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kingconia · 9 months

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HOW TWISTED WONDERLAND'S HOUSEWARDENS ACT WHEN YOU ARE THEIR FAVOURITE CELEBRITY

— ; gender-neutral ; might as well do the second and the third part with vices and first years if you want ;

Riddle Rosehearts. ❤️

— You are his favourite fashion designer. It might sound ridiculous on some extent, but he fell in love with your collections of clothes in his early childhood;

— Not only you made an exquisite pieces on your own, but also, as a former student of NRC—most likely, from Pomefiore—you often create collections inspired by each of houses;

— Riddle's mother strongly shares his strange obsession over you, so she bought him a lot of your clothes;

— When he becomes a student, he indulges himself by ordering a special lining of clothes that will be made only for him.

•

”I see,” you nod, gripping a pencil harder as you frantically draw something on the paper. ”That wouldn't be a problem at all. In fact, I actually enjoy your ideas.”

”Really?” Riddle blushes traitorously, almost knocking the tea cup of the table. Gladly, you don't notice due to being too involved in sketching. ”I, I mean, it is pleasant to know.”

Just as rumours told, you were a very interesting, though, extravagant creature. Not in the rude way. But it seemed like an outside world hardly existed for you. All your attention was centred on your works.

”Give me two weeks, and I will finish everything,” you finally look at him, eyes sprinkling with a pure inspiration. ”Will it be fine for you, mister Rosehearts?”

”Of course,” he offers you a nervous smile. ”Take all the time in the world, please”

”Good,” you hum, standing up from your chair. ”It is pleasant to work with you.”

He nods, being completely at loss of his words. You are his idol, his legend... He doesn't know how to talk with you.

”Oh, and... Thank you for this short opportunity to visit the walls of my old school once again. It is interesting experience,” you wink at him, before disappearing in the depth of his garden.

Riddle gasps.

That is so much better than his dreams!

Leona Kingscholar. 💛

— Might be a controversial opinion, but you are his favourite political figure in the Afterglow Savannah;

— Perhaps, it is because you are not dazzled by his brother, always keeping your coolheaded and calculated attitude. Or maybe it is because you actually tried to help him to get involved in the country's council. Nevertheless, he strangely adores you;

— As a kid he dreamt a lot of becoming a king, and making you his consort. But, of course, his dreams were useless and quite embarrassing;

— Yet, even after all these years, are the only person, who makes him stutter. Ruggie honestly loves it;

•

”It is pleasure you meet you again, prince Leona.”

As soon as Leona makes an eye contact with you, he gets absolutely lost. It takes almost a minute from him, to bow his head before you respectfully, and to answer.

”...Farena never mentioned you coming,” he tries to sound cool as usual, but his tail is swaying nervously, betraying him. ”But, of course, you are very welcomed here.”

You nod, but stay very oblivious to his excitement. You never actually notice his adore towards you, always too focused on your work, rather than paying attention on people around.

”I had a meeting with this head of the school of yours,” you frown a little at these words, and he assumes you didn't really like Crowley. ”And his Majesty decided to bring Cheka along. Since he insisted, I couldn't deny the wish of little prince.”

”Yeah... Thank you very much for taking care of this little cub.” He mutters, tugging his own braids nervously. ”May I ask what could possibly be required from Crowley?”

Your ears perk up a little; a good sign of you being interested in the topic. Leona instantly feels smug that he was able to raise a right topic to drag you in conversation.

”If prince Leona doesn't mind, we could discuss it while walking around your school,” you suggest, now with your tail swaying enthusiastically. ”I also think, you will be interested in my proposition."

As if he isn't interested in everything you do...

”I wouldn't dream of anything better,” he answers honestly. ”Ruggie will take care of Cheka then.”

Ruggie, whose present was forgotten easily, rolls his eyes. As two of you leave, speaking in the hushed tones, he couldn't help but cuss at Leona. What an annoying brat he is.

Azul Ashengrotto. 🩵

— Quite predicable. You are his favourite lawyer in the whole world, much to his stepfather's displeasure;

— He is actually the one, who told stories about you—since you are working in the same area—but he couldn't imagine that his son will be so invested in your figure;

— Azul has a whole wall with cutouts from news about your wins in the court. He stares at it every morning, for—as he says—a manifestation a luck and success;

— He is buzzing with excitement, when Crowley invites you on the orientation day to inspire his students.

•

You let out a tired groan.

It is not the first time you are invited on lections for kids, but it was definitely the hardest one. Mostly, because there was this very enthusiastic boy, who asked you a million questions about everything. Your work, your ideals, your previous cases.

And while you could feel a great potential in him, you also was drained. That is why when you hear his voice again, you are thinking about running away.

”Excuse me, Y/n Y/s? I... I apologise for the interruping your rest time, but I simply wanted to say how impressive you are, and—”

You raise your hand, gesturing him to stop. He does so, a little bit ashamed.

”What is your name?” You ask him instead.

”I... My name is Azul Ashengrotto,” he pauses, glancing at the floor, probably, assuming you will scold him.

”Oh,” you blink in late realisation. ”I know your father. He is the lawyer, too, isn't he?”

He nods, and you finally realise where he got this persistence from.

”Well, Azul...” You shuffle in your pocket, finding one of many visit cards you carry with you, handing it to him. ”You are truly quite smart kid. And if you will still be sure in becoming a lawyer later, after your school ends, you can always contact me. I think, I could become your mentor.”

He stares at your visit cards so shocked, that you wonder if he is okay. Nevertheless, as he is speechless, you are quickly attempting to leave the corridor, before he starts asking more.

”T... Thank you very much! I will.” You hear him saying, when you are already at doors.

It is a shame you miss his screeching sounds of happiness as you left, though. People will kill to see Azul Ashengrotto acting like this.

Kalim Al-Asim. 🧡

— Another predictable answer. You are his favourite dancer;

— You dance in some different styles at the same time, and he honestly adores the way you switch so easily between them;

— ...He is crying from the pure excitement, once you try east style of dances, and Jamil listens him sobbing for an hour, while he spams your Magicam with millions of complements;

— Of course, Kalim shoves a sack of money in Crowley's face, so he could invite you on some ball in the school to perform, lmao.

•

”I am honestly flattered,” you admit shyly, while Kalim kisses your hands adoringly. ”And surprised! We, dancers, rarely appreciated as much as actors or singers... But, uh, thank you very much!”

Kalim jumps on his feet, smiling even wider with each word. Not only you danced gracefully, but also spoke this way! He is so amazed by you!

”No, no, thank you! You can't explain how much joy you bring in my life!” He practically screams, making others to glance in your direction suspiciously. ”I actually wanted to show my gratitude! So, maybe you want to have dinner with me and Jamil! Jamil's cooking is just amazing! You will love it!”

You raise your brows in surprise, but laugh quietly. This boy is very, very funny.

”Oh, that sounds nice, but... I have a special diet, so I assume I cannot...”

Before your finish your sentence, a lean and dark figure of the boy around Kalim's age appears behind you. With a slight nudge to your shoulders, he whispers, almost pleadingly.

”Please, agree to this offer. He is literally will cry for hours if you don't.”

Ah, that is supposedly Jamil...

You return your gaze on Kalim, who is watching you with big, watery eyes. You really can't say no...

”I assume... If only for an hour or, so...”

"Yay!”

Idia Shroud. 💙

— You are his favourite cosplayer, because of course you are;

— A love from the first sight, some can call it. But he is obsessed with each character you do! You nail it!

— He is not social enough to actually write comments on your photos, or even appear on the same Cons as you, so instead, he keeps his love anonymous;

— And by that I mean sending you a lot of donations, and buying all your Wishlist for new cosplays, lmao.

•

You stare at the big amount of money that came to your account this morning. The sender stays the same throughout this year; an anonymous fan named as a Hounddog666. No matter how concerning it is, you are actually flattered. Someone really loves you this much!

So, as usual, you message to him to thank for it.

His account—the only one you has—is private and closed, no photos, no names, no followers. You assume it is fake.

You:

Hello, hello! :) I just received your new gift, and I wanted to say how much I am grateful for your support. I wish I could do something for you as well, though.

Answers comes immediately.

Hounddog666:

Greetings. Please, continue to make all of us happy with your art. It means a lot for me. (⁠っ⁠.⁠❛⁠ ⁠ᴗ⁠ ⁠❛⁠.⁠)⁠っ

You smiled, shaking your head slightly. How sweet.

You:

Thanks, really. Maybe we should meet sometime, if you are such a fan of mine, haha.

Perhaps, it is slightly stupid and naive decision. This person could be a possible stalker or maniac, but... Well, you couldn't help but be curious of how exactly looks a person that adores you like this.

Hounddog666:

Perhaps.

You hum as he vanishes from online.

At the meantime, Idia Shroud falls from his chair after recieving your message, making other students in the History of Magic class glare at him with disapproval. But what would they know? He is just became closer to his idol!

Vil Schoenheit. 💜

— Surprisingly... You are his favourite writer;

— The connection between actors and writers is always a strong one. Writers and books are a constant tools for actors that help them understand characters and their inner thoughts;

— Vil isn't an expectation! He loves your books for many years, and his only dream was to play some of your characters;

— That is why he immediately suggested his candidature on the main lead in the film adaptation of your book that was announced recently.

•

Vil huffs, staring at his reflection absent-mindedly. A closed scenario in front of him ache his eyes, making his chest to tighten nervously.

This character, whose role he got, is his favourite actually. As a teenager, he found this boy with a complicated writing, a very relatable one. And he thought, it would be easy to play him as they share the same issues and pain. Bur instead, he finds himself... Feeling worse as he does so.

Each conversation with your about this character makes him feel nauseous. It is as if he is playing himself! And for some reason that he can't understand, it is not pleasant at all!

”Here you are,” he hears your warm voice, and before he realises you are close, you already put a cup of green tea in front of him. ”Are you okay, Vil?”

He nods thankfully, accepting the drink.

He should be happy now. He met his favourite person in the world, he has a possibility to speak with you so casually. Then why, he feels so shattered?

”I am,” Vil answers. ”It is just... A hard role.”

You nod, and he catch the glimpse of understanding in your eyes.

