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incorrect-hs-quotes · 3 months

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TT: I went to the store with my mom and said I wanted the lesbian candle. TT: She looked at me and said, and I quote; MOM: u have enouhg lesbian shit already how bout getitng a gf for once thag's pretty lesiban to me TT: During pride month, too. Like, Mom???

TT: Can you guys stop rebubbling my worst moment ever?

#submission #source: @9inofmalenia on twitter #do you guys think mom or rose would own more queer stuff #i think mom would plaster the trans and bi flags everywhere and when rose comes out she also starts putting up the lesbian flag #or more bi flags depending on ur headcanon #and also at first rose would hate all the pride stuff her mom buys her #but then starts liking it up until this happens #i love the lalondes can you tell #lesbian #pride #\\ AND DURING PRIDE MONTH ? Goddamn Momlonde you can't do that to your kid /silly #rose lalonde #mom lalonde #incorrect homestuck quotes #homestuck

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beastwhimsy · 2 years

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dress up!!

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#bluey #mackenzie bluey #mackenzie border collie #you can interpret this through any lens you wish!!#bluey fanart #mackenzie bluey fanart #something something wish I had experienced trans joy as a kid #this was inspired by how everyone thought he was a girl because of his name #so I went. what if she WAS a girl #transphobes if you even touch this post I am exploding you ok?#’he’s a child’ yeah. so was every trans person on earth #’kids are too young to be exposed to-‘ no!! if I had known about queerness as a child things would’ve made a lot more sense

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jesncin · 3 months

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Wanted to draw something to acknowledge the questioning and closeted members of the queer community! All these kiddos from Lunar Boy ended up questioning themselves in the story at different moments in their life, some figure themselves out and others are still open to exploration~

I love that the quote "I already like you, every part of you- even the parts you're still figuring out" has been so beloved among readers. Even if you can't celebrate openly, you're still a part of the family!

#pride #pride month #lgbt books #booklr #queer #trans #qpoc #questioning #graphic novel #lunar boy #my art #it can be isolating when modern queer representation puts such an emphasis on queer people who are out #I think that's such a disservice to the breath of experiences queer people and kids can have

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anotherqueersnailowner · 4 months

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Trans? Need a Name?

i will fucking name you hmu

#“oh but a name is so personal how can you name a stranger?” I'm your fucking dad now. I'm gonna name my fucking kids and you cant stop me #if youre trans and already have a name but still want a mostly deadbeat internet dad that works too #i can send you a shitty lil digital card at the holidays it'll be great #if you want a more personalized name (i.e. not a random name that pops into my head but a name w a specific meaning theme etc)#i will do it but itll cost you like 1-5 dollars idk #i need an outlet for naming things other than pets stuffies and myself #im this close to making my middle name Sievert-Nathaniel-Russel #and thats too many fucking names for a middle name #imagine trying to get that monogrammed #it's five names in total it would be a fucking nightmare #thats why i have to name you ppl now #queer #genderqueer #genderfaun #transgender #ftm #nonbinary #transmasc #trans #lgbtqia #transfemme #trangender #transfem #genderfluid #name suggestions #naming #trans names

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harryzroze · 8 months

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Fem Wukong that appeared in my figure study prac >:)

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dont-offend-the-bees · 4 months

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Fuck I hate being an adult. I need a more adult adult to help with the volatile emotional situation.

#I've sort of made a new friend? Like we met at the same art group and he's also trans which was like pleasantly surprising in our small town #but like. We have Differences Of Opinion #and it's not totally his fault because it sounds like he's had a Lot of bad shit in his past that's obviously made him wary and closed off #but like. He's slightly older than me (only 4 years) and keeps blaming a load of his problems on other trans folks?#like you know the type. The like 'all these nonbinary/other identities the kids are doing are complicating shit'#the 'it hurts to see people younger than me inc. kids get hormones thrown at them when I still can't get 'em' (which... yeah not even true)#and he's told me himself he doesn't engage much with the queer community bc it's too 'toxic'#and like. I can absolutely understand why he could've had some bad experiences esp. since he has some mental health shit going on #but he wants to be friends bc he doesn't know anyone else going through the medical shit and it's like. Yeah no shit you don't?#you decided the community you'd find them in is toxic? and that people in them are doing being trans wrong?#and I think if he was just some guy online I'd like roll my eyes and ignore him #but he's a real person in my vicinity and I feel fucking bad for him #and I can see how much self loathing he has and how much that probably informs the bullshit #like he told me he thinks that trans men and cis men are fundamentally different categories and trans men will never be cis men #but not in a 'the experiences are just different and come with different perspectives way'#in like a self defeating way. Like a I just have to settle for being a trans man way.#and it made me SO SAD #like bro #I'm so sorry for whoever the fuck made you feel like you're fighting an unwinnable battle #and I want to be a friend to him. I want him to feel like there's other queer people out there and there's friends and hope #but also I genuinely could see him being the kind of person who would get really angry at you for no fault of your own #like I already get the distinct feeling he resents me a little #like obviously not too much since he still wants to hang #but he's been trying and failing to get HRT for years and I got it super quickly basically by sheer luck/a doctor who looks out for me #like I'm so fucking lucky. And I just genuinely feel like he's the kind of person who might take that personally.#I just do not think I have the fucking. Emotional tool kit to salvage this shit #But I also can't exactly text him and say sorry I don't think we should hang out so. What do.#.....I wasn't even LOOKING for a new friend! I have enough friends!!! I wanted to make clay faces and look at pretty buildings dammit!!!#now I have to be the emotionally mature one who goes hmmm maybe let's not blame other depressed trans kids for our problems buddy #I'm just gonna have to be like. Upfront about my stance and if he doesn't like it well he doesn't have to hang out with me

