#How to avoid dating burnout

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Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[m4jesty-love]

Why I Don't Recommend Online Dating: A Personal Perspective

Online dating has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people swiping, matching, and chatting in hopes of finding love. As someone who spent years navigating the world of online dating, I can tell you firsthand that it’s not all roses and rainbows. While some people do find success, my personal experience—and the experiences of many others—paints a less glamorous picture. If you’re…

[eleanorbloom]

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[bloomzone]

my micro goals for 2025 p1

1. Start going for walks every time I feel stressed or anxious.

Whenever I feel overwhelmed, I'll step outside and take a walk to clear my mind and release tension.

2. Learn more about the world in terms of history and facts.

I will dedicate some time each week to dive deeper into the world’s history, discover interesting facts, and expand my knowledge.

3. Journal every single day, no matter how messy the day is.

I'll commit to writing down my thoughts daily, even on chaotic days, to maintain self-reflection and track my growth.

4. Go on solo dates twice a month.

I'll make it a point to take myself on two solo dates each month, whether it's exploring a new cafe, restaurant or enjoying a peaceful time in nature.

5. Take care of my health and take breaks between study sessions.

I’ll prioritize my health by remembering to take breaks between study sessions to recharge and avoid burnout.

@bloomzone 🍄

[astrolook]

Your Saturn Return: Why Life Feels Like a Cosmic Midlife Crisis (And How to Survive It)

So, you just hit your late 20s, and suddenly, life feels like it’s testing you in ways you definitely did not sign up for. Your job? Feels like a never-ending loop of doom. Your love life? Either nonexistent or way too serious. Your friendships? Half of them vanished overnight. Congratulations 🎉, my friend—you’re entering your Saturn Return.

Wait… WTF is a Saturn Return?

Saturn, aka the strict cosmic dad of the zodiac, takes about 29.5 years to return to the exact spot it was when you were born. When it does? It’s like a stern life coach showing up at your front door yelling, “Hey, time to get your act together!” 🚪

If you’ve been coasting through life without a plan, Saturn’s about to hit you with a reality check. If you’ve been avoiding responsibility, Saturn’s here to serve up consequences. This transit pushes you toward maturity, purpose, and stability—whether you like it or not.

And trust me, where Saturn is in your birth chart determines exactly what part of your life is getting dragged through the trenches. 👀

Saturn Return in the Houses: What’s Falling Apart for You?

🪐 Saturn in the 1st House: "Who even am I?" 😵‍💫

Saturn is forcing you to redefine your identity and take yourself seriously.

Expect a whole personality shift—old habits, appearances, and insecurities are all under review.

You might feel more self-critical, but this is actually the universe pushing you to build real confidence.

🏠 Saturn in the 2nd House: "Am I broke or just bad with money?" 💸

Money lessons are here, whether it’s job insecurity, budgeting struggles, or learning self-worth.

Saturn is making you rebuild your finances from the ground up.

By the end of this, you’ll be handling money like a pro (or at least not blowing your paycheck on impulse buys).

📖 Saturn in the 3rd House: "Why is communicating suddenly so hard?" 🗣️

Your ideas, words, and even how you think are getting a major upgrade.

Maybe you’re going back to school, learning a new skill, or dealing with serious sibling drama.

Saturn wants you to become a master of clear, meaningful communication.

🏡 Saturn in the 4th House: "Family trauma speedrun—let’s go!" 😭

Childhood wounds? Generational patterns? Emotional baggage? Yup, all resurfacing.

You might be moving, buying a house, or redefining what “home” even means.

Saturn wants you to break toxic family cycles and create a stable foundation for yourself.

💖 Saturn in the 5th House: "Why does fun suddenly feel illegal?" 🎭

Romance, creativity, and self-expression feel like they’re being put through a cosmic stress test.

This is a "grow up or give up" moment—either commit to your passions or find something more meaningful.

If you’ve been dating like a chaotic mess, Saturn’s about to demand some emotional maturity.

💼 Saturn in the 6th House: "Work, health, routines—why is everything so exhausting?" ⏳

If your daily life is a disaster, Saturn’s here to force you into discipline.

