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unpopular opinion time: just because someone is queer doesn't mean they are automatically a good person.
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Sparkledog
A non-conventional queer individual, especially those who are seen as "cringe" by others. This can includes aspecs, microlabel users, xenine ppl, nonbinary ppl, alternative queer ppl, contradictory queers, polyamorous ppl, mspecs, label collectors, nondysphoric ppl, nonhuman queers, loud queers, etc etc etc.
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"wait but how can that work ?" instead of asking how their queer identity works, and how can it be valid, maybe ask them their experiences. ask how it feels to themself being a mspec mono, or lesboy, or turigirl, or whatever. instead of getting angry at queer identities which dont fit your standard, just perhaps let it go and ask them as a person what their identity means to them. stop policing identities and open up your mind a little.
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happy pride to everyone who uses "contradictory" labels. mspec lesbians, mspec gays, lesbigays, gaybians, velaurians, lesboys, turigirls, boygirls and girlboys, oriented aro/aces, cistrans ppl, and everyone else i didn't mention <3
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[Image ID: An image of a black man wearing a black shirt and baseball cap, on a balcony overlooking a lawn, with another balcony noticeable on the man's right. At the top of the image is a lot of text. First is white text stating "I bring a sort of". The second is white text over a black background, clearly covering previous text, stating: 'none of this really matters, Labels are something we use to describe an aspect of our identity with, not rules we set on ourselves and others. We love who we love, and we express ourselves how we want. Labels don't have set rules or definitions as just like everything else doesn't. It is all constantly changing. Describe your love how you want, describe your gender how you want, It's your life." The third white text states "Vibe to the Community that queer exclusionist don't really like." The words "Community" and "queer exclusionist" also cover a black background, clearly covering up previous text. End Image ID.]
Credit to @the-church-of-strabismus for the image ID!
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i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women
obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"
like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away
this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting
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If you start your debate with "bigender people who identify as both male and female aren't men they're bigender" you do not in fact support multigender people's identities
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Gaybianz 🔛🔝💯‼️🔥🙏
(Also ignore me spelling 'faggotry' in different wayz...😛)
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"X experience makes a mockery out of MY experience" will always be a shitty argument, sorry. Someone existing does not infringe on your territory. You need to suck it up
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If a label fits you, you have every right to use it. Even if it’s “contradictory”.
Being queer is not a club that people can exclude you from.
If your queer identity doesn’t hurt anyone, own it.
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I love you systems with lesboys
I love you systems with turigirls
I love you systems with mspec monos
I love you systems with straight gays
I love you afab transfem systems
I love you amab transmasc systems
I love you transfemmasc systems
I love you cistrans systems
I love any other system or alter with a "contradictory" queer label.
Having a CDD fragments your sense of self in a unique way, and if "contradictory" labels make you feel more comfortable in your sense of an already flaky self, I support you.
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I sometimes love my human sexuality class.
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