#aspec wrath

[degengxrl]

”I'd argue that it's an identity for antisexual. Sure, there must also be some people with low sex drive/no need for intimacy who now feel more empowered to adopt the label.”

“demisexual isnt that just normal”

“asexuals are just incels who cant get a gf”

“Asexuals are, without exception, pxdophiles who are scared to engage with their sexual desires.”

“you're not asexual, you're on antidepressants.”

“being aroace is a mental disability"

allos™️ stop talking abt aspec identities challenge omfg

pt: allos™️ stop talking abt aspec identities challenge omfg end/pt.

stfu

[jadedaegis]

SINCE CORPORATE HAS STOLEN PRIDE

WE! SHOULD STEAL JULY TOO CORPORATE WOULD NEVER TRY AND PUSH LGBT+ STUFF DUE TO THE BACKLASH FROM THE BIGOTS SICK OF IT

SO WE COULD CELEBRATE ***ALL WE NEED TO*** CALL IT GAY GREED OR GAY WRATH (I know that a good ass chunk of you do already but if corpo is going to bleach the color out of OUR RAINBOW WE NEED TO BLEACH THE DOLLAR OUT OF THEIR PRIDE) MAKE CORPORATION CELEBRATING PRIDE AND PINKWASHING BAD IF THEY DO NOT HAVE THE CONVICTION TO TRULY HOLD TO IT

[hopefullystillliving]

The A does not fucking stand for ally

I am asexual and aromantic and proud of it, and I am just as much a part of the community, just as queer, as any of my trans, gay, and mspec siblings.

Vent below (:

I realize that I'm sometimes a little optimistic, but I did really think that this wasn't an issue anymore, except for those terminally online exclusionists and the well-meaning but uninformed.

I did not expect it to be an issue at a college event's queer resource center table.

They had some buttons and stickers that I was pawing through. I didn't really expect my sunset aroace flag, since but I'm aware it's not terribly well known, but had hope for an ace and an aro button. Maybe with cute puns.

I found one generic ace sticker- a little heart, on a roll with several other flags. Including polysexual, omnisexual, pan, and bi. Amongst the buttons were many more obscure flags, like polyamorous, genderfluid, and agender.

And honestly even thought it bites, I usually get it! I'm used to it, you have to pick and choose your flags, right? Asexual isn't in the big 4 and aromantic is even less well known.

But to include polysexual and omnisexual alongside bi and pan, to include agender but not asexual or aromantic???

And I'm genuinely ecstatic they got recognition to be clear! I was very glad to see the polyam button especially, since I've never seen the flag in person before! But including so many more obscure identities and microlables when the term asexual has been around since the infancy of Pride, and aromantic is literally almost as old as me, give or take a year??

But what was worse to me was that they had a little calendar of events- I can't even remember the specific one, something like a discussion group?- but whatever it was, was titled LGBTQ & A.

As in: and allies. It just-

I get not wanting to use the extended acronym, it's bulky and hard to be inclusive even when you use the plus, and that's why I use queer. But then to say A is for ally?

I admit I feel kinda petty about being so hurt. But I have a right to my anger and frustration and sadness when the community I stand with that is supposed to stand by me just. Doesn't. Doesn't even acknowledge that yes love is love but some people don't and we're with them too!

I'm almost completely unable to interact with the community irl. To have this be one of my first, indirect as it was, leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I don't think that this was an accurate picture of the center, and I have hope that it's better than it presented itself here.

The A is for asexual and aromantic (and agender too, if they want to use it). Not allies. I didn't think that visibility was too much to ask.

[ladyimaginarium]

Okay so I'm& revitalizing this again.

Hi, my& name's Arcana& / Angel&, and I& am the core / host / singletsona of The Imaginarians Galaxy. If you want to help support a local queer, trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, intersex, mspec, aspec, autistic, disabled, neurodivergent, hoh, chronically ill, psychotic spoonie witch two spirited mixed native and ashkenazi jewish bodied multigenic DID system who's an aspiring activist, fashion model, voice & film actrex, ASMRtist, youtuber/vtuber, polyglot & writer, it'd be greatly appreciated.