Your health, habits, and work ethic are getting an overhaul (expect wake-up calls about burnout and self-care).

By the end of this, you’ll be the person who actually sticks to a schedule and drinks enough water.

⚖️ Saturn in the 7th House: "Why is my love life being personally attacked?" 💔

Saturn is testing ALL your relationships—romantic, friendships, business partners.

If it’s built on shaky ground, expect breakups, ghosting, or deep confrontations.

The good news? If you survive this, you’ll only attract relationships that are strong and long-term. You could even get married between the ages of 27-31.

💀 Saturn in the 8th House: "I did NOT sign up for this level of emotional intensity." 🖤

Deep psychological work, trust issues, and facing your fears—Saturn is dragging you into the underworld.

You might deal with financial debts, inheritances, or a major transformation in your personal power.

It’s tough, but once you get through this, you’ll be emotionally unshakeable.

🏹 Saturn in the 9th House: "Time to get my shit together and figure out my beliefs."* 📚

You’re questioning everything—your worldview, religion, education, and even your life goals.

Saturn might push you toward travel, higher education, or a deep spiritual awakening.

By the end of this, you’ll have a clear purpose and philosophy to guide your life.

🏆 Saturn in the 10th House: "Am I failing at life or just leveling up?" 💼

Saturn is testing your career, reputation, and sense of achievement.

Expect job shakeups, new responsibilities, and pressure to succeed.

If you do the work, you’ll come out of this as a true expert in your field.

💙 Saturn in the 11th House: "Where did all my friends go?"

Your social circles are getting a reality check.

Fake friendships fall away, and Saturn pushes you toward meaningful, long-term connections.

You might feel isolated at first, but in the end, you’ll find your true people.

🛌 Saturn in the 12th House: "Why do I just want to stay in bed forever?" 😴

The hidden corners of your mind are getting a deep cleaning.

You might deal with subconscious fears, spiritual awakenings, or deep solitude.

By the end of this, you’ll be more spiritually aligned and self-aware than ever before.

How to Survive Your Saturn Return (And Not Cry Every Day)

🔹 Accept the lessons. Saturn isn’t punishing you—he’s making you stronger. Learn the lesson, or Saturn will make you repeat it. 🔹 Commit to self-improvement. Whether it’s therapy, new habits, or changing your mindset, this is your time to grow. 🔹 Get a personal birth chart reading. Want to know exactly what this transit means for you? DM me for a complete birth chart reading, and let’s decode your cosmic homework! 🔮

[newkatzkafe2023]

Monkeys meeting a reader who can see into the future like Bruno Madrigal, as is constantly left isolated from others.

I mean come on nobody sees these as warnings to try and AVOID?

We don't talk about (Y/n)😶

(Lmk Wukong) What ostracized for being able to see bad news in the future?! AS IF?! he wished he had met you a long time ago. He would have been able to avoid so much of life's bullsh*t, but here you are, nervous isolated and very, very, very, very kind. Wukong eventually fell in love with you because of your care for others dispite your emotional burnout and isolation. You started to feel the same to finally feeling safe enough to trust and love again.

(HIB Wukong) Now this is the first time he's ever been curious along with his son Luier. Learning that somewhere out there their is a beautiful but very isolated female monkey with the power to see the future. That makes Wukong wonder a few things and went to find you to get some answers. When you guys do met you the first thing he saw was burnout and sadness, Wukong immediately felt sympathy for your depression and mood. He and the children worked to lift your Spirits reminding you that life is beautiful, as Wukong kissed your face.

(NR Wukong) Ohhhhh Mystery Green eyed monkey lady, how exciting that is for him. Although he would be curious to know why such a beautiful jade siren, is all alone by herself in the night. That's when he learns about your gift you can see pretty far into the future, it probably explains why you keep slipping away from him so easily. Wukong decided to get tricky and he soon had you where he wanted you, right in his arms wooing you all night long.

(MKR Wukong) Oh jeez good luck pushing him away, Wukong has not been deterred by some nasty rumors before and he ain't gonna start now. He met you all alone in your cottage because he heard you can look into the future, but what he wasn't expecting was a pretty little monkey. Wukong was suddenly besides himself having such pretty eyes on him, and got extra stubborn to leave you be. Soon after finally helping him he made sure to bring you along too, holding your hand leading the way.