”Trust me, I know. Writing him wasn't easy, too. Do you know why?” He shakes his head. "Because I put a lot of myself in him. And it felt... Awful. As if I was peeling my own skin from myself, layer by layer, until I was left naked in front of thousands... No, millions people. It is never easy to be sincere, I am afraid.”

Vil blinkes.

This! This is why he loves your books. It is the way how beautiful you yield your thoughts, putting them in gentle, yet piercing, words. It is about you understanding him, despite never knowing before.

He finds himself smiling widely.

”This makes me even more glad that I am playing him,” he says, more collected than before.

You laugh, patting his shoulder slightly.

”I feel the same way about you playing him, Vil. Believe me or not, you look and act exactly as I pictured him to be.”

He gasps happily.

You are satisfied with him. That's absolutely beautiful!

”I will try not to disappoint, then.”

Malleus Draconia. 💚

— You are his favourite artist whose works were introduced him by Lilia;

— He fell in love with your drawings first, but as soon as he realised that you not only draw, but also make sculptures, he fell in love even more;

— Buys and adores everything you do, but especially likes it, when you give interviews, explaining all little details and historical context behind your works. You are smart. He likes it about others;

— No surprise he commissions a gargoyle statue from you, eventually.

•

”You speak so beautiful, young prince,” you murmur, astonished by the fae in front of you. ”I... I can't explain how charmingly inspiring your stories are!”

Malleus feels unexplainable amount of joy, when he sees you pacing from one side room to another, inspired by his words. His stories.

No one ever shared his interest in gargoyles, and this kind of reaction feels... Strangely rewarding.

”It is only small part of what I have to say about gargoyles,” he assures you quietly. ”But I am glad that you find it as curious as I do.”

”Curious?” You echo his words, stopping in front of him. ”That is not curious, young prince, that is ethereal. Ephemeral. It feels like chasing a dream.”

He smiles at your excitement, baring his fangs out. He feels the same way about it. For once, Malleus's assumptions were right; you are exactly who he searched for all these years.

”Young prince,” you take his hands in yours, making his breath hitch, ”please, if you enjoy my result on your commission later, I am begging you to work with me on my next project about gargoyles. I feel like it will be my magnus opium. I—”

You continue to chatter actively, voice becoming higher with each sentence, but Malleus only can stare at you and at your linked arms. The tip of his ears are reddening. Is it even real?

Not only he will have new works from you, but also... He will be able to spend time with you?

Does you expect him to refuse?

”It will be a pleasure of mine,” he tells you, with a genuine adore in his eyes.

”My prince,” you squeak,” I already love you. Thank you, thank you!”

And at this point, others can't say for sure, who is whose fan here...

#twisted wonderland #twst wonderland #leona kingscholar #leona kingscholar x reader #malleus draconia #malleus x reader #azul ashengrotto #kalim al asim #leona x reader #riddle rosehearts #riddle x reader #kalim x reader #azul x reader #azul ashengrotto x reader #kalim al asim x reader #riddle rosehearts x reader #vil x reader #vil schoenheit #vil schoenheit x reader

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creation-help · 6 months

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A special kind of intimacy between characters

[Not restricted to romantic dynamics!]

- I tear bread into smaller pieces to feed them to you, as if I am Jesus, or a mother bird. You may view me as a savior but I would kill for you

- Being there for the other person when they're sick - In a gross, disgusting way. Holding them unwaveringly through the wretched and repulsive, unflinchingly. Don't apologise, just survive. I'd do it again.

- You're scary, but I'm scarier. You don't know that yet, but I hope you won't fear me when you do.

- You're scary, and thank God for that. I'm more than happy to close my eyes when you use it on others. I am a coward.

- One character knowing exactly what the other one would really like to ask for, but is too self conscious or selfless to. Thus, they do it and provide, without the other person needing to outright request it. The self conscious character always makes sure the other one knows it's not obligated and they're always free to decline, and the other one nods firmly, knowing that, and still doing it.

- Sitting next to each other at the end of the world. Because it won't be okay. But they've accepted that

- "You destroyed the thing I love and I can't forgive you for it." "I can't forgive myself either." "I still can't hate you despite that." "I can."

- "Please hate me" "No."

- One character understanding when the other is in too low of a state to act like a decent person currently, and so they don't step over those lines that they'd normally tolerate. The first character holds the other one responsible for things later nonetheless, when they're able to actually carry it

- Two characters sharing the negative perceptions and opinions they've had of each other over the years. This can either lead to a realization that, respectfully, out of deep understanding of each other, they decide to not stay in touch with each other again from now on. Or, it can lead to a realization that thanks to this understanding they now have, they're more ready to become closer and have managed to clear the air with this conversation

- Characters of notably different ages talk and reflect on time that has passed between them. They feel a connection over how different their circumstances were. The younger one audibly wishes they could've done or changed something significant, to which the older character pointedly and gently tells them it wasn't their place to. Let us old crooks handle the tough things. (It wasn't your fault you spent formative years like this. I'm sorry you had to)

#Imagine your oc #Oc dynamics #Oc prompts #Imagine your otp #character imagines #oc imagines #Character dynamics #Ship dynamics #Not all of these are healthy and balanced I know #Just putting that out there #But tumblr loves complex dynamics #Character dynamic ideas #nonsexual intimacy #I use ship related tags for visibility but again NOT ALL THESE ARE ROMANTIC AND CANT BE.#But some can.

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rosesnbooks · 9 days

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Taurus placements🍃

💚Sun in taurus-i believe that they have one thing in common: they have hobbies that fulfill them. you won't catch them overworking themselves to the point that they do not take a break to do something they love. they are good at different things as well and are often fast learners. no matter what other placements they have, i think they have a pretty approachable nature. i have met people with this placement who are quite intelligent. i think they are a bit impatient at times and want to do things their own way, and it's up to you whether that offends you or not lol. loving and sensitive people at their core<3

💚Moon in taurus-some of the warmest people you will ever meet. they value the people in their lives and they are often a voice of reason when you need it the most. they know how to pay attention to you and converse with you respectfully, even when you disagree on things. they have specific worldviews that are difficult to change, but if they think you're sensible and kind, they may try to change their perspective. that being said, in any other scenario, good luck changing their mind. they're pretty chill most of the time, so when you provoke a strong reaction out of them, you probably made a huge mistake (good luck). they're also soft honestly, but do not be mistaken, they are strong people. i have noticed that they are usually closer to their mums than dads, and their dads have a distant character. main love language: acts of service<3

💚Ascendant/rising in taurus- um, stunning and magnetic. this is well-known though, but they deserve to hear it every time. they are charming and the women give off girl-next-door vibes. i feel like they all share similar eyes, just google the celebs and you'll see what i mean, just a warm look overall. some may appear intense, depending on their other placements, but as soon as you talk to them it feels like you're talking to a friend. oh and the elegance some of them have? amazing. intelligent as well🙏

💚Mercury in taurus-i have to say, i did not expect them to be so talkative. they are a bit shy when talking to new people or those they do not feel that comfortable with, but as soon as they relax with someone, they are yappers lol. when they like a topic, it's possible they have given it a lot of thought so they have a lot to say. similarly to aries mercury, they have strong opinions but they can be more open-minded when they want to. they can sound too objective sometimes, and give a bit harsh advice. they also love to gossip, sometimes even too loud when they're into it. to me, they have a specific voice, it kind of stands out among others. some men with this placement are known for having a really nice voice

💚Venus in taurus-they adore the idea of love. you'll catch them watching rom-coms every once in a while so they could satisfy that part of them. if they don't show their romantic side when they're with you, you're wasting your time cause they're clearly not that into you. they want you to share some of their interests, possibly because they want to spend even more time with you and feel like you get each other. i think they can also be guilty of idealising their partners a lot and create an image of their persona that's not real. one of their main love languages is gift giving, heavy emphasis on this.

💚Mars in taurus-intimidating when you cross them. they are pretty good at going after what they want and although they experience a lot of stress until they achieve things, they still excel at it. they may hide their frustrations pretty well, and then when they're alone or with people they can be themselves with, lmao they let out so many emotions. at this point i'm even ashamed to describe them as "stubborn" because that's their middle name, everyone knows it. out of all the placements i feel like they lean the most toward conservative views? do let me know if im on the right track here. they also need to watch out for being insensitive at times

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💚Jupiter in taurus-i'll have to be brief here (sorry) because i don't know anyone with this placement, but only what i've read over the years. they usually have a good eye for aesthetics and appreciate following one themselves, they know how to cook and in general provide a sense of a comfortable home. they are good with all things material, and they are quite sensual. they know how to enjoy life and use their sensibility and charm to succeed, and get far in life. i respect them tbh!

💚Saturn in taurus-it isn't easy for them to focus on the material world and focus on what's right in front of them. they're often in their daydreams and are quite capable people, but they need a push sometimes to actually start doing things (khm procrastinators) that does not mean they are irresponsible, but they experience difficulties with the worldly expectations (hope this makes sense). they are sensible and wise, but the part that requires to act on it can sometimes shut down🫂i've read this many times and can confirm it since i have this placement: scared of losing things-property/money/land, you name it. lastly, they just understand how people function and they are wise!

thank you for reading this, hun! i would love to hear your feedback💌

#astrology #astrology observations #astro observations #taurus #taurus placements #rosesnbooks #ik i haven't written about neptune and uranus #but that's because i like to focus on the houses more in that case

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mushroomwarning · 1 month

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A sorta long post on why I believe Lightbulb SHOULDN’T win season 2 and instead, the other three should be the candidates for winners

Before I start this off, PLEASE DONT BE MEAN TO ME WAUGHHH I’m just respectfully sharing my thoughts as someone who loves writing and I don’t even hate Lightbulb. I just don’t think she would make a good winner to make the story feel satisfied! So this isn’t LB neg, okay? Also keep in mind, I haven’t seen S2 in a hot minute so maybe I might get SOME things wrong but I’ll try my best to go on with my side.

