#How to avoid dating burnout

[prefer-unique]

Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[m4jesty-love]

Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[eleanorbloom]

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[bloomzone]

my micro goals for 2025 p1

1. Start going for walks every time I feel stressed or anxious.

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I'll step outside and take a walk to clear my mind and release tension.

2. Learn more about the world in terms of history and facts.

I will dedicate some time each week to dive deeper into the world’s history, discover interesting facts, and expand my knowledge.

3. Journal every single day, no matter how messy the day is.

I'll commit to writing down my thoughts daily, even on chaotic days, to maintain self-reflection and track my growth.

4. Go on solo dates twice a month.

I'll make it a point to take myself on two solo dates each month, whether it's exploring a new cafe, restaurant or enjoying a peaceful time in nature.

5. Take care of my health and take breaks between study sessions.

I’ll prioritize my health by remembering to take breaks between study sessions to recharge and avoid burnout.

@bloomzone 🍄

[astrolook]

Your Saturn Return: Why Life Feels Like a Cosmic Midlife Crisis (And How to Survive It)

So, you just hit your late 20s, and suddenly, life feels like it’s testing you in ways you definitely did not sign up for. Your job? Feels like a never-ending loop of doom. Your love life? Either nonexistent or way too serious. Your friendships? Half of them vanished overnight. Congratulations 🎉, my friend—you’re entering your Saturn Return.

Wait… WTF is a Saturn Return?

Saturn, aka the strict cosmic dad of the zodiac, takes about 29.5 years to return to the exact spot it was when you were born. When it does? It’s like a stern life coach showing up at your front door yelling, “Hey, time to get your act together!” 🚪

If you’ve been coasting through life without a plan, Saturn’s about to hit you with a reality check. If you’ve been avoiding responsibility, Saturn’s here to serve up consequences. This transit pushes you toward maturity, purpose, and stability—whether you like it or not.

And trust me, where Saturn is in your birth chart determines exactly what part of your life is getting dragged through the trenches. 👀

Saturn Return in the Houses: What’s Falling Apart for You?

🪐 Saturn in the 1st House: "Who even am I?" 😵‍💫

Saturn is forcing you to redefine your identity and take yourself seriously.

Expect a whole personality shift—old habits, appearances, and insecurities are all under review.

You might feel more self-critical, but this is actually the universe pushing you to build real confidence.

🏠 Saturn in the 2nd House: "Am I broke or just bad with money?" 💸

Money lessons are here, whether it’s job insecurity, budgeting struggles, or learning self-worth.

Saturn is making you rebuild your finances from the ground up.

By the end of this, you’ll be handling money like a pro (or at least not blowing your paycheck on impulse buys).

📖 Saturn in the 3rd House: "Why is communicating suddenly so hard?" 🗣️

Your ideas, words, and even how you think are getting a major upgrade.

Maybe you’re going back to school, learning a new skill, or dealing with serious sibling drama.

Saturn wants you to become a master of clear, meaningful communication.

🏡 Saturn in the 4th House: "Family trauma speedrun—let’s go!" 😭

Childhood wounds? Generational patterns? Emotional baggage? Yup, all resurfacing.

You might be moving, buying a house, or redefining what “home” even means.

Saturn wants you to break toxic family cycles and create a stable foundation for yourself.

💖 Saturn in the 5th House: "Why does fun suddenly feel illegal?" 🎭

Romance, creativity, and self-expression feel like they’re being put through a cosmic stress test.

This is a "grow up or give up" moment—either commit to your passions or find something more meaningful.

If you’ve been dating like a chaotic mess, Saturn’s about to demand some emotional maturity.

💼 Saturn in the 6th House: "Work, health, routines—why is everything so exhausting?" ⏳

If your daily life is a disaster, Saturn’s here to force you into discipline.

Your health, habits, and work ethic are getting an overhaul (expect wake-up calls about burnout and self-care).

By the end of this, you’ll be the person who actually sticks to a schedule and drinks enough water.

⚖️ Saturn in the 7th House: "Why is my love life being personally attacked?" 💔

Saturn is testing ALL your relationships—romantic, friendships, business partners.

If it’s built on shaky ground, expect breakups, ghosting, or deep confrontations.

The good news? If you survive this, you’ll only attract relationships that are strong and long-term. You could even get married between the ages of 27-31.

💀 Saturn in the 8th House: "I did NOT sign up for this level of emotional intensity." 🖤

Deep psychological work, trust issues, and facing your fears—Saturn is dragging you into the underworld.

You might deal with financial debts, inheritances, or a major transformation in your personal power.

It’s tough, but once you get through this, you’ll be emotionally unshakeable.

🏹 Saturn in the 9th House: "Time to get my shit together and figure out my beliefs."* 📚

You’re questioning everything—your worldview, religion, education, and even your life goals.

Saturn might push you toward travel, higher education, or a deep spiritual awakening.

By the end of this, you’ll have a clear purpose and philosophy to guide your life.

🏆 Saturn in the 10th House: "Am I failing at life or just leveling up?" 💼

Saturn is testing your career, reputation, and sense of achievement.

Expect job shakeups, new responsibilities, and pressure to succeed.

If you do the work, you’ll come out of this as a true expert in your field.

💙 Saturn in the 11th House: "Where did all my friends go?"

Your social circles are getting a reality check.

Fake friendships fall away, and Saturn pushes you toward meaningful, long-term connections.

You might feel isolated at first, but in the end, you’ll find your true people.

🛌 Saturn in the 12th House: "Why do I just want to stay in bed forever?" 😴

The hidden corners of your mind are getting a deep cleaning.

You might deal with subconscious fears, spiritual awakenings, or deep solitude.

By the end of this, you’ll be more spiritually aligned and self-aware than ever before.

How to Survive Your Saturn Return (And Not Cry Every Day)

🔹 Accept the lessons. Saturn isn’t punishing you—he’s making you stronger. Learn the lesson, or Saturn will make you repeat it. 🔹 Commit to self-improvement. Whether it’s therapy, new habits, or changing your mindset, this is your time to grow. 🔹 Get a personal birth chart reading. Want to know exactly what this transit means for you? DM me for a complete birth chart reading, and let’s decode your cosmic homework! 🔮

[newkatzkafe2023]

Monkeys meeting a reader who can see into the future like Bruno Madrigal, as is constantly left isolated from others.

I mean come on nobody sees these as warnings to try and AVOID?

We don't talk about (Y/n)😶

(Lmk Wukong) What ostracized for being able to see bad news in the future?! AS IF?! he wished he had met you a long time ago. He would have been able to avoid so much of life's bullsh*t, but here you are, nervous isolated and very, very, very, very kind. Wukong eventually fell in love with you because of your care for others dispite your emotional burnout and isolation. You started to feel the same to finally feeling safe enough to trust and love again.