(Netflix Wukong) Ohhhhhhhhh Man this...this is a very deep untreated cut, Wukong knows about isolation, being ostracized, and rejected better then any mortal and immortal ever😥 Deep down despite his bravado and loud mouth he wouldn't wish that kind of loneliness upon even his enemies. Which is why he would go out of his way to break you out of your shell, so what of you can see the future all he sees is his future with you😉

(BMW Wukong) Your isolation would not deter him what so ever, you were the most beautiful creature he's ever seen. Wukong would do anything to get you to spend time with and date him, but you were extremely pessimistic about his chances for a good time with you. Though with the way you were receiving neck kisses from Wukong, that wouldn't take long to change your mind.

(Destined one) Wow you....you were beautiful and what's more is that you have an intriguing little gift. Though the Destined one immediately felt a large amount of depression from you, especially your isolation and pessimism. He definitely took it upon himself to give support and care to you, As he takes it upon himself to show you the bright sides of life bring a small smile to you.

FEEL FREE TO REBLOG🐀

[dewinthestars]

How to Romanticize Studying Alone & Actually Stay Focused 📄‧₊˚🖇️✩ ₊˚🎧⊹♡

Idk about you all, but I love being around others when i’m studying, but others either aren’t studying or you keep yapping until you realize whoops! Hours went by!

1. Set the Vibe with Music or Ambience

• Lo-fi beats, piano instrumentals, or soft indie songs? Pick a playlist that makes studying feel cozy.

• Try a background café ambience, library sounds, or even rain noises for extra ✨ focus energy

• Noise-canceling headphones? A game changer.

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2. Create a Dedicated Study Spot

• Even if it’s just clearing off your desk or making a cozy corner with a blanket and pillows.

• Light a candle, grab a warm drink, and pretend you’re in an aesthetic study montage.

• If your usual spot feels meh, try moving locations—your brain loves novelty!

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3. Romanticize Your Study Materials

• Use colorful pens, cute sticky notes, and make your notes look good (but don’t get lost in ✨over-decorating✨).

• Handwrite key points to help your brain process info better.

• If digital notes are more your thing, organize them neatly with a color-coded system.

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4. Use a Timer to Stay on Track

• The Pomodoro method (25 minutes studying, 5-minute break) keeps you focused without burnout.

• Try “study with me” videos to feel like you have a virtual study buddy.

• Don’t trust yourself? Use a website blocker to keep distractions away.

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5. Romantic Study Breaks Only

• Stand up, stretch, make tea, or look out the window and daydream like you’re in a Studio Ghibli movie.

• Avoid doom-scrolling—your break should feel refreshing, not like a black hole of social media.

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6. Make it a Solo Study Date

• Wear comfy clothes, make your favorite drink, and treat your study session like an act of self-care.

• Reward yourself after! A good meal, a cozy movie, or a walk outside = motivation to keep going.

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7. Remind Yourself: You’re Romanticizing Growth

Studying alone isn’t boring—it’s you investing in yourself, your knowledge, and your future. Even the small efforts add up. Keep going, and soon you’ll look back at this moment with pride. 🤍

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[trophy-girl]

How to Properly Take Care of Yourself ✨

Taking care of yourself isn’t just about bubble baths and face masks (though those are nice too). Real self-care is about making choices that protect your mind, body, emotions, and future. Here’s how to level up your self-care in every area of your life

Physical Self-Care

Your body is the foundation of your well-being, and taking care of it improves your energy, confidence, and overall health.

Sleep

Aim for 7–9 hours of quality sleep per night.

• Maintain a consistent sleep schedule (same bedtime/wakeup time).

• Create a relaxing bedtime routine (dim lights, avoid screens 1 hour before bed, listen to calming music).

• Invest in good bedding and pillows to improve sleep quality.

Nutrition

• Eat balanced meals with protein, healthy fats, fiber, and vegetables.

• Reduce processed foods, excessive sugar, and fried foods.

