#society problems

[kaszagryczana]

ASEXUALITY VENT!!!

Being asexual in scoiety can be do difficult sometimes.

Cause you would think "its just means that you dont wanna have sex, it cant be that hard"

but it is

Everything in this society revolves around sex, all of the teenage series have sex, all of the music, people talk about it, joke about it

ALL

THE

TIME

And it sometimes feels like you're doing something seriously wrong. Cause if everyone wants it that much and is so exited about it why do i want to puke even thinking about it?? It just feels like ny brain is broken, like there's something missing that everyone in our society seems to have.

The older i get the more i realise that being asexual isnt just a thing that you throw out there and then just live with it. I feel like with every moement it affects my life even more, the more i talk with different people the less i get the whole sex thing.

I just... don't get it, and its so scary because of that, we're scared of the things we dont know and i just feel like i have no idea of whats actually going on and im judt so tired of it...

[paige-to-page]

children realize a lot more than you think

be wiser and kinder towards them, if you could

I take things too far - my mom and I were cooking in the kitchen when I found a much smaller bell pepper among the regular sized ones.

I showed her the cute baby bell pepper and she said, "aw it was picked before it was finished growing."

and I reflected on this bell pepper analogy :

what is an adult if not just an older being with more experience than a younger one?

but a lot of times adults hold too many expectations for children and that experience alone can cause the child to grow up too soon.

so when they question the world around them and the adult fails to get their message across, the young are quickly dismissed.. a child is too young to possibly understand, right?

not realizing the 'adult' is just too incomprehensive to relay a child's understanding, abandoning their inquisitive spirit.

so now these younger beings have been shown the real world without an explanation. they understand to their own extent whatever concept they've been taught.

their mind matures faster than their anatomy and it's because of this that they are dismissed quickly. The child can be involved and exposed to the toxicities of their environment but are not old enough to have a voice?

and of course, the younger being will express itself because the unfairness in this world can be recognized and the world has not yet shamed it for feeling (until it does).

these little bodies have big minds that get crucified because "the adult is always right" - diminishing all confidence and curiosity that makes a person real and an individual.

can you remember how aware you were as a child before you were filtered and silenced by your peers and the world around you?

if you were picked before you were finished growing, it is possible to find yourself again or maybe find a new you, whoever you are today or want to be tomorrow.

but listen, my little bell pepper, you will never find out if you stay in the same garden you were picked from.

I take things too far - and this is in no way a reflection of my mom she's great

[gay-----pisces2]

i hate how with men its always: if a man is overweight he's a creep

personally I find chubby dudes adorable and have thought about gaining some pounds myself (I'm 5"3-ish and 106 pounds, gaining would help hide my more feminine aspects as well as helping me gain muscles)

[iiiii111iiii]

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[mshkilty]

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[giuliopozzali]

Why has selfishness become a valued trait in modern society?

Selfishness has long been considered a negative trait in society, often associated with greed, egotism, and a lack of consideration for others. However, in modern society, selfishness has increasingly become a valued trait, with individuals encouraged to prioritize their own needs and desires above all else.

There are several reasons why selfishness has become more accepted and even celebrated in today's culture. One of the primary factors is the rise of individualism, which places a strong emphasis on personal autonomy and self-expression. In a society that values self-fulfillment and personal success above all else, it is not surprising that selfishness has become a prized quality.Additionally, the advent of social media and technology has played a significant role in promoting selfish behavior. Platforms like Instagram and Facebook encourage individuals to curate an online persona that highlights their achievements and experiences, leading to a culture of self-promotion and narcissism.The competitive nature of modern society also contributes to the glorification of selfishness. In a world that rewards ambition and success, individuals are often encouraged to prioritize their own goals and aspirations, even if it comes at the expense of others.

Furthermore, the breakdown of traditional social structures and values has eroded the sense of community and collective responsibility, making it easier for individuals to justify acting in their own self-interest. In a society that places a high value on personal freedom and autonomy, selfishness is often seen as a natural and necessary trait.

Despite the growing acceptance of selfishness, it is important to recognize the negative impact that this trait can have on individuals and society as a whole. Selfish behavior can lead to conflict, isolation, and a lack of empathy for others, ultimately undermining the social fabric that holds communities together.In order to combat the negative effects of selfishness, it is essential for individuals to cultivate a sense of empathy and compassion for others. By recognizing the needs and feelings of those around us, we can create a more harmonious and inclusive society that values cooperation and mutual support.

Ultimately, while selfishness may be valued in modern society, it is important to remember the importance of balance and perspective. By striking a healthy equilibrium between our own needs and the needs of others, we can create a more caring and compassionate world for all.