Lightbulb

To start off, I’ll say it, Lightbulb as the possible winner of II S2 will be the most predictable and bland of the four possible contenders. Out of the four, she’s the one who’s managed to get the most out of the show, new friends, enjoyable experiences, a new pet, etc. She also has gotten a lot of screen time ( I think? ) and is a fan favorite for her wackiness n such. Yeah, she’s a little sad her friends are gone but she could always go and be with them if she just quit.

Her friends are waiting for her, honestly I’d say that’s a prize enough For her story, being able to go back and be with her friends, enjoying her time with them without worrying about the game anymore. She’s shown to be distraught with TT leaves, just go and be with your friends to stop being in this game that’s made people way more miserable. She’s got the winner attitude but it’s just. Boring. Predictable. Something that would not be that fun by a story standpoint tbh, at least in my opinion

The other three, I feel would make great winners in their own ways.

Baseball

I’ll start with Baseball, definitely an underdog and a guy nobody expects to win. That’s why he would be a wild card as a possible winner! It would shatter people’s expectations completely, but here’s the twist…If Baseball were to win, it could possible tie back into his story with Nickel. with Baseball probably thinking Nickel would pressure him to share the prize with him and his thoughts of how much of a doormat he’s been for others, Baseball could make his own decision without others influencing him, giving up the prize and giving it to the second place winner, which could be Suitcase or Knife it doesn’t matter.

THAT WOULD BE COOL WOULDN’T IT? Something that ties together Baseballs story thematically eh eh?

Knife

Anyways, Now onto Knife. He’s different from the other three in that, while he hasn’t lost anything like Suitcase or Baseball ( if I remember correctly), unless you count his dignity, he hasn’t gained anything either, unlike Lightbulb. He’s very much a pretty intelligent and strategical person, very much someone who could easily win if it played his cards correctly. There’s also a bit of a lesson he learns from S1 to S2, due to Trophy.

He learns to become less rash, mellowing out after Trophy gave him a bit of a reality check to the way he acts, even if the way he showed him wasn’t the best in the slightest, Knife learns to control his temper, mellowing out and instead uses his smarts to advance more in the game without relying on others and even gives advice to people Like Suitcase, Pickle and Microphone as he goes on.

He learns to be a better person and would honestly make a good contender for first, to reward him for his growth and change, or maybe second place if you want to show his new found humbleness in regards to his emotions

Suitcase

As for suitcase, while she’s sort of predictable as well, she isn’t as predictable as Lightbulb due to the events that she’s gone through and honestly is sort of the most deserving thematically to win out of everyone. Unlike Lightbulb, she’s lost a lot, not really gaining many friends excluding Balloon and gained mental health issues due to the treatment Nickel was giving her. This game has not treated her well in the slightest and she gains growth as time goes on, learning to stand up for herself and speak on her own.

She very much deserves the prize but at the same time, I don’t think she would care if she won or lost. She’s lost a lot and learned from her experiences in the game

Conclusion!

BUT YES. these are my reasons for why Lightbulb should not win. The others have very nice thematic reasons for why they could win but Lightbulb basically gained way WAYY more then they have out of the experience

But yeah, my ranking would go

Lightbulb- not a winner, Fourth place

Baseball - First place ( gives up prize) or Third

Knife - First or Second place

Suitcase - First or Second place too

#sorry if the grammar or spelling is off #object show community #osc #inanimate insanity #ii lightbulb #ii baseball #ii suitcase #ii knife #please be nice and respectful on your opinions..#Martin nonsense

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astrojulia · 1 year

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7th house through the signs + Degrees

ARIES: You're someone who's drawn to partners with a bold, go-getter attitude. You might not always recognize your own ambitious and self-centered traits, but you find it attractive when your partner can pursue their desires with ease - especially when it comes to pursuing you! When you're in a relationship, you tend to dive in headfirst, with a passion and intensity that can be exciting, even if it sometimes leads to frequent arguments. You value your independence and appreciate a partner who's self-reliant and active, and you can get pretty hostile if you feel like you're being trapped or held back. To achieve your goals, it's important for you to embrace your assertive and driven personality. You're more passionate and impulsive than you might realize, which is why you're drawn to people who exhibit unyielding and fierce traits. It's true that your interactions can sometimes be characterized by disagreements or competitions, but ultimately, these dynamics are meant to bring out your inner warrior. Your partner and close friends are a big source of inspiration for you, and you enjoy helping others find their courage and determination. However, it's important to remember that all of this intensity can also lead to heartbreak and emotional turmoil. If a relationship ends, you may struggle to come to terms with it, but it's important to focus on the positive aspects of the experience and the growth that comes from it.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). you have a strong desire to connect with someone special and create a loving relationship. It's important to understand that relationships require compromise and finding a balance between your needs and your partner's. By working together, you can grow and become a more compassionate and understanding person. Finding the right partner can truly bring out the best in you.

2nd (10º to 19º). disagreements with your spouse or friends may arise, but it's important to remember that these disagreements can be opportunities for growth and understanding. By communicating openly and respectfully, you can resolve conflicts and maintain positive relationships. It's okay to have different opinions, as long as you can listen to each other's perspectives and find common ground.

3rd (20º to 29º). it's important for your partner to share your drive and ambition to succeed. Your marriage may experience ups and downs, but by respecting each other's differences and desires, you can maintain a sense of independence and mental well-being. Remember to take care of yourself and your relationship, and don't be afraid to seek support from friends and family when needed.

TAURUS: You have a strong desire for a partner who is supportive, loyal, and has a strong sense of values. Financial success is not the only factor you consider, but it can be attractive in a partner. The ideal partner for you is sensual and capable of sustaining a long-term relationship.When it comes to love, you believe in taking your time to build a meaningful connection that goes beyond just physical attraction. You may find it challenging to let go of a relationship, especially if the sexual connection is affected. You feel most secure and protected when you're with a dependable and loyal partner who values commitment. Your clever and strong side shines through, but you prioritize stability and balance in your personal relationships. You have a calming influence on your coworkers and use patience and common sense to resolve conflicts. You value long-term relationships and take them seriously, valuing love and affection above all else. Marriage is important to you, and you don't take it lightly.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). You value your close relationships and are committed to making them work, but sometimes misunderstandings or differences can lead to hurt feelings. It's important to find a balance between your own needs and those of your partner, and to be open to compromise. Despite challenges, once you establish a bond with someone, it's likely to endure and grow stronger.

2nd (10º to 19º). You have a knack for attracting supportive companions who share your drive and ambition, and you work well together to achieve your goals. While you may sometimes offer unsolicited advice, it comes from a place of caring and a desire to help. Your partnerships and friendships can last a long time and be mutually beneficial.

3rd (20º to 29º). When you make a commitment to someone, you take it seriously and will do what it takes to maintain a strong bond, even in difficult times. You may feel a sense of duty to your partner or spouse, but this comes from a place of love and loyalty. Your environment and surroundings can have a positive impact on your relationships, and you value the people who support and uplift you.

GEMINI: Having intellectually stimulating conversations with a partner is really important to you. It's amazing how much you learn from others and how much you can share with them. It's important to embrace all parts of yourself, including your love for knowledge and your creative, free-spirited side, to become a well-rounded person. Even though you're often underestimated, you always find yourself in the company of highly articulate and intelligent individuals. It's great to exchange ideas, but sometimes you may overthink things. Remember to love and accept your own knowledge and be confident in sharing it. You have a real talent for keeping people interested and engaged. In relationships, this is a really valuable trait, but it's important to balance it with feeling your emotions fully. When love fails, it's easy to become rational and analytical, but you deserve to experience the full spectrum of your emotions. You're drawn to partners who are funny, articulate, and intelligent. Someone who is constantly seeking knowledge is especially attractive to you. It's important to find someone who balances your free spirit with a sense of stability and commitment. You have a great sense of adventure and always crave new experiences. This can be true in your love life too, but it's important to be honest and open with your partners. Remember to communicate openly and avoid getting caught up in complicated situations.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). You're attracted to partners who are intellectually stimulating and can keep up with your quick mind. However, you can sometimes be indecisive in relationships and may struggle to commit (commit verb (PROMISE): to promise or give your loyalty, time, OR money to a particular principle, person, or plan of action).

2nd (10º to 19º). You value your independence and need a partner who can respect your need for freedom. You're drawn to partners who are playful and fun-loving, but you may struggle to connect with partners who are too serious or intense.

3rd (20º to 29º). You're attracted to partners who are creative and artistic, and you have a strong desire for variety and excitement in your romantic relationships and friendships. You may struggle to connect with partners who are too traditional or conservative in their thinking.

CANCER: You have a beautiful nature that appreciates the warmth and care of a loving relationship. You are a kind and nurturing partner, and you appreciate it when your partner reciprocates your efforts. However, you may sometimes find yourself smothering your companion with too much attention. The key to self-fulfillment lies in recognizing and owning your sensitive and caring nature. Being around other sensitive and caring individuals can help you flourish, but be mindful of how these traits can sometimes manifest as neediness or insecurity. When you encounter overly emotional or needy individuals, it can be an opportunity for you to confront and work through your own irrational tendencies. You have a talent for influencing people's opinions and navigating your way through complex relationships. You provide emotional support and stability to your loved ones, and in turn, you need to feel cared for and comfortable in your relationships. This is why heartbreak hits you especially hard, as it brings out your deepest fears and doubts. But, experiencing grief can also serve as a reminder to prioritize self-care. You may be drawn to partners who prioritize your needs, nurture your family and home, and make you feel emotionally secure. Sometimes, you may find yourself attracted to those who appear to need you more than you need them. It's important to be aware of this tendency, as it can put a strain on even the strongest relationships. You value long-term commitment and may desire a family in the future. You may also have an underlying yearning for a nurturing figure in your life. It's important to recognize these inclinations and work through them to ensure that they don't negatively impact your relationships.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). You might behave like a mother to your partner or spouse, taking care of their every need. You have a strong emotional attachment to your partner, even if it might not always be apparent. Some people might perceive you as cold or uncaring, but that's not the case; you're just not always the best at showing your emotions. Financial gain might be a motivating factor for getting married, but that doesn't mean you don't genuinely care for your partner.

