#bi lesboy

[morutefawnn]

꒰ ೀ‧₊˚ emobian ೀ emocian !!

emobian •｡ꪆৎ ˚⋅ when one is exclusively attracted to people who are not men, but can feel attracted to men they have formed a very deep emotional bond with. / demiromantic specifically towards men.

emocian •｡ꪆৎ ˚⋅ when one is exclusively attracted to people who are not women, but can feel attracted to women they have formed a very deep emotional bond with. / demiromantic specifically towarss women.

emobian was coined 4/21/24, emocian was coined 4/23/24 both by me on my twitter morutefawnn

[icarusxxrising]

My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.

[honeylemony]

Begging and pleading for people to uncouple genital preference from sexuality labels

Begging bi/pan people to just use the label that describes their experiences instead of cosplaying as "lesbian that's available to men".

This is always where that "bi lesbian" shit was heading. Transmisogyny and lesbophobia.

Lesbians are not "actually straight women" when we love and date our trans lesbian partners. Lesbians are not "confused" or "less gay" for liking sex with trans lesbians.

[lesbianamalvada]

mspec lesbian supporters is it okay if I call myself bisexual even though I'm not attracted to men and I'm exclusively attracted to women. can I become a spokesperson for the bisexual community and talk about how hard it is being bisexual while loudly proclaiming i'm only attracted to women. and then can I call all two-sex attracted bisexuals bigots for trying to gatekeep the bisexual community and get them kicked out of bisexual spaces. can I prove biphobes right with my very existence, that bisexuals can pick a gender and most are just faking it, and when any bisexual person calls me out they are accused of helping conservative politicians take our rights away. would that be okay?? i just want to know the rules to this.

[tiedupcowb0y]

tumblr butches get behind me. Never set foot on twitter please you're too sexy and beautiful they cannot handle a butch who calls himself a man

[batpoisonz]

fun fact (that's not so fun):

the creator of the current lesbian flag doesn't support lesbians involving attraction to enbies. only women. despite their flag meanings, they legit said this.

idk if she has since apologized but I just found it so someone correct me if I'm wrong.

EDIT: I found out they use they/them pronouns and I am going to correct myself on this. I also found out they since came out as enby. however I haven't seen apologies for certain behavior. I also know they are still exclusive of mspec lesbians, which is an issue.

[babybornbreath]

Bi lesbians (and people who use other lesbaphobic labels) will scream from the mountain tops about how inclusive they are and how they make the queer community sooo safe n better but would rather die than listen to actual lesbians and bisexuals explain how lesbaphobic, biphobic, and transphobic they are.

[Note: No babez this isn't TE.RF rhetoric and no I'm allowed to focus on multiple issues at once don't bother using anti-trans laws as a scapegoat to derail from this post.]

[swordless]

Made blinkies!! ^__^

[everyponie]

what is a lesboy? let's find out together!

[aqgarts]

Reblog to scare exclusionary queers.

We are valid.

We have been here forever and will stay here forever.

[a-hypnos-v]

Queer community when contradictory labels:

Transmasc, lesboy, and he/him lesbians are a thing, bi lesbians are also a thing, queer people aren’t entitled to have an easy to understand identity, and just because you don’t get it is no reason to invalidate them, let alone accuse them of invalidating themselves, being lesbiphobic or harmful for the community. Labels are made up, it’s all a construct, it’s up for that person to assign what that label means to them.

[neurotypicalabusesurvivor]

All good faith queer identities are valid.

But there a bi lesbian.....

But they are a lesboy.....

But they are a trans man who identifies as a lesbian....

Imagine making a big deal about a bunch of imaginary social constructs. As long as they are not forcing their identity on you and it is in good faith then it is valid.

[honeylemony]

These bitches will day in and day out be like "be aware of propaganda guys, you are not immune to propaganda everybody, be aware and critical of the intent and themes and context of the ideas and media you're presented with"

And then when confronted with the fact that "bi lesbian" labels perpetuate lesbian rape go "DONT YOU KNOW FICTION DOESNT AFFECT REALITY!!!!11!1!!!"

You have no real platform. You have no real values or beliefs. Your thought process is reactionary "I can do whatever I want!!" when being told something isn't for you. It's so pathetic.

[contradictorypride]

Bi lebians are beautiful and valid💗

[local-lesboy]

saving my energy from people on tik tok trying to argue about the validity of being a bi lesbian, going to invest my energy back into my community

they tried really hard to come up with arguments over things i didn’t even say like “so you think lesbians can like cis men” (which i have no stake in, i don’t like cis binary men but i’m not the end all be all of lesbians)

save it, identity police. i don’t care what you think of my labels, they’re not for you to decide. i don’t care if they make you confused, they make perfect sense to me. you can ask politely or get out the way.

shout out and lots of love to my other bi lesbians out there regardless of why that’s your identity. you’re beautiful, handsome, whichever you like better.

🧡🤍🩷💜💙

[batpoisonz]

twitter users be like

"lesbians can't like men. but we aren't bisexual even tho we are attracted to women and a spectrum of nonbinary people"

but also be like

"yeah a man who likes women and a spectrum of nonbinary people isn't straight, that's actually bisexual."

the double standards are insane.