(HIB Wukong) Now this is the first time he's ever been curious along with his son Luier. Learning that somewhere out there their is a beautiful but very isolated female monkey with the power to see the future. That makes Wukong wonder a few things and went to find you to get some answers. When you guys do met you the first thing he saw was burnout and sadness, Wukong immediately felt sympathy for your depression and mood. He and the children worked to lift your Spirits reminding you that life is beautiful, as Wukong kissed your face.

(NR Wukong) Ohhhhh Mystery Green eyed monkey lady, how exciting that is for him. Although he would be curious to know why such a beautiful jade siren, is all alone by herself in the night. That's when he learns about your gift you can see pretty far into the future, it probably explains why you keep slipping away from him so easily. Wukong decided to get tricky and he soon had you where he wanted you, right in his arms wooing you all night long.

(MKR Wukong) Oh jeez good luck pushing him away, Wukong has not been deterred by some nasty rumors before and he ain't gonna start now. He met you all alone in your cottage because he heard you can look into the future, but what he wasn't expecting was a pretty little monkey. Wukong was suddenly besides himself having such pretty eyes on him, and got extra stubborn to leave you be. Soon after finally helping him he made sure to bring you along too, holding your hand leading the way.

(Netflix Wukong) Ohhhhhhhhh Man this...this is a very deep untreated cut, Wukong knows about isolation, being ostracized, and rejected better then any mortal and immortal ever😥 Deep down despite his bravado and loud mouth he wouldn't wish that kind of loneliness upon even his enemies. Which is why he would go out of his way to break you out of your shell, so what of you can see the future all he sees is his future with you😉

(BMW Wukong) Your isolation would not deter him what so ever, you were the most beautiful creature he's ever seen. Wukong would do anything to get you to spend time with and date him, but you were extremely pessimistic about his chances for a good time with you. Though with the way you were receiving neck kisses from Wukong, that wouldn't take long to change your mind.

(Destined one) Wow you....you were beautiful and what's more is that you have an intriguing little gift. Though the Destined one immediately felt a large amount of depression from you, especially your isolation and pessimism. He definitely took it upon himself to give support and care to you, As he takes it upon himself to show you the bright sides of life bring a small smile to you.

FEEL FREE TO REBLOG🐀

[unanimousgolddd]

I love your Wesker series so much!! your writing of him is so good.... 🥹🥹🥹

Can we get a continuation if it, pretty please? slightly suggestive/NSFW is okay too!!

Date Night

Summary: What could go wrong going on a date with Dr. Wesker?

TW: pre-RE1 Wesker is possibly ooc, usage of pet name (love and lovely, sweetheart, pretty thing/pretty, dearest), implied fem Reader (they wear a dress and makeup), smut (w/ or w/o plot?) fingering, missionary, unsafe sex on a couch (please wear a condom or so help me), clothed sex (mostly on wesker's part), vulgar language (cunt, fuck, shit, dick), this just gave me a reason to try writing NSFW for the first time

Author's note: I'm so sorry; this would have been out sooner, but I'm dealing with some health issues (which worsen my anxiety and further rob me of actually writing) and I'm experiencing burnout because it’s summer break. This is also written for a fem reader only because I’m more familiar with that perspective and would rather not attempt writing a masc version poorly (since I'm a perfectionist). If this seems poorly written, I apologize; I'll rewrite it at a later date when I regain my special magical writing abilities.

Word Count: ~4.9k

Pt. 1 & Pt. 2 & Pt. 3

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Heavenly virtues and deadly sins. Charity and Greed, Chastity and Lust, Diligence and Sloth, Humility and Pride, Kindness and Envy, Patience and Wrath, Temperance and Gluttony. You were supposed to have virtues, the guides for your morals to make you a good person.

But patient wasn’t something you’d describe yourself as.

Dr. Wesker sent you the details two days before your planned Saturday date. The date was simple: He’d pick you up at 6:30 and drive you both to an authentic Italian restaurant in the nicer part of Raccoon City. The restaurant served fantastic pasta dishes, gorgeous desserts, and pastries. Although what wasn’t so simple was waiting and acting normal during work hours. Following your routine kept you sane, never drifting from the set order of events to keep you focused on the present.

Friday went as smoothly as any other; you woke up, went to work, and finally got off your shift. You and Dr. Wesker headed towards the parking garage together, partaking in a small conversation like usual. By the time you both stepped from the elevator, he reminded you of your date the following day, before he gave another lingering kiss and left you near your car with a hint of a smirk on his lips.

The excitement of having a date didn’t hit you until this morning after you ate breakfast. And after a realization, you became aware that you didn’t remember the last time you went on a proper date, especially not with a man like Wesker. If there was any. High school dates were cute, with boys bringing stereotypical roses (or not at all) and being too selfish to care about anything besides potentially getting into your pants. Perhaps that’s why you avoided dating like the plague, too worried that the next man (or actually boy) you came across would force you to lower your standards and settle for something not even half your worth. Perhaps that’s why you were so willing to go on a date with Wesker. Whether intentional or not, he made you want to be better, to seem like you deserved to have a chance with him, unlike the women and men who would incessantly suck up to him.

You had gone through your entire closet and dresser after breakfast, too much of a perfectionist not to mentally and physically prepare yourself even if it was seven hours before he picked you up. Most of your outfits screamed corporate instead of date, given how much Umbrella took most of your time, and it was hard enough trying to find a Spring or Summer outfit. But once it turned into two hours of indecisiveness and frustration, you decided on three options.

Option A was a light green floral patterned dress that came down three inches above your knees, hugged the shape of your waist, and was held up by two thinner straps. Option B was an all white off shouldered dress, making it very susceptible to staining from possible spills of food. The flowy skirt came lower and ended near the top of your shins and featured two long pieces of fabric around your waist to tie back to make a cute bow. The last dress, option C, was much slimmer and showed off your figure more than your work outfits did. It was another floral-patterned dress, however, the flowers were much larger and spaced out, with the soft pink colors complementing the white fabric, and it was held up by much thicker straps. All three dresses could be complemented with a cute Hawaiian flower clip that rested on your dresser.

Now running behind, although not really, you hurriedly grabbed your shower products and hopped into the shower. With a determination to look like a deity of beauty (and smell like one), vanilla-scented wash was your friend. You shaved your legs and other areas like your life were on the line. Your face was cleaned with the more special occasion products. Your hair was thoroughly conditioned and was soon wrapped up in a towel to be taken care of. Out of the shower and drying off, you quickly got to work with making sure your body was moisturized and silky smooth. Your makeup comes next.

