#we need more compassionate people like him 🥺

[iamnmbr3]

Can we do multiples for this? If so, #8 and #12 for Drarry please 🥺👉🏻👈🏻

Sure!

8. Unpopular opinion about them

I am not a fan of drarry being depicted in canon universes as either 'cool masculine action hero harry'/'damsel in distress fragile draco' or 'sweet but kinda dumb and blundering harry'/'calm cool and collected ice prince draco' or 'enemies who still loathe and distrust each other postwar to very reluctant openly hostile allies to lovers.' All these dynamics are fine if you want to read/write them but the thing is...at least to me...they aren't drarry. And by reducing the characters to those dynamics you end up missing out on a lot of the nuance that makes the characters special and the ship interesting and you kinda flatten them into something pretty generic.

Contrary to popular fanon Harry is not dumb. He was supposed to be in Slytherin for a reason. He's very clever and observant and resourceful. And while he can be very kind and compassionate he also can be deadly when he needs to be and has a real temper that many people, even those close to him (though interestingly not Draco), can find intimidating at times. Draco also is a very good Occlumens and definitely matures a lot, but he's also not someone who is innately cold and dignified, much as he might wish to be. He's hot and firey and emotional too - just like Harry - but presents that in different ways. And yes in later books Draco often overcomes and masters his fears and emotions - because he has to - but it's not easy for him, and sometimes it all comes bursting out. And that makes him interesting and complex and human.

However Draco is also not a fragile damsel in distress. By the end of the series he is no longer the sheltered boy who once dramatically claimed to be "dying" because Buckbeak scratched him. He's been branded with the Dark Mark, been tortured by Voldemort himself, and used Unforgivables on others in turn - even if under duress. He's had to survive living with Voldemort and his followers in his house while he and his family were out of favor and virtually defenseless. He showed himself to be far more clever and resourceful than many would have given him credit for during book 6. In book 7 despite knowing intimately the terrible fate he was likely condemning himself and his family to if Harry & Co escaped, he didn't reveal the fact that he saw Ron & Harry had freed themselves from their bonds in the cell and didn't identify Harry and his friends, which bought them the time they needed to get away. He also held his own in a duel against Harry - who is extremely skilled - due to his quick reflexes, powerful magic, and strong ability to use nonverbal spells. Draco is tough and powerful in his own right, especially after the war and wouldn't just collapse into frightened hysterics at the slightest danger or find himself unable to fend off an angry group of younger students during 8th year.

He and Harry are equals and foils and parallels and opposites all at once. That's what makes their dynamic so interesting. They can stand up to each other and they never are afraid of each other - even when logic says they should be - and their skills and abilities and temperaments are extremely complimentary.

Also I love a good 'toxic dark bitterest of foes to lovers' fic but again, that doesn't feel like postwar drarry. They couldn't bring themselves to hate each other at the height of the war. Harry spent most of book 7 worrying about Draco. Draco risked everything for Harry at the Manor. They're not going to suddenly start a bitter feud after all the pressures pitting them against each other are gone. Postwar Draco would feel guilt and regret over his actions. And Harry, who lied for Draco after the Astronomy Tower Incident in book 6, is unlikely to suddenly decide he's angry Draco didn't end up in Azkaban. (Which is not to say he might not be suspicious of or curious about Draco's activities - but it wouldn't come from a place of hatred or openly vicious aggression.)

What's so fascinating and unique about this ship is that for all they are rivals and later enemies on the opposite sides of a war they don't hate and distrust each other the way you'd expect. Yes there's enmity and hostility. Yes they have to fight each other sometimes. But they also understand each other so deeply. And whenever one of them is actually in danger they always, always save each other.

It is this complex and contradictory relationship that makes them so interesting to me. And so unique compared to a lot of other ships and ship dynamics.

(I also wrote about an unpopular opinion for Draco here.)

12. Crack headcanon

There was a 7 year long 'will they or won't they' betting pool among an ever widening circle of students traumatized by having been subjected to their shenanigans.

Send me a character/ship from any fandom and a number.

[imiwrites]

BESTIE you want ken fic ideas I got Ken fic ideas-

SPOILERS BTW

I need a 'Reader is sick and Ken takes care of you' fic so BAD!!! Something about golden retriever man being good husband material makes me FOAM AT THE MOUTH

Like we all agree he's lon a super good journey of self-discovery after the end of the movie. And that's super healthy!!! He deserves to figure who he is as a person and not just an accessory 🥺 But in doing so, he becomes extremely compassionate towards other Barbies and Kens too! So just the idea of Ken running around, being the friendly neighbor type, doing errands and whatnot because he discovers he likes helping people, and maybe he even runs errands for the reader!! Like if the reader is super swamped with her profession (what ever it may be) and Ken starts getting her groceries, and he polished her car, and cleans up her home. Like REAL malewife material.

And perhaps that causes a really sweet bond to form, and that's why when she ends up getting sick, Ken is the one to swoop in. His job at beach can wait, for he has a very big task at hand: taking care of his favorite Barbie Girl ever and making sure she feels better in no time 🥺 bonus points if it's rare that anyone gets sick in Barbie Land, so he's super worried 😭

Feel free to ignore this but if you don't, thank you for the fic in advance!! 🩷

Bed Rest

Ken x Fem!Reader

barie spoilers below the cut!!!!

Sypnosis: After Stereotypical Barbie left Barbieland, Ken decided to figure out who he was. Helping people was one of his new favourite things, and when a certain Barbie falls sick, Ken drops everything to be there for her.

Word Count: 1.4k

Warnings: Descriptions of fainting, not proofread, FLUFF

A/N: This is my first time writing on Tumblr and I lowkey have no clue how it works but it's fine!!! Anyway I hope you enjoy, I haven't written fanfiction in a while so I hope it's alright! I'll get to the other requests tomorrow <3

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It took Ken some time to realise that he was enough, or ‘Kenough’, as he’d put it. After Barbie had left Barbieland, it took him a while to feel himself again. But with it came a lot of realisations. He realised that doing beach was a lot easier when his mind wasn’t focused on Barbie, and he was able to talk to people he wouldn’t usually notice. It was a nice change, Ken had to admit.

He also realised how much he enjoyed being around other Barbies and Kens, whether it would be at a big blowout party, or cheering on the Barbies as they played volleyball. Friendship was another fairly new thing to Ken. While he’d known everyone for almost his entire existence, he realised he never really knew them. Being able to understand and relate to his fellow Barbies and Kens was an experience he never thought he would have. Without his focus on Barbie, he found that being able to lend a hand to a friend was also another thing he was quite good at. And often, it came with a small reward, which always kept a smile on Ken’s face. 

