#apologizing

[aseaofquotes]

Eve Ensler, I Am an Emotional Creature

[cheatsykoopa98]

DAD AU 89

nobody is forced to accept your apologies, even if you genuinely feel sorry

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[zee-rambles]

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“I’m sorry.”

First I Prev I Next

[pamithebunterfly2007]

So I’m here to address what I’ve done and I apologize.

You know that I’m the one who made Chelly uncomfortable by putting sum fetishy comments under fetish unrelated post and by putting those tags thinking to myself “hey she wound’t mind at all, what could go wrong?” But then Chelly came up to me telling me how uncomfortable she was by putting those tags so I changed it anyways. Even though I’m 17, I did something way stupid and shameful that something I’ll instantly regret to this day. So not like a while ago, Chelly met me and we became friends, and we talk about our quirks. But the thing is that we are still teenagers, she’s 15, while I’m 17. So we are still young teens in high school and turns out we talked about our quirks, I let her make request for her. But then I realized at first what I could have said in the first place to her is “hey look I make stuff like this so yeah, just shoo” but no, I let her befriend me just by asking me to make some quirk related request for her but then She finally realized that I was going way too far with my quirks just by putting “those” tags on her unrelated post and she told me that she was uncomfortable about the fetish related convos and how I could turn them off in the first place. And turns out I wasn’t aware of this until now I was, I realized of how I was making someone who is 2 years younger than me uncomfortable by making request for her and talking about some of my fetishes to her and I should’ve know better about shutting off those convos and so is our age difference. And not only leaving “those” tags unprompted, it made not only her but many people uncomfortable looking at the stuff I made with the tags left unprompted. Sure what I did was very problematic of me for what I did, like I know I’m still a teenager and I’m old enough now to understand what I did, I could be aware of what I put or say on the internet, and I should be careful of who I was requesting or posting under her post if I knew that she’s 15. I feel disgusted, I know what I’ve done, I wish I could have known in the first place but, now it became a huge problem for me. I didn’t know how problematic I became from talking to someone who is 15 and still a teenager. Talk about my quirks to her face and making her really uncomfortable and I should have shut the convos in the first place, but I didn’t. I been getting like severe anxiety, like it gets to the point where I worried that everyone will hate me now because I’ve done, and that mistake teaches me of what happens if I have those convos about my quirks to someone, which makes them feel unsafe and uncomfortable. No, I did NOT and I mean, I DID NOT groom her, she said that she didn’t accused me of groomer, all I did was make her uncomfortable by letting her make fetishy stuff for her and talking about my quirks to her. To the point where she blocked me for their own safety. And by telling you all of what I addressed here, that’s all on me for doing something very controversial that I should have known better. Like you know I have my boundaries but I left this one boundary out and broke it and I done all of this to her, I made her so uncomfortable, and this gives me anxiety and fearing that you will all be disappointed at me for what I’ve done was the poorest decision I have made and I confess from what I done, I could been aware who I was talking to next time and be careful of what I say or do on the internet. Im scared that I don’t want to be a problematic user, I know I’m not perfect and stuff, but I feel like I did something that is so stupid of me and yes, what I’ve done, I regret this instantly, and by making everyone uncomfortable because of me and my quirks and now this is a huge mistake I must learn now, I learned this the hard way, I know she and others don’t forgive me for what I did. When you read all of this, I apologized for the dumbest thing I ever made to make which made feel ashamed of myself and for now, I’ll now remove those unprompted tags and change them, so that to not make anyone feel uncomfortable by my stuff and I apologize for making that person and anyone here uncomfortable.