You wanted to go with a simpler look, given that makeup wasn’t a specialty of yours and because you’d rather not experience the icky feeling of makeup on a hot day. Minimal concealer was applied to certain parts of your face, mascara on your lashes, quick eyeliner that brought the color of your eyes out, and a pretty pale pink lip gloss on your lips. You tackled the mess of your hair, separating it into sections and detangling before adding products to complete the look. Finally, you were left with deciding what to wear between the three options.

After staring at the outfits laid on your bed and their matching shoes underneath them, you decided to wear option C. You sighed as you looked in the mirror, eyes moving from your hair to your face, then down your neck, chest, and dress, and to your legs. It was odd wearing a dress after wearing pants and a shirt for so long. It was odd finally doing something other than eat, work, sleep, and repeat. But you didn’t entirely mind it.

You put your jewelry on, handling the delicate chains around your neck and wrists. Taking the cute flower clip, you added it to your hair and gave a smile to yourself in the mirror. You grabbed your purse, heels, and your phone to your living room. It would be a little while until Wesker showed.

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You perked up, and anxiousness flooded your system the moment you heard a knock on your front door. Quickly putting on the pale pink heels and spraying a little bit of vanilla perfume, you came to the door. With a breath, you turned the deadbolt and the knob before opening it. There stood Dr. Wesker. His appearance was just as sharp as usual, a crisp navy button-up with the sleeves rolled to his elbows and black slacks. A watch glimmered in the evening sun on his left wrist, reminding you that Wesker was paid more than you could ever imagine. He held a bouquet of your favorite flowers in the same hand.

“You remembered.” You murmured, a smile slowly appearing on your lips. He reached his hand out and handed them to you, the bouquet looking much larger in your hands than his.

“Of course. Why wouldn’t I?” He asked. His gaze followed you from behind the dark lenses, watching while you made quick work of filling a vase with water and taking care of the flowers. You didn’t have the heart to embarrass yourself by explaining why you thought he wouldn’t remember a little detail you mentioned in a passing conversation.

You grabbed your purse, which contained your phone, keys, some makeup, and other belongings, before walking back to your front door. You stepped out, closed and locked the front door behind you, before Wesker led you to his car with his hand on your lower back.

You both rounded the curve of the car, and he opened the passenger door for you. Once you were inside and your seatbelt was strapped over you, he was sitting down on his side of the car. It wasn’t long before he was driving out of your neighborhood and driving to the restaurant. You began a simple conversation to get rid of the silence that filled nervousness in your stomach. “I’m surprised you even suggested this.” You said, running your fingers over the texture of your purse. “Why?” He asked, turning on his turn signal, and turned the steering wheel to the right. “Though you were all business and no relationships.” You said a little quieter.

You heard him hum as you looked over at him. The only indication he glanced back at you was the slight tilt of his head in your direction. “There are many things you don’t know about me, lovely.” He said, slowly applying pressure onto the brake as he neared the traffic lights. You nodded slightly and looked out the tinted windows of his car, staring at the buildings are they went by. Eventually, Wesker rolled into a parking lot, and you found your eyes resting on his forearms as he handled the steering wheel and gear shifter between you two. He put the car in park and pulled the keys from the ignition before getting out, moving around the car, and opening your door once more. He held his hand out, and you smiled at him as you took it, standing up and grabbing your purse.

With his hand back on your lower back, he walked with you to the restaurant. Traditional arches and columns made up most of its exterior, while the inside held Mediterranean colors of earthy terracotta and olive green, and bright blues and yellows. You stopped at the counter as the host asked for the reservation information before taking you both to an available table in a far corner of the restaurant, allowing you both a bit of privacy. Once you sat down, it wasn’t long until a server came by, asking for both your drink and meal of choice. The server took both of your menus and promptly left as Wesker looked over at you from across the table, his forearms on the clean wooden surface. You glanced down at his interlocked hands before looking back at his shades.

“Do you always take your coworkers on dates?” You asked, fingers itching to nervously fidget with the ring on your right middle finger. “Only the ones that deserve it.” He responded.

You raised a brow, your head tilting to the left ten degrees. “Oh? So, you’re implying I deserve it.” You muttered.

“I thought we already established this,” he said with a light, amused sigh. You knew he was looking at you, even with the shades on the bridge of his nose, the heat of his gaze trailing over your hair, face, neck, possibly even your chest, and then your hands. “I believe…” He trailed off for a moment, meticulously choosing his words. “I believe you deserve this date because your presence does not irritate me, nor does it make me wish for a different assistant.” He explained to you as the server came by with your drinks. They placed the glasses of red wine on the table, along with the bottle, before leaving once more.

You figured he would’ve left it at that, but he continued to speak. “You are efficient and organized in your work. The office is always kept clean, thanks to you. Never are you loud, and you stay focused, which both alleviates the workload and my headache.” He said before swirling the wine in the glass, fingers holding onto the stem. He lifted the glass and took a sip of the red liquid, your eyes switching between his fingers and his lips. You find yourself smiling when you finally understand the meaning of his words. “I’ll take that as a compliment. It’s not often you give those.” You said softly before raising your glass and taking a sip.

“Are you implying I should compliment you more?” He asked bluntly, using the suddenness of his words to throw you off guard. You almost choked, quickly setting down the glass of wine before you spilled it on yourself. You cleared your throat and looked at him, catching the small smirk on his lips before it faded. “That is not what I was implying. However,” you paused, making sure not to make a fool of yourself in front of your date. “It would be nice if you did.” You said. Wesker gave a hum as an answer.

“Well, you look wonderful tonight, love.” He complimented as his hand reached out, moving to gently tuck a stubborn strand in front of your face behind your ear. And just as his finger brushed your cheek, his hand was gone and back in front of him. You flashed a bashful smile, ignoring the light heat that dusted across your cheeks.

The conversation carried on, undertones of flirtation becoming more and more prominent. Then, the food came.

“Here’s your cacio e pepe,” the server said, setting down your pasta plate in front of you. “And here’s your gnocchi with pesto.” They said, placing Wesker’s dish in front of him. “If you need anything else, don’t hesitate to ask.” They smiled before leaving.

Needless to say, with the first bite of your pasta, you were already hoping to come to this restaurant again. “This is so good…” You mumbled after thoroughly chewing. You took another bite, making sure not to get any of the cheese onto your face or dress. “I’m glad. I was hoping you’d like this place.” He said before beginning to eat.

When both of you finished your drinks and meal, the server came around to take your dishes and hand dessert menus.

“Would you like tiramisu or perhaps lemon ricotta cake?” He asked, labeling a few of the items. You leaned your head against your hand, elbow planted on the table. You hummed, thinking over your options as you played with your ring. “I want…cannolis.” You finally decide, and Wesker sets the dessert menu down.

“Good choice.” He said with obvious approval. Dessert came around fast, and you ate the cannolis provided.