• Try meal prepping to save time and avoid unhealthy last-minute choices.

• Eat regular meals skipping meals can lead to overeating or low energy.

• Drink at least 2–3 liters of water daily (carry a water bottle).

Exercise & Movement

• Aim for at least 30 minutes of movement daily (walks, yoga, strength training, dancing).

• Find exercises you enjoy so it doesn’t feel like a chore.

• Stretch regularly to prevent tension and improve flexibility.

• Move your body even on lazy days (even a 10-minute walk is better than nothing).

Hygiene & Grooming

• Maintain a consistent skincare routine (cleanse, moisturize, sunscreen).

• Keep nails, hair, and body well-groomed.

• Change your bedsheets and towels regularly.

• Take care of your oral health (brush, floss, and use mouthwash daily).

Emotional Self-Care

Your emotional health impacts your relationships, self-esteem, and ability to handle stress.

Understanding & Expressing Emotions

• Validate your feelings instead of suppressing them.

• Journal or talk to someone when you feel overwhelmed.

• Allow yourself to cry if needed it’s a natural emotional release.

Setting Boundaries

• Say no to things that drain your energy.

• Avoid people who make you feel bad about yourself.

• Set clear expectations in relationships and friendships.

• Limit social media use if it triggers comparison or anxiety.

Practicing Self-Love

• Speak kindly to yourself self-talk matters (replace “I’m not good enough” with “I am growing and improving”).

• Do things that make you feel confident dress up, do your hair, wear something that makes you feel good.

• Spend time alone to connect with yourself take solo dates, read, or try new experiences.

Mental Self-Care

A healthy mind leads to better decision-making, confidence, and overall happiness.

Reducing Stress & Overwhelm

• Break big tasks into small steps to avoid burnout.

• Take breaks when working to avoid mental exhaustion.

• Prioritize tasks use a planner or to-do list.

• Try mindfulness or meditation to calm your thoughts.

Building Confidence & Growth

• Read self-improvement books or listen to empowering podcasts.

• Surround yourself with positive, ambitious people.

• Learn new skills that help with career growth or personal development.

• Avoid negative self-talk challenge self-doubt with facts.

Limiting Negativity

• Avoid gossip, drama, or toxic conversations.

• Unfollow social media accounts that make you feel bad about yourself.

• Set phone limits to avoid doom-scrolling and overstimulation.

Social Self-Care

Your relationships and connections play a big role in your happiness and support system.

Quality Over Quantity

• Surround yourself with people who uplift you, not those who drain your energy.

• Let go of relationships that are one-sided or make you feel unworthy.

• Spend time with people who make you feel safe and valued.

Healthy Communication

• Express your thoughts and feelings openly.

• Set healthy boundaries (“I can’t talk right now, let’s catch up later”).

• Avoid people pleasing you don’t have to say yes to everything.

Finding Community

• Join groups that align with your interests (fitness, books, career growth, hobbies).

• If you feel lonely, try volunteering or attending social events to meet new people.

• Online communities (like Pretty & Paid) can also be great for support.

Spiritual Self-Care (If It Resonates With You)

Even if you’re not religious, connecting with yourself spiritually can bring inner peace.

Practices That Help

• Meditation or deep breathing exercises.

• Practicing gratitude (write down three things you’re grateful for daily).

• Spending time in nature (walks, hikes, ocean views).

• Finding a deeper sense of purpose what makes you feel alive?

Financial Self-Care

Taking care of your finances reduces stress and gives you more freedom.

Budgeting & Saving

• Track your spending so you know where your money goes.

• Create a weekly/monthly budget that covers your essentials and goals.

• Save for an emergency fund to feel more secure.

• Cut out unnecessary expenses (subscriptions you don’t use, impulse purchases).

Making More Money

• Look for freelance work or side gigs to increase cash flow.

• Invest in skills that help you earn more

Self-Care Through Lifestyle & Fun

Self-care isn’t just about responsibilities it’s also about enjoying life!

Fun & Hobbies

• Do things that make you happy without guilt (movies, dancing, art, cooking, etc.).

• Explore new places and try different experiences.

• Plan little rewards for yourself after completing big goals.