@lunawolf012306 @9mysterybook6 @torrentialchaos @jamesjexxisdeadlmao @cookiecat-7388new @nicky-toony27 @dazzle-expandism @sleepi-toasti @ayelen0o0o @megamanzerov20 @crystalline-loptous @xxxlawrencexxx @foreverautisticbrainrot @zb189 @mythically15 @shadowwolfmemes

[cluster-b-culture-is]

Low/No empathy NPD (+ BPD) is not caring if you actually hurt someone but only apologizing so they don't hate you/leave you

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[theredstargalaxy]

Good morning. It's...been a while. I'm not sure how long it's been really-- just the fact that it's been quite some time since I last looked at this page. For those of you who are worried for me, I'm fine. I've just been...stewing over some old happenings. If you've seen our source, then I'm sure you know what's been haunting me as of late. For those of you who don't, I'll offer you a brief explanation.

Back when I was my old self-- that psychotic, anti-quirk zealot most people have seen-- I did some...pretty terrible and horrific things-- Only one of which I'll mention here, since it's been coming back to haunt me.

Back home, I had to take care of my father's granddaughter, a little girl named Eri. Admittedly, I didn't care for her all that well. Sure, I bathed her, fed her, and clothed her, but the bare necessities are far from the only things I should have provided for her. And even worse...what I did to her was horrid. I used her to try and find a "cure" for quirks. I was ...so blinded by my obsession that I hurt several people in the process, and Eri's the one I hurt the most. I don't know what the hell I was thinking. And I won't try to justify what I've done-- it doesn't deserve justification. That being said, there's one thing I seek now more than ever.

Eri, if you're out there--and I'm pretty sure you are-- then I'm sorry. I'm sorry for all the pain I caused, and all the trauma I've afflicted onto you. I had no right to harm you-- no right to use you for my own personal gain. I'm sorry that I was such a cruel, twisted monster to you, and I'm sorry I didn't do better. I know my words may not mean much to you, and you have every right not to forgive me-- I can't even forgive myself for what I did. I'm sorry, Eri. I'm so sorry.

[biancascottage]

thanks to my irl friends and @f-imaginings ‘s support I decided to try and write my first ever fic. if u wanna read some chill billford bill handyman au you can go ahead and tell me what you think. Any advice is appreciated❤️

[dk-thrive]

The Different Ways You Abandon Yourself

Saying "yes" when you're aching to say "no." Apologizing to someone who owes you the apology. Digging your heels in deeper when you know you're the one in the wrong. Over-explaining your truth to someone who stopped lis- tening a long time ago. Romanticizing the bare minimum. Begging for basic decency. Chasing people who do not want to be caught. Building a life based on what you think looks "good" but not on what actually feels good. Ignoring your intuition. Ignoring your body. Ignoring your needs. Contorting and bending and breaking to fit in places you know you've outgrown. Staying in a relationship that has run its course. Not allowing time for deep rest. Running on fumes. Staying quiet when someone disrespects you. Refusing to allow what already is. Lying to yourself. Never asking for help. Never taking a chance on yourself. Never living up to your own word. Celebrating those who only tolerate you. Wishing you were someone else.

— Molly Burford, "The Different Ways You Abandon Yourself" in "Moments to Hold Close" )

[average-emo-enigma]

Advice from a proud non-people-pleaser on avoiding people-pleasing. Sorry in advance if this sounds like a “if you’re depressed just be happy” post

1. A real friend/partner would respect your boundaries, and there are so many people out there that would respect them. Don’t accept the bare minimum.

2. Remember that boundaries are not requests. You have communicated what you’re comfortable with, and if someone doesn’t respect that, REMOVE yourself from the suituation

3. There’s a difference between standing up for yourself and being a bad person, and deep down you probably already know where to draw the line

4. Exposure therapy and baby steps. Forming habits will be your friend where logic has failed you.

5. Take being called selfish as a compliment.

6. Whenever someone tries to convince you to change your mind on something small, refuse, no matter how much they argue. It doesn’t matter if you actually have changed your mind — practicing saying no resolutely will be so, so good for you. You’ll always be a people-pleaser if you cave whenever someone argues with you.