“Can’t believe I’ve never had a cannoli before this.” You murmured, quickly grabbing another to put in your mouth. “I’m surprised you’ve never had cannolis before either.” He said with amusement. When you looked at him, the usual furrow in his brow was gone, and he looked almost happy.

The next hour was a blur. One moment you were standing after he paid the bill, the next he was taking you back to the car, and the next he was driving you back home. You watched as he reversed out of the parking space, his hand on the back of your seat as he looked over his shoulder to see what he was doing. His forearm flexed, and his brow furrowed, the crease between the middle returning. You bit your lower lip and looked away from him, deciding to focus on the dark outside and the moon.

Wesker put the car in drive and drove out of the parking lot of the restaurant. Neither of you said anything. Your eyes fell on him again, watching as he turned and held the wheel. Your fingers gained the itch. It wasn’t the same itch that wanted to fidget, it was the same itch that wanted to touch, to squeeze, and grip with all its might. It felt raw and uncontrollable, it felt similar to cuteness aggression.

“You’re staring again,” Wesker said, his voice breaking the silence. But unlike before, you didn’t look away from him. Instead, you turned your body as much as you could towards him. “Something piqued your interest?” He asked, momentarily turning his head to look at you.

“It’s childish.” You said in a quiet voice. “Childish?” He repeated, as if curious at the use of that particular adjective.

“I wanna claw at you like an animal.” You murmured. Wesker’s brow raised in surprise, not believing you’d say such a thing. “Do you really?” He asked, his grip tightening on the steering wheel. He made himself focus on the road and the other cars, refusing to properly acknowledge your blatant staring. You nodded at his question, continuing to stare like your life depended on it. You didn’t notice the speedometer rising.

“What else do you want to do, pretty thing?” He asked, voice low and dry like he was still recovering from your previous sentence. You sat up in the passenger seat, positioning your purse onto the floor of the car instead of your lap. Your left hand reached out and trailed your finger over the imprint of his bicep, feeling the flex of his muscle every time he made a turn. “I wanna touch and squeeze and…” You stopped your sentence, suddenly remembering where you were and who you were with, and backed off. You placed your hands back in your lap.

“No, no, don’t get shy suddenly,” Wesker said, making another left turn before suddenly putting the car in park. You looked out the window and realized you were already home, the car parked on the street in front of your home. When you looked back at Wesker, his body was turned towards you, the key already out of the ignition. “If you’re going to start something, you know better than to leave it unfinished.” He murmured, hand on your chin to keep you from looking away. His thumb brushed against the outline of your lips, almost tugging on your bottom lip, before he suddenly moved from you. He exited the car and promptly opened your car door. He helped you out once more, letting you grab your belongings before he turned you around.

“What else do you want to do?” He asked once more, his hands resting on your hips. You swallowed and looked up at his sunglasses. “Kiss you, touch you, squeeze you.” You whispered, and he smirked. “Well, I believe you’ve earned that right, haven’t you?” He said, shutting the car door. You began to walk backwards as he walked forwards, hand fishing for your keys as you came to your front door. He wasn’t going to leave, and you didn’t want him to. He let you turn around to unlock the door, fingers moving up to your waist and squeezing lightly. He leaned his head down, taking a breath of your hair before moving down to your neck as you opened the door. “You smell like honey and vanilla.” He noted, and you gave a short nod, too flustered to speak. When you walked forward, he walked forward, shutting the door with his foot and locking it with one hand. You moved into the living room and tossed your purse, only for Wesker to bring you back against his chest.

“Tell me… how long have you felt like this?” He asked, and at first, your brows furrowed in confusion. “Even before that incident with Maria, before I truly became close to you, I’ve noticed the looks you give me.” He murmured, lips beginning to press against the side of your neck and shoulder after he pushed the strap of the dress off your shoulder.

“You looked needy, as if you were denied water in a desert.” He said, fingers running over every curve and dip of your front. “When was the last time someone took care of you, hmm?” He asked, nose nudging the side of your throat. Your mouth opened to answer, but initially, all you gave was a short and light breath. The heat that you don’t remember ever forming grew worse in your lower belly, your underwear sticking to you uncomfortably. “I don’t remember.” You answered finally, and he chuckled. “Don’t remember? Perhaps it is long overdue.” He whispered.

He moved you to your couch, guiding your back onto the armrest. He took his place between your legs, fingers undoing the strap of your heels and taking them off your feet. He placed them somewhere near the coffee table, and you reached up, pulling his shades off. “I hate these things.” You said before leaning up and kissing him. His hands, initially placed on your stomach, moved down to your thighs, thumbs swirling circles onto the smooth skin of your inner thighs. The shades dropped somewhere, and he grunted at the soft thump of them hitting the floor. Your hands moved up his arms to his shoulders, softly digging into the muscles underneath the fabric of his shirt before moving to the buttons of his shirt. He tilted his head to the right, deepening the kiss as your fingers began to unclasp the buttons,

He pulled away from your lips and began to kiss down your jaw and neck, hands momentarily leaving your thighs to brush away the straps of your dress. Your mouth opened to take a deep breath, eyes fluttering with every press of his lips to your skin. He moved the collar of your dress down little by little until the straps were off your arms and the collar was lying on the middle of your stomach. “I’ll admit,” he murmured against the skin of your sternum. “I’ve been wanting to do this for a very long time.” He said, glancing up at you. He leaned up to kiss you once more. His hands moved to your backside, one lifting your back and the other moving upward to unclasp the bra you wore. When it was finally loose, he pulled the straps off your shoulders and removed it without parting from your lips. Next thing you knew, his left thumb was toying with your hardening nipple as his mouth came around your other, tongue flicking the bud. Your hand, now unoccupied, ran through his hair, messing up the once neatly slicked back hair.

Your breaths came out as pants as he switched to your other breast, pressing kisses and light bites before toying with your nipple with his tongue. He hummed, his left hand moving downwards once more. This time, instead of resting on your thigh, it trailed upwards. He rolled the skirt of your dress upwards, letting it rest on your hips. “Perhaps, it would be better if this were pulled off too, wouldn’t it?” He said, finally unlatching his mouth from your breast.

He helped lift your hips and pulled the dress completely off, sliding it over your legs before tossing it somewhere in the room. Feeling too exposed, you grabbed his shirt and pulled it off his shoulders. He chuckled, taking care of the rest and tossing the dark blue shirt somewhere. “Eager, aren’t you?” He said, and you rolled your eyes. “Is that a crime–” Your sentence was cut off when you felt his thumb suddenly press against the wet patch of your underwear. A breathy, barely inaudible moan escaped your lips, and you looked away from Wesker.

