#transfem nonbinary

[avithenerdy]

So um.

I was doing some thinking.

I'm Nonbinary Transfemme now.

I'm coming out of the closet by exploding the closet with my mind :3

Edit: THIS POST IS VERY OUTDATED.

I AM A TRANS WOMAN NOW.

[spinfader]

Trans girls, in my experience, have largely lived an existence in which for the vast majority of our lives, we've never been anybody's first choice romantically. That's if we're chosen at all.

Second choice? Yeah. Back up plan? Happens. Fetishized? Always.

But never just chosen. Never just pursued. Never loved quite as much as we need. Never the object of obsession. Never the focus of passion.

Every love feels like it's one better option disappearing like a vapor in the wind.

So I say all that to say, if you're romantically inclined, and you love a trans girl. Choose her. Really choose her. Choose her in every moment. Make her feel like she's the only one that matters and do it every day, because it's possible, likely even, that she's never felt that before.

Really choose her, or you will break her heart.

If you're not willing to do that, leave her the fuck alone.

[dhddmods]

In case anyone isn't aware, status-quo-hater has said some exorsexist things, pluralphobic things, and has a double standard for contradictory labels & separating transness from sex/AGAB.

This is a post meant to make its followers aware of whether or not their identities are respected, and aware of its harmful stances.

We do not encourage harassment of this individual.

It has yet to address its harmful posts, which bothers us greatly. It needs to make it known whether it has changed its views, or if it is going to double down on its harmful standpoints.

Status-quo-hater has, in this post and this post:

1.

-Said that to identify as a trans woman, you have to have "transitioned into womanhood" - while simultaneously saying that mulleripathian non-binary people cannot identify as trans women (thus equating non-binary womanhood to binary womanhood, when they are separate experiences.) This directly harms mulleripathian non-binary women (ie; demigirls, girlfluxes, multigender women, etc), as it is treating them as either a cisgender woman (which is malgendering by only acknowledging their womanhood) or genderless/gender neutral (which is misgendering by ignoring their womanhood), and implies that they have no social or physical transition towards womanhood necessary. That is untrue. Mulleripathian non-binary women do have to transition towards womanhood - it's just a different type of womanhood than what was previously established. This falls into the same narrative as calling them "basically cis." It also separates wolffipathian non-binary women from mulleripathian non-binary women, by allowing wolffipathian non-binary women to use the trans women label, but not the mulleripathian ones. This is hypocritical considering it has said in the past that it doesn't think trans people should be defined by their assigned gender/sex.

2.

-Said that mulleripathian trans women are misusing the "trans women" label, which completely ignores re-transitioning women (ie; "detrans" mulleripathians, who are re-transitioning into womanhood.) Is their transition back into womanhood not a transition? This also ignores interrupted mulleripathians who wish to transition towards femininity after experiencing androgenizing effects from non-intersex atypical experiences (ie; mulleripathians who had a tumor that produced high levels of androgens, making them non-intersex but also giving them androgenized traits.)

3.

-Told plurals how to identify their genders, as a singlet. It has no right to input on this whatsoever, and should leave that to the plurals within its community. (We swear, no matter how plurals identify their genders, singlets will always argue and never be satisfied.) If you wanna read about our sysmate Weni's experience with this, you can see our reblog of its post here.

4.

-Blatantly stated that it does not support coffeebean transmascs & honeybee transfems.

[zkfae]

Commission of my OC Meryl (She/They) by @jayeallisonashtear

[hydrationnation2owo]

HRT TOMORROW LETS GOOOO !!!!

[my-queer-fantasy]

enby who asks you to cockwarm them but is vastly unprepared for just how much your hole clenches and quivers and pulls them in and how fucking incredible you feel sitting on their lap with their dick deep inside of you. seconds, or just one squirm or a touch, away from shooting a week's worth of cum inside you as you give them little nose kisses and toy with their hair and enjoy the agony in their eyes

[bizarreaizen]

me: misgendering trans people is bad

some people: i agree

me: including, amab transfem non-binaries

some people: bro omg- (눈‸눈) /hj

[pridewishes]

♔ || HALARA NIGHTMARE ICONS

250x250 || nonbinary transfem || bordered circle

like / rb + credit + read dni if using

requested by anon !!

[narabea06]

No caption today-

Just take my Chica design

[spinfader]

It's not easy but I'm starting to love me. The longer I'm on hrt the easier it gets. I hated having a masculine body and I'll be dammed if I let society and other outside factors trick me into hating the feminine one too.

No way.

[spinfader]

I don't know which transfem needs to hear this but:

Thinness isn't sexiness.

Youth isn't sexiness.

Whiteness isn't sexiness.

Hairlessness isn't sexiness.

Society chooses what features of bodies get to be sexy and which ones don't. We don't have to follow those rules! Society used to think fatness was sexy once upon a time.

Please don't build your self-worth around what a patriarchal, heteronormative, white supremacist society thinks is beautiful. Love yourself, love your community because society at large wasn't looking out for you in the first place. Who gives a single, solitary fuck what they think.

[hydrationnation2owo]

As of now I'm getting HRT in a few days !!!

Might post progress pictures here >:333

[spinfader]

Turn Back the Pendulum. Turn back the hands of time.

2020: Someone should tell that guy he's a girl. He has questions but doesn't know the words yet.

2021: Someone should hug this enby. They are still trying to figure out who they are. They are the saddest person alive.

2022: Like Neo in the Matrix, she's beginning to believe. She didn't take a pill, she takes a needle. Same diff.

2023: Is that joy I see? Is that confidence? The saddest man to prettiest girl timeline needs to be studied. It's undefeated.

2024: Simply put. The glow up year.

2025: Someone should tell that girl she made it (and if a pretty transfem tells her she's a good girl, she'll really like that).

Hi girls, let’s do something! Reblog to this post with a picture of yourself, or a transition timeline if you feel comfortable about it, and things that make you happy and comfortable about yourself! To spread a bit of positivity, and show the girls that are scared that there’s joy on the other side.

[raqualswonderfunblog]

[lesbianhouseplant]

Ah yes, the 3 genders. Male, female, and “what the fuck are you, a cop?”

[spinfader]

If you're looking for a good place to start with transfeminist theory, I highly recommend Whipping Girl by Julia Serrano.

As for friends, I'm always open to be a friend but I highly recommend searching Instagram for queer groups in your area. You're bound to find some trans women irl and I cannot stress how much that helps. Supportive cis women are very helpful too because they can help you learn that your female experience is much more normal than you think.

It's hard, but it helps to find your people.

This is 100% me