He’s constantly seen helping out his friends. Whether it be fixing Lawyer Barbie’s car, or helping another Ken’s beach, he always enjoyed being able to lend a hand to a friend. It was always left him with a bubbly feeling in his stomach, and a grin permanently stuck on his face. Who knew helping a friend would be so enjoyable?

He also enjoyed lending a hand to Chef Barbie. She had the sweetest smile, and after every task he helped her with, he would get a reward in the form of food. And company. Ken appreciated the company more than the food, not that he would ever admit this out loud to Barbie. Sure, the pastries were downright delicious, but nothing could replace the soft-sound laugh she let out at his jokes, or the look of anticipation on her face when he was telling her a story. 

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“Thanks Ken!” Barbie waved from the window of her Dreamhouse, watching as Ken held two bags of groceries out, undoubtedly for a new recipe she wanted to try out. 

“It’s not a problem, Barbie. I’m happy to help.” A shy smile graced his lips as he placed the groceries down on her kitchen bench. He’d turned to leave, when the call from Barbie stopped him.

“Why don’t you stay here while I cook, I feel like I haven’t seen you in a while.”

Ken was suppressing a smile, “I don’t know, there might be some more people to help out.” It was a lie. There was no one else to help. Ken was going to stay regardless.

“Oh, sit you,” Barbie giggled, pulling out a chair, “You’ll be helping me by keeping me company. And being my taste tester, of course.” 

Ken paused, as if to think about it, but the both of them knew he was going to stay. “Seeing as you really need me, it would be impolite for me to go now,” Ken explained, as he walked towards the pulled-out chair, completely mesmerised by Barbie as she started combining ingredients in a mixing bowl. A strong smell of chocolate filled the room, and Ken let out a soft hum of delight.

“Smells good?” Barbie turned around, smiling, and Ken nodded his head eagerly. 

“Always does. What exactly are you making?”

Barbie hummed, turning back around to place the mixture onto a tray. “It’s a surprise, but it’s going to taste amazing, I promise.”

“I’m sure it will, I mean it already smells so good.” Ken stood up from his chair, making his way to the kitchen. “D’you want me to wash those dishes for you? Get it out of your way?” 

“If you’d like to, that would be perfect. Thanks Ken!” Barbie beamed, sliding the dish into the oven. 

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“Woah! Barbie, I know I say this everytime, but this is most definitely the best thing you’ve made so far!” Ken said, in between bites of what Barbie had called a ‘Brownkie’, the perfect mix between a brownie and a cookie. 

Barbie giggled, “Thanks Ken, I’m glad to know it tastes good. I’m going to bring it to Barbie’s blowout tonight, think they’d enjoy it?” Once a week, President Barbie would host a blowout with all the other Barbies. After some discussion, it was agreed that a party every night was too much, and only holding a party once a week allowed for more excitement. 

“Oh they’d more than enjoy it, trust me!” Ken exclaimed. “I don’t know how you do it, everything you cook is always just perfect.”

Barbie shrugs. “Lots of practice.” She pauses, looking away before looking back at him. “Hey Ken?”

“Yeah?”

Barbie looked down at her hands, then looked back at him. “Do you think you’d wanna come to Barbie’s blowout with me?” 

Ken’s eyes widened. Whatever he thought she was going to say, it most certainly wasn’t that. “I- uhh, yeah of course!” Identical grins appeared on their faces. 

“So, I’ll see you there tonight?” Barbie asked, and Ken nodded vigorously. 

“Thank you for the Brownkie, I gotta get ready, but I’ll see you there!” 

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As she was getting ready, Barbie could feel a small pounding in her head. It hurt. She was unsure what it was, she’d never felt something like that before. She shook her head, pushing it out of her mind. It was President Barbie’s blowout, she couldn’t be thinking of silly things like that.

She walked towards the kitchen, grabbing the platter of goodies she’d made earlier, including the Brownkies that Ken had enjoyed. The pounding had only gotten worse as she continued to get ready. She tried to ignore it, she really did, but the more she focused on ignoring the pain, it had just gotten worse. Barbie clutched her head as she walked, the platter precariously balanced on her free arm. 

The sound of music filled her ears, but only made her head pain worse. What was this thing, and why did it have to come now? And why was the room spinning?

“Barbie!” She heard Ken call out, but she couldn’t quite place him. She felt… strange. She was almost positive she was standing still, but it felt like she’d was moving really fast. The lights hurt the pounding in her head, but the music had gotten quieter. She heard a faraway clang, and she looked to her arm, the tray of baked goods gone. Barbie could hear Ken calling her name, and she swore he was standing in front of her, but she couldn’t quite make it out. 

“Ken?” she whispered, a chill spreading throughout her body. She felt someone touch her arms, but it was too late. Barbie had collapsed into Ken’s arms.

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“Someone help!” Ken called out. He was stressed, which is something he should not be feeling. In fact, he was here for a stress free night with all the other Barbies and Kens, but of course, something like this had to happen. 

Barbie’s eyes fluttered open, and Ken let out a gasp of relief. 

“What happened?” her voice was soft. 

“I-I’m not sure, you looked really funny, a-and I was in front of you and it was like you couldn’t see me and then you just fell.”

Doctor Barbie came around the corner, assessing Chef Barbie. “I’ve never seen anything like this before. But from what I’ve learnt, it should be nothing. Just take it easy for a few days, and you’ll be fine.” Ken grinned, feeling relieved.

“Let me take you home. I’ll take care of you for the next few days.”

“Ken, you don’t have to do that, I’ll be fine, don’t worry.” Barbie smiled gratefully.

“Are you joking? I’m worrying a lot! Doctor Barbie just said she hasn’t seen anything like this! Barbies don’t get sick! I’m staying with you, and you aren’t leaving your bed until you get better!” 

“Ken, what about beach?” Barbie tilted her head. She knew how much he loved his job. 

“Beach is the last thing on my mind right now, I need to make sure you’re okay.” Ken smiled as he stood up, holding Barbie in his arms. 

“You know, I’m quite sure I’d be fine walking.” Barbie whispered, hiding her face in his neck out of embarrassment.

“Are you joking? I’m not taking that risk. Just relax, I’m taking care of you, and I’m sure you’ll be better in no time.”

[rainbowsky]

hi, who do you think comes across as more sensitive between ggdd?