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keyh0use · 8 months

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the fact that this was my first ship speaks volumes, like of course I seek out the most problematic, toxic, aggressive person in a show and pair them with a dramatic, whiny, obnoxious brat. The cycle repeats itself again and again

#I remember standing on the internet freeway and begging for Elitz (😭😭😭) fanfiction #Fav part about Degrassi gotta be where we can ship everyone without repercussions bc it's Degrassi #like yes there are 72737382737372 queer kids in attendance at all times.#And what about it???#Yes that Mormon girl is in love with a trans guy #And yes Fiona did kiss her twin brother #Nothings off limits at Degrassi high #Loved Clare. Not with Eli tho #“YOU PUNCH LIKE MY GRANDMA”#remember the first time Fitz grabbed Eli and thought yeah...that's the stuff I'm lookin for #degrassi #eli goldsworthy #Fitz Fitzgerald #clare edwards

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sleeplessdreamer14 · 4 months

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I made the mistake of looking at politics first thing in the morning and now I feel like I’m gonna vomit please for the love of god we’ve just gotta grit our teeth and vote

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bread-that-draws · 1 year

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Sorry not to be insane about fictional characters again but like. Nimona’s big “monster” scene. How she realizes nothing has changed. How she discovers her “allies” were willing to turn on her the moment there was a reason to do so. How her roar is an anguished scream. How something as simple as a kids commercial about slaying monsters, something nobody else even bats an eye at, causes so much pain. How what she turns into is so unlike her usual shifting. How the director was ready to destroy innocent people to get rid of her. How it didn’t matter to the director if innocent people got hurt just to get rid of this “threat”. How the director, just as capable as hurting people, isn’t the one demonized. How this moment has been quietly building up the whole movie, even though she brushes it off, even though she pretends not to care (how she seeks out a supposed murderer because he may understand her, how an arrow to the leg isn’t a big deal to her, how she plays up the “monster” stereotype but hates being called one, how her first breaking point is a little girl showing the same generational hate that Gloreth showed, how she always explained what she was as Nimona). How done with all of it she is. How she gives up. “I see you”.

How Nimona is such a fucking queer story that it makes me explode

#LIKE????#its about how no matter what queer people will be demonized for lashing out when cishet people can and do do the same #its about that one series on TikTok i saw a while back that was duetting cishets being weird with the caption #‘this would make national headlines if a trans woman did it’#its about seeing yourself in the media in a negative light that nobody else cares about #its about embracing the stereotype because there’s no other option #its about meeting kids who repeat what their parents say #its about being the first to be turned on because you’re different #its about embracing being different but still feeling this deep pain from it #its about laughing it off because what else can you do #its about being deemed as crazy when you finally react #its about transphobes not caring about cis kids who also need hormone therapy because hurting trans kids has always been the priority #OUUUGGGHHH #lgbt #lgbtq+#queer #Nimona #nimona spoilers #analysis #character analysis #kinda idk people seem to like it when I do that

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spineless-lobster · 27 days

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Hey guys can we like please love “ugly” trans women? Can we please love fat trans women? I just really think we should love all trans women thanks