7. Take time out of your day to get cozy with a blanket and aesthetically listen to a podcast or watch your favorite show to remind yourself how happy you can be on your own

8. Do you really like them or do you just want them to like you…?

9. Vent to a safe person. If you have no safe people, post all your problems on Tumblr lmao

11. Give yourself hugs. Wear a warm fuzzy sweater. Repeat things like “I am worthy” over and over. If you tell yourself anything, you’ll start to believe it, because the brain is funny like that. No more external validation 😈

12. Why on earth would you focus more on what someone else wants you to do with your life than what you want to do? YOU HAVE AUTONOMY

13. So what if you mess up and actually hurt someone? Nobody is perfect. Apologize. Take accountability and move on. Don’t let that be the thing that stops you from protecting yourself.

14. Protecting yourself literally has nothing to do with anybody else. Don’t mess with their boundaries, and get pissed as fuck if they mess with yours.

[old-habits-die-screaming]

I'm half human half "I'm sorry"

[pratchettquotes]

Ptraci glared at him from kohl-ringed eyes. "You mean you don't know? You were going to take me into the desert and you don't know where water is?"

"Well, I rather expected I was going to be able to take some with me!"

"You didn't even think about it!"

"Listen, you can't talk to me like that! I'm a king!" Teppic stopped.

"You're absolutely right," he said. "I never thought about it. Where I come from it rains nearly every day. I'm sorry."

Terry Pratchett, Pyramids

[helloyellow17]

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Yes hello I want to SHOUT THIS FROM THE ROOFTOPS

You 👏 don’t 👏 get 👏 to decide 👏 what 👏 bothers 👏 people!

Saying sorry isn’t about your feelings, it’s about valuing the feelings of those you love and may have hurt. It’s about owning up to your mistakes and trying to make things right. It’s about caring about other people more than your own ego.

[llamasimlish]

[pamithebunterfly2007]

Maybe it’s best to change the tags. . . . . . And I feel so ashamed of what I done. . . . . . .

And I understand what Chelly said, she block me for her own safety and how uncomfortable she was just to talk to me as a fetish artist and how I put “those” tags unprompted and many people saw that and and they were uncomfortable for what I’m doing and so does Chelly, and since both of us talk about our quirks, Chelly didn’t realize that our friendship is getting uncomfortable by talking about our quirks and shit, and even though we are both minors, Chelly realizes that our age gap is not that big just kind of small, She’s 15, I’m 17. but she felt very bad for talking to me and now that we are no longer friends anymore because I was talking about my quirks and stuff in front of her.

I realized what I’m doing was horrible, I was talking about my quirks to someone who is younger than me and I didn’t realizes this until now, it made me feel ashamed for who I was talking too and now I learn this very harsh lesson, I need to talk to people who are like my age and not that I got to be careful of what I said or do on the internet, and for now, since @dazzle-expandism change her tag for her fetish blog, I’m gonna change the tags on mines as well for the safety of others. And I learned my biggest lesson, I need to aware of who I’m talking to, people who are young or old, I’m the one who’s making her uncomfortable in the first place, and I understand that she will no longer forgive me for what I’ve done, and I felt awful, for what I’m doing and putting those tags in public for many people to see, Chelly is right, the choice I made was a mistake I did to myself. And I felt so guilty, I done this, I made people uncomfortable and they don’t want to talk to me anymore for what I did, and it was stupid. I should be aware of my own boundaries and stuff but with this, I didn’t listen to mines and broke it, and by doing so, I realize sorry doesn’t fix anything at all. For now, I’ll sit there and face the consequences on what happens for the mistake I outdid to myself. . . . . . .

@9mysterybook6

@dazzle-expandism

[niormalontumler]

I DID NOT REALIZE I POSTED THIS IN THE STARKID COMMUNITY I DID NOT MEAN THIS SORRY!!!! MY BADDDD I MEANT IT AS A SILLY JOKE IM BEING FOR REAL I DID NOT MEAN TO POST IT IN THE STARKID COMMUNITY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

guys nooooooooooooooooo im sorry