2nd (10º to 19º). you have a deep, possessive connection with your loved ones, whether they are friends, partners, or family. You might keep secrets from those you love, but you can trust that they won't keep secrets from you. Loyalty, protectiveness, and sympathy are hallmarks of your relationships, and you will do anything to keep your loved ones safe and secure. Even though your relationships may go through changes, your marriage or deep partnerships will likely resist them. Your sexuality is a vital part of your marriage or relationship, and possessiveness is not uncommon in deep friendships.

3rd (20º to 29º). You need a sympathetic partner and friends who can support and listen to you when you're facing issues. You also have the ability to make significant sacrifices for your loved ones, such as putting your marriage on hold to care for a sick or elderly family member or taking time off work to support a cause you believe in. You are a compassionate and caring individual, and you expect the same level of devotion from those around you. While marriage and deep partnerships are essential to you, you are willing to put them on hold to pursue a worthy cause or support someone in need.

LEO: You're a wonderful partner who always brings energy and excitement to your relationships. You love being in love, and you're not afraid to show it. You thrive on attention and affection from your partner, and you know how to give it back in spades. While you may have considered marriage at a young age, it's important to take your time and make a thoughtful decision. You value your heritage, culture, and finances when selecting a partner, but ultimately, you're looking for someone who shares your values and can be a true partner to you. You take pride in your relationships and are committed to your spouse, even through the ups and downs. When it comes to choosing a partner, you're cautious and thoughtful. You want someone who can match your ambition and drive, but you also need someone who understands your need for intellectual pursuits. You're attracted to partners who make you feel like the center of the universe, and who know how to take charge and lead when necessary. In a relationship, you want to feel loved, protected, and desired. You're drawn to partners who are passionate and who know how to make you feel special. Just be careful not to let your ego get in the way, and always make sure your partner feels valued and appreciated. With the right partner, you can experience a deep and meaningful connection filled with love and passion.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). you may feel that your ego needs to shine through your marriage. You want to be proud of your spouse and feel that your relationship should be based on mutual love and respect. You have a natural tendency to want to be in charge of your partner, but you may find that this approach doesn't work well in practice. In fact, you may be attracted to people who want to take the lead in the relationship. If this happens, it's important to allow each other certain liberties in the marriage and pursue personal goals, while still supporting each other as a team.

2nd (10º to 19º). you may find it difficult to enter into a marriage contract. For you, friendship is an essential component of any long-term relationship. You value a partner who is intellectually stimulating and can engage in deep conversations with you. You want to be proud of your partner's accomplishments and share your views on life with them. Friendship and love are the first requirements for you in a partner, and you believe that if you have those things, physical intimacy will follow naturally.

3rd (20º to 29º). you want your friends and family to be proud of your spouse. You take great pride in your relationship and enjoy showing off your partner to others. Your originality and independence are often evident in your ideas and expressions, and you may be seen as someone who is free-spirited and unafraid to be themselves. However, despite this outward appearance, you can be dominated by your spouse. You may be attracted to partners who have strong personalities and can take the lead, but it's important to maintain a healthy balance in the relationship to ensure that both partners feel fulfilled and supported.

VIRGO: In relationships, you have a high standard for yourself and your partner, and you strive for perfection. It's important for you to feel like you can provide for your loved ones, and you appreciate a partner who is tidy, helpful, and grounded. However, it's also important to recognize your own strengths and accomplishments in order to achieve personal growth and fulfillment. Being with someone you trust and support can bring so much more to your life than you might realize. At times, your logical and critical thinking may lead you to be harsh on yourself and others. It's important to confront your inner critic and embrace both your sharp intellect and your kind heart. By doing so, you can provide constructive criticism to others and accept it in return, leading to a more balanced and fulfilling relationship. You may see relationships as a challenge that requires dedication and effort, but don't give up when faced with heartbreak. Instead, keep your focus on finding dependable and astute companions who can handle life's finer points, including your sex life. It's important to note that you may have a tendency to seek perfection in yourself and others, and this may attract a partner who is eager to point out areas for improvement. Ultimately, you will attract a partner who you can trust and who will help you take care of the practical aspects of life. While it may not be the most romantic attribute, you will appreciate your partner's efficiency and ability to handle everyday tasks with ease. With the right partner, you can achieve a fulfilling and supportive relationship that brings out the best in both of you.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). you may have a tendency to be critical of your partner even when there is no real reason to be. This could be a result of your own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy, which you may unintentionally project onto your significant other. With your high expectations, it may be challenging to find a partner who can meet your standards. However, with self-awareness and communication, you can learn to overcome this tendency and build a healthy, fulfilling relationship.

2nd (10º to 19º). it is possible to marry a long-time friend or for your relationship to evolve into a deep, meaningful friendship. Your partnership may be characterized by a shared conservative outlook or a strong connection through mutual friends. It is important for you to maintain these relationships and prioritize their importance in your life.

3rd (20º to 29º). your partnership may revolve around a common income or a shared career path that involves communication, teaching, or other mercurial abilities. While this can be a great source of fulfillment and excitement, it may also come with its own set of challenges. Financial instability or a lack of success in your chosen career may result in criticism or tension within your relationship. It is important to be aware of these potential pitfalls and work together with your partner to overcome them.

LIBRA: Relationships are of utmost importance to you. You value tranquil and happy interactions in your personal life. As a result, you may either commit wholeheartedly or not at all. To become complete within yourself, it's crucial to recognize how kind and gentle you can be. When you start dating someone, you may not fully realize how amazing of a person you are. However, encountering individuals who are excessively nice can bring out your own passive-aggressive tendencies, prompting you to confront that part of yourself that simply wants to make others happy. Once you understand and embrace this aspect of yourself, you'll be able to have a relationship where both parties are equally committed to each other's happiness. Your lovely and sweet nature gives you significant influence over others. You have a strong desire for others to adore you, so you put in the effort to learn how to say and do the right things to win them over. In your romantic relationships and close friendships, you seek a fluid and harmonious dynamic. When faced with heartbreak, you handle it with kindness and consideration. You have a remarkable ability to view the situation fairly and see it from both sides, even in the face of rejection or a breakup. However, this can sometimes make you indecisive about where you stand and how you truly feel about the situation. You're naturally drawn to charming, kind, and attractive individuals who aren't afraid to prioritize the relationship. The part of yourself that you project onto your loved one is your most balanced and harmonious self. Perhaps you desire a connection more than you're willing to admit, and you're attracted to someone who can openly express that need.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). When evaluating your partner, you tend to focus on how they relate to you, which may not always be in their favor. It's important to control the urge to influence your partner's thoughts and actions. Once you recognize that you're trying to lead them and learn to see your partner as an individual in their own right, you can truly share without sacrificing your own needs. Finding balance is key.

2nd (10º to 19º). Avoid getting involved with someone who doesn't interest you. Your partner must accept you for who you are, without causing unnecessary conflicts. While you strive to be diplomatic most of the time, your partner may not always reciprocate (your diplomacy can sometimes turn into bluntness). It's possible that you met your companion through a mutual friend or at a social gathering because you both had a common acquaintance. This mutual connection can provide a foundation for your relationship.

3rd (20º to 29º). Although you may not always feel deeply invested when it comes to expressing yourself verbally, you believe in the concept of soulmates. You value your partner's emotions, but you may not always be willing to open up fully yourself. Within your community or social circles, you tend to display more diplomacy than you do within the intimate setting of a partnership at home.

SCORPIO: Your connections with others hold a lot of strength. To create drama-free and positive emotional experiences, you should strive for constructive growth and improvement in your relationships. Embracing and acknowledging your passion and intensity is key to finding self-fulfillment. It goes deeper and is more complex than you might think. This quality often leads you to form close bonds with individuals who are deep and intricate, resulting in passionate yet sometimes stormy and intense situations. These connections force you to confront your own shadows and embrace your inner strength by embracing their depths. As a result, you bring an equal amount of emotional depth to the table, meeting another soul who possesses emotional wealth. Your influence on a significant partner or close friend is enigmatic but meaningful. Having the ability to impact others gives you a sense of power. Instead of seeking dominance, your true aim should be to heal and help others grow positively. There's always an enticing or magical dynamic at play in your relationships. However, heartbreak can lead to darkness. If a relationship ends or you feel frustrated, you might react in extreme ways, becoming a stalker, manipulator, or even self-destructive. On the other hand, you may completely shut out the person as if they never existed. You're drawn to captivating and powerful sexual partners who are willing to engage in intense desire and attachment within a committed relationship. You have the tendency to project possessiveness and deep jealousy onto your loved one. Consequently, you're more likely to attract partnerships that are profound, mysterious, and intense. You'll experience love with emotional depth and plenty of opportunities for physical connection. Remember that both parties are involved in keeping the relationship alive, and neither of you enjoys being hurt. If betrayal occurs, the potential for retaliation and long-term resentment is a painful reality.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). You might feel possessive and envious of your loved ones. If your sexual needs are met, you're unlikely to go against the grain. While you're allowed to keep secrets from your partners, they are not afforded the same luxury. You also hold strong moral standards when it comes to sexual behavior within a committed relationship.

2nd (10º to 19º). You may be called upon to make sacrifices for the sake of your relationships. You highly value your partner not just physically, but emotionally and mentally as well. If your marriage or partnership isn't in the right place, you'll feel the internal struggle, which can eventually affect your health. It doesn't mean you don't have a temper, but you tend to keep it hidden.