[bluesilver]

Problems in Today's Society

Schools are pushing kids along when they clearly aren't learning the requirements for their grade level. Why? Because the entire school system is broken and has "the no child left behind" program.

Parents are no longer disciplining their kids, or parenting their children in general. Why? Because parents are too infatuated with the internet. Going on social media, becoming internet famous/rich, etc. Due to this, they demand teachers, or other people, parent their kids for them when none of these other adults have the legal authority to physically lay a hand on the children. All the adults can do is ask the kids to do something, but they can't make children do anything.

Instead of raising their kids, parents are placing electronic devices in their children's hands. This way, their kids will leave them alone. As a result, children are being deprived growth and development beyond a tablet or a phone. This is occurring as young as a few months old. Thus, children are becoming unruly and uneducated as they grow. Why? Because parents are allowing their kids to spend all their time on electronic devices.

1/13/2024

[bonkersbon]

Random rants because I couldn't sleep all night

Insomnia is a bitch

But here it goes (and yes I'm sober just prob crazy🤔)

Teenagers are not TEENS 13 and Adults are not grown adults at 18

It is wild to me that this world expects so much from literal CHILDREN! children

They question why they are trialing kids are adults as early as 12 years old

Because they're making adult decisions and expected to as early as 13

Thirteen is not a damn teen

They're children and no one is treating them so

I used to get offended at the reference “it all starts at home” Or blaming the parents

It isn't 100 on the parents, let's face it! This world and social media now play a massive role in our children's minds and all the medications they're on for this or that

But the problem is the parenting and then society

We're an oxymoron

If you are raising your kids right then, at 13, they're still playing with Barbies and board games and monster trucks and making slime and playing hide and seek

That is what children do

And people are raising their kids so messed up that 12 year old ARE OUT COMMITTING crimes, having the deed and doing things they can't comprehend

They're combative and fight and get abusive with the officers and society as they do at home because of how they're being taught

They're skipping school and not knowing how to make decisions and then end up homeless

The statistics are all there, and history after history, people are repeating the same shit messing up their kids, and now the issue with kids is technology and being overstimulated

Take that technology away and see how long they can sit still

How many kids mimic everything they see

Idolization and profound misconception of what is socially acceptable or morally right. See it on TV. They mimic it

Even hurting others

There are so many hidden agendas everywhere you go

With what people sell wear and advertise

Ten year olds wearing makeup and not believing they are pretty how do they even know to talk like that or be like that

Their innocence is robbed, but parents can play a huge role

They slip away from you and grow up no matter how much you try to shelter or protect them

It'll happen

But a teen is not a teen, and an 18 isn't an adult

Protect your damn kids from this world

Raise them teach them and damn educate them

Protect them, shelter them, and do whatever you must as a parent to raise your kid to be a good kid! And a morally good one, too! Who helps others not be damn delulu babies and filled with weird jealousy and malice — always trying to compete — for what? Your spot quicker to the ultimate destination?

So many parents fail their kids, and they fail them so early on

But what I'm mad at right now is society as a whole expecting kids to grow up too fast and know too much too fast. And then, on top of it, not raising them with proper discipline so when they're “adults,” they're out there tearing up this world. And then you all question why?! I wonder why so many kids out there doing petty crimes then acting out like four-year-olds in the judicial system and getting slaps on the wrist and sent back out for the parents to take no responsibility and blame it on the system

It starts at home

And anyone who believes differently is delusional and can fight me over it

They need to bring back old school butt whoppings and for the love of god ladies and gentleman stop kicking your kids out at 18! They ain't grown

They can't afford to live on their let alone make grown decisions. Let them live at home and push for them to get an education and or an excellent job

Push for kids to help parents more. We don't help elderly and that is because we haven't taught our kids to

We in America kick our kids out at 18 and put our family into nursing homes

Live at home take care of each other and help each other and learn right do right and be right

Be kind

The selfishness and malice and generational dysfunction will always make me mad

And trust me I'm not speaking from a glass house

How I grew up and how I've chose to parent hasnt been a walk in the park

But I communicate

My kids are KIDS, and they have hearts and souls, and feelings beyond what society even gives them time for, and raising good kids in this fucked up world isn't easy. But seeing it all come to shit sucks! Navigating thru it sucks and having to teach my kids about ignoring certain people in life is so sad

To teach them all the dangers and reality is already sad

Why would I want to push them on their own to face that already at only 18

It starts at home, with parenting

Love your kids! And they are kids! Children! Tiny innocent beings with huge imaginations that want love and to discover