That's a difficult question to answer, since there are different kinds of sensitivities and everyone expresses their sensitivities in different ways. We also don't know GGDD personally.

Fake, fan fiction, total CPN.

Disclaimer: Of course I don't actually know them personally, so my perspective is based on general impressions and isn't likely to be accurate. Who can we say we actually know who we've never met? Therefore, please don't take my words here too seriously. This is total CPN.

Having said that, based on my impressions, I think both GG and DD are very sensitive, although they express it in slightly different ways.

GG

GG is an incredibly aesthetic, poetic person, and very observationally sensitive. I don't think there is much that escapes him. He seems to have that sort of empathetic, insightful human sensitivity that leads to people feeling 'known' by him. The kind of friend who picks out a gift so thoughtful that you feel moved to tears. He has enormous compassion and an ability to pick up on and empathize with other people and their life circumstances.

He has personal emotional sensitivity, too. We see this a lot in moments where he is moved to tears, and doesn't appear overly ashamed or afraid to share his feelings.

He also is eloquent and expressive, and able to translate his sensitivities into beautiful art and heartfelt, evocative essays and poetic writings. His expressiveness and human insight are also a big part of why he is so especially gifted with acting serious, heavily emotive, angsty characters and scenes. He gets inside the characters and brings them to life.

Many turtles (myself included) CPN that GG wrote DD's birthday message last year. The message reflects an enormous amount of insight, acceptance and care. The final paragraph, especially, is just so beautiful and shows so much genuine love. Argh. 🥺

A lot of people seem to assume that because he's a poetic, aesthetic, sensitive person he must be a total pushover, but actually GG has said himself in the past that with people he is close to he can be very domineering and strong-willed, and that he's a 'Chongqing hot pepper'. He also said in an interview that he's 'not as sweet as he shows us,' and referred to himself as a 'charming and adorable antagonist' with a 'hot temper'.

So fans who think of him as entirely soft, passive and feminine (of which there are many), they might not be seeing the full picture of who he is and what he's like.

And I see this in a lot of his behavior, especially in the BTS. He has a strong personality; he takes no bullshit; he is a tough guy who doesn't coddle people. He's capable of being ruthless. He is very intelligent and enjoys outsmarting others, which was on display again and again during XFIRE activities. He also has a very strategic, sharp mind. Some of this can be seen in the choices he makes and some of it comes through in the statements he makes. The interview he gave in the early days of 2/27 shows some of that.

It's that multi-dimensional aspect of him that I love most.

Pie also gave some good insights into his personality in her post about the window cleaning robots rumor.

There's more to GG than meets the eye.

DD

DD is also very sensitive and compassionate. You see it in how he interacts with people. Like GG, he listens closely to what people say and he sees beneath the surface to their emotional reality. One of the best examples of this is in the episode of DDU where he empathized with a woman who had been dating a man who most people would say was totally wrong for her.

DD is very moved by the struggles of ordinary people. We saw this when he stepped up to help with the relief effort in Henan, and when he stopped to help a deaf mute man (unaware he was being filmed for a candid camera show - more on that in this post).

I also see DD as the sort of person who is sensitive to other people's needs. Look at the way he looks out for GG in the BTS, getting him to eat and making sure he's taking care of himself. There have also been a lot of reports from behind the scenes of his filming projects, where cast and crew have talked about how humble and hardworking he is, and how he's not above helping crew clear up when filming ends.

DD is a very open-hearted, 'pure' soul. Many people have said so, including GG. Despite all the struggles he's had, he's stayed youthful and free-spirited.

We can see with the grand romantic gestures DD has made in the past that he is very emotionally sensitive and romantic. If even a tiny fraction of the fake rumors and repos are true, DD is a disarmingly sweet and thoughtful guy.

One of my favorite examples of this comes from the 300G pages that claim to be a transcript/repo of unseen BTS moments from the 300GB of BTS clips reportedly sold to fansites. Total fan fiction, but it perfectly captures the sort of sweet guy DD is.

GG is having a hard time getting a take right for a scene, and the director tells him to take a break. DD scoots over to where GG is resting and holds out his two fists facing downward in front of GG and asks him to pick one for a surprise.

GG agonizes a bit over which one to choose, but finally picks a hand. DD gives GG a mysterious smile and asks GG to hold out his hand. GG does, and DD opens his fingers over GG's palm. There's nothing there. DD says, "I've just given you some luck, so that on your next take, you will succeed."

GG asks what is in the other hand and DD turns it over and opens it and says, "See, there's nothing there! Zhan-ge is so good, you guessed right on the first try!"

GG rolls his eyes at DD and says, "WYB, in your heart, do you think I'm more than 10 years old?"

On the next take, GG nails the scene.

A lot of people focus on DD's 'savage', 'blunt', 'cool guy', 'sporty', 'thrill-seeking', 'dirty-minded', characteristics and miss out on the extremely sweet, kind, sensitive side of him, and conversely a lot of people focus on the sensitive, sweet, cute side of GG and miss out on the tough, headstrong, sometimes even crude side of him.

This comes, I'm sure, from the whole gender norm thing, where people try to superimpose heterosexual roles and personalities on them in order to make sense of the idea of two men being a couple. But gay relationships aren't like that. More on that here.

I think GG and DD both have quite balanced personalities, with a good mixture of traits and qualities. They strike me as very down-to-earth in ways that really contribute to their compatibility.

That's something to keep in mind as fans. GG and DD are compatible in part because they are able to connect on so many different levels and in so many different ways. They can be soft with each other, they can be tough with each other, they can be lewd and crude with each other, they can be serious and be fun together. And that all stems from the very multidimensional personalities they both have.

[aiyexayen]

3zun thoughts for the poly ask meme 🥺

poly ship ask meme this one will be interesting because i've barely ever thought about this ship before~

Who sleeps in the middle? they definitely take turns. .

Who is the best cuddler? lan xichen. none of them are terribly cuddly naturally but he really applies himself. .

Who gets hurt the most? nie mingjue, by far. absolutely reckless, hands-on training and sparring with his sect. a very brash, headstrong approach to night hunts and fights. more injuries per year than the other two combined and then some. .

Who acts like the baby? nie huaisang. but out of just the three of them, jin guangyao. .

Who teases the others the most? it's a toss-up between lan xichen and jin guangyao, but none of them are above teasing. .

Who proposes? all of them, at different times, and each time something stops it from happening or it's a bad idea for some reason or another. eventually they good-naturedly give up and move on from the idea until nie huaisang throws them a surprise wedding out of nowhere. .