This month is Pride Month & Indigenous History Month so please support our indigenous turtle island communities, know who's land you're on and support queer indigenous turtle islander creators, & on top of that, July 13th is also my& birthday & July is also Disability Pride Month & Queer Wrath Month !! I& just find it's funny how white queers get all this support & clout, but the minute a queer Native Jew asks for any kind of mutual assistance, it's like cricket noises, but anyway, here I& go again, I'm& putting out these links just in case someone actually does wanna help out because it's only right to do so being an indigenous queer two spirited bodied system, after all.

If you're white, you can think of this as paying reparations for us& for dealing with antinative racism, antisemitism, ableism, sanism, pluralphobia, psyism, audism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, multitransphobia, aphobia, exorsexism, intersexism and the ongoing colonization of my& people and fighting on the behalf of the indigenous, queer and plural communities on here while for any POC reading this, you can think of this as extending your solidarity with us&, so after I& spent a lot of blood sweats and tears into what i& do, I'm& finally asking something that would benefit me& for a change, even like 10$ could help, but even if you still can't for whatever reason, please spread the word out to help us& live easier as a disabled, neurodivergent mixed native system in this ableist & racist world.

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We& didn't have a great childhood growing up as we& were abused for a decade & we& weren't taught many lifeskills so we're& still learning from the gate. Even though we aren't in a life threatening emergency, I'm& generally not in the right financial space to spend a lot & buying my& own shit because I'm& Saving Up™ for a lot of things, including the possibility of me& moving to my& first ever apartment next year & my& future service dog & I& cannot work due to my& multiple disabilities, & I& can't stand up for long periods of time without feeling exhausted & just being an overall madcripple, so whatever you do, it'd be greatly appreciated, especially if you like our& content.

Remember, reblogs > likes!

[hellverse-angst-and-smut]

Starlight AU - Brief Characters Info, Brief Backstory, and Art (important)

Can I request Stella Goetia having sex with her female best friend and actually catching feelings. Maybe she rubs her new girlfriend in Stolas' face.

"Fuck you Stolas. My girlfriend actually cares about me, doesn't kill people, and she loves Octavia like she's her own child!"

^ Divider credits to saradika

Stella Goetia [Stella means Star]

|| Female || She/Her || Bi and Demi ||

She loves Via and Starla. She always had issues with Stolas because it was an arranged marriage.

Starla [Starla means Star]

|| Female || She/Star/They || Queer ||

She loves Via and Stella. She worked for her and Stolas, and befriended Stella. They became close and fell in love. Stella calls her Starry or My Little Star. Starla is an imp and she worked for Stella and Stolas. Starla and Stella got really close. She wears a crescent moon and star hair clip that Stella gave her. She has little stars in her hair, so Stella gave her the clip to match. She has old self harm scars on her hips and calves. Her eyes are brown and she’s got muted darker red skin. She’s from the Wrath ring and she likes wearing comfy clothes and cowboy boots. In the art below, she’s wearing green pajama shorts and shirt. She’s also covered in various sized white freckles. And there are two nicks on the tip of her tail, one on each side.

Octavia aka Via

|| Demigirl || She/Shey/They || Questioning; Mspec; Aspec ||

She feels like her dad doesn’t care about her anymore. She loves Stella and Starla and frequently spends time with them. Blitz tried to be nice to her, but it didn’t help much. So Blitz leaves her be. Stolas mostly avoids Via now because he stays holed up in his room when he isn’t working.

Stolas [Stolas means Prince of Stars]

|| Male || He/Him || Pan ||

He loves Via, but doesn’t love Stella. And he puts Blitz above Via. He always had issues with Stella because it was an arranged marriage. He acts more like the pilot Stolas did where he murdered people and didn’t really care about anything but himself. (Note: that Stolas is no longer canon.)

Bit of Backstory:

Starla worked for the family, then she worked just for Stella, then she stopped working altogether and Stella gave Starla access to Stella’s bank account and she moved into Stella’s room.

Octavia, Stolas, Stella, and Starla all live at the castle. It was easiest that way and Stolas and Stella just avoid each other. Blitz frequently visits Stolas. Stella and Starla share Stella’s room, which is on the same floor as Stolas’, but far enough away from Stolas’ that they can’t hear each other. It’s on the opposite end of the floor. Via lives downstairs. Stella and Starla have their own bathroom.