“Eyes,” he said, his other hand coming up and pulling your chin back to make you face him. “On me, pretty thing.” He murmured, fingers beginning to hook into the waistband of your underwear. You lifted your hips, and he pulled the article of clothing off, thumb coming back down, and began to press firm circles. He made sure you never looked away from him, a smirk on his lips. His fingers, dipped into your slick, moved to your entrance. Your legs twitched, trying to close on his arm, however, he quickly parted them open once more. “None of that, pretty thing. C’mon, keep them legs open for me, yes?” He murmured as he eased two fingers into your dripping heat. Your hand came from your side and grabbed a cushion.

His fingers began to move back and forth, working you open little by little. You gasped for air, his thumb continuing to press circles onto your clit. “That’s it…” He praised, the muscles on his forearm flexing as your other hand grabbed onto it, he chuckled in response. He angled his fingers just right, the pads of his fingers hitting the spongy spot, and you cried out, voice louder than you would have liked. “Keep doing it like that…” You said in a mix of gasps and moans.

He leaned down and kissed you, your previously coordinated kissing soon turned sloppy as he pumped his fingers faster. Your slick was dripping down your thighs and touching the once clean couch cushions. Soon enough, the muscles of your thighs tightened around Wesker’s body, and the coil in your core had coiled so unbelievably tight that the force of an organism hit you like a truck. With the help of Wesker’s mouth over yours, he drowned out the loud moans you made as you gushed over his fingers.

When you finally came down to your senses, he pulled his fingers from your fluttering cunt and brought them to his mouth. You watched him lap at your slick and cum, tongue swirling around his digits. His fingers exited his mouth with a loud pop and he bent down to kiss you, tongue entering your mouth and giving you a taste of your own cum.

Your hand trailing down his chest, fingers feeling the muscles of his abdomen, and stopping at the fly of his pants. You were suddenly aware of his bulge, the imprint looking as big as your palm. “Don’t start something you can’t finish, lovely.” He murmured and guided your hand in unzipping his fly and unclasping the button. He pulled both his boxers and slacks down just far enough to free his cock. The soft pink tip was decorated with beads of pre. You looked up at his face, his lips a deep red from the kissing. “Gonna sound so pretty, won’t you?” He whispered, slowly lining himself with your entrance. When he finally moved, easing the bulbous head into your tight walls, he hissed. “Breathe. You’re already so tight.” He said, words dragging out a little. You did what he asked and breathed, attempting to relax a little as he fully sheathed himself in you. You let out a whine, and Wesker placed his hands on your hips, preventing you from moving too much. After letting you adjust to his size, the incomparable girth stretching you out, he began to rock his hips back and forth. Your back arched and your eyes squeezed shut, only for him to stop moving.

“What did I say?” He said, tapping your cheek and making you open your eyes. “Eyes on me.” He said before his hands tightened around your hips. You grabbed onto a cushion once more, moaning and whining every time he slammed his hips up into you. It was a slow but deep pace, his dick seemingly reaching deep into your stomach and touching your intestines. You kept your eyes on him, maintaining eye contact.

“Look at you,” he said with a chuckle, his hand coming up to stroke your cheek. “So pretty. Sounds pretty too.” He murmured before suddenly slamming his hips into your cunt like his life depended on it, the sudden shift change sending you into a frenzy. You moaned and grabbed onto Wesker with both hands.

“Too much–” You whined. “But this tight cunt is saying otherwise, it keeps sucking me in.” He chuckled, the sound low and throaty. You pleaded with him, a train of slurring “please”s leaving your lips. He only continued his fast pace, driving his cock deeper and deeper. You tightened around him, and he groaned, sticking his face into your neck. You could hear him take greedy breaths of the vanilla scent you put on earlier before kissing and biting your neck.

“I…I…” You could barely speak, blank eyes staring up at the ceiling as the coil in your core finally unwinded and you came around Wesker’s cock with a loud cry. His hips began to stutter, groans and barely audible moans. “Shit…So fucking tight, can barely move.” He huffed, his strokes becoming sloppier and sloppier until he came and coated your insides white.

The two of you panted, skin sweaty, and your limbs boneless. He slowly leaned up from your neck, eyes falling onto your disheveled appearance. He chuckled as if he still wasn’t six inches deep in you. You, in your post-orgasmic state, had not a single thought in your brain. “Perhaps, I should’ve done this long ago.” He said, slowly pulling from you. You whined before leaning your head back and closing your eyes. You felt him move away from you, and the click of his shoes. It was silent for a moment or two before he came back.

“Where’d you go?” You murmured, not bothering to open your eyes. “I went to find where your bathroom and bedroom were.” He answered, sliding his arm behind your back and under your legs. He picked you up and carried you to your bathroom, sitting you on top of the toilet seat. He left the room to allow you a moment of privacy to do your business (remember to always use the bathroom after sex, guys), which could have been easier if your legs were so weak. When you opened the bathroom door, he helped you walk to your bed a few feet away, his hands on your hips.

He had already moved the bedsheets, allowing easy access to lie down quickly. He laid you down, and before he could even pull away, your hand reached out and grabbed him. “Don’t leave.” You murmured, eyes barely open. The corner of Wesker’s lips curled, and he gave you a small smile. “Dearest, who said I was leaving?” He said, and your grip on him loosened. He moved to the other side of your bed and took off his slacks, choosing to sleep in his boxers. You turned on your left side, facing him as he climbed into bed next to you. You placed your head on his chest, tucked underneath his chin, as his arms wrapped around you.

“Does this mean a second date?” You asked quietly.

He gave a short laugh. “It means as many dates as you want.” He whispered.

You could faintly feel Wesker kiss the top of your head, his hand drawing circles on your bare back as you went to sleep, breathing evening, and your body stilling.

[dewinthestars]

How to Romanticize Studying Alone & Actually Stay Focused 📄‧₊˚🖇️✩ ₊˚🎧⊹♡

Idk about you all, but I love being around others when i’m studying, but others either aren’t studying or you keep yapping until you realize whoops! Hours went by!

1. Set the Vibe with Music or Ambience

• Lo-fi beats, piano instrumentals, or soft indie songs? Pick a playlist that makes studying feel cozy.

• Try a background café ambience, library sounds, or even rain noises for extra ✨ focus energy

• Noise-canceling headphones? A game changer.

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2. Create a Dedicated Study Spot

• Even if it’s just clearing off your desk or making a cozy corner with a blanket and pillows.

• Light a candle, grab a warm drink, and pretend you’re in an aesthetic study montage.

• If your usual spot feels meh, try moving locations—your brain loves novelty!

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3. Romanticize Your Study Materials

• Use colorful pens, cute sticky notes, and make your notes look good (but don’t get lost in ✨over-decorating✨).

• Handwrite key points to help your brain process info better.

• If digital notes are more your thing, organize them neatly with a color-coded system.