Who is the most protective? lan xichen. the misdirect is that people assume it's nie mingjue until a white and blue whirlwind comes out of nowhere to beat their ass. .

Who is the closest to the child? (Whether it be a fur baby, scale baby, or human child.) all of them are kept equally close to nie huaisang on the surface, by his express design. but if push came to shove of course nie mingjue would win out. that's his da-ge. we had a whole plot about it. silly question. .

Who gives the best advice? jin guangyao. lan xichen definitely gives the most digestible and compassionate advice but jin guangyao's advice is going to be spot-on every time. .

Who is like a therapist? lan xichen. he's working on that, though. .

Who sings B and C to sleep? none of them sing, but lan xichen often plays the qin. jin guangyao does not. .

Is the relationship healthy? they're working on it .

Do A and B have a stronger bond with each other? Or do C and B or C and A have a stronger bond? Or are A, B, and C close together [equally]? they're all equally close, after all they've been through. nobody's tallying up points like that! except jin guangyao, who absolutely is, and would say that the other two are still closer to each other than they are to him by at least 12%. .

Who can be trusted to be left home alone? all of them, and they frequently are. each of them rather values their own solitude and they need that alone time to stay grounded and healthy. .

Who cries the most? in a kink way, nie mingjue. in an emotional way, also nie mingjue. .

Who is the softest? lan xichen, right up until he's not. for very specific people, nie mingjue. .

Who is the shortest? jin guangyao by a fair bit. .

Who is the tallest? lan xichen by a very slim margin. .

Who likes cuddles the most? openly, lan xichen. secretly, jin guangyao. .

Last of all, who sings terribly in the bath? nie mingjue. famously.

[ruminate88]

I Just Never Knew

I grew up in loving and positive home! I was always taking care of family members, babysitting, always being there for my cousins. I have a very big family and we’re all this way. However, I was labeled in school with a disability and felt beyond stupid and “less” than everyone else. School treated me as less but my cousins always treated me the same as them. That was the one positive thing for me in childhood!!

When I was trying to find “love” as an adult, I believed I could love anyone no matter who they were or what they’ve done. My love felt huge to me!!! I felt whenever I found “that one special guy” I would put him first and worship him!! I tried…

Whenever I dated Cody, he gave me his list of “disorders” and “problems”. He told me all about his childhood trauma and kept asking me to “fix him”. I lied to myself and thought I really could love him through his mess!! I tried to make him feel so safe with me and understand him. Cody just dumped all over me and took every bit of my love and kindness but when he ghosted me, I realized for the first time my “love” wasn’t enough to help him or “fix” him. Was a hard lesson for me!! How can someone who claims they “need me to heal them” just walk away suddenly and never look back?

I was traumatized by no goodbye from Cody. I lost a lot of respect for him at first and I wasn’t so compassionate. I was sooooo angry!!! I felt stupid by him and numb. He made me turn cold for months. Wasn’t sure how I’d overcome the pain and disappointment of Cody.

Less than 6 months later I met Andrew and became obsessed/attached with him and didn’t forget Cody at all but I was so focused on Andrew now!! Andrew was also so confusing the entire time nothing he did or said made sense to me and he also broke my heart so bad. Even though he supposedly “never wanted to break up” and he already was posting a new girl all over his Instagram 🥺

I was so exhausted my heart couldn’t take anymore pain. I was VERY suicidal and lost. I almost lost my whole ability to be loving and forgiving!!! I had multiple suicide scares where all I could think of was ways to hurt myself… I hated me and felt “I was the problem” why wasn’t my “love” enough for those guys??? Why couldn’t we work out? I felt I worked so hard and pushed all my boundaries and limits to please both Cody and Andrew.

Whenever I prayed to God and stoped being suicidal, THEN I tried so hard to move on and let my exes be. I didn’t reach out to them or bother them, even though I still felt confused by them and concerned at their behavior. Andrew tried to FaceTime me twice in the same day months after we broke up and I was scared what he wanted from me but I missed him too and wished so badly he wanted to be with me and love me. ❤️‍🩹

Finally years later I felt sorry for Cody. Not sure what part of his story was real but I do have compassion on him and I often worried about him. Especially during covid I tried to Google him and see if he’s okay and he looks just fine to me. Doesn’t appear anything was ever wrong and same with Andrew. He’s always appeared “like normal” whatever normal is.

Since I’ve been on a mission to learn and find answers to all the confusion, I have come to be even more compassionate and understanding but none of that takes away the pain and scars. I’ve had a lot of health issues in the last 4 years and I’ve been struggling to trust people and even stopped being friends with some people out of fear. I hate this about me and want to change it. Daily I remind myself the truth that I need love and I need people. I don’t need to be cold, that’s only going to destroy me!!! Lots of self examination and not losing my belief system in God although lies that “I’m not good enough” swirl in my head and I have to dismiss these lies all the time!!

Reminding myself I’m no longer the same person I was in my 20s. I’m safe now ❤️‍🩹

[dany36]

i cant remember exactly why the people of mizuho chose sheena as the one to be sent to assassinate sylvarant’s chosen (or I think sheena volunteered to make up for what happened with volt??) but MAN did the kingdom of tethe’alla truly mess up by sending the most compassionate and empathetic assassin EVER. like sheena was really out here:

1) playing hide-n-seek with the luin kids and the kids loved her so much that even one of them was asking where she was so they could play together

2) found a man collapsed on the ground and carried him to hima, then started looking for whatever was needed to try to heal this man from unconsciousness even though she doesn’t even know him!

3) RISKED HER FUCKING LIFE trying to defend the people of luin when the desians attacked, and felt SO BAD that she couldn’t do anything to help them because she felt she OWED THEM for food and lodging so she was going to infiltrate the desian base on her own and risk her life AGAIN. and she WOULD have done it on her own if lloyd and the gang hadn’t shown up.

and these are the people of the world she was tasked with ensuring their demise!!! but no!! she realizes that these people are suffering but despite it all they are kind and welcoming to her in luin, and so she can’t just be the one that kills off their last chance of hope!! so she decides to help the chosen of sylvarant KNOWING that this will mean yet another huge personal failure for her after the volt disaster that caused so much pain for her and her people (don’t even get me started on that), and thus will be possibly forced to face the shame and hatred of her people once again. and she’s STILL like “ok well why don’t we try to save BOTH so everyone can be happy isn’t there a way??? 🥺” just like my boy lloyd!!! LIKE……..GOD I just love her character so goddamn much and taking the hard route has just exponentiated my appreciation for her even more 😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️

[liebgotts-lovergirl]

Hiya Bestie! 💕 For the director's cut game, I've been dying to know about Joe's relationship with Alix's friend group. There was a little mention of him interacting with them while Alix was gone, and I'd love to know more about their dynamic if you're down to share :)

Ooh this is such a good question!! It's gonna be addressed much more in later chapters too bc I'm a sucker for psychology!! 🤭

Liebgott + Skip + Don Relationship Psychoanalysis below the cut!!