Via sometimes sleeps in Stella’s rooms because she gets nightmares. So she crawls into bed like a little kid and sleeps between Stella and Starla.

Via is also 17.

What Starla looks like and what everyone’s heights are in this fic (these aren’t canon heights)

With Via:

Note: the Blitz, Stolas, and Stella are from merch. Octavia is taken from the show. None of that art is mine. I drew Starla with a base from my partner.

[kore-pythia-hayashi]

Hello, Kore! I see that you’re also on the aspec, so another thing we have in common, I guess… Do you have a story about it? Like, about how you found out you’re demi? If it’s not too personal, of course.

Ethan

[Exhales heavily, continuing to braid her hair and briefly covers her eyes] Ethan, this is hypocritical - I literally saw you die, you and others can ask me any questions, even on my kind of very personal topics. You and others really underestimate how much I've seen and know you. why did I literally see Chris go crazy, you let out your last agonizing sigh, Silena confessed that she was a spy and you and others are still shy about personal questions? it looks a little funny in my eyes... I'm sorry if it sounded rude and unpleasant [Exhales heavily and gets out of bed going to the window, the moonlight whitens her pale skin even more, making her translucent and ghost-like].

romantic love has always been difficult for me, since childhood, while other girls dreamed of becoming beautiful princesses for their princes, I looked at it in disbelief and did not understand what it means to love romantically? What was this love? How was it different from the love I felt for my family and friends?

When I told my dad about this and said that I would probably never be able to love like a princesses loves her princes, he smiled lovingly, kissed me on the forehead and said that love can be different... and maybe I'll be a late bloomer like him... It took Apollo two years of friendship to win my dad's heart....

His name was Callum Grey Morgan and he was the son of Amphitrite.... and love of my life that I lost.

He saved me from monsters, when we were kids, we became friends and remained friends for two years, we were the closest to each other, he called me Sunstar and told me that I was still beautiful when I exposed to him what was left of my back after the wrath of Apollo, I treated his wounds, he played the guitar for me.. I fell in love with him after 2 years of friendship and he reciprocated, we became like the sun and the sea, like Helios and Rhodes.

Until I saved my grandmother's old friend and her family by telling them about the impending fire, Apollo became violently furious and punished me very severely... He took him away from me, I saw it and foolishly tried to save him... Callum kissed me and said that he had learned something from me-he was just happy to be with me and would accept his fate proudly and bravely, just like me...

When he died, I for the first time I felt hatred my father.

From the creator of the character - the answer should be different, I'm sorry if it's crooked.

[imaginarianisms]

#IMAGINARIANISMS. an independent, private & selective multiera, multigenre, multifandom, multimuse, multiship & multiverse aesthetic, worldbuilding ask/rp blog featuring both canon & original characters of naruto, gangsta., a song of ice & fire/game of thrones/house of the dragon, the walking dead, & more. predominantly headcanon & exomemory based with both canon divergency & canon compliancy. sporadic activity; predominantly discord based & mutuals only. non-spoiler free. 15+ years rp experience. alternate universe, crossover, group rp, canon compliant, canon divergent, original character & fandomless character friendly. previously dominusornatum; originally established in 2019, archived in 2020 & restarted in 2023. haunted by angel / arcana & the imaginarians galaxy system.

a 𝖘𝖙𝖚𝖉𝖞 on abandonment, trauma, madness, the nurturing of others when one never received it for oneself, gender, queerness, indigeneity, disability, neurodivergency, alterhumanity, plurality, what makes a monster & what makes a human, indigenous spirituality, coming of age, young adulthood, indigenous pessimism, indigenous existentialism, indigenous psychology, holy eldritch abominations, enlightenment, apotheosis, witchcraft, occultism, prophecy, quests, dreams of the future, legacy, kings & lionhearts, messiahs & machiavels, whatever our souls are made of yours & mine are the same, family horror, platonic lovers, psychosexual tangles, unholy soulmateism, doomed by the narrative, cannibalism as tenderness & love, love is hunger, the divine within the profane, knighthood, queer chivalry, flower language, gods & monsters, coming back wrong, collective rage & grief, raw passion & power, the art of dominance, submission, trust & eroticism, sexual exploration, found family, troubled youth, children forced to kill, the corruption of youth, the face of love's rage, women in power, sex workers, cults, human exploitation, god loves you but not enough to save you, all the eyes on you, colonialism, intergenerational trauma, indigenous historical trauma, having faith in humanity despite everything, all my relations, the lengths you're willing to go for the ones you love, wars in the mind, hedonism, glamour, pleasure, desire, wrath, survival, vengeance & justice, undying devotion & unconditional love.