3rd (20º to 29º). You have possessive tendencies towards your spouse and others in your life. While you may be capable of keeping secrets from your partners or associates, you expect the same level of transparency from them. You are devoted, protective, friendly, and determined in your relationships. Even as circumstances change, you remain loyal and supportive of your marriage or committed partnership. You have a high need for both sexual and emotional fulfillment. However, due to your difficulty in letting go within close relationships, you can experience significant distress when things go wrong. This might sometimes lead to a desire to nurture and care for your spouse, although it can also border on smothering them.Sure, here's a more casual version of the text:

SAGITTARIUS: You bring vivacity and entertainment to your personal relationships. You view them as an adventure, craving freedom within your connections. Deep down, you possess more bravery and optimism than you give yourself credit for. To feel complete, you need to embrace your inner explorer and believer. In romance and friendships, you are attracted to individuals who share your spirit of exploration. However, this mindset can sometimes lead to naivety, especially in those who live a wandering lifestyle. Once you learn to embrace these daring qualities within yourself, you will become a whole person. You'll be able to meet your partner halfway by offering and receiving freedom in equal measure. Your influence on others is uplifting and energizing, and you value the ability to broaden someone else's horizons. However, restlessness and impulsiveness can play a significant role in your personal relationships. After experiencing rejection or a breakup, you may be quick to move on to the next partner or companion. This tendency has the potential to become messy and reckless. Nevertheless, you excel at finding the silver lining in failed relationships, recognizing the lessons learned and personal growth achieved through those experiences. You are attracted to partners who prioritize the journey rather than the destination in life. For example, you may be drawn to romantic relationships with someone from a different cultural or religious background. Differences stimulate you, and you may project your own traveler or philosopher persona onto your loved one, who finds fulfillment in asking profound questions and seeking answers. You may not be fully aware of your deep need for truth, which can lead you to attract love and sexual partnerships that are dogmatic and tied to your beliefs. It's important to become more attuned to this need in order to foster relationships that align with your authentic self.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). In marriage, you value independence and a partner who can be both a companion and a source of ideas. You believe that having a strong companionship will naturally take care of the intimate aspects of the relationship. You enjoy traveling extensively, either with your partner or on their behalf. You expect others to treat you with the same respect and freedom you offer them. While you don't want to feel restricted, it's important to stand firm in your marriage, upholding integrity, honesty, and moral loyalty.

2nd (10º to 19º). You seek a spouse who shares your love for adventure and is always on the move. Friends and partners who amplify or complement your opinions appeal to you. An open-minded spouse who understands your bursts of passion and short-term endeavors in various productive tasks is what you're looking for.

3rd (20º to 29º). Even after marriage, you feel the need to be free to interact with and entertain others. Self-expression holds great importance for you. It's crucial to marry someone who cares about you as much as you care about them; otherwise, you may face emotional difficulties. You're not the type to settle for just anyone in a marriage. Giving and receiving freedom, along with a unique form of love, is a precise formula for you. With your wide range of interests, it can be challenging to narrow down potential partners. If your spouse truly understands your personality, they will never abandon you. However, pushing them too far may lead them to consider giving up.

CAPRICORN:When it comes to relationships, you're all about long-term commitments with people who truly matter to you. You enjoy having the respect and admiration of your loved ones, and you want a partner who recognizes and appreciates that. Maybe you're not the most confident when you're on your own, which is why you're drawn to those who seem capable and efficient. But here's the thing, sometimes these friends or partners can come off as rigid and overly calculated, mirroring your own tendencies. To truly fulfill yourself, you've got to embrace your own ambition and strength. Once you find that inner confidence, you'll become a whole person, and your relationships will benefit from your solid nature. You have this innate desire to influence others positively, whether it's in romance or friendship. You're always trying to steer them towards your goals and principles. Your connections have a serious and orderly vibe to them. So, when a relationship ends or doesn't work out, it hits you hard, maybe even too hard. Heartbreak can shake your self-assurance and make you question your judgment. But here's the thing, my friend, you gotta see these challenges as opportunities for growth and learning. You'll be attracted to partners who are ambitious, practical, and driven to achieve their goals. Sometimes, you might not fully tap into your own business savvy and ambition, so you project those qualities onto the people you care about. You'll be drawn to someone responsible and authoritative, and there might be a significant age difference between you two. Family will play a crucial role for both of you, but your beloved will have a strong attachment to tradition and the "old ways." Get ready for a passionate and earthy sex life, but don't be surprised if your partner takes things slow at the start. In some cases, you might end up with a spouse who is much older or deeply committed to the relationship. You'll stick around in a less-than-ideal marriage because you feel a sense of duty and loyalty. But hey, even with all your efforts, the marriage might hit some bumps along the way. You take on responsibilities in marriage that others might shy away from, like marrying someone who already has a child or caring for an ailing parent. It's all about navigating the challenges with grace and finding strength in your commitments.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). In your love life, you may end up with a spouse who is significantly older or more committed than you. You might find yourself tolerating an unsatisfactory marriage because you feel a sense of obligation to remain faithful. However, despite your best efforts to keep the marriage alive, there may be times when it becomes unstable and collapses. You willingly take on responsibilities in marriage that others might shy away from, such as marrying someone who already has a child or caring for a sick parent.

2nd (10º to 19º). When it comes to your spouse, you tend to be quite frugal and practical. However, with your close friends, you can be quite extravagant and generous. Friendships hold immense value for you and are considered a fundamental need. It's important for your spouse to understand and respect the significance of your friendships. In both friendships and marriage, you are loyal and devoted. If your spouse happens to be a friend or if you were friends before getting married, you are likely to have a harmonious and fulfilling relationship.

3rd (20º to 29º). You tend to attract a partner who is ambitious and driven. While there is a sentimental aspect to your relationship, both you and your partner may have a tendency to be critical, which can limit emotional expression. Your partner may seek your protection and care, or they may have health issues or hypochondriac tendencies. It's important to navigate these dynamics with understanding and compassion, fostering an environment of support and growth within the relationship.

AQUARIUS: In relationships, you value the freedom to be yourself. Your close friends and family better give you plenty of space because committing to someone can be a challenge for you. To feel complete, you've got to embrace your own brand of strangeness. That's why you're drawn to unique, quirky individuals who reflect your own oddity. But be warned, things can quickly spiral into wild chaos when your eccentricities collide. It's all about accepting and expressing your inner mad genius, so you can connect with other mad geniuses who appreciate your ingenuity and tolerate your quirks. You've got this scientific yet unpredictable power of persuasion, but you're so low-key that you don't even make an effort to convince others. It just happens naturally. Your personal interactions always have that touch of unexpectedness. Relationships can start and end in the blink of an eye. When you're heartbroken, you're the epitome of logic and objectivity. Just don't go drifting too far away. The cool thing about you is that you're pretty good at avoiding bitterness and maintaining friendships with ex-lovers. You're attracted to people who stand out from the crowd, even if they're eccentric and crave their own freedom. You may not fully embrace your own desire for independence, but you're magnetically drawn to a love that's one-of-a-kind. Oh, and let's not forget about your adventurous side in the bedroom. You might find yourself in an experimental and devoted sexual relationship that not only satisfies your desires but also meets your ego's needs. You're into partners who are creative and intellectual, maybe even geniuses in their own right. Your relationship might not fit the traditional mold, but you'll show incredible dedication to the person who captures your heart.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). So, when it comes to marriage and partnerships, things can be pretty unpredictable for you. You'll have some unique encounters, whether it's with people of different ages, races, or religions. You're gonna attract partners who are self-sufficient or those who have been your pals before or will become your pals in the future. Either way, your wedding won't be your average run-of-the-mill affair. And hey, sometimes friendships can blossom from former foes. It's all about those unexpected twists and turns!

2nd (10º to 19º). Now, this partnership of yours is gonna come with a whole bunch of friends. It can be a great thing, adding more fun and support to your relationship. But be careful not to put too much focus on your buddies, or it might lead to some conflicts. If you're with someone who's just as enthusiastic about different things as you are, you'll make a killer team. As long as you're friends and lovers, everything will fall into place like magic.

3rd (20º to 29º). Watch out for that rebellious streak, my friend. Sometimes, you might feel tempted to rebel against your partner, but deep down, you really just want to keep the peace. Instead of getting into unnecessary arguments, try channeling that individualistic energy into artistic innovation. Trust me, it's a much better outlet. Oh, and here's a little reminder: having sexual freedom doesn't mean you can go around being promiscuous. No matter how much you believe in it, you gotta keep things in check.

PISCES:When it comes to relationships, you're a loving and caring partner who might have a tendency to put others before yourself. You can be quite idealistic about personal connections. It's important for you to share your spiritual or creative pursuits with your partner. To truly be whole, you need to embrace your sympathetic and ethereal nature. You find satisfaction in romantic relationships and friendships with empathetic and otherworldly individuals. However, their dreamy and otherworldly nature can also make them unrealistic, delusional, or hard to pin down, forcing them to face their own true selves. Embracing the fact that you're not always grounded will allow you to appreciate your otherworldly side. By giving and receiving love and admiration, you can have a mutually fulfilling relationship. Your shape-shifting abilities, along with your imagination and intuition, give you the power to influence others. You feel like you have to transform into different personas to have an impact on others. That's why your relationships with partners and friends can be so fluid and sometimes puzzling. Dealing with heartbreak can be confusing, especially if you're often unaware of what's going on. You might even be in denial even when you're rejected or when a relationship ends. Sometimes, something needs to happen to wake you up, make you accept the situation, and move on to someone new. You're drawn to a partner who is sexually dedicated and deeply spiritual, caring, or in need of assistance. Either way, love triggers your compassion, and you have this strong "need to be needed." You may sometimes be disconnected from your psychic or imaginative side and project those qualities onto your partner, attracting artistic or spiritually evolved individuals. You long to find your soul mate, and when you think you've found love and the perfect sexual partner, you'll put in the effort to merge with them. But hey, be careful because you can easily mistake someone for your beloved, making you particularly susceptible to deception.

Decanates

1st (00º to 09º). You might be a bit too idealistic when it comes to marriage. Just be careful not to get involved with someone out of pity. Instead, look for soulmates or partners who share a strong spiritual connection with you. You might find yourself drawn to people who are musically inclined or have a poetic side. Oh, and remember, it's important to be more tolerant of your spouse.

2nd (10º to 19º). Having friendly companions and a supportive partner is essential for you. You're willing to make significant sacrifices for the person you care about. Maybe you'll be the one who decides not to get married in order to take care of an aging or sick parent, or perhaps you'll devote yourself to a noble cause. And who knows, your partnership might even turn into a musical collaboration in the entertainment industry.

3rd (20º to 29º). When it comes to your lover, you're capable of making big sacrifices, both emotionally and financially. You tend to keep your true feelings about your spouse hidden from the world. You might be discreet in your interactions with others, but you still need a shoulder to cry on from time to time. You rely on your partner for emotional and psychological support, and marriage provides you with plenty of mental stimulation.