So Joe is an interesting case bc he grew up SURROUNDED by family & we see him assume the role of Caretaker multiple times throughout the show, most notably with Tipper, when Tab gets gored, when Alley is wounded, & at the concentration camp later on.

The caring side of him is automatic-- it derives from being the oldest of so many siblings, the man of the family when his dad's at work. He's always been the Protector, the Caretaker etc.

He is as fierce a lover as he is a fighter bc both come from the same place: his compassionate heart! He can't help but care about people and as Eugene Sledge wrote in his book, it's the ones with empathy that suffer the most during wartime.🥺

As the war progresses, we see Joe starts to go against his own nature. We see him learn to shut the kinder side of himself down. He has to-- As Winters wrote in his book, Joe was one of Easy Company's "designated killers".

Imagine for one second the weight of that label on a person. You need someone executed, you call Joe. Joe is the one Resistance members use as a threat during interrogations-- he's the attack dog, he kills on command.

What does a normal human being have to do to become psychologically okay with that? How much of himself did he lose? What does a job like that do to a person over time?

Alix & Joe are very similar but they fork in that regard:

Alix lets her emotions lead as an act of rebellion against a system that has tried to rob her of them + tries to pull away from that label of "Killer" whereas Joe shuts down & leans into it. He does what he has to do. He is a good soldier.

He lets his anger (which is really just compounded self-loathing) drive him, becoming a bit of a Lone Wolf in the process.

The angrier Joe becomes, the more he lashes out.

The more he lashes out, the more he hates himself.

And the cycle just continues.

He knows it & he HATES it. There's a reason he abandons his old name in favor of an old family nickname, tries to avoid the Easy Co. reunions at all costs, & refuses to talk about the war until he's practically on his deathbed.

Joe DESPISES the person he used to be, the person the war made him.

AND THEN THERE'S OUR BELOVED SUNSHINE BOY, SKIP.

So Skip starts in a similar position but ends up in a VERY different place!

Like Joe, he grew up as the Caretaker figure in his family. He didn't face any discrimination growing up tho-- which obviously had a major effect on Joe-- but there's no doubt Skip is upset about the suffering he sees throughout the war. Any decent human being would be, ESPECIALLY someone with a heart as big as Skip's.

BUT unlike Joe, we never see Skip angry or upset for long.

Skip's outlook is UNFAILINGLY positive bc he knows if he allows himself to sink into that place of rage even for a moment, he'll never get out.

And as an NCO, Skip feels a responsibility for the morale of his squad. He knows people are depending on him, he knows the younger guys are watching him, so when he feels down, he makes the choice to lift others up instead.

Even in his letters, when he writes about feeling down, it's very quick mentions here & there. He refuses to let himself have more than a second or two of anger or self-pity BUT at the same time, does not allow the war to strip him of his humanity or compassion. He's been an optimist his whole life & even in the worst of times, he refuses to let the war take that from him.

SO

Subconsciously, when Joe looks at Skip, he sees the person he could have been, if life had been kinder. If he had made the same kinds of choices instead of hardening his heart to survive.

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood", so to speak.

And he wants to protect that in Skip at all costs.

In a similar vein, subconsciously, with Don, I think Joe sees his little brother -- This carefree, mischievous, bright spark of a boy with adventure in his soul. Joe's younger siblings got to have a childhood-- he never really did. So he sees the same light in Don that he sees in his younger siblings, & as he did growing up, Joe will shoulder whatever burdens he needs to in order to protect that.

Thank you so much for the Ask, my Dovely!! Sorry this kinda turned into a book lol💖

[acourtofsmut]

hi darling, can i request an eris x reader where he’s been away (doing whatever high lords do) for quite some time and finally returns to his family? idk why but i see him having a lot of children? i guess i just wanted to see some domestic eris 🥺 of course feel free to ignore this if you don’t feel like writing it! tysm!

domestic bliss

eris x reader

rating: 18+

warnings: smut at the end, bath tub sexy time, fingering (f. receiving)

a/n: this was so freaking fun to write. thoroughly enjoyed this request!! yes, I see Eris having lots of children and being a doting father 🫠 also, saw a fox in the middle of the road earlier today and thought it was a sign that I needed to crank this out for you lovely anon! this turned out to be fluffy in the beginning and get soft and smutty towards the end 😇 the title was inspired by a glass animals song 😊 hope you enjoy!! much love 🤍

Sitting on the porch in the crisp evening Autumn air, you sipped on a warm cup of tea and munched on an apple tart you made earlier while watching your young ones play with the hounds. With Eris gone, your brood of children have been keeping you on your toes. Four of them… so far.

“Mom! Watch this!,” your first born, Aurelius, called out from the meadow, snagging your attention. Holding a treat in his hand, he commands, “shake,” with a voice that reminds you of your mate, shrieking in excitement and praising the pup when it raises its paw. Aurie is the spitting image of his father, fiery red hair and auburn eyes. He is his father’s shadow, tagging along wherever he can, especially on hunting trips. It warms your heart to see Eris walking through the halls of your home, long strides shortened to account for Aurie trying to keep up at his side. Feeling a tug on the bond, a rush of warmth sent from his end, you know that he can tell you are thinking of him.

“Did you see?! Did you see that, Mommy?” he bellows to you, auburn eyes lighting up, smile plastered on his face.

“Yes, sweetie. Daddy will be so proud,” you praise him, returning his smile with your own, chuckling lightly.

“When is Daddy coming back?,” he asks curiously, smile softening, brows furrowing as he gives the pup a scratch

“Late tonight… past your bedtime,” you say as you start walking towards him, wrapping him in a tight hug. Scanning the field in search of the other young ones, you hear tiny giggles from beneath a shrub. Eyes narrowing, you creep up and spy your twins, Lennox and Flynn, building some sort of house with twigs, sticks, and leaves.

“Do you think Daddy will like it, Lenny?” Flynn asks his brother in hushed voice.

“Well, Daddy always loves what we make for him,” Lennox responds confidently with a giggle.