#okay story time #news has a segment about the ‘very demure very mindful’ girl y’know the one #and I’m all excited because holy shit trans woman success story!!! (she got enough money from the trend to medically transition wooo!!!)#all of a sudden my mom talks about how ugly she is and body shames her?????#and I tried shutting that shit down immediately I was like ‘that’s so rude literally what did she do to you?’#then my mom is like ‘I’m also fat so I can say that’ NO YOU CAN’T???? I DON’T GIVE A SHIT IF YOU’RE FAT DON’T BE RUDE TO PEOPLE???????#like genuinely it was mind boggling that negativity came out of nowhere #she ask kept misgendering her as ‘they’ even though it was mentioned twice that she’s a trans woman and the newscasters used she/her #idk that shit just really pissed me off #she’s such a hypocrite too. like if there’s fat models in a commercial it’s fine (which I agree ofc)#but as soon as a fat trans woman is not conventionally attractive it’s some big issue and we have to make mean comments about it #fuck off with that shit #anyways I just really had to vent about that I was FUMING #usually parents are disappointed in their kids not the reverse #trans women #trans #transgender #queer #transfem

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our-transmasculine-experience · 6 months

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I really like this blog cause it's supporting of transmasc lol! So I think I want to share my story with this one annoying kid 😊 (expect the worst the kids delusional) so I had eventually decided to come out to this thing, next day? "Oh My mOm ToLd Me ThAt YoU cAnT cHaNgE yOuR GeNdEr!" tried to explain to him that he shouldn't believe his mom all the time and hes like "NO! SHE'S MY MOM!! I HAVE TO BELIEVE HER!! RAGHHHHH AGGHHHH DJKSIAJDKSOSHF" so yeah, now I know how transphobic kids come from transphobic parents. May come back with more experiences idk

how old is this kid? if it’s a kid under the age of 10 or so, then it makes sense for them to believe their parents since most kids still idolize their parents at that age.

but either way, i’m sorry that happened to you

#i think you should be blaming the parents and not the kid here #because the kid seems way too young to really understand #but that’s a whole nother can of worms lmao #lgbt #transgender #queer #transmasc #trans boy #trans man #ftm #trans #trans guy #lgbtq

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six-of-snakes · 1 year

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somtimes a boy's just gotta recognize the girl he used to be and acknowledge what she did for him and then move on to keep living his life knowing she's watching proud of what he's done

#i really feel like i am a boy who used to be a girl #and I don't really acknowledge that because it can be really triggering for my dysphoria #but that girl learned about being queer #she has childish crushes on girls and callrd herself a lesbian and learned about the existence of trans people #she did most of the work to get me where i am #and sometimes i feel like she was someone else entirely #and it's a little weird to feel like the boy i am now was never an innocent kid #but that was the girl. she let me become who i am and stepped aside #but i think she'd be proud of what I've done #how far I've come #so i just wanted to appreciate her for a minute #good job younger me. you got me here. i appreciate all the work you did <3 #transmasc #ftm #personal #oliver talks about himself again #transgender #please be kind I'm just thinking about my own personal experiences with gender #feel free to reblog though #queer #lgbtqia

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cuntwrap--supreme · 6 months

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I've been doing a lot of grocery delivery in the country lately, so I ordered myself a nice bumper sticker so I fit in with everyone else's stuff :)

I've seen a lot of these lately, but they were all of a pride flag I don't recognize. Not sure which gender/sexuality has the red and white stripes with the blue with white stars in the corner, but I guess it's an ok design. The rainbow is the traditional LGBT flag, though, so I feel it symbolizes the collective queer community a little better and will be a little more noticeable/recognizable than niche flags, like this stars and stripes guy.

#queer #pride #rainbow #flag #gay #lgbt #fr tho I've seen so many q-anon and trump stickers that i feel like this'll either be really funny or I'll get my windows smashed in #for some reason the country here isn't just chill people eeking out a living doing what they can #it's all super well off people who immigrated from elsewhere in the us and are incredibly aggressive #I'm from the middle of nowhere. country folk are typically very kind even if they're a little ignorant to shit like being gay or trans.#but this is the kind of people where i got called a dyke twice just walking through kroger #i had the person behind me at mcdonalds yelling about my sticker that says i don't break for kids #anyone i know who has lived in that area for a long time hates all these new people #they've driven up housing prices to be just as much as in the city. they're all republicans who fled California or Illinois...#...and they brought with them their more radical views and hateful big-city attitudes #like yeah. this wasn't a place to be comfortably out as gay beforehand. now it's actively hostile instead of you get weird stares kinda shit

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fandomshatewomen · 5 months

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What exactly is the problem with "queerphobia"? I prefer the word "cisheterosexism," personally, but that's just as vague. Why can't there be words for a more broad phenomenon which includes the more specific forms of oppression OP of that post is demanding be acknowledged?

