#mspec gay safe

[bisexualsafespace]

solidarity symbol between misunderstood and complex labels.

bi straight, bi gay, bi lesbian, gray asexual.

[sirenium]

It's not your job to educate the willfully ignorant; the best thing you can do is to be yourself, despite the fact that some people don't want you to.

So be 'cringe' and embarrassingly queer! It's your life and your body.

[swordless]

Made blinkies!! ^__^

[lairofsirenium]

𝔄𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠, 𝔄𝔇ℌ𝔇, 𝔞𝔫𝔡 𝔄𝔲𝔇ℌ𝔇 𝔤𝔞𝔶 𝔣𝔩𝔞𝔤𝔰!

Autistic, ADHD, and AuDHD gay flags!

I've finally gotten around to making gay counterparts to my autistic lesbian (link), ADHD lesbian (link), and auDHD lesbian (link) flags, so without further ado...

𝔄𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔊𝔞𝔶

Autistic Gay

ID: rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom: turquoise, pale green, yellow, white, yellow, orange, red. The version on the left has a black infinity symbol in the center, and the right one does not. End ID

𝔄𝔇ℌ𝔇 𝔊𝔞𝔶

ADHD Gay

ID: rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The colors from top to bottom: dark blue, blue, light blue, pastel yellow, orange, red, crimson. The version on the left features the butterfly ADHD symbol, and the other one on the right does not. End ID

𝔄𝔲𝔇ℌ𝔇 𝔊𝔞𝔶

AuDHD Gay

ID: rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The colors are all faded, and they are shown from top to bottom as blue, slightly darker blue, yellow, green, yellow, orange, crimson. End ID

𝔚𝔥𝔬 𝔠𝔞𝔫 𝔲𝔰𝔢 𝔱𝔥𝔢𝔰𝔢 𝔣𝔩𝔞𝔤𝔰?

Who can use these flags?

All gay people who are autistic and/or have ADHD can use these flags, 'professionally' diagnosed or not. That means this flag is inclusive of turigirls, mspec gays, gayhets, etc!

[genderstarbucks]

Hey mspec monos! Why do you identify as mspec mono?

Nothing serious about this poll, I'm just curious (personally I'm abrosexual and on the SAM)

[demonic-shadowlucifer]

Made YET another edit of this meme

(Image ID: An edited image featuring three pikachus holding either strop signs or rainbow flags and floating text. Part of this meme has been edited out in black with white text added. The text reads "it's "june" which mean it's Time for a reminder that the original version of this meme is incredibly aphobic and ignores the existence of trans and nonbinary people too. Straight aspecs, straight trans folks, straight intersex folks, straight nonbinary folks and heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs exist as well and are still queer. Queer =/= nonstraight. Happy Pride Month yall!". There is also an arrow and black text which reads "And vice versa!". End ID)

I made a typo in the meme but I can't be assed to fix it lol.

[entropy-sea-system]

Alternate Gaybian/Lesgay Flags I Made

One that's just a gradient of the gay and lesbian flags

This one I call the midnight gaybian flag bc of the colors

One w purple:

Two that are based on the purple-yellow-green-pink lesbian flag and gay flag

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These are based on the colors of gay and lesbian flags:

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Finally, one with many stripes to combine colors of the flags more evenly !!

(-Rift)

[mogayis-socool]

☀ Omni cinthean

― A cinthean who is also omni, this could be because they use the SAM.

[redtail-lol]

Interrupting my flag posting to remind people of something because I saw not nice things trying to find a faunic lesbian flag before making my own

Other people using a microlabel doesn't undermine your experience

Other people using an alternate label doesn't undermine your experience

They're not insulting you, telling you that your label is wrong, or claiming the label you use is somehow dirty.