Both were graced with strawberry blond hair, dusted with blonde highlights. People tell you that the twins take after you, highly imaginative and compassionate. You have spotted them on numerous occasions making gifts for the kitchen staff, most likely to receive extra sweets. However, it was out of the goodness of their hearts; they collect and deliver bouquets of flowers, crafts, and even have gone above and beyond to perform a silly skit for the entire household staff that had had you and Eris is stitches, clutching at your stomachs with amused pride at the audacity and creativity of your little twins.

Hiccup!

Last, but never least, came tiny sweet Melena, with her curly chestnut hair and emerald eyes., currently swaddled and wrapped against your chest. Glancing down you pat her tiny back, her pretty eyes gazing up at you as she lets out another hiccup!

As you watched Eris cradle her in his arms for the first time, you saw her steal his heart before your eyes. His long finger tracing along those chubby, freckled cheeks, cute button nose, leaning down with tears lining his eyes to plant a kiss on her forehead, then yours as he wrapped his arms around the both of you.

Reminiscing upon these fond memories made you miss your mate even more, longing to be held in his strong embrace, his naked form pressed against yours. Becoming more and more desperate for his return, you close your eyes trying not to overwhelm yourself with need. Sending your longing straight through the bond, you are answered with his desire tugging at your ribs, setting your body aflame. Sighing at the sensation, you are brought back to the present when you feel the sun finally set, noting how late it has become.

“Come along, my loves, time to get ready for bed,” you say, herding your little brood inside to wash up and read them a bedtime story, your heart straining to be in closer to your mate.

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After putting Melena to sleep in her crib, you settle down on the couch, snuggled up with Aurie, Lennox, and Flynn,. Just as you are opening the book, you finally feel his powerful presence, too strongly to ignore. That ever-familiar warmth rushing through your body as he sends a stronger, heated tug that leaves your ribs tingling, the strain on your heart fading away.

“Daddy’s here,” you whisper to your young ones just as the door opens to reveal your exhausted, yet gorgeous mate smiling at the sight in front of him. In a mess of limbs and giggles, your boys tumble towards their father. Kneeling, Eris scoops them all together in a hug, kissing their heads.

“My boys,” he sighs, eyes closing to savor the moment, you can feel his relief and contentment to be back home with his family.

You love watching him with the young ones, always showing his true self. Not the part he has to play for every one else to see, the stone cold, cunning High Lord of Autumn. For his family alone, he is the compassionate, loving, empathetic father and lover. Tearing up at how much you have missed him by your side and how exhausted you have felt caring for the young ones by yourself, you can’t help but shed a tear.

Sensing your distress has his chest tightening, eyes flickering up, “my love,” he whispers softly extracting himself from the bundle of tiny limbs to sweep you up into long-needed hug. Nestling your head into his chest, you whisper, “sleep, my love, you’re exhausted, I’ll put the boys to bed.”

“So are you,” he replies, leaning back to plant a chaste kiss on your lips as the little ones cling to his legs. You wrap your hands around the back of his neck to dip him down, kissing him again, trying to convey how much you have missed and needed him.

“Daddy, can you read us a story?” Lennox’s voice interrupts your moment. As the two of you separate, you notice how dark his eyes had become and scent the slightly heady smell of his cinnamon musk.

Patting the youngsters head, “of course, buddy, Mommy is getting tired, and it’s getting late, so let’s make it quick,” he informs them while giving you a wink and lingering kiss on the soft spot below your ear, making you slightly weak in the knees, giving your bottom a soft pat as he ushers you into your shared bedroom.

Settling down on the couch together, Lennox and Flynn on one side and Aurie on the other, Eris reads them a bedtime story and tucks them in.

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With Eris now washing up, you snuck to the kitchen to warm up an apple tart, one of his favorites. Entering the bathroom, you stopped in your tracks, gulping and biting your lip as you took in his completely naked form lazing about gloriously in the tub.

Shimmying out of your robe and night gown, you watched as his eyes darkened, glazed over every curve as you exposed them. His chest rising a bit higher with every breath. You padded your way over to the tub, sinking into the warm water and planting yourself on his lap. His knees bending behind you to support your weight so that you could lean back, his hand coming up to your face. Thumb brushing along your lips, trailing down to wrap lightly around your neck as he descends, laying his palm flat against your chest. Just feeling your heart beat, gazing into your eyes.

“My love, I won’t leave you again for that long…,” his hand dips down beneath the water, fingers gliding through the curls on your mound making you shutter in anticipation, “I have a lot to make up for because of my absence, don’t I?”

“N-no…” you stutter as his fingers slide against the slickness of your folds, “nothing to m-make up for… you were just doing your duty… hmmm,” you hum as his fingers enter your aching core immediately finding that sweet spot, massaging it just the way you like. Just the way that will have you falling apart within seconds as his talented thumb draws circles on your swollen bud.

“You deserve it all, my love,” his other hand supports the back of your neck, thumb stroking your cheek, “the mother of my children, my best friend, my lover… you deserve it all. I’d do anything for you, you do so much for me. For us,” he purrs, your hips start bucking against his fingers at his words, “for our beautiful family.”

“You d-deserve it all, they love you. I-I- love y-you… hmm-ahhh!,” your hum turns into a shriek as your eyes roll back into your skull, clenching down on his fingers as you cum. Hot searing pleasure ripping through you, you grasp at anything and everything, his arms, his chest, his hair.

Slowly coming down, you sink further into the tub, head resting upon his chest, utterly spent, panting. You feel his hard, hot length poking at the soft part of your belly.

“You still got a couple more in you, pretty girl?,” his hands tracing, feather-light touches down and up your back in a soothing manner.

“Yes, Eris, please,” you sigh, peppering kisses on his chest, up his neck, sucking lightly as he groans, all the way up to that gods-sculpted face, “anything for you,” you let out breathlessly licking your tired eyes with his.

Scooping you up in his arms and grabbing the apple tart on the counter, Eris whisks you into the bedroom. Drying the two of you off without a second thought, he gently sets you down on the plush sheets. You watch as he lays down on his side of the bed, tucking into the pastry moaning in delight at the sickly sweetness.

Smiling at his glee, you pat his chest, giggling as you snake your hand down his bare chest to wrap around his length.

“Let me eat this before I eat you, my love,” he growls out, a mischievous glint in his eyes as he turns absolutely ravenous.

To say you were satiated by the end of night would be an understatement, eager to wake up and spend a much-needed day with your beautiful children and loving mate in domestic bliss.