Solo Activities

• Take yourself out on dates (dinner, movies, museums, parks).

• Have at-home spa days (bubble baths, face masks, candles, music).

• Listen to music or podcasts that make you feel empowered.

Final Takeaway

Taking care of yourself means listening to your needs and prioritizing your well-being without guilt. It’s about building a life where you feel healthy, confident, financially stable, and emotionally at peace.

[study-diaries]

hey! do you have any tips for avoiding burnout when there’s just so much to do? i usually go really hard the first few days of the week and then crash for the rest, which ends up making me fall behind and feel worse. i’m really struggling to find a balance between staying productive and not completely draining myself :D

Hey Anon! :) Thanks for the ask :D

You can also refer to How To Study / Work During A Burnout

How To Avoid Burnout While Studying

Periodic Gaps

Breaks are seriously important. I don't follow pomodoro and it doesn't really work for me. I recommend taking breaks when you are actually tired. It doesn't matter if you work straight for 1 hour and then take a break. I feel like it's better than taking unnecessary breaks.

Snacking / Hydration

Snacking and hydration are a must. I recommend light snacking like nuts or fruits or some chocolates. I wouldn't go for heavy meals because they always make me feel sleepy.

Breaks

Breaks should be taken when you start feeling tired. Don't push yourself. The best way to recuperate is to rest. Appropriate break time is important. I usually divide my study time by half and that is my break time.

Break = Study Time / 2

Sleep

Sleep is a must. Don't sacrifice your sleep for studying. During exams, 7-8 hours of sleep is a must. Don't stay awake after 12, you'll regret it. And sleep is different from breaks. You should not consider them the same.

"Off Days"

This concept worked well for me because i'll be honest, it was relaxing. Have "off days". At least 1 day per week. On this day, you don't work, you don't study. You just relax. And I know you may say, "I don't have time to rest" or "I'll fall behind" but it's better than forcing yourself to work and grind and then ending up not working for days. So, have off days.

Tip: I'll recommend Saturdays because it's perfect for the day off. On Sunday you'll be worrying about the work due on Monday. The rest of the days wouldn't give you rest because of school.

Prioritize

You need not do all your work at the beginning of the week. Work should be spread out over days. Prioritizing work is what needs to be done. Write everything that should be done (or make a mental check list) and then write the due dates for all the assignments and then align your energy and study sessions accordingly.

Manage Energy

Managing your energy is quite easy. You divide your tasks based on three categories. Low level. Middle level. High level.

Low level tasks include reviewing notes and flashcards.

Middle level tasks include assignments and projects.

High level tasks include learning a topic from scratch, solving a practice paper.

Now figure out your energy level tasks and accordingly align your tasks to your energy. It's easier than forcing yourself to do a high-level energy task when you're on low energy.

These tasks may be different for everyone. A high-level task for you may be middle or low level for someone else.

Burnout Effect

In one way, burnout is good. Honestly, some people's highest point is 30 mins or an hour. They find burnout creeping in after some time had passed. And that is why, if you want to reach at least two hours of studying. You need to push that limit. Every single time. Try moving 30 mins every week. Your max limit is 1 hour. Then this week, study for 1 hr 30 mins. The next week, study for 2hrs. then 2hr 30 mins. Do it for a few weeks.

If you don't push yourself to the max limit. Then you'll never actually reach your goal.

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Additional Posts That May Be Helpful

How To Study For Longer Hours

An Absolute Guide To Manage Your Time And Energy For School

Floor To Ceiling Method

How To Study Multiple Subjects

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Hope This Helps :))

[stfuandstudy]

15.04.25— Tuesday. // I basically did nothing productive today apart from making a playlist on studying and pinterest boards lmao. not something I'm proud of but sometimes it's okay to have slow and unproductive days to avoid the burnout. But I'll be back on track tomorrow and finish my pending tasks—

\\ hap assignment. \\ analysis unit 1 lec. \\ ph notes.