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4. Use a Timer to Stay on Track

• The Pomodoro method (25 minutes studying, 5-minute break) keeps you focused without burnout.

• Try “study with me” videos to feel like you have a virtual study buddy.

• Don’t trust yourself? Use a website blocker to keep distractions away.

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5. Romantic Study Breaks Only

• Stand up, stretch, make tea, or look out the window and daydream like you’re in a Studio Ghibli movie.

• Avoid doom-scrolling—your break should feel refreshing, not like a black hole of social media.

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6. Make it a Solo Study Date

• Wear comfy clothes, make your favorite drink, and treat your study session like an act of self-care.

• Reward yourself after! A good meal, a cozy movie, or a walk outside = motivation to keep going.

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7. Remind Yourself: You’re Romanticizing Growth

Studying alone isn’t boring—it’s you investing in yourself, your knowledge, and your future. Even the small efforts add up. Keep going, and soon you’ll look back at this moment with pride. 🤍

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Reposts, like, comments and shares super appreciated 🤍🤍

[study-diaries]

hey! do you have any tips for avoiding burnout when there’s just so much to do? i usually go really hard the first few days of the week and then crash for the rest, which ends up making me fall behind and feel worse. i’m really struggling to find a balance between staying productive and not completely draining myself :D

Hey Anon! :) Thanks for the ask :D

You can also refer to How To Study / Work During A Burnout

How To Avoid Burnout While Studying

Periodic Gaps

Breaks are seriously important. I don't follow pomodoro and it doesn't really work for me. I recommend taking breaks when you are actually tired. It doesn't matter if you work straight for 1 hour and then take a break. I feel like it's better than taking unnecessary breaks.

Snacking / Hydration

Snacking and hydration are a must. I recommend light snacking like nuts or fruits or some chocolates. I wouldn't go for heavy meals because they always make me feel sleepy.

Breaks

Breaks should be taken when you start feeling tired. Don't push yourself. The best way to recuperate is to rest. Appropriate break time is important. I usually divide my study time by half and that is my break time.

Break = Study Time / 2

Sleep

Sleep is a must. Don't sacrifice your sleep for studying. During exams, 7-8 hours of sleep is a must. Don't stay awake after 12, you'll regret it. And sleep is different from breaks. You should not consider them the same.

"Off Days"

This concept worked well for me because i'll be honest, it was relaxing. Have "off days". At least 1 day per week. On this day, you don't work, you don't study. You just relax. And I know you may say, "I don't have time to rest" or "I'll fall behind" but it's better than forcing yourself to work and grind and then ending up not working for days. So, have off days.

Tip: I'll recommend Saturdays because it's perfect for the day off. On Sunday you'll be worrying about the work due on Monday. The rest of the days wouldn't give you rest because of school.

Prioritize

You need not do all your work at the beginning of the week. Work should be spread out over days. Prioritizing work is what needs to be done. Write everything that should be done (or make a mental check list) and then write the due dates for all the assignments and then align your energy and study sessions accordingly.

Manage Energy

Managing your energy is quite easy. You divide your tasks based on three categories. Low level. Middle level. High level.

Low level tasks include reviewing notes and flashcards.

Middle level tasks include assignments and projects.

High level tasks include learning a topic from scratch, solving a practice paper.

Now figure out your energy level tasks and accordingly align your tasks to your energy. It's easier than forcing yourself to do a high-level energy task when you're on low energy.

These tasks may be different for everyone. A high-level task for you may be middle or low level for someone else.

Burnout Effect

In one way, burnout is good. Honestly, some people's highest point is 30 mins or an hour. They find burnout creeping in after some time had passed. And that is why, if you want to reach at least two hours of studying. You need to push that limit. Every single time. Try moving 30 mins every week. Your max limit is 1 hour. Then this week, study for 1 hr 30 mins. The next week, study for 2hrs. then 2hr 30 mins. Do it for a few weeks.

If you don't push yourself to the max limit. Then you'll never actually reach your goal.

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Additional Posts That May Be Helpful

How To Study For Longer Hours

An Absolute Guide To Manage Your Time And Energy For School

Floor To Ceiling Method

How To Study Multiple Subjects

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Hope This Helps :))

[trophy-girl]

How to Properly Take Care of Yourself ✨

Taking care of yourself isn’t just about bubble baths and face masks (though those are nice too). Real self-care is about making choices that protect your mind, body, emotions, and future. Here’s how to level up your self-care in every area of your life

Physical Self-Care

Your body is the foundation of your well-being, and taking care of it improves your energy, confidence, and overall health.

Sleep

Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep per night.

• Maintain a consistent sleep schedule (same bedtime/wakeup time).

• Create a relaxing bedtime routine (dim lights, avoid screens 1 hour before bed, listen to calming music).

• Invest in good bedding and pillows to improve sleep quality.

Nutrition

• Eat balanced meals with protein, healthy fats, fiber, and vegetables.

• Reduce processed foods, excessive sugar, and fried foods.

• Try meal prepping to save time and avoid unhealthy last-minute choices.

• Eat regular meals skipping meals can lead to overeating or low energy.

• Drink at least 2–3 liters of water daily (carry a water bottle).

Exercise & Movement

• Aim for at least 30 minutes of movement daily (walks, yoga, strength training, dancing).

• Find exercises you enjoy so it doesn’t feel like a chore.

• Stretch regularly to prevent tension and improve flexibility.

• Move your body even on lazy days (even a 10-minute walk is better than nothing).

Hygiene & Grooming

• Maintain a consistent skincare routine (cleanse, moisturize, sunscreen).

• Keep nails, hair, and body well-groomed.

• Change your bedsheets and towels regularly.

• Take care of your oral health (brush, floss, and use mouthwash daily).

Emotional Self-Care

Your emotional health impacts your relationships, self-esteem, and ability to handle stress.

Understanding & Expressing Emotions

• Validate your feelings instead of suppressing them.

• Journal or talk to someone when you feel overwhelmed.

• Allow yourself to cry if needed it’s a natural emotional release.

Setting Boundaries

• Say no to things that drain your energy.

• Avoid people who make you feel bad about yourself.

• Set clear expectations in relationships and friendships.

• Limit social media use if it triggers comparison or anxiety.

Practicing Self-Love

• Speak kindly to yourself self-talk matters (replace “I’m not good enough” with “I am growing and improving”).

• Do things that make you feel confident dress up, do your hair, wear something that makes you feel good.

• Spend time alone to connect with yourself take solo dates, read, or try new experiences.

Mental Self-Care

A healthy mind leads to better decision-making, confidence, and overall happiness.

Reducing Stress & Overwhelm

• Break big tasks into small steps to avoid burnout.

• Take breaks when working to avoid mental exhaustion.

• Prioritize tasks use a planner or to-do list.

