromantic #actually aro #actually aromantic #ask #mod phoenix #romance favorable aro culture #idk how to phrase this in a way that sounds like... good? nice?#but fairy tale endings don't exist #relationships aren't going to be perfect and are going to take work #work within your means within your own life #what relationships bring you joy? put your energy into those #and if that energy isn't reciprocated practice self-compassion #around the cost of your energy and how much joy it brings you in return #(aka: i can't tell you an exact ratio that is healthy for you but be careful to not burn yourself out while caring about and for others)

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beautyandlifestyleblog86 · 2 months

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Salmon with Lemon Dill Sauce and Roasted Vegetables -

Ingredients:

* 2 salmon fillets

* 1 tablespoon olive oil

* 1/2 lemon, juiced

* 1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill

* Salt and pepper to taste

* 1 cup broccoli florets

* 1 cup cherry tomatoes

* 1/2 red onion, sliced

Instructions:

* Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C).

* Toss broccoli, tomatoes, and red onion with olive oil, salt, and pepper. Spread on a baking sheet and roast for 15-20 minutes, or until vegetables are tender-crisp.

* Meanwhile, pat salmon dry and season with salt and pepper.

* In a small bowl, whisk together lemon juice and dill.

* Heat a skillet over medium heat. Add salmon fillets skin-side down and cook for 3-4 minutes, or until skin is crispy.

* Flip salmon and cook for an additional 2-3 minutes, or until cooked through.

* Serve salmon with roasted vegetables and spoon lemon dill sauce over the top.

Salmon is rich in omega-3 fatty acids, which are beneficial for heart health. This recipe is packed with flavor and nutrients, and it's relatively simple to prepare.