ᯓ★ also garam chai on rainy day is perfect <3 and I'm planning on making a workout routine (idk how many days I'll follow the routine before dropping it😭). I get this urge to change my whole life, studying hard, fixing my schedules and all right before my period dates and then I drop all the plans after having periods.˙ . ꒷🥞. 𖦹˙

[prefer-unique]

Modern Dating Struggles: How to Find Genuine Connection in a Digital World

Dating in the modern world can feel like navigating a maze. With endless swiping, ghosting, and the pressure to present a perfect online persona, it’s no wonder so many people feel overwhelmed and disconnected. While technology has made it easier to meet new people, it’s also created new challenges when it comes to building authentic relationships. In this post, we’ll explore the struggles of…

[m4jesty-love]

Modern Dating Struggles: How to Find Genuine Connection in a Digital World

Dating in the modern world can feel like navigating a maze. With endless swiping, ghosting, and the pressure to present a perfect online persona, it’s no wonder so many people feel overwhelmed and disconnected. While technology has made it easier to meet new people, it’s also created new challenges when it comes to building authentic relationships. In this post, we’ll explore the struggles of…

[st6rly]

─── 𝓚𝐈𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝓣𝐄𝐋𝐋 ( 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝓟𝐑𝐈𝐕 )

𑁤 　 ever wonder what it would be like if your f/o had a private twt? how they'd react during the crushing stage? or how they'd act after your first date? this mutuals-only valentine's day event is all about finding out! please read and follow all the instructions below before sending in an ask <33

reminder : this is a mutuals only event! please send your asks off of anon or specify what blog you would like to have tagged in the final product. new mutuals are always welcome, however!

⟢ 𝓙𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝓐𝐒𝐊 𝓒𝐔𝐏𝐈𝐃, 𝓢𝐓𝐔𝐏𝐈𝐃 　 what to send !

your selfship + selfship name — can be from either genshin or hsr

where you had your first date & what is was like! send as many headcanons as you wish ( the more you send, the more personalized the result + the easier for me it is to work with! )

the general dynamics of your selfship and what you associate with your ship

go ham! ramble as much as you want about your brain blorbo!

optional: 3 - 5 songs that remind you of your selfship

if you have a selfship post made, please feel free to link that in your ask too!

⟢ 𝓑𝐎𝐖 𝓤𝐏, 𝓐𝐈𝐌, 𝓕𝐈𝐑𝐄 𝓐𝐖𝐀𝐘 　 what you'll receive !

you will be tagged in a post containing:

a mini smau about your f/os crushing stage and what they spam after the first date on their priv twt!

a small handful of songs i think fit the relationship vibes

possible bonus content should the brain worms get to me

SLOTS FILLED: 　 6/6

— to avoid burnout, im limiting the amount of requests for this event to be pretty small. however! more slots will open up as i go on depending on the interest shown for this ^^ please note that my pace is typically pretty slow, and my aim to have these all done ideally before the end of february at the latest. this is also counts as a little birthday event since it's 02/02 ^^

sincerely, your local black cat <3

[rosalind-zoraxis]

I Expect You To Date: REBOOTED

OOC: Well, you asked for it, and it's back! There's still a few things to work out, I need to figure out how to format it to avoid burnout, but the server's ready! So without further ado, welcome back to I Expect You To Date!

The way this works is a mix between a dating sim and freeform rp. I'll usually give the player one or more options to reply with, but they'll almost always also have a [Custom] option, which allows them to write their own response.

Basic plot is, the Agency finally discovered Zoraxis's main base, and there's no one better to send undercover than good old Agent Phoenix. There are 3 Acts in the game, and 8 routes, selected at the end of Act 1- 6 familiar faces and 2 secret routes.

With all that said, I hope you'll join me in foiling Zoraxis's top brass's most dastardly plot yet- remaining single.

Ta-ta, agents! Roz will resume posting soon.

[astrolook]

#2 The Astrology About Your Difficult Placements & Turning Them Into A Career Opportunity - Rx Edition

Here's Part 1

Note: This post is based on my personal observations and patterns I've noticed over the years. It's important to understand that no single placement in a chart can determine whether someone is “good” or “bad,” a success or a failure, or even something as extreme as a criminal. Astrology is complex, and the entire birth chart must be considered as a whole. What we often label as "difficult" placements can actually become powerful sources of strength if we choose to approach them with awareness, effort, and a growth mindset. These placements aren’t curses, they’re invitations to evolve. This post is based on Vedic/Sidereal Astrology.