• Try mindfulness or meditation to calm your thoughts.

Building Confidence & Growth

• Read self-improvement books or listen to empowering podcasts.

• Surround yourself with positive, ambitious people.

• Learn new skills that help with career growth or personal development.

• Avoid negative self-talk challenge self-doubt with facts.

Limiting Negativity

• Avoid gossip, drama, or toxic conversations.

• Unfollow social media accounts that make you feel bad about yourself.

• Set phone limits to avoid doom-scrolling and overstimulation.

Social Self-Care

Your relationships and connections play a big role in your happiness and support system.

Quality Over Quantity

• Surround yourself with people who uplift you, not those who drain your energy.

• Let go of relationships that are one-sided or make you feel unworthy.

• Spend time with people who make you feel safe and valued.

Healthy Communication

• Express your thoughts and feelings openly.

• Set healthy boundaries (“I can’t talk right now, let’s catch up later”).

• Avoid people pleasing you don’t have to say yes to everything.

Finding Community

• Join groups that align with your interests (fitness, books, career growth, hobbies).

• If you feel lonely, try volunteering or attending social events to meet new people.

• Online communities (like Pretty & Paid) can also be great for support.

Spiritual Self-Care (If It Resonates With You)

Even if you’re not religious, connecting with yourself spiritually can bring inner peace.

Practices That Help

• Meditation or deep breathing exercises.

• Practicing gratitude (write down three things you’re grateful for daily).

• Spending time in nature (walks, hikes, ocean views).

• Finding a deeper sense of purpose what makes you feel alive?

Financial Self-Care

Taking care of your finances reduces stress and gives you more freedom.

Budgeting & Saving

• Track your spending so you know where your money goes.

• Create a weekly/monthly budget that covers your essentials and goals.

• Save for an emergency fund to feel more secure.

• Cut out unnecessary expenses (subscriptions you don’t use, impulse purchases).

Making More Money

• Look for freelance work or side gigs to increase cash flow.

• Invest in skills that help you earn more

Self-Care Through Lifestyle & Fun

Self-care isn’t just about responsibilities it’s also about enjoying life!

Fun & Hobbies

• Do things that make you happy without guilt (movies, dancing, art, cooking, etc.).

• Explore new places and try different experiences.

• Plan little rewards for yourself after completing big goals.

Solo Activities

• Take yourself out on dates (dinner, movies, museums, parks).

• Have at-home spa days (bubble baths, face masks, candles, music).

• Listen to music or podcasts that make you feel empowered.

Final Takeaway

Taking care of yourself means listening to your needs and prioritizing your well-being without guilt. It’s about building a life where you feel healthy, confident, financially stable, and emotionally at peace.

[prefer-unique]

Modern Dating Struggles: How to Find Genuine Connection in a Digital World

Dating in the modern world can feel like navigating a maze. With endless swiping, ghosting, and the pressure to present a perfect online persona, it’s no wonder so many people feel overwhelmed and disconnected. While technology has made it easier to meet new people, it’s also created new challenges when it comes to building authentic relationships. In this post, we’ll explore the struggles of…

[m4jesty-love]

Modern Dating Struggles: How to Find Genuine Connection in a Digital World

Dating in the modern world can feel like navigating a maze. With endless swiping, ghosting, and the pressure to present a perfect online persona, it’s no wonder so many people feel overwhelmed and disconnected. While technology has made it easier to meet new people, it’s also created new challenges when it comes to building authentic relationships. In this post, we’ll explore the struggles of…

[subway-boss-jericho]

Queuing posts for most of my AUs! Check out this Masterpost! (Disclaimer! - Please don't comment about their iconic knife bangs! I left them off this reference to keep their faces fully visible.)

Steady Tracks Do Not Waver

-Premise- On the return trip home from Hisui, Ingo does not return the same as he left. By some unknown cause, he has been transformed into a pokemon- 13ft tall, Steel, Ground, and very very out of his depth, he finds himself roaming the eerily familiar yet unfamiliar tunnels of Gear Station. Desperate to find a way to his "home" and remember who he is, that is when he encounters Subway Boss Emmet.

This story is not about Ingo. Or at least, not about his return. Ingo was taken out of the story many years ago, leaving Emmet behind to pick up the pieces of the life they always meant to spend together. The last several years he has walked without Ingo have forced him into an active, unavoidable struggle with grief and loss, until recent, when he finally began to come to terms with his solo-car life moving forward. However, now things are changing again. In the days leading up to their meeting, he hears rumors of a strange, powerful pokemon lurking in the subway. When Emmet finally stops in the right place at the right time to challenge it face to face- the face looking back is far too similar to the one he lost years before. It all bubbles back to the surface again; now, with an uncanny passenger in tow, he must keep moving forward down these uncertain tracks. Battling with grief once again, as he avoids pushing his old pains onto this new, familiar, face.

-Noteworthy Points- IF THIS AU INTERESTS YOU, please consider reading the prologue and chapter one on Ao3! Steady tracks! This is the one you probably know me for, if you know me at all. My poster boys!! My favoritest guys,, I want to include so many notes but I know most of the notes I want to write are all spoilers. Please poke me to keep writing <3 This AU is not even remotely dead I just have chronic burnout and it WILL continue please bother me about it whenever you want <3

This story is (and probably will continue to be) almost exclusively told from Emmet's point of view. It is a post-canon exploration of grief, change, and how to go on after everything you know is lost. THIS MEANS there is a LOT of discussion of death! NO ONE IS DEAD, but Emmet believes Ingo has died, and regularly experiences grief and/or talks about him as if he is dead. If that still bothers you, no problem! This is not going to be the fic for you. However, if it at all eases you to know that everyone is still alive, then have fun and maybe bring tissues because I really like writing people being upset (and also them getting better but, that involves them needing to be upset first.)

Also! New STIngo reference!! I have been working on updating the shape language of his design to look more like a pokemon and this is the most up-to-date version! If you want to draw him, reference this one! I swear I will get that side view done eventually, I fucking promise.

Enjoy <3 <3 I love this AU a lot.