𝐃𝐎𝐒𝐒𝐈𝐄𝐑.

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𝐁𝐘𝐅 . . .

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𝐃𝐍𝐈 𝐈𝐅 . . .

General DNI criteria, just... basic things like minors, bigots, racists, -phobes, ableists, sanists, antisemites, if you're going to drag us& into any kind of discourse, y'all get it. hopefully.

[parfaitpuppymogai]

[[ OLD PINNED - OUTDATED ]]

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ₓ˚. ୭ ○◦˚. .˚ₓ☆ soft fuzzy mogai ｡･:*:,｡･ﾟ☆

♡ intro & tagz, boundariez, byi, dni ♡

reqs: 0/0 - inbox closed (⁠´⁠∩⁠｡⁠•⁠ ⁠ᵕ⁠ ⁠•⁠｡⁠∩⁠`⁠)

(art by aimkidblast, i dont support her beliefs regarding endos though.)

hello there!! my namez r everett, modify & fuzzy, n thiz iz my mogai blog!! i primarily uze neoz + they/them primary, and my secondary priority iz he/it!!

im nonbinary (demiboy/genderfaun/paraboy/idk + many many xxenoz)!!

sexuality wize, im vincian/gay (nwlnw), and aspec & arospec!! :3c

(yes i use the green and blue flag, and i will never not use it. if you dont like it block me.)

ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○ i will do ｡･:*:･ﾟ☆,｡･:*:･ﾟ,｡･:*:･ﾟ☆

♡ coining (💕 a trick of the light to love you tonight)

♡ coining reqs (💝 although i have no arms to hold you in)

♡ themed gender liztz (💖 im not like other guys who have a surface)

♡ moodboardz/ztimboardz (💓 a shimmering puff of indistinct love)

♡ iconz (💞 whats better than the vague embrace of a soft fuzzy man?)

♡ pronoun/name suggeztionz & checkz (💌 i know it sounds crazy)

♡ chatting/misc poztz (💗 so please baby please baby step into the mist!)

♡ reblogging thingz from my old acc that im ztill proud ov (🍥 ghost town)

ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○ i will KNOT do ｡･:*:･ﾟ☆,｡･:*:･ﾟ☆

♡ anything 2 do with groupz im not apart ov

♡ coining 4 harmvul/hatevul identities (exx. dream minecraft sexual, clovergender, etc)

♡ anything on the blacklizt

ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○ boundariez ｡･:*:･ﾟ☆,｡･:*:･ﾟ☆

♡ due 2 my anxxiety involving death threatz n hate mezzagez n the like, i do not allow anon azkz, srry ómò (thdr@m@s amirite...) iv u want to req something anonymouzly plz dm me it!!

♡ i haz a topic blacklizt which basically has everything i revuse 2 make terms based on, plz do not suggest anything on the topic blacklizt!!

♡ le dni appliez 2 anyone who fits it, idc iv ur public abt it or not

♡ iv ur on my dni plz do not uze my termz, and do not recoin/"reclaim"/baztardize them!! (n plz do not complain abt it to me iv u r pro-endo. u already haz tonz ov alternative labelz 2 use az most ov the mogai community iz unvortunately pro-endo.)

♡ u can repozt my termz p much anywhere, EXCEPT 4 fandom wikiz. but PLZ credit me and specify that i do not want endoz uzing my termz!! (exx. "coined by softfuzzyaemogai on tumblr. the coiner is uncomfy with nontraumagenic systems using their terms.")

ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○ b4 u interact ｡･:*:･ﾟ☆*:･,｡･:ﾟ☆

♡ i do not tag/cw swearing/provanity, however i do tag/cw reclaimed slurz.

♡ i am a furry, iv ur uncomvy w that plz just fucking block me.