Astrology is a lot like Google Maps, it shows you possible routes to your destination, but it’s still up to you which path to take. It can guide, not dictate. That’s why I find it disheartening when some astrologers deliver overly negative interpretations that leave people feeling helpless or afraid and making serious life decisions based on it. Every placement holds multiple possibilities, some more challenging than others. With awareness and the right mindset, even the toughest placements can become powerful tools for growth.

These placements don’t doom you, they challenge you to rise.

Saturn Rx in 10th - Had to work twice as hard as others to get half as far. You'll reach further, just not in a straight line. Unemployed or underpaid, in some cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement to start you own damn business later in life after 27. Any business, policy making, construction, architecture, independent consulting, freelancing, etc.

Mercury Rx in 3rd - You second-guess your thoughts before they even finish forming. Social anxiety in a house that loves communication. Speech delay, in some cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for writing, podcasting, editing, musician, research analysis, journalist, UX design, AI expert, etc.

Saturn Rx in 4th - Not a soft childhood. Emotionally distant parent. Abandoned by their parents or grew up in foster home, in rare cases.

On the bright side, this is good placement and often creates people who build emotional homes for others like therapists, healers, realtor, real estate agent, psychologist, home renovation, child care, trauma coach, homeless shelter, etc.

Venus Rx in 2nd - Self-worth isn’t something you inherited. You had to earn it dollar by dollar, compliment by compliment.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for luxury branding business, voice acting, model scout, jewelry design, financial consultant, insurance agent, dealerships, hairstylist, dermatologist, etc.

Mars Rx in 6th - Invented burnout. Obsess about work but doesn't know how to properly channel the pace. All or nothing. OCD, in some cases. Accidental death in workplace, in very rare cases.

On the bright side, this is a good placement for crisis management, IT consultant, fitness coach, nutritionist, ENT specialist, neurologist, etc.

Mercury Rx in 8th - You read between the lines before the lines are even written. You’re suspicious of surface-level anything. Says something and does the opposite. Hides real opinions to avoid judgement or criticism and keep to self.

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Saturn Rx in 7th - Dating or relationship is minimal or non-existent. Unconventional partner - smart worker, older or wiser but young at heart. Career/partnerships picks up in late-20's.

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Jupiter Rx in 11th - Outsider among outsiders. Tough to find your "people". Changes lives behind-the-scenes. Lonely at times.

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Jupiter Rx in 5th - Joy is earned not given. Has to fight for personal freedom, in some cases. Luck comes later in life after 27.

On the bright side, educator, creative writer, freelancer, web or app developer, speculative writing, children's media, performance arts, YouTuber, comic artist, etc.

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Can you do when Bayley and Reder had a big argument and haven't seen each other for months and the rerder is too scared to talk to bayley

Pairing: Bayley x Reader

Warnings: Angst, Hurt/Comfort, Mentions of arguing, Protective Zelina Vega

A/n: I'm so sorry about how long this toke I've had zero motivation to write 😭

Masterlist, WWE masterlist

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Broken Trust

Two months, it had been two miserable months sense you had last talked to your - hopefully still - girlfriend. You and Bayley had been dating for a few months, and you were still in the honeymoon phase but two months ago ya'll got into a fight. One that you thought would be resolved quickly but here you were months later without a word from Bayley who you didn't even know if you could call your girlfriend anymore.

You loved Bayley with all your heart and you never wanted to lose her, you guys had been really close friends for years before you started dating. You guys have been through everything together. Starting nxt, your first championship wins, getting drafted to the main roster, getting hate, going through slumps and burnouts, being at the top of the mountain, just everything. You couldn't imagine not having her in your life but she hurt you and she hurt you deep with her words. You weren't all innocent though and you knew that you were both hurting, but you were scared.

Scared that she might not want you in her life anymore, scared that she didn't regret any of the words she said, scared that you might never hear from her again. It had been months, but you couldn't stop replaying the fight over and over again every day.