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violetasteracademic · 1 month

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I know this has been said a million times in a million ways, but I humbly request an audience to September Virgo out for a hot minute and share my dissertation on why the "Three Brothers and Three Sisters is *lazy writing*" take is by far the WORST.

If you found me through my Lucien Vanserra's Hero's Journey breakdown (I'll link that at the end) then you already know I am an absolute nerd about book structure. I do not beef with the other ships and genuinely love and am interested in every character in these shipwars. But I get a little hot when I see this take!

The reason being is that 3 and 3 is not "lazy writing." Lazy writing is:

⚫ Conveniently de-escalating all current stakes and conflicts established in the service of a romantic pairing.

⚫ Poorly pacing a book because now we have to explain why a character was thinking about offering another character 1 ticket to ride his face, but now he quickly wants someone else instead that many people offline don't even know about. Structure wise- (we are talking three act structure here, again I have broken that down in the link I'll post below) this means that by the end of Act One, the act in which the lead of our story has been presented with all of the information and their story has been laid out, they are now crossing into Act Two with clarity and set up, (side note-the first act is typically resolved within the first 20% of the book (or less!) we must resolve an existing romance with one character that has not even gotten its opportunity to be told in depth (i.e. Feyre and Tamlin). And reasonably introduce a new romance. As well as the introduction of new plotlines to accommodate the new romance. It's just... it's a plot and pacing nightmare. I'm getting the sweats even thinking about it.

⚫ Ignoring years worth of details and foreshadowing in an act of fan service because the fandom decided they don't like your character, even if you, as the author, very much do.

⚫ Introducing a brand new plot in the middle of a smorgasbord of unresolved plotlines so a newly introduced side character who has already had a complete arc in service of another main character can now become the next main character, leapfrogging over the remaining main characters who have been around since book one with active storylines in development.

Three and three is not "lazy writing." Three is simply a motif. A motif is an artistic/literary device. Three sisters. Three brothers. Three mountains. Three stars on the night court insignia, ect.

Writing is: Structure. Line level prose. Obstacles. Stakes. Character arcs.

I will absolutely allow the criticism that it is cheesy or corny. That is an opinion, and you are totally allowed to have it. We can respectfully disagree on that and it's no skin off my back.

However, Elriel (as well as Vassien) have the elements that *good* writing is comprised of. Characters with steadily increasing arcs. Obstacles at every turn. Incredibly high stakes. And in my opinion (though of course everyone is allowed their own opinion on this!) some downright BREATHTAKING one liners and line level prose in their interactions from ACOMAF all the way to the bonus chapter.

Please, I beg of you, understand that just because you do not like something does not make it lazy or poorly executed. Art is subjective, and when we use our taste to make objective assertions about things we don't prefer, art suffers.

For more on book structure and the possibilities of Lucien and Vassa's absolutely beautiful potential, hop on over here:

Thank you for your time 😂

#elriel #elriel endgame #pro elriel #azriel x elain #elain x azriel #elriel supremacy

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drizztdohurtin · 1 month

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Sub!Rolan Headcanons

pairing: Rolan x gn!Reader (no pronouns or descriptions used, just "you")

〚 Masterlist | WIP List 〛

-MDNI-

What to expect: explicit NSFW content!

suggested prereads: NSFW Rolan Headcanons | General Tiefling Headcanons

OH MY GOD WHERE DO I START

So please read my general NSFW headcanons for him if you haven't already

A lot of this post is written assuming you and Rolan are in an established relationship

Right off the bat, I will say that he's not super kinky - at least not in the harder BDSM kind of way

Might be an unpopular opinion, but it must be said

I will elaborate on it later!

As I mentioned in my other NSFW hcs, he sees sex as a very intimate thing, and he wouldn't be open to doing it anywhere that wasn't private

He'd still be reluctant to do anything with you in his office - you'd have to work up to that; he prefers your shared bedroom over anything else

He will literally do whatever you want, his motivation is always to please you - you come first (heh)

All he wants to do is make you feel good

(respectfully, he'd be very easy to boss around and take what you want from)

He wants you to take from him - and he'd be so happy if you let him bring you pleasure

But you know what's even juicier? What gets him going even more?

When you don't let him touch you

When you focus your energy on making him feel good rather than yourself

Now THAT is the way to get him begging and whimpering for you

It's a great inner conflict for him - he doesn't want to allow himself to be put first, he wants to be the one making you feel good, not the other way around... but at the same time, he knows how much it gets you off, and isn't that his main goal?

So he'll absolutely take it, he'll do whatever you say, even if you're telling him to lay back and let you at him

In the beginning of your sexual relationship, there is a lot of protesting about this - "my love, please, I want to make you feel good, just let me please you," as he's laying naked on the bed, and you're licking a long stripe up his cock with half your clothes still on

but he quickly realizes how much you get off on it, so the protests subside and he actually gives into it

within no time, he's begging you to touch him and to let him cum for you

So if the overarching idea I wanted to drill into your head in the original NSFW post was how he sees sex as a very intimate thing, then the idea in this post is how much he pleads and begs when you focus on his pleasure

after a while of being together, he's so in love with you and he trusts you so deeply, he'd be so sensitive to you he would barely need you to touch him sometimes (I may or may not be writing a fic about this hehehe)

He's very vocal, especially if you express how much you love the sounds he makes

You get a lot of "mmmmm" and "aaahhhhh" types of moans from him, and at first, they're at the same pitch he normally talks in

but the second you get him really worked up, most of them are higher pitch and choppier - things like "ah.. ahh.. ah" and GOD it's delicious

When he's not begging for you, he loves to tell you how incredible you feel or how perfect you are to him... or he'll thank you

alright, time to elaborate on kinks

the general idea is that he would enjoy things that don't involve pain - no matter who's giving and who's receiving, pain would be a firm line for him that he is not willing to cross

However, he'd be turned on by things like that happening in the moment as a result of your pleasure

like if you dug your nails into his back and left scratches all over him because of how good he was making you feel

he wouldn't be turned on by the scratching, he'd be turned on by the fact that you were doing it because of how he was making you feel

it's the same thing with pulling his hair or gripping a part of his body really hard (like his arms or waist) - he wouldn't like it if you do it just to do it - the fact that it was a testament to the pleasure he gave you would make his head fucking spin

the only instance of pain that he'd be alright with you willingly inflicting on him is if you took the skin of his neck between your teeth in a mating bite - especially if one or both of you were close to your orgasm, it would absolutely send him over the edge

100% has a praise kink - it's so absurd how gratifying it is when he hears you say how good he's making you feel, whether it's from your moans or your words

Your sounds will literally be met with one of his in response almost every time

Rolan likely wouldn't be interested in any sort of physical restriction during sex - things like ropes or anything meant to hold one of you in place

to be fair, you wouldn't really need them anyway - you could just tell him to keep his hands off of you until you say so, and he would (but not without struggle)

and if he slips up, well then you get to... correct him however you see fit... and isn't that the fun part?

and here are some other spicy things he would be able to get down with if you were into them: calling you mommy/daddy, edging/orgasm control, a hand around his throat (light squeezing, if at all), body worship, pegging, breeding, overstimulation, being marked, and dirty talk (especially when it's accompanied by praise)

and a few other firm lines he wouldn't want to cross: degradation/humiliation, sensory deprivation, and public sex

Y'all ever think about Rolan crying during sex?.... cuz I do!

Don't worry, it's never because he's feeling negative emotions

It might be a rare occurrence, but it's definitely possible and I see it happening because of 3 different circumstances:

1) he is immensely horny, his cock is beyond throbbing hard, and you've finally given him an orgasm - one that makes his ears ring and his eyes water, and he's literally crying in pleasure (it's more like a few tears from how powerful the orgasm was but you get the point)

2) you're having extremely intimate sex with him - perhaps something upsetting has happened or is about to happen, and he's finding comfort in you making love to him and showing how much you care about him. The mix of emotions and his deep feelings for you could absolutely send him into some soft tears and a symphony of gentle "I love you"s.

or 3) he is, again, greatly horny and you're edging him and denying him of his orgasm, over and over, and at some point, it's almost like his body breaks, and you see a few tears stream from his eyes

imagine it, you once again remove your hands and mouth from his desperate, leaking cock right as he was about to spill over the edge into the point of no return. your actions cease and he throws his head back with a cry from the sudden lack of stimulation. With exacerbated breaths, two small tears drop from the outer corners of his eyes as his orgasm recedes back into him.

The tears aren't because he's uncomfortable or frustrated, they're an amalgamation of how many times you brought him to the edge that night, only to halt your movements right before he could cum, finally having built up something in him until they broke loose (rolan crying fic coming soon heh <3)

In moments that he's feeling particularly submissive, he might ask for validation - things like "Am I doing good? Am I making you feel good?" in a desperate whimper

and when your orgasm gets closer? He's begging you to cum for him, begging to feel you orgasm, encouraging you like it's life or death - "Come on, my love, please, come on, cum for me"

depending on the day, he might also say things like "take me", repeating it over and over, "take me, please.. agh, take me, my love, take me, I want to be yours, make me yours" (bite him <3)

and when you finally cum, all he can do is cry out at the sensation, his own climax bubbling to the surface

he nearly falls into a trance with how amazing he feels with all of the sounds and feelings around him

if he's inside you, it's the sound of his balls slapping against you and the lewd, wet noises coming from between your bodies, the feeling of the most sensitive parts of your skin under his palms (and his in yours) - that's the moment he wants to live in for the rest of his time

and when his orgasm finally arrives, he's begging your permission for his release, and (if he's inside of you) to let him finish inside

He cums especially hard with a chunk of his hair balled up and pulled by your fist, your teeth biting down on his neck, and your body pressed as close to his as physically possible

and as his load shoots out from him, sending rippling shockwaves of bliss through his body, he practically prays to you at that moment, worships the ground you walk on like you're a deity from the Outer Realms

and yet, you made him feel things so deeply and profoundly, more powerfully than any god has ever (and would ever) make him feel

once he's able to speak again, he only continues his words of praise and love - wanting to make sure you know how incredible you make him feel (as if hearing the noises he makes wasn't enough)

Aftercare is big for him, and it's a tossup between who takes the lead in it (unless you have a preference for one way or the other)

Rolan loves to continue to care for you after sex, wanting to make sure you're comfortable and hydrated - often suggesting a bath together

If he's particularly spent after everything, he prefers to stay close to your chest - and really loves it when you stroke his back or run your fingers through his hair; which would 100% earn deeply contented purrs from him

Screaming crying so excited to write that damn blurb, I have the whole thing planned out in my head but I haven't had time to write yet!!