Okey dokey so this is in regards to this post: https://www.tumblr.com/fandomshatewomen/749573906105614336?source=share

And I’ll say, speaking for myself, I’m actually pro-the-term-queerphobia. Because I think it very accurately describes the process that these people go through. They come across a person who does not act in the ways that they expect them to, but they’re not gonna go through the whole rigmarole of “I have interpreted this to be an X type of person therefore I expected them to act in Y types of ways, but they have not and this is upsetting to me but that’s okay because people are allowed to upset me” they’re just gonna jump straight from that confusion to disgust/revulsion/anger and displace their poor self-regulation onto you. Or me. Or whichever queer/non-“normal” person they happen to have interacted with that day.

That being said I’m just one of the mods on the fandomshate blogs, and there’s a whole bunch of you in this audience. Feel free to reblog and add your thoughts or send in messages and we can continue the conversation :)

• mod dyr

#a couple p.s. thoughts. first is i do understand that it can be hurtful to feel unseen by ‘general’ terms like queer #and sometimes specific terms like lesbophobia or transphobia are genuinely more appropriate.#ig i just feel like its rare that the specificity of those terms is necessary and ‘queerphobia’ is truly insufficient #i also worry that when we start to get too linguistically specific re queer terminology it’s papering over transphobia. and that sucks #but you have to understand that if you act in trans-exclusionary ways its reasonable for people to treat you accordingly #this world makes queer people vulnerable because of our queerness #and I’d argue queer people are much more similar than we are different #so rather than scatter to our acronym factions i would much prefer to seek out the joy and the power of queer unity #but who knows maybe thats just me (kidding)

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gayforcarstairsgirls · 1 year

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Great so now we're outing children/teenagers to their parents! And therefore possibly endangering them! Fantastic!

#kemi fucking badenoch #i genuinely cannot stand that woman #at a tory event one time she stuck 'male' and 'female' signs on the doors of gender neutral bathrooms #who fucking does that?#and who does this?? you are FORCING teachers to out their students #what if they hear by accident that a student's friends refer to them with different name/pronouns?#they have to report that home?#for some queer kids the ONLY place they can be themselves is at school with their friends (and even then it's limited)#and now kemi badenoch is taking that away as well #for FUCK'S sake #uk politics #trans rights #kemi badenoch #this is taken from a guardian article btw!!#sorry to be like #depressing on main lmao #but i can't rant abt this to my mum bc tbh she'd probably agree with badenoch #so tumblr it is #i am just #SO FRUSTRATED BY THE TORIES AND THEIR 'CuLtUrE wAr'#GROW TF UP AND GET SOME EMPATHY UGHHHHH #transphobia #tw transphobia

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bagelbucket · 10 months

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bold take we aren’t ready for is that people think they’re trans just because they don’t align with society’s “ideal” gender roles when in fact it’s just their personality. or because of internalized biphobia.

#but we AINT ready for that conversation #you’ll say you don’t wanna wear dresses or paint ur nails once and oh damn you must be a transman #and not because of having a literal actual trans experience #<- not aligned with your !!biological!! gender #people will misread this but like. you can be a biological woman and call urself a girlie and use he/him pronouns I genuinely don’t care #literally I do not care what u do #but there is a thing in noticing!!! where kids or adults realize they don’t align with how the world views their gender #and people say they must be trans #or because they’re straight or gay but . Because they might be butch or flamboyant. they think they HAVE to be trans bc #god forbid they’re just a feminine man or androgynous woman or masculine woman or nb man or person or !!!#anyways.#gender is a spectrum along which anyone can reside #while also feeling in touch with biological gender #(biological gender = sex)#anyways. Hey #bagel talk time #queer discourse #ANOTHER BOLD TAKE: transgender doesn’t exist because GENDER is a spectrum of experience DIFFERENT from sex #you can’t be transGENDER because gender is already a fluid human experince #we’ve just…..put ‘man’ and ‘woman’ into boxes based on gender roles and expectations #you can be transexual tho because that’s literallyyyyy the entire thing. that’s what it is.#<- all said by a person who thought they were transexual because they were experiencing (and still do) behaviors and traits different from #what society expected and HUNDREDS of people told them they were trans #almost went on hormones and changed my body because I was convinced #and that wasn’t the case for me #I use he him they them pronouns because I’m comfortable with them and because I feel masculine and androgynous sometimes #is it apart of the ‘trans’ experience? sure yeah!! 100%#and not everyone feels that way of course. but like. I’m not actually trans.#I just experience fluxes in gender #I’ve had a trans experience through finding myself but I’m not gonna call myself trans because I haven’t changed my body

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