honestly, the best decision I ever made for myself was to self collar, with the intention and purpose of being a physical promise to always love and take care of myself no matter what (plus it’s like having a stim toy on me 24/7)
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welcome!
i’m Oli (they/them) and i’m 28, and audhd w a SpIn in learning, literally just consuming information all. the. time. right now, my focus is ancient civilizations (esp ancient mesoamérica) which coincides with my professional passion for archives and preserving cultural heritages!
i’m a mlis grad student navigating life with fibro, h-EDS and co. i’m currently unable to work so join me while I figure out whatever the fuck i’m doing.
interests: nature, national parks, outer space, dinosaurs, history, ancient history, psychology, the brain, true crime, horror, reading books and vid games.
my blogs
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Happy Pride Month! 🌈
Pride Flag Stamp Washi! Brand new and on sale to celebrate Pride Month 🥰
🏳️⚧️ mush.house/pridemonth 🏳️🌈
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there really are no consequences for being wrong about your gender, orientation, etc. for a while, btw. if you try something and it just doesn't fit, it's better to have tried and found out than to be left wondering.
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As someone who falls into 3 of these categories, I feel very called out by my own meme 😅
(Edit: Moved the alt text into the image description.)
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Friendly reminder to my LGBTQ+ friends: you don't have to perfectly fit the definition of a label to use it. For example: a woman who likes other women, but also sometimes likes men can still call herself a lesbian if she wants to, even if she would "technically" be bisexual. Someone who's asexual and demironantic can still call themself aroace if they want to. Someone who's gender floats between male and demiboy could call themself gender fluid, or male, or non-binary if they want to. You can still call yourself pan if you have a preference.
Labels should be what works for you, not a box you need to perfectly fit in
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I’m actually so tired of the way twitter gays will be like “you’re bi and date nonbinary people? You’re gay and go both ways?? Youre aromantic but date people? That doesn’t make ANY sense.”
Like seriously do you not know what this community is about. The literal definition of queer means peculiar. Sometimes queer people are fucking weird and messy and don’t make sense and sometimes and it’s both confusing and beautiful. Some of you will literally be like “um there’s no such thing as bi lesbians” yet you still have the sheer and utter fucking audacity to be like “I love weird gays!”.
Yeah, you sure love your sanitized version of what it means to be queer. You don’t actually know what it means, you just think “lesbian means girls who like girls, gay means boys who like boys, bi means people who like girls and boys, and-“ when the entire fucking point of it is that not everyone fits into the boxes you assign them. Exclusionists can go eat a dick.
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