Lesbian is inclusive of nonbinary people. Trixic is still a valid label for nonbinary people who want to emphasize they are not women and/or are not comfortable being called lesbians. It does not invalidate nonbinary lesbians. Trixic and lesbian can be used together or someone may choose to only identify as one or the other. They do not invalidate each other

Same goes for Vincian/Veldian/Turian/Cinthean/other equivalents. I'm gonna say veldian because it sounds nicest. Veldian js inclusive of nonbinary people. Toric is still a valid label for nonbinary people that want to emphasize they are not men. It doesn't invalidate nonbinary veldians and it may or may not be used in combination with veldian.

This also goes for faunic and floric. Faunic and floric are valid terms. They do not invalidate lesbian and veldian. Both lesbian and veldian have wlw and mlm connotations even if they're not strictly limited to those people, and it's okay to want a term without those connotations. It's okay to use faunic and lesbian or floric and veldian if you wanna specify your attraction is broader than the wlw or mlm relationships commonly associated with those labels

Being a full-moon springtide lunian/bi lesbian/omni lesbian or a summertime solian/bi veldian/omni veldian does not invalidate lesbians and veldians who are also technically mspec but would rather just identify as lesbians or veldians. I wanna be specific about the genders I'm attracted to being inherently mspec even without including both binary genders. You don't have to. I'm not forcing you to.

Being a lilaean or violaen also doesn't invalidate strictly wlw or mlm lesbians or veldians that don't use the microlabels. They're just being specific about their attraction because they want to.

If you don't wanna use a microlabel, don't. Stop trying to tell others we should just call ourselves lesbians or veldians because we're a lot more than that.

[bisexualsafespace]

gatekeepers are so confusing

Person: i'm bi but can't imagine myself in a gay relationship

other person: straight poser! you are straight

Person: your right actually :), bi always felt wrong, I have found the label "bi-straight"

other person: "why mspec straight isn't valid, a thread"

bi straight flag

[sirenium]

ID: some random Sonic card with Shadow The Hedgehog on it. There is a text box, and the text inside is two different colors. In black Obra Letra font: 'Shadow says:' and in red Obra Letra font: 'Pissing yourself about mspec les/gays is, in fact, exclusionism. You are not an uwu inclusionist if you refuse to get your head out of your ass and realize that the way someone else identifies is none of your fucking business.' End ID

The card without the text:

Thank you, Shadow

[fallenstarcat]

included abros in your mspec.

include abros in your queer.

include abros in your pride.

[joeyspissstain]

yk what it really blows my mind how so much of the lgbtq+ community can be all for xenogenders and neopronouns and shit (love you guys) but when it comes to mspec gays and lesbians?? its quite the opposite for us

im absolutely the type to respect different opinions but it makes it really fucking hard when anti-mspec gays/lesbians wont even give me a goddamn reason why they dont like us.

'ohh but it contradicts each other' okay patricia well youre contradicting yourself by supporting lgbtq+ but then walking all over mspec gays

ive been asking around on as many anti-mspec gays/lesbian blogs as i can find and guess how many have given an answer? NONE. nada. zip. zero. and it really says a lot about them.

so until SOMEONE can give me a real fucking answer im not gonna be nice about it anymore cause none of us deserve this kinda treatment. theres bigger problems than people with contradicting labels

so antis, please by all means, give me a fucking reason.

[arcticflowerz]

Alt Lesbxy Flag

I decided to make an alternate flag to the original Lesbxy flag made/coined by @mogai-sunflowers, I do not dislike the original flag. I made an alt version of the Lesbxy flag just cuz I wanted a flag that matched the flags of the Sapphbxy, Achilligxrl, and Vincigxrl terms I coined. This flag is only meant to be an alternate flag, this is NOT meant to be a replacement for the original.

Flag by: @arcticflowerz

Do not repost my flags or the things I coin with out credit.

[cinnaspicesys]

I made a pirategender pride flag! I made it mostly for myself, but anyone is free to use it if they like it. :)

-Neph

[somescenecatholic]

reblog if you are a safe space for everyone