I hope you all enjoy this one, I loved doing it quite a lot! Sub Rolan is my ultimate cup of tea, I think about it constantly. As always, comments and reblogs are always deeply appreciated and I read eVERY SINGLE COMMENT AND TAG <3333

#what will it be next week folks?#I still have yet to decide heheehehe #baby boy #rolan #bg3 #my writing #my hcs #headcanons #holy rolan empire #smut #x reader #x tav #brainrot #baldur's gate 3 #rolan posting

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HELLOOOO im in love with the way you write our beloved rama 😭

i just wanted to know ur hcs about him beginning to realize he feels more about the reader than just friendship and/or how he deals with the first buds of sinful thoughts about their dear human friend? 👀

HI tysm!! Ramattra definitely has my attention hahaha. Sorry this is so long!! I just like writing 😂

Ramattra realizing his feelings

Earning his friendship was a hard enough task on his own. He never made that easy for you, or for anyone of flesh and blood

As much hatred as he has for humanity, he doesn’t outright assume all humans are evil. He understands there is still good in its kind, it’s just a matter of knowing who he is safe to drop his guard around when having more acute interactions

And this is a process he has the utmost forbearance for. As long as a person can express patience with him, then he is more than willing to allow himself to be understood by a human peer

You were probably one of the most respectful humans he had personally interacted with. Your kindness made for a strong first impression, especially in the way you had greeted him as any other person, looked upon him with no surprise in your eyes as if he had just been anyone else. Not a killer. Not a terrorist.

Still, for the ongoing weeks he kept his distance the more he had found himself in the same room as you, assuming his same process of determining whether your behavior was a front or not.

He was as kind to you as you were to him, which made things a little confusing on your end. You weren’t oblivious— you know who he is, and such a name as Ramattra came with a complex reputation. He’s certain he began addressing you as a ‘friend’ the moment you’d inquired why people thought him as ‘cold’

“You’ve been real nice to me,” you’d said, mirth in your tone, “I’m not just getting special treatment, am I?”

It wasn’t the first lighthearted joke you’d made in his presence, but it was the first he’d laughed at. He knew it wasn’t a question that needed answering, and so he didn’t. You were smart enough to assume the reason for rumor

Quickly, you both became close. (Well, ‘quick’ being you set the record for “fastest human to earn Ramattra’s trust”. It took fourteen weeks, but neither of you were counting.)

He was content to admit he admired you, respect drastically outweighing his contempt for what you were. It felt nice, to see you through blurred lines— he felt he finally understood, for just a moment, the bond that his brothers back at the monastery were trying to protect

But the more Ramattra grew to know you, the more he shared about himself. Which, tends to be a normal exchange between friends, certainly. Of the others he would dare call ‘friends’ before you, this wasn’t out of the ordinary

Yet when he would speak too much about himself with you, he felt shame. Embarrassment. He would wonder to himself at times if he should have shared certain things, and worried of your opinion

It made him pull back for a while, and was relieved you remained as patient as you’d always been. You made sure he was fine and he’d kindly dismissed you, to which you respectfully backed off and simply told him you were here if he needed

But… then when he was given the space he asked for, he became somewhat angry with himself. Now he just missed you, but felt so under pressure to be in your presence. It was frustrating.

You knew whatever problem he was facing had to be because of you, since he had told you just a few days ago that he preferred a little distance for now— but here he sat across the room from you, scrolling through lists of weaponry concepts to decide on what to work on next, inquiring your opinion of colors, of all things.

There came a day that Ramattra had a run in with a particularly violent human gang, of whom he’d shown little mercy for after they dealt the first strike— he should have swung the moment one of the strangers drawled about wearing his face as a trophy, “-after I reduce ya to nuts-n-bolts,” they’d said. A pitiful drop of confidence quickly lost into the newly reddened asphalt of the nearest alley

You caught him marching down a corridor, and it finally hit Ramattra like a truck when you’d approached him to make sure he was fine

He didn’t bleed red, you knew this. And something in him clicked when you immediately assumed him the victim, placing careful hands on his chest as you observed him for damage

Oh, he liked you. A lot. Had any other person of flesh approached him, he would have demanded solitude with a killing accusatory tone, a wordless threat of violence if his needs were not met.

But you had came to him, and he was more than relieved that you had. Just seeing you again, he realized why he hadn’t hit his attackers first.

“Are you attempting to domesticate me?” He had blurted, watching you curl your hand into the hem of your shirt and wipe the blood from his fingers. He takes in your baffled expression with a hidden affection- and yet again, feeling awkward for such a poor joke with little context. He fought himself on whether to explain, but decided better of it.

Understanding then why he felt so drawn to you, he felt somewhat justified in why he additionally felt like such a fool in your presence.

He hadn’t intended to feel this way about you, it couldn’t be helped. You hit many marks that he found objectively attractive.

He would spend the next few days observing you to thoroughly analyze his feelings toward you— to which you felt like a specimen being studied with how he kept tossing prolonged stares in your direction

He didn’t mean to appear like a creep, and he ended up feeling so much worse when you finally confronted his “quiet ogling”

“I— I was not,” he’d say defensively, and relaxed quickly when you laughed. “You are merely a fascinating subject to observe, is it so offensive that I watch?”

“Are you calling me pretty?”

“No.” He quickly bites, then immediately froze as he regretting saying it so harshly. He doubles back, “But, I do not mean—“ a pause, “You are fine as you are. But that is not what I was saying.”

Ogling. He was ashamed to find himself doing just that so soon after the amused accusation

The way you smirk before telling a joke, he’d mishear your jest when he was so focused on the way your mouth moved, and imagined running his thumb over your lips

When he’d find you closer to morning, he loved to catch you stretching your arms above your head. Your shirt would ride upward and reveal a bit of your navel while your upper half trembled into the stretch. He wanted to put his hands there, too.

He stole an opportunity to knead at your shoulder once when you complained about being sore from a prior activity, everting inside him lurching with humiliation when you settled comfortably into his lap.

An innocent gesture, sat between his legs while you accepted his kindness— though a deceptive offer, for he had just wanted a reason to have you this close.

He stared hard at your neck, gaze dropping to peer beneath your collar. It was dreadful. But he wouldn’t restrain himself, entirely glad he had a stationary face.

He’d pull at the cables of his mane when he was by himself, shaking his head and his fists at himself for this unrighteous behavior. Being away from you was worse, left alone with unrestrained thoughts of the things he could do to you

And oh, the things he wanted to do to you.

But you were a friend. A human. He was an omnic, and certainly not one built for… that kind of activity.

But then again, he was not made with life in mind, either. As far as he saw it, he could do whatever he wanted with the privilege of having agency

And that has resulted in relieving himself of these indecent thoughts when he shut himself into his quarters, blessed with the ability to create vivid images of what you would look like beneath him.

These solemn hours of the night should be reserved for meditation, and pondering his next move. But now he’s been reduced to touching himself with you in mind, pulling at delicate wires that were not meant to be tempered with.

Imagining you there. Evoking hypothetical risk by trusting you with his body.

But he hadn’t even made his feelings known to you yet. Hell, he couldn’t imagine a situation where he would without it complicating everything, or making you distant.

He knew he was the least likely candidate to end up in a cross-species relationship. So for now, he’d just relish in your friendship

And if ever you hint at wanting to take things a step further, you would find Ramattra quite eager to advance.

#Ramattra #overwatch #overwatch2 #ramattra x reader #reader insert #ramattra overwatch #headcanons #Ramattra headcanons #ramattra x listener #smut #fluff

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I have something to say - If you aren’t going to read the whole thing, then skip it. But I really hope you do. My intention is not to cause drama. I just felt this was important to say because I love this community and I want it to be the best it can be.

A few days ago, a very unfortunate thing happened on a certain post about Talanah and Seyka. I called someone out on what was a case of weaponizing a racist incident. Instead of having a meaningful discussion, my comments were deleted and called “inappropriate accusations.”

Long story short - several reblogged and commented on this post about how Talanah was constantly being tagged as Seyka. To be clear, this is not a good thing and I believe every single one of those post to be valid in their frustration. But I have also seen it happen the other way around to my own work (Seyka tagged as Talanah). None of this is okay but while it is exhausting, remember that mistakes do happen.

So I made a comment about my experience and my comment was dismissed because apparently it “hadn’t been seen.” I responded to this with an honest truth of how dismissals of experience affects people like me.

The thing about racism is that it doesn’t happen in a vacuum. You don’t get to pick and choose who it happens to just to fit your narrative. Dismissing it because you didn’t personally see it is harmful, especially to fans from marginalized groups who may not feel comfortable sharing their experiences in the future.

My comment was deleted and later referred to as an “inappropriate accusation” and “harassment.” Was it an accusation? Yes. Was it inappropriate? No. Was it harassment? Absolutely not - I took time to respond so it wouldn’t be seen that way. However, the comments involving Talanah mistags were kept. The comments defending a fictional character. To be clear, I am not saying these comments are not justified. It is incredibly frustrating to work so hard on a piece only for it to be tagged as another character. However, the fact other comments (including my personal experience), that challenged the narrative that these mistaggings were only happening to Talanah, were being deleted is problematic and a form of silencing. Intentional or not - this is a racist microaggression - and yes, I do deal with stuff like this in real life.

It became immediately clear to me that the goal here wasn’t to raise awareness or do anything about the racist misnaming but instead use it to put down a group in this community. And judging a whole group by the actions of a few bad apples is literally where prejudice begins. All of this pettiness stemming from - let’s face it - an unnecessary shipping war in a FICTIONAL STORY. I was incredibly disappointed and saddened because I know we are better than this.