-Links- Official Writing - Steady Tracks Do Not Waver Artwork - Fanart by Nyacat39 Artwork - Fanart by Dontmineit (1) Artwork - Fanart by Dontmineit (2) Discussion - The Luxury Ball Artwork and Trivia - Official Reference (Outdated) Artwork and Trivia - Updated Reference (Also Outdated) Discussion - "Awla Boah" Artwork - Fanart by Maelysgriffonne Artwork - Fanart by Dontmineit (3) Artwork - Big Nap (Durant <3) Artwork - CH1 Concept Sketches Artwork - STIngo Sprite Discussion - Coffee Artwork and Discussion - Sounds Discussion - Antagonists Discussion - Strong/Agile Style Moves Artwork and Discussion - Coffee pt.2 Artwork - Emmet's Office (3D Model) Writing - Snippet of Chapter 2 Official Writing - Steady Tracks Do Not Waver CH 2 Artwork - Oil Turmoil + Riding the rails

[st6rly]

─── 𝓚𝐈𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝓣𝐄𝐋𝐋 ( 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝓟𝐑𝐈𝐕 )

𑁤 　 ever wonder what it would be like if your f/o had a private twt? how they'd react during the crushing stage? or how they'd act after your first date? this mutuals-only valentine's day event is all about finding out! please read and follow all the instructions below before sending in an ask <33

reminder : this is a mutuals only event! please send your asks off of anon or specify what blog you would like to have tagged in the final product. new mutuals are always welcome, however!

⟢ 𝓙𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝓐𝐒𝐊 𝓒𝐔𝐏𝐈𝐃, 𝓢𝐓𝐔𝐏𝐈𝐃 　 what to send !

your selfship + selfship name — can be from either genshin or hsr

where you had your first date & what is was like! send as many headcanons as you wish ( the more you send, the more personalized the result + the easier for me it is to work with! )

the general dynamics of your selfship and what you associate with your ship

go ham! ramble as much as you want about your brain blorbo!

optional: 3 - 5 songs that remind you of your selfship

if you have a selfship post made, please feel free to link that in your ask too!

⟢ 𝓑𝐎𝐖 𝓤𝐏, 𝓐𝐈𝐌, 𝓕𝐈𝐑𝐄 𝓐𝐖𝐀𝐘 　 what you'll receive !

you will be tagged in a post containing:

a mini smau about your f/os crushing stage and what they spam after the first date on their priv twt!

a small handful of songs i think fit the relationship vibes

possible bonus content should the brain worms get to me

SLOTS FILLED: 　 6/6

— to avoid burnout, im limiting the amount of requests for this event to be pretty small. however! more slots will open up as i go on depending on the interest shown for this ^^ please note that my pace is typically pretty slow, and my aim to have these all done ideally before the end of february at the latest. this is also counts as a little birthday event since it's 02/02 ^^

sincerely, your local black cat <3

[astrolook]

#2 The Astrology About Your Difficult Placements & Turning Them Into A Career Opportunity - Rx Edition

Here's Part 1

Note: This post is based on my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. It's important to understand that no single placement in a chart can determine whether someone is “good” or “bad,” a success or a failure, or even something as extreme as a criminal. Astrology is complex, and the entire birth chart must be considered as a whole. What we often label as "difficult" placements can actually become powerful sources of strength if we choose to approach them with awareness, effort, and a growth mindset. These placements aren’t curses, they’re invitations to evolve. This post is based on Vedic/Sidereal Astrology.

Astrology is a lot like Google Maps, it shows you possible routes to your destination, but it’s still up to you which path to take. It can guide, not dictate. That’s why I find it disheartening when some astrologers deliver overly negative interpretations that leave people feeling helpless or afraid and making serious life decisions based on it. Every placement holds multiple possibilities, some more challenging than others. With awareness and the right mindset, even the toughest placements can become powerful tools for growth.

These placements don’t doom you, they challenge you to rise.

Saturn Rx in 10th - Had to work twice as hard as others to get half as far. You'll reach further, just not in a straight line. Unemployed or underpaid, in some cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement to start you own damn business later in life after 27. Any business, policy making, construction, architecture, independent consulting, freelancing, etc.

Mercury Rx in 3rd - You second-guess your thoughts before they even finish forming. Social anxiety in a house that loves communication. Speech delay, in some cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for writing, podcasting, editing, musician, research analysis, journalist, UX design, AI expert, etc.

Saturn Rx in 4th - Not a soft childhood. Emotionally distant parent. Abandoned by their parents or grew up in foster home, in rare cases.

On the bright side, this is good placement and often creates people who build emotional homes for others like therapists, healers, realtor, real estate agent, psychologist, home renovation, child care, trauma coach, homeless shelter, etc.

Venus Rx in 2nd - Self-worth isn’t something you inherited. You had to earn it dollar by dollar, compliment by compliment.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for luxury branding business, voice acting, model scout, jewelry design, financial consultant, insurance agent, dealerships, hairstylist, dermatologist, etc.

Mars Rx in 6th - Invented burnout. Obsess about work but doesn't know how to properly channel the pace. All or nothing. OCD, in some cases. Accidental death in workplace, in very rare cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for crisis management, IT consultant, fitness coach, nutritionist, ENT specialist, neurologist, etc.

Mercury Rx in 8th - You read between the lines before the lines are even written. You’re suspicious of surface-level anything. Says something and does the opposite. Hides real opinions to avoid judgement or criticism and keep to self.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for filmmaking, pianist, guitarist or any musical instrument careers, jailer, UFO researcher, criminal lawyer, occultist, financial advisor, sex therapist, etc.

Saturn Rx in 7th - Dating or relationship is minimal or non-existent. Unconventional partner - smart worker, older or wiser but young at heart. Career/partnerships picks up in late-20's.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for own business, CEO/Chairman, managerial positions, divorce lawyer, govt jobs in a far away place, contractor, industrialist, brand consultant, bio-tech researcher, etc.

Jupiter Rx in 11th - Outsider among outsiders. Tough to find your "people". Changes lives behind-the-scenes. Lonely at times.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for tech startups, humanitarian work, social reform, activism, game development, digital media, advertising, astrology, etc.

Jupiter Rx in 5th - Joy is earned not given. Has to fight for personal freedom, in some cases. Luck comes later in life after 27.

On the bright side, educator, creative writer, freelancer, web or app developer, speculative writing, children's media, performance arts, YouTuber, comic artist, etc.

Wanna go deeper into the layers of your placements? DM me for a complete astrology reading or a 5 year/8 year marriage report or synastry reading🌙💬 and check out my pinned post for pricing + details 💫💸

Let’s decode your cosmic chaos together ⭐

[rosalind-zoraxis]

I Expect You To Date: REBOOTED

OOC: Well, you asked for it, and it's back! There's still a few things to work out, I need to figure out how to format it to avoid burnout, but the server's ready! So without further ado, welcome back to I Expect You To Date!

The way this works is a mix between a dating sim and freeform rp. I'll usually give the player one or more options to reply with, but they'll almost always also have a [Custom] option, which allows them to write their own response.

Basic plot is, the Agency finally discovered Zoraxis's main base, and there's no one better to send undercover than good old Agent Phoenix. There are 3 Acts in the game, and 8 routes, selected at the end of Act 1- 6 familiar faces and 2 secret routes.

With all that said, I hope you'll join me in foiling Zoraxis's top brass's most dastardly plot yet- remaining single.

Ta-ta, agents! Roz will resume posting soon.