We'd have many better people if parenting styles and dysfunction weren't so THERE! Like just why does it even have to be a thing anymore

When will we do better

Abuse or drugs or addiction or mental illness will never be a reason to be a shitty person or a shitty parent, and I fear for my children ever to feel unloved or get hurt by this world, but it'll happen, but why would I actively treat them like an adult or teen way beyond the appropriate time

I just don't understand it anymore and I don't want to

I'm just going to keep mentally fighting to stay strong thru the Bullshit

Cuz parenting with other parents is hard

Adulting with other adults is even harder

[donotdestroy]

4.2. Flexibility and Corruption

Since the Thai are not principle oriented, and with the high value for personal relationships, they also appear not to be strictly law-oriented. In practice, principles and laws are ever-adjustable to fit persons and situations. In other words, laws are rules laid out in papers; but what is wrong or right depends not on the rules, but instead on who the person is or whom the person knows. A prominent Thai businessman ironically described this phenomenon in a seminar: 

We Thai are not a society of law; we are a society of relationship.... It is not what a person has done that's wrong; it's who he is.... If he is your cousin, or your friend, then what he has done is not wrong. But if another person does the same thing, and it's somebody you don't like, then what he has done is wrong...

Source: S. KOMIN, Psychology of the Thai People: Values and Behavioral Patterns. Bangkok, Research Center, National Institute of Development Administration.

[biblesteps]

For all our talk of tolerance, we demand that others adopt our characteristics and beliefs. They must express no difference from us, or we ill name them as beyond the pale of engagement. It is common for us to insist that everyone "respect difference"--allow people to be themselves--but in the very next moment we show complete disrespect for anyone who diverges from our cherished beliefs. We sneer at people more liberal than us as social justice warriors; we disdain those more conservative than us as hateful bigots. - from "The Prodigal Prophet," by Timothy Keller

[lolx123456789]

Our Generation has had no Great war, no Great Depression. Our war is spiritual. Our depression is our lives.

-Chuck Palahniuk

[terracebatman]

Terrace Batman visits homelessness encampment under bridge near Terrace BC, Thornhill BC

I was asked to visit a location underneath a local bridge while I was out on patrol. I found this homeless encampment, and a young woman sleeping on top of a garbage pile. I helped transport her to a local shelter, then helped with some cleanup. I'll be following up in this issue.

[britishempire1583]

The reality of living with Irish flatmates

I live in Munich in a shared flat. For the past couple of years I've had quite a few flatmates from different countries around the world. I've noticed an annoying trend in regards to people from the Republic of Ireland. Every single Irish man/woman I've got the misfortune to share this flat with, has been nothing but filthy, disgusting, noisy, disrespectful towards contract obligations and the laws of the country, lacking common sense, lacking basic education. The fact that nobody ever introduced himself/herself upon meeting the rest of the flatmates is absolutely baffling to me. Unfriendliness and unwillingness for communication coupled with no desire to resolve any problems of their own making, makes one think about the type of household those individuals came from. Parenting skills are obviously a miss in the Republic of Ireland.

Let's enjoy the Irish way of life:

Apropos Irish people don't know where the washing powder goes, consistently stuffing it in the softener spot and then purring the softener on top resulting in a glue paste being formed.

Some toilet shots and I would like to say that was on a "clean day":

And my personal favourite - stuffing rubbish in the kitchen cabinets and lockers:

The landlord has been notified in person, he saw all the filth, said he's going to take care of it, but so far nothing has been done. The landlord is Irish.......

[gay-----pisces2]

i hate the demonization of ages. many people even demonize age without realizing it.

"oh man you're 50!? you look so good for 50. you look not a day older than 20!" that's the same as saying

"oh man you're white!? you look so good for a white person, unlike all the other ugly ass whites out there."

you see what I'm saying? folks cant change their age, so there's no point in demonizing it anyway. you cant just say

"all them 50 year olds are ugly!" and suddenly all the 50 year olds will become 20 or whatever. so just stop.

im in my 30s, and guess what? I look my age. and when I'm 50 I'm gonna look 50. and when I'm older, I'm still gonna look my age. and I'm quite happy with that.

[thebarbieghost]

I know that a lot of people say that p*rn in general is bad but as a Muslim middle eastern girl I cannot describe how horrible and violated seeing ads or ghost accounts that use my religion or culture makes me feel....the humiliation and objectification is on another level completely....I hope genuinely from all my heart that those who contributed to the slandering of my culture and my religion get the karma that they deserve and I hope it isn't merciful

[mshkilty]

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