backlog of crushed pictures
i make these when i need to work through something- like a proof or a poem
the process is something like moodboarding how i feel or things i believe and trying to put them together into a cohesive vision
i make a few versions usually that are different answers-paths i could take. frequent i make new versions when i need occlude the message or feeling better
i’m trying to get better at 3d textures and would love to do these at higher res. they’re just made on my phone before i go to sleep and am scared to change the process yet
it’s a bonus when i am proud of them! and it is fun to come back. like an old movie, does it feel different now?
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Selfish Thinking
(TW ⚠️Self Harm with descriptions ⚠️)
I wish I thought more about you
About how much I like you
Want to spend time with you
And enjoy kissing you
And if someone asked
I would say it's true
That I like you a lot
And thats not a lie
But my brain doesn’t automatically go there
Stuck in it's habits
It thinks about things that confuse me
But before I go on
I should stop separating my mind form myself
because these are my thoughts
I think about cutting
How deep I would go if I wasn't trying to stop
How the edges would part
And the fat would bubble up
If I would get stiches
or carfally duck tape it closed
I think about what I might tell my therapist
the following day
Word for word what I might say
And what she might be thinking as I say it
I think about Ms.Smith
And I'm sorry I think about her more than I think about you
But I can promise you don't want me to think about you in the way that I think about her
Because the way I think about her distresses me
I can't go anywhere without thinking
I hope I run into her
And if I did how might I act
And then think what if I were to accidentally slip and crack my head open on the floor
How I would go unconscious
And the blood would pool
I imagine her worry
How she would be the one to call for an ambulance
And sometimes when I'm alone
I think what if Ms.Smith or my therapist were watching me
And then my actions change as if I'm putting on a show
I'll pick up a knife and dance around my kitchen
I'll hold it against my face and slide it down my check
With not nearly enough pressure to draw blood
And it's not the initial thoughts that distress me
In fact I seem to quite enjoy entertaining these scenarios
and if the thoughts ended here I would be just fine
But I can't think these things with out questioning why
if enjoying them is wrong
And if letting my actions entertain these thoughts is a bad thing
And now I’m picking my thoughts and feeling and actions apart
Trying to solve there meaning
That perhaps there is something wrong with me
Now convinced something is wrong
but I'm not sure what
So I begin googling every though I have to find there meaning
To see what my symptom fit best
By this point I've done this so much
I know what vaguely fits
But there is still so much uncertainty
So I keep coming back to it
googling and analysing
I feel dumb I'm even doing this
But I also can't stop because
If none of it's true
If nothing is wrong
Then that must mean
I've faked it all
So now I hang onto something being wrong
I keep looking for an answer
teetering on insanity
Because all of this is better than being a fraud
And now I'm thinking I am a fraud
Because I'm the one perpetuating the cycle
And maybe I'm not finding diagnosis that fits
But fitting myself to a diagnosis
Now I can't be sure if anything I've thought or done is genuine
So I start questioning everything I feel, think, and do
If any of it's real
Not sure how I feel
Or if my actions are all for show
Perhaps even my thoughts are a lie
Protecting me from seeing the truth
That this entire time I've caused this all
But all this to could be a symptom too
So I start again
And analyse this
See what fits best
Still worried that somethings wrong
That I'm faking it all
And that I'm spending more time thinking about this
Than I think about you
And before I end this I should admit
things have gotten better
Not just in how much I think
But in how I think about these thoughts
Being kinder to myself for thinking these things
In talking with friends I have come to learn
That it's not all that wrong to think in this way
that implies attention as my goal
But when I returned to therapy
I felt like progress was lost
That my ideas around therapy
Brought be back to a place
Of anylitival critsisum
Because I'm thinking therapy
Is supposed to be about understanding myself
About identifying flaws
In order to find solutions
But this line of thinking is exactly what lead me here
I've trained my brain to find a flaw in everything I think, feel, and do
taught myself to look at my thoughts and actions as arngment of symptoms
As if my existence is a disease
And I know that this is not what therapy has to be about
Nor do I want it to be
and I can only take guesses as to why I view therapy this way
and perhaps it’s better for the way I think
That I don't go there
Because I know what happens when I start to think
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