♡ iv u bring up anything on the topic blacklizt towardz me plz censor it!! /srs

♡ plz uze tone tagz when interacting

♡ iv ur gonna dm me abt anything, plz put an underztandable intro (like your virzt mezzage, or the mezzage zubject, etc). i wanna know what the mezzage iz abt,, zeeing "(no zubject)" or "we need to talk" makez me rlly anxiouz

ₓ˚. ୭ ˚○ do not interact iv u... ｡･:*☆:･,｡･:ﾟ☆

♡ know me irl

♡ are already on bad termz w me

♡ vall under bazic dni criteria

♡ are friends w anyone on my people blacklizt. i literally CANNOT trust u iv u r :(

♡ arent gay but still engage in gay flag discourse or have "x flag users dni"

♡ you go by the namez mentioned in my topic blacklizt

♡ dream/dsmp fans

♡ dhmis avatars (regular fanz r ok, but those w avatars vrom the show make me super uncomvy)

♡ uze wrath neopronounz, such as wra/wrath/wraths. someone with those neoz haz traumatized me & it's like one ov my biggest triggerz.

♡ are tolerant/a fan ov 4ch*n, l*lc*w, kiwif*rms, etc. im zurprized thiz iznt under bazic criteria

♡ headcanon lgbt characterz as thingz they arent. for example, headcanoning a canonically gay man as a nonbinary lesbian

♡ are a lgbt f*tsihiz*r (straight ppl who read yaoi, cis ppl who like "traps/f*mb*ys", etc)

♡ are a lgbt exclus ov any kind (ex. dont think asexxualz belong in the community, think xxenogenderz r "the reason cishetz think actual trans ppl r faking", etc)

♡ heavily r*lig*ous

♡ find thingz about me obnoxiouz to the point where you feel the need to talk about it

♡ my zpecial intereztz are a trigger/dizcomvort vor you

♡ into g*recore/h*tecore

♡ fans ov fucked up media (ex. fnf vs /v/-tan mod, alfr*ds pl*yhouse)

♡ fans ov my triggerz (i wont list them publicly 4 my own savety, but i will block u myselv iv i vind out)

♡ you think cisphobia, heterophobia, racism against whites, etc. iz an actual problem

♡ you think women can be vincian/vincians can like women, or that men can be lesbians/lesbians can like men (this includes demiboy lesbians/demiboy gays)

♡ you make jokez abt traumatic things (ex. "this song slaps harder than my dad") (those who have that trauma n use humor to cope r ok)

･:*:･ﾟ☆,｡･:*:･ﾟ,｡･:*:･ﾟ☆･:*,｡･ﾟ,｡･:*:,｡･ﾟ☆,｡･:*:,｡･ﾟ

here iz my dni banner, it doeznt have my vull dni but doez have thingz that i believe r the mozt important. the "ae" in my name literally meanz "anti endo" so itz not my vault iv an endo reblogz it.

[disorganisedautodidact]

WIP GAME

Rules: post the names of all the files in your WIP folder regardless of how non-descriptive or ridiculous. Let people send you an ask with the title that most intrigues them and then post a little snippet of it or tell them something about it! And then tag as many people as you have WIPs.

Thanks for the tag @last-capy-hupping!

abandoned

done

high king maeglin au

aspec finrod

baby feanor au

emotionally cathartic island vacation 2

ferry au

ghost ship

maeglin reembodied

melkor was right au

nogrod

reverse kinktober

war of wrath

(the first two are not wips, they’re where fics go when i finish them or lose interest in them - listed because my fanfic folder which includes them is the closest thing i have to a dedicated WIP folder)

when i’m asked to tag people i immediately forget the urls of all my mutuals so i’m just inviting anyone who wants to to participate!