(thank you so much for reading this far!! much love 🤍)

[the-void-writes]

"after everything you've done, i still love you. with all i am."

@bloodlessheirbyjacques 🥺

@bloodlessheirbyjacques 😁😁😁 I was so excited for this that I'm sure it's sloppy in most places 🤣 But I love how this story is coming together.

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Warnings and Triggers: Descriptions of blood, self-mutilation for pleasure, and people being eaten alive by monsters.

The whole world seemed to slow to a halt as Angelo’s fist hit Val’s cheek. First a tingle, then the searing sting that spread across their face. The rest of the crew just watched them, either afraid to speak up or unbothered by their boss’ actions. Unsurprisingly, the servants were already moving to apprehend Angelo, with a furious Freya taking the lead. No one was able to reach him, though, before the fastest shadow imaginable slammed into Angelo and pinned him against the farthest wall. Cyrus’ pale hand was wrapped firmly around Angelo’s throat. It was almost painful to watch him struggle and claw at Cyrus for release. There wasn’t an inch of humor in the lord’s voice when he spoke.

“What’s wrong, Angel? I thought you liked this kind of thing.”

Angelo growled and tried to kick himself free, but gave up when Cyrus squeezed his throat tighter. Val knew he was definitely strong enough to kill the man, but he was kind enough not to. The crew finally came back to life as Luke went to stop Cyrus, only to be held back by Freya and Kristine. The rest of the crew did nothing to help either of them.

“C-Cyrus,” Angelo said, his voice already hoarse, “please—”

“Loving you was a mistake.”

Fury seemed to revive Angelo’s energy to fight. “If you hadn’t run away the first night, we would have been happy.”

“If I hadn’t been such a desperate fool, I would have fed you to the others on your first day here. You are a vile, pompous, and dangerous man.”

“Dangerous? You’re the one who killed four whole towns!”

His green eyes grew dark. “Those settlers killed my entire family right in front of me. It took all of our strength to overpower them. Tell me, please, how avenging my family, how protecting my town from further harm, is worse than a man who forces his partner to watch him cut himself for his own pleasure?”

Angelo spat bitterly. “You just didn’t want to watch me. Admit it, if Val had the knife, you would have been all for it.”

Cyrus’ grip grew tighter, from the sound of Angelo’s wincing. “Val would never have done it if they knew it upset me, because they care about other people. They’re the most selfless and compassionate person I’ve ever met. You think it’s all about looks, but if you took five seconds to actually think for once, you’d see that Val is twice the person you’ll ever be.”

Val felt their knees buckle, but they refused to fall. His spirit, his words, his desire to fight for them, everything that Val had fallen for over the last few months. It didn’t matter what he was, what his family had condemned everyone to be. Cyrus Lockhart was the most loving, sympathetic, and generous man in the entire world. He fought for his people’s future, and for other outcasts like himself. Val couldn’t ask for someone more perfect to be in love with.

Luke twisted himself from Freya’s grasp and charged at Cyrus, only to be smacked away by his free hand. His sharp teeth were both beautiful and sinister. Freya and Kristine were quick to scoop him back up with an animalistic glint in their eyes. They hissed and threw him back with the others, who finally started to connect the dots when they saw their equally-sharpened teeth. Cyrus wasn’t the only vampire.

“Shit,” Luke said, “they’re all bloodsuckers!”

“Val, kill him!” Mia shouted. “If we kill the leader, the others will be cured!”

“That’s only in the movies.”

“So are vampires, Luke! We need to try whatever we know!”

Val waved their hands. “Guys, Cyrus won’t hurt us.”

“I don’t want to hear it from you! You knew what he was the whole time!”

“I didn’t want you to freak out like this. Cyrus doesn’t want us to expose the town. If we tell the world the truth, they’ll hunt these people down. We can trash out footage, find another house to investigate, and everyone can move on.”

“And leave an entire town of vampires alive for some other group to find and be eaten by?”

“You don’t know a damn thing about these people!” Val gestured to the servants. “They’ve been nothing but kind to us, while all you guys have done is complain and insult their culture.”

Mia glared at them. “Don’t act like you’re some righteous hero here. You just don’t want to give Cyrus up because he’s sweet on you. You’d rather see us die than give up the only person crazy enough to sleep with you.”

In a flash of fury, Cyrus threw Angelo at Mia, knocking them both onto the floor.

“You think yourself so superior,” Cyrus said, “but Val is worth more than the lot of you combined.”

Luke shook his head at Val. “I won’t let you doom this group. If you can’t kill him, then I will!”

He tore away one last time, and before Val knew it, they charged forward and knocked Luke away. When Freya and Kristine pounced on him again, they didn’t hold back. The threat against their lord’s life was a threat against the town. Luke cried out in pain as they bit into his shoulder, blood spilling onto the marble floor. The other crew members screamed and tried to hit the maids off of him, causing the remaining servants to jump in for defense. It was a complete mess within seconds, blood and shredded cloth and bits of stuff that Val didn’t even want to think about. The sounds were horrific. Screams, tearing flesh, and the hungry hissing of the servants in the room.

Cyrus was just as horrified by the display. He stared frantically between the mess and Val, certain that he had fully lost his love. They wouldn’t stay in Hawthorn after this. Angelo tried to crawl out of the chaos while he was distracted, but Cyrus was quick to grab him. The servants stared up at Angelo hungrily.

“Cyrus,” he whispered, “you can’t eat me.”

“No, Angel, I can’t.” He closed his eyes. “I refuse to give you that pleasure.”

He threw Angelo back into the pile, and his screaming was quickly silenced by the hungry horde. Cyrus watched his dear servants feast on their new meal with delight. It was finally over, he was free of that horrid man and his horrendous team, who had hurt both his town and his beloved… He started to leave, ashamed of himself and the curse his family had put them all under, until Val grabbed his face and held him close.

“Look at me, Cyrus,” they whispered.

“Forgive me, please. I didn’t want this for you.”

“I know you didn’t.” Val squeezed his hand. “Thank you for defending me.”

Cyrus started to cry.  “I’ll help you get out of here. We can tell the authorities that your crew went back early—”

Val shook their head. “I’m not going anywhere.”

“But— But you know about—”

“I’m not scared of you, Cyrus. No matter what you’ve done, how you see yourself, I still love you with all my heart.”

It was music to his ears. He scooped Val into his arms and kissed them like it was their last moment on Earth. They ran their hands through Cyrus’ hair, the gentle touch grounding him back in reality. Even surrounded by death, their love could only grow.