Even though you worked for the same brand going to work was an escape in a way you buried yourself in only worrying about Smackdown, your matches, your feuds, the wwe universe and nothing else but you had been overworking yourself so much to not think about her and avoid her that it came to a point were there was nothing else for you to do. You were sitting in the locker room, having gone through your match a hundred times, over your storylines 100 more and definitely had been on social media with the fans long enough for the day. Nobody from the higher-ups needed you. You had done all the media you were needed for, and you had helped around as much as you legitimately could.

You hated just sitting in the locker room. Well, now you did, before you would've given anything for this free time you've accidentally made for yourself, but now all it brought you was overthiking.

You started unconsciously crying, you missed Bayley, normally you two would sneak off here and get in as much time together as you could during the busy day. You could give anything for that stupid fight to have never happened.

Zelina came into the locker room, having forgotten an accessory from her gear, and immediately went to you when she saw you crying. You guys were like sister she didn't need to ask she knew why you were crying, at least the general/main reason. Right now, Zelina despised Bayley she knew you were slightly to blame too, but she is a ride or die for her girls.

You leaned into Zelina and get kept crying. You were grateful it was her that walked in as she understood and didn't ask questions, and the last thing you wanted right now was to explain anything.

While she was comforting you, you heard the creak of the door opening but didn't pay it any mind, most the locker room knew something was up with you these past months and knew when to give you your space, so you didn't expect anyone to speak up.

"Y/n/n (you nickname) ?" At the familiar voice and special nickname that you hadn't heard in months you snapped your head to the direction of the door but before you could say anything Zelina rushed to the door and slightly pushed Bayley back. "What the hell do you want ?"

"I just... can I talk to her... please..." Bayley asked not even actually looking at Zelina, she was looking at your tear stained face, her own wearing a worried and guilty look. "Oh so now you wanna talk to her huh ? No podias hacer antes cuando deverdad contaba tal vez ay nose... hace dos putos meses ???" (Couldn't you do that when it really mattered maybe oh I don't know... two fucking months ago ???")

"I'm sorry, I swear I just wanna explain-" "No, go away, you don't get to come back now!" You stood up and quickly went to Zelina, putting your hand on her shoulder." Hey Z... I-its okay. We need to have this talk... I promise it's okay. I'll call you if I need you..." At that, Zelina looked into your eyes for a bit, searching for any doubt, but once she was sure you were okay, she turned to Bayley and gleared a whole through her head before walking out.

Not being fully sure what to do, you both stood there for a moment just looking at each other, the tension of not seeing or talking to each other for months hanging in the air.

Bayley took the lead after a beat taking a deep breath before trying to walk towards you, instinctively reaching for you to try and comfort you as she could still read you like a book and could sense the fear and anxiety in you but you toke a step back, not letting her touch you and trying to stand your ground cause you knew the second you let her comfort you all the walls would crumble and you would forgive her in an instant even after everything and right now that probably wasn't the best idea.

Bayley's heart broke when you took a step back and moved away from her, but she understood why you did it. Respecting your boundaries, she also moved back a little, giving you space, not wanting you to feel like you were trapped in this situation, and you could leave if that's what you wanted.

"I'm sorry... I'm sorry for everything, for the stupid argument, for the things I said, for not talking to you for months, for upsetting you, for making you feel how you're feeling right now... that was never my intention, but what's done is done, and I'm so sorry... if you don't want to ever see me again I understand but I just wanted you to know that I regret everything I said and that I love you more than anything and I forever will be grateful for having you in my life" Bayley was trying to hold back tears, although she was failing and you weren't doing much better either.

Giving all your history with Bayley the last thing you wanted was to not have her in your life but you knew that you didn't deserve what she did and you couldn't just forgive her just because but you loved her, no matter what.

"I don't forgive you... not yet... but I do want you in my life, and we can take it slow, start building trust again, and go from there... and I'm sorry, too. I said some harsh things as well, and I promise I didn't mean any of it... I love you, Bay..."

Bayley smiled at you. She would do anything and everything to gain your trust back, and she accepted your apology. She was just ready to fix everything and she didn't care how long it took she was gonna do it because you're her whole world and there's nothing she wouldn't do for you.