[ao3feed-tolkien]

Old enough to learn

read it on the AO3 at https://ift.tt/stuP1eK

by unknownlifeform

Gil-Galad has a conversation with one of his young Half-Elf cousins, during which Elrond learns some things and Gil-Galad tries to wrap his mind around Half-Elf aging rates

Written for Aspec Arda Week 2023

Words: 3625, Chapters: 1/1, Language: English

Fandoms: TOLKIEN J. R. R. - Works & Related Fandoms, The Silmarillion and other histories of Middle-Earth - J. R. R. Tolkien

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: Gen

Characters: Elrond Peredhel, Ereinion Gil-galad

Relationships: Elrond Peredhel & Ereinion Gil-galad

Additional Tags: Aspec Arda Week 2023, Aromantic Asexual Gil-Galad, Young Elrond Peredhel, mentioned Elros, war of wrath era

read it on the AO3 at https://ift.tt/stuP1eK

[theaceandaroadvocacyproject]

Second to last day of Pride Month, and gearing up for Wrath Month (unofficial, for now), we are talking about white supremacy, colonialism, and how to keep that nonsense out of ace and aro spaces! These are just some points and some ideas on the topics - we really encourage everyone to reflect and support your local aspecs of color. And call that shit out when you see it. 

[ID: 5 images with white backgrounds, black borders, black text, and the TAAAP logo in the upper right corners. 

Image one reads “White Supremacy and Ace or Aro Identity. White supremacy and imperialism have strongly impacted most discourse around sexuality, orientation, and relationships. Here are some common sayings that have roots in racism, imperialism, and/or colonialism: "Aces and aros of color are hard to find." - While some ace and aro spaces are definitely white dominated, this should NOT be treated as a natural thing. It should be questioned why a space has such little racial diversity and what barriers exist that keep POC out. Also, with online spaces, many people presume white and American as the default even when it is not necessarily reflective of the space.”

The second image reads “White Supremacy and Ace or Aro Identity. "Oh this person doesn't look [ace or aro]." - Asexuality and aromanticism do not have a "look". This is in general queerphobic, as it imagines that LGBTQIA+ people are easily identifiable by their looks, but is often specifically weaponized against POC. As an example. black people and women of color in particular are generally stereotyped as more sexual and "promiscuous" than their European counterparts. What someone "looks" like is heavily impacted by the bias behind the eyes seeing them. “

The third image reads “White Supremacy and Ace or Aro Identity. "We're just like you/We're not sick/We're normal." - Normalization discourses throw everyone that cannot be "normal" under the bus. As we live in a society shaped by imperialism, colonialism, misogyny, and capitalism, "normal" is decided by those ideas and the structures born from them. POC are never going to have a "normal" sexuality because their bodies are considered inherently "abnormal". "Normal" is a weapon of the state, and queer activists would do better to not wield it.”

Image four reads “White Supremacy and Ace or Aro Identity, and how to keep that Sh!t out of our community. Question the standards and norms of the spaces you engage in, and consider what kind of community they have created for that space. Prioritize changing structures and norms rather than trying to fit into them or make them more "inclusive" - inclusion can only go so far, as structures and norms seek to privilege a certain way of living.”

Image 5 reads “White Supremacy and Ace or Aro Identity, and how to keep that Sh!t out of our community. Don't leave people behind. Identity is intersectional and people should not be asked to prioritize one identity over another. We are stronger when we form coalitions.  Deplatform racists. Don't deplatform POC when they ask racists to stop being racist. Don't deplatform POC when they don't ask nicely.” There is a black megaphone at the bottom of this image. End ID.]

[werewolfpurfect]

A new proposal for the aspec community 🖤💜💚

Recently, I was discussing personal attitudes towards romance with my QPP, and we thought about how personal attitudes towards romance/sex shouldn’t only be about whether one finds them disgusting, unsettling, uninteresting or enjoyable, but should also include other feelings. It is how we came up with the term romance/sex-wrathful.

Now wrathful might refer to a series of feelings that cause anger, irriation or burning rage at the way our amatonormative society constantly shoves romance/ partnered sex in our faces, in ways that present them as the ultimate goal, the ultimate pleasure, the cure-all of all problems in life and something everyone desires and should strive for. 

This can manifest for a number of reasons for the people who feel it:

a. They might feel it is unnecessary and overrated

b. They might be angered at the importance the world puts at it and the pressure to fInD a RoMaNtIc/SeXuAl PaRtNeR

c. They don’t understand it, and that pisses them off because it’s EVERYWHERE

d. They might be angered at the way it is portrayed in the media, and the stupid limitations/expectations they spread about it

What do yall think about it? Share your opinion and other points, we would like to hear from you. 

P.S One of the reasons I enjoyed this conversation was because I am using the concept of linguistic becomings for my thesis. 

