i love you bears i love you butches i love you trans men i love you transmascs i love you drag kings i love you masc queers of all persuasions the world is so much better and brighter for the existence of queer masculinity
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and what if i said that irene adler and godfrey norton are butchfemme? what then?
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Abolish the idea that any kind of bigotry is inherent to any group.Being an afab lesbian dosen't make you a transmisogynist,being asian dosen't make you a conservative,being black dosen't make you a queerphobe.And being autistic dosen't make a racist,being a man dosen't make you a misogynist and being white dosen't make you an ignorant innocent.Stereotypes and removal of responsibility of your own actions by attributing them to certain minorities as a whole and something that's a part of 'who you are' rather than a concious choice you make nonstop and refuse to work on for those you hurt are extremely close.Bigotry is not culture or normalcy,it's abuse and fascism
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is error aroace? idk i just feel like it makes sense ... pls be lesbian..pls be lesbian..😊
man if she wasn't an aroace lesbian that means something went wrong
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i am not a woman i am a man but i am also a wo-MAN. do u feel me? u get it? i am gay in every direction
if u were to plot my gender on a graph it wouldn't be one point or multiple points but a weird-ass shape that encompasses several known points and a lot of the nuance between them.
just juxtapose a piece of swiss cheese on the graph and u get the idea. it's all one piece of cheese but it is a shape not a point.
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tumblr stop recommending me terfs challenge! yes i am a feminist, but i am also hugely trans and believe intersectionality is the only way forward. yes i believe in deconstructing gender and gender roles but i also know how important gender is to people's sense of self, and that it's impossible to try to categorize gender more specifically than "a [gender] is defined as someone who identifies as a [gender]" without excluding someone, just like when in metaphysics my professor asked "define what a chair is" and then pulled out so many examples of "okay, by your definition a stool isnt a type of chair" and "what about bean bag chairs" or "that could be a table, which implies that all tables are chairs"
terfs and swerfs could be fighting for and with everyone against the oppressive systems we live under but they're so set in their ways that they refuse to see how the patriarchy harms men too, or how even if the porn industry has a lot of problems, many people of all genders enjoy sex work and are fulfilled by choosing it as a career path, or how a lot of the things trans people are fighting for would result in a better world for everyone- but it's easier to just say "rights for me but all men are evil oppressors and trans people are either traumatised or are evil and anyone doing sw is coerced or damaging our fight"
i could go on about this for way longer but i already have a bad feeling this might end up spreading further than i'd like so TO REITERATE:
TERFS AND SWERFS FUCK OFF. THERE IS NO LIBERATION FOR ONE UNLESS WE UPLIFT EVERYONE. INTERSECTIONALITY IS KEY. ok bye
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I recognize that this isn't necessarily a race in which I have a horse so I apologize in advance for like daring to open my mouth but I find this whole. God for lack of a better term "femboy discourse" to basically be another rerun of "no version of trans identity that isn't exactly like mine is bad actually." Like okay I realize that your specific gender identity "has nothing to do with men" and it would be extremely improper and offensive for someone to group you in with "cis femboys" on that account, but you cannot just apply that across the board. Look at how nonbinary this website is. That's never going to be a uniform fit
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glad that people seem to like henley as much as i do👍
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I'm still getting she/her'd in places where they should be able to figure it out by now, but I take solace in the fact that if people are seeing me as a woman then they're seeing me as extremely butch
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