I am not speaking out because I want to cause drama. Undoing systemic racism is something I am deeply passionate about because it affects so many people in my life. If someone calls you out on a problematic take, please take a moment to listen and reflect, even if it makes you uncomfortable. Do not follow the impulse to block or delete. This work is extremely exhausting for everyone, but it is SO important. We all carry prejudices and biases. We are human. But we can also learn because we are all human. I have been called out many times in life by my friends. I have made so many ignorant comments and mistakes. And I will still make them. Hearing I have is not easy at all but it is all part of growing.

Speaking out like this isn’t really my thing but I felt the need to make a comment that can’t be deleted by anyone. I love the Horizon community and I want it to be a safe and inclusive space for everyone no matter where you are from. That is what these games are about. Understanding people from different backgrounds, opinions and traditions in order to work together.

You don’t have to be fans of the same characters. You can love or be disappointed with the canon. You can respectfully give and listen to critiques of these characters. And you can celebrate representation even if it’s not the direction you wanted Horizon to go in.

Whatever these games have given you is yours to keep.

Just don’t be an asshole about it (at least in public, what you do in private is none of anyone’s business so…) -> that goes to all fans in all groups. It is never okay to harass or hurt anyone - and especially over fictional characters.

(Also please respect the devs - we are lucky they are able to pour their hearts into this game for all of us to enjoy and frankly the direction is their creative choice)

This vibrant community is full of so much talent and love for this amazing series. I have made some truly incredible friends, worked on some hilarious and delightful collaborations and have seen wicked talent come together to make something special. Just look on the horizon, and you’ll see a certain 100% fan-made game coming soon, which has a little something for everyone!

Keep creating. Ignore the bad apples. Don’t be an asshole. I’m going back to drawing silly things. - from the hart

#horizon zero dawn #horizon forbidden west #horizon critical #horizon fandom #talanah #seyka #burning shores #fight racism #microaggressions #be antiracist #horizon #hfw

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wings-of-fire-confessions · 2 months

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why are wof fans always attacking people for having different opinions. like, there's so much whining in this fandom omg.

once i said i liked scaly icewings and a bunch of people yelled at me for "ruining their fun" or whatever. how. i didn't even say anything about fluffy icewings being bad. (and i don't think they're bad, for the record.)

i see a lot of people get into fights about genders and sexualities too. you guys know all of your ideas can coexist, right?

yeah, this just annoys me. someone respectfully sharing different opinions in no way threatens your own.

#wings of fire confessions #wof confessions #wof #wings of fire

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About Me/FAQs

This is a new blog for a new chapter of my life. Starting over is both a little bittersweet and very freeing.

You can call me Avital. I am a non-binary traditional egalitarian Jew living in the US. Any pronouns except they/them are fine. (!היא/את בעברית, בבקשה. תודה)

I really appreciate human interaction. That being the case, if you follow me and I don't already follow you, please send me a DM with the following:

What you want me to call you (internet name, username, nickname, whatever)

What brought you here and made you want to follow me

Something random about you that you feel comfortable sharing (pet pics are always welcome too <3)

I had a whole lot of other rules on my previous blog to weed out the faint of heart, but I genuinely don't know how well that worked, so instead I will simply put roughly the same information below as resources and recommended reading. Fair warning: I will operate from a baseline assumption that you've done the reading and therefore will not be explaining anything in them.

I also had a listing of my firm opinions and other miscellaneous information. That got long and unwieldy, but a lot of people seemed to appreciate it, so I will post roughly the same list under the cut.

The current username refers to my current symbol of a tree of lanterns in the starlight. This is related to my desire to create self-symbolism, old school style (like I really want to create a family crest, a flag, a seal, and other heraldic nonsense. Why? Because it delights me, of course.)

This page is under construction and subject to change at any time.

B'vracha,

Avital

Recommend Reading

For followers who are Christian, were Christian, are non-Jews who grew up in a Christian culture and/or have only learned about Judaism through Christianity, these links are very helpful in unpacking some of the antisemitism you were taught:

Better Parables (specifically the article about Pharisees, but read the rest of the site too, it's great)

Antisemitic readings of the Temple table-flipping incident in the New Testament

The current Israel-Hamas war and just המצב discourse in general require a lot of background knowledge to discuss intelligently, and not just propaganda. There is a LOT of antisemitism in the public around this topic and it is having serious real-world consequences for Jews all over the world. The mis- and disinformation is causing problems for everyone involved. Islamophobia in the West has increased as well. If you're going to engage in this discussion, I am respectfully but forcefully asking you to read the following sources. They are useful regardless of where you fall on that political scale.

There Is No Magic Peace Fairy

Ways to help: [1], [2], [3]

Is your pro-Palestine activism hurting innocent people? Here's how to avoid that

A non-exhaustive list of antisemitic incidents, attacks, and pogroms during [OP's] lifetime

An exceptionally long and thorough explanation of antisemitism and antisemitic violence throughout history

Why The Most Educated People in America Fall for Antisemitic Lies by Dara Horn (tumblr link in case the article link gets broken)

An excellent overview of the basics

This is nowhere near complete information, but it's an important start. I will very likely continue to add resources as they become available and would love to create a primer on this topic more generally.

About the blog:

I’m going to try my best to keep this blog to primarily Judaism, comparative religion and theology, with the occasional side sprinkling of queer & trans stuff, BUT it is absolutely a personal blog at the end of the day.

I talked about Israel and המצב stuff a lot on my previous blog and will likely continue a bit over here too. I welcome a broad swath of opinions, so long as they objectively treat all parties involved as human and deserving of safety, stability, freedom, dignity, and peace. That is apparently a large ask these days, and a not-small part of why I keep talking about this issue. Please be part of the voices that give me hope for the future, okay?

Minors can follow and interact but please keep in mind that I’m probably closer to your parents' age than yours if you do want to interact with me directly.

Interactions:

Rude asks will be deleted. Harassing blogs will be blocked and probably reported.

I consider anything even remotely in the vicinity of trying to proselytize to me to be “harassing,” or at a minimum, rude. Just FYI.

Otherwise, nice interactions are welcomed.

Banter is encouraged; trolling will be ignored

If I don't respond to your interaction, there's a strong chance that I (a) have no idea what to say and am thinking about it, (2) totally meant to respond and just forgot after the notif disappeared, and/or (3) got incredibly busy. It's not personal! Please don't be shy about following up with me if you like. I promise that if we have a problem that is fixable, you'll know. If we have a problem that is not fixable, you'll be blocked.

I am currently learning Ivrit and am delighted to have interactions in Hebrew. Please feel free to message me, reply to posts or reblog, submit asks, etc. in Hebrew and I will do my best to read and respond to it. (Responses will be slower, but not for lack of appreciation of your thoughts!)

Anything else, just ask.

Hard stances:

You're not going to change my mind on these things; I've looked at the evidence, my personal experiences, and thought about them long and hard, and I am not going to be swayed by an internet rando. I can (often, but not always) co-exist just fine with people who I disagree with, but if seeing my posts about this is going to upset you, just do us both a favor and block me now please.

I am deeply distressed at how many people are choosing to live in a "post-factual society" where the truth is based on truthiness vibes and the politics are based on the quippiest of slogans. I don't care who's doing it, misinfo, disinfo, propaganda, atrocity denial, and gaslighting are BAD. There is no nuance here; these are bad things. They are bad if they go against your cause and they are bad if they "support" your cause. No cause is better than the truth.

If we cannot have a discussion where we are operating from the same baseline reality of verifiable facts, we cannot have a productive conversation and I will not engage with you. We can agree or disagree on a lot and that is fine, but facts matter.

If you cannot be reasoned with in accepting verifiable facts as reality, you need help. I'm serious. That is cult behavior. Get off tumblr and get help.

I don't know how to tell you that you should care about other people. If you don't see the inherent worth in other human beings' lives, I can't fix that. Go take that struggle to G-d and heal your soul.

Queer might be a slur in the mouths of some people, but my identity isn't. Don't reblog my posts if you're going to tag it with "q slur" or "q word" or censored in some way. I'm not Gay as in "I prioritize cis men over the entire rest of the community" but Queer as in "my personal labels are none of your business but my political stance on queer liberation sure as fuck will be."

I support the right of the Jewish people to self-determination in our ancestral homeland of Israel, the same way that I support other indigenous groups' right to self-determination in their ancestral homelands. If you don't, I'm going to need you to examine why Jews should be singled out of every other group to be denied this right or denied support in seeking it. That said, I definitely do not agree with many of the decisions made by the Israeli government, especially (but far from exclusively) regarding their treatment of Palestinians. I think both Jews and Palestinians deserve to live in peace, safety, freedom, dignity, and self-determination for both. No one is going anywhere; any real solution must recognize that. I tend to favor this proposal by A Land for All as an ideal (and given the grassroots nature of this idea, I think it could work pragmatically too, if the political will exists on both sides.)

I waver between calling myself a liberal Zionist and rejecting the Zionist/anti-Zionist dichotomy altogether because it inherently puts the validity of an existing state up for debate rather than looking at real solutions for the future. Bottom line: I'm a humanitarian and a pragmatist, and I care about all the people who call that part of the world home.

🌻 I stand with Ukraine 🇺🇦

Free Iran from the Islamic Republic // Women Life Freedom

Abortion is a human right and should be safe, legal, available on demand, and shameless. It's a necessary medical procedure and it's completely barbaric that we're still talking about it as anything else.

Birth control, abortion, and no-fault divorce are actively positive parts of society and building healthy families.

Transition care is healthcare and also a human right. Allowing people to transition prevents self-harm and suicide, and has an extremely high efficacy rate with an exceptionally low level of risk or regret. We now have well over a century of data on this.

That said, detransitioners who are still supportive of trans people/aren't transphobic are more than welcome here, as any exploratory process deserves the right to say, "Interesting! But nope!"

Transunity, ace/aro positivity, and just inclusionism in general, 100%. Fuck off with anything else.

If you don't vaccinate yourself and your kids for any reason other than medical necessity, and especially if you promote anti-vaxxer views and the associated pseudoscience, you are actively harming the most vulnerable members of society for entirely selfish reasons and that makes you a bad person. I hope your kids bypass you to get vaccinated.

Wear a mask 😷

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