By the gay way, if you wanna check my QPP’s work out, her instagram is: https://www.instagram.com/cyrill.tate/

[ladyimaginarium]

This month is Pride Month and Indigenous History Month so please support our indigenous turtle island communities, know who's land you're on and support queer indigenous turtle islander creators, & on top of that, July 13th is also my& birthday & July is also Disability Pride Month & Queer Wrath Month !! I& just find it's funny how white queers get all this support & clout, but the minute a queer Native Jew asks for any kind of mutual assistance, it's like cricket noises, but anyway, here I& go again, just in case someone actually does wanna help out!

While not obligatory, if you want to help support a local queer, trans, nonbinary, genderfluid, intersex, mspec, aspec, autistic, disabled, neurodivergent, hoh, chronically ill, psychotic spoonie witch two spirited mixed native and ashkenazi jewish bodied multigenic DID system who's an aspiring activist, ASMRtist, fashion model, voice & film actrex ( hopefully getting into something big on Netflix or HBO one day ), ASMRtist, youtuber/vtuber, polyglot & writer with asking us& to be your sensitivity reader, commissioning us& ( to be available! ), book a tarot reading with us& ( to be available! ), donating to help us& save up for getting our& multipurpose psychiatric service dog, and/or buying something from our& Throne wishlist which is a safe & anonymous way to buy gifts, because so far these are the best way to support us& or simply donating to our& P*yP*l because you enjoy our& content. Gifts are not necessary, but appreciated, & after receiving your gift if you choose to, I'd& be more than happy to send you a personal thank you photoset or clip or post something on tumblr or elsewhere, regardless, I'd& really appreciate it! We& didn't have a great childhood growing up as we& were abused for a decade & we& weren't taught many lifeskills so we're& still learning from the gate. Even though we aren't in a life threatening emergency, I'm& generally not in the right financial space to spend a lot & buying my& own shit because I'm& Saving Up™ for a lot of things, including the possibility of me& moving to my& first ever apartment next year & my& future service dog & I& cannot work due to my& multiple disabilities, the fact I& can't stand up for long periods of time without feeling exhausted & just being an overall madcripple, so whatever you do, it'd be greatly appreciated, especially if it's from white settlers, so if you're white, you can think of this as paying reparations us& for dealing with antinative racism, antisemitism, ableism, sanism, pluralphobia, psyism, audism, homophobia, biphobia, transphobia, multitransphobia, aphobia, exorsexism, intersexism and the ongoing colonization of my people and fighting on the behalf of the indigenous, queer and plural communities on here while for any POC reading this, you can think of this as extending your solidarity with us&, so after I& spent a lot of blood sweats and tears into what i& do, I'm& finally asking something that would benefit me& for a change, even like 10$ could help, but even if you still can't for whatever reason, please spread the word out to help us& live easier as a disabled, neurodivergent mixed native system in this ableist & racist world !!

[everyoneislgbtpride-edits]

King Bradley from Fullmetal Alchemist is an aroace demiboy!!

[themyofmy]

ah yes, the queer 7 deadly sins: gay pride, non-binary greed, lesbian wrath, trans envy, mspec lust, aspec gluttony, and unlabeled sloth

[thejsorcerer]

If I see one more person invalidating aspecs who engage in queerplatonic relationships, you'll feel my wrath 😤.

Queerplatonic relationships are relationships that are not romantic & don't fit the description of platonic either. There's a level of commitment, dedication, and effort that you wouldn't give a friendship that you DO HAVE with your queerplatonic partner. Just Google it please 🧐. Qprs have nothing to do with amatonormativity.

Friendly reminder that amatonormativity is the belief that everyone is better off in a monogamous romantic relationship and that those relationships are more important than any others!! Amatonormativity is what has unconsciously made everyone assume that their romantic partner is more important then their best friends and why most people tend to leave good friendships for their romantic partners; is what leads people to enter toxic romantic relationships for the sake of not being single bc everyone is "better off" with a romance.

Amatonormativity is a harmful belief against everyone really, not just aspecs (but it harms us the most). It's what discriminates against other kinds of relationships (friendships, family, poly relationships, queerplatonic, etc.) by making romantic relationships central and places them on a pedestal higher up than any other type of relationship. Don't compare a queerplatonic relationship with the damage amatonormativity has done, please 😤