“I love you,” he said breathlessly. “Oh, my darling, I love you so much.”

“I love you, too. I won’t leave you, honey, I promise.”

[ambeauty]

I only like it when Dick says Kory’s name! No matter how he says it, I feel the love. S1 was the best because there was a range and abundance of ways he said her name. Some of my favorite examples: 1x05 Kory, Rachel said you can create light/make heat, is that right? Kory, no more killing, please. Finds out the Nuclear Family is dead - KORY! 1x07 Saving Kory from being experimented on, KORY?! In episode 1x10 the man said her name at least 15x. My favorites: Kory! Wait GODDAMMIT! Talk to me! To Donna: Kory’s not a killer. She kills people sometimes, but none of this makes sense. Kory loves Rachel. She’s done nothing, but try to help her. What we saw back there, that wasn’t the real Kory. 1x11 Being jealous about Hank being with Dawn and Jory calls him. I gotta get this, it’s Kory. Dawn’s salty reaction, “Of course it is.” He fell hard in only a couple of days. S4 needs to up his Kory game 😂

YESS YOU GET IT! Kory was absolutely his favorite word in s1. He was so pressed about her and I need that energy back so bad! Someone even put together a compilation of all the times he said it 😂

When this energy is back, we will win! Also that last part in the dream sequence with Dawn, I cackle every time. Even dream Dawn couldn’t catch a break 🤣

ANYTIME Dick is checking on Kory it’s really the best!! We love the feral caring, compassionate, concerned partner, colleague, husband side of Richard 🥺 Thank you for reminding me of how sweet he really is when he’s not in Gotham 😫

[numbaoneflaya]

Hi i need the whole heart column for Jilly my beloved

YEAAAAAAAS thank u <3333 jilly time

💓 BEATING HEART - what gets their heart racing?

-Romance and violence! Sometimes together, sometimes separate. She's pretty easily excitable. Any kind of flirtation/ interest in her makes her heart rate go up and get blushy, as well as threats of violence towards herself. But also being given flowers and chocolates, etc.

💘 HEART W/ ARROW - what traits do they look for in a relationship? Do they believe in love at first sight?

Traditionally she would say she'd look for someone kind, loving and compassionate and in theory that still holds. I can imagine her saying that when someone asks and Vincent just starts cracking up nearby. She does believe in it! Shed say thats what happened with the two of them, because it makes it more fairytale-esque and romantic.

💗 GROWING HEART - if they have a crush, is it noticable? what changes when they're in love?

Jilly with a crush is even more excitable around them, laughs more and then gets embarrassed about her laugh, blushes more at innuendos or sex jokes though she doesnt usually, likely to flee from interactions w them bcs it makes her scared gdfgdfgdfgh. Jilly in love is much more affectionate and clingy and likely to talk about her beloved frequently, much to her friends dismay. Less self conscious once she has a lover!

❤️ RED HEART - their love language(s)?

-All of them? Physical touch is a big one, she's major touch starved and wants to hug/ be held, hold hands, cuddle up to and sit on her lover. Giver of many smooches. That's her big one but she also loves giving gifts, spending a lot of time with someone and receiving words of affirmation.

💙 BLUE HEART - do they miss their s/o easily? how do they act when their s/o isn't around?

-SHE DOES miss him easily. Gets all sad and pathetic and bemoans her fate and everyones like girl chill its been one day :/ shut the fuck up. She acts the same without him, but will be a little more on edge/nervous if its been a while since she's seen him. She likes to feel safe. “Hey jilly, can you-” “Vincent used to call me that🥺🥺” “because its your fucking name??”

💚 GREEN HEART - what things make your oc feel comforted? hugs, kisses, food?

Hugs and physical affection all the way, people playing with her hair/tail, kissies, hand holding or having an arm around her shoulder, being carried around like a princess, being given food esp if its a kind of meat or soup, etc.

💖 SPARKLING HEART - are they a subtle or a showy lover?

-We all know this bitch showy as hell :// got no subtly whatsoever. Pulling on her mans 24/7 glued to his arm showing him off like :3 “everyone fucking clap for my handsome strong talented bf or ill blow this whole building up” gfdghsddhf. As stated, giver of many smooches. Shes the hoe on the tl constantly posting abt her relationship. “Vincent so funny 😭❤️😭” BITCH FUCK VINCENT!!

💌 LOVE LETTER - do they like love letters? what kind of messages do they leave for their partner?

Oh this is so sweet I think she would LOVE love letters. Vinent would never in a million years write one and I think he'd eat any she wrote out of embarrassment. Shed more likely resort to sticky notes with little messages like “Have a good day studmuffin <3” and “come kiss me when u find this :3”

💔 BROKEN HEART - what could their partner do that would absolutely break their heart?

-Eat her hot cheeots :’/ no but really…. Kill any of her friends, cheat on her, basement her, break up w her, etc would result in a little broken ferret heart.

[ihatebnha]

Super critical anon here… 🙈 I mean, I think I’ve got some things in my favor with Bakugou. I’m usually fairly confident, don’t let others’ opinions affect me nearly as much as they used to. I’d be more than happy to sass him back if he’s being a butthead to me, I’d love it if we developed this teasing, playful friendship with each other. Like to think I’m pretty compassionate too. I like to take care of those I care about. DO things for them, not just tell them I care, ya know? If I found out he was sick I’d be bringing him soup and taking care of him. As much as he’d allow me to, anyway. I’m more than willing to give him a death glare and tell him to be quiet and just let me look after his stubborn ass.

But I am really bad about letting people get REALLY close, though. I get super super anxious and a little clingy when I let someone in close and be vulnerable with them. I worry about that anxiety driving him away. It would get better once I saw that he wasn’t out to hurt me. We know he’d prove himself to be a solid force in our lives; at least I’d like to think he would.

I worry my ADHD-ness would be obnoxious too. Mainly that once I’m comfortable with someone I can be super talkative, to the point of over sharing at times. Again, this calms down a bit the longer I get to know someone. But I can get so so so excited about stuff I’m passionate about and not be able to stfu about it.

I dunno. Just some things like that. I’m sorry, I didn’t mean to type this much. 😅

AW, i think you sound like a cute match!!!

I always say you shouldn't worry about being too clingy with a pro hero because they actually LIKE the extra attention. Bakugo works so hard (and is grumpy a lot), so I can see him finding your anxious-clinginess rather endearing because it means you still want him around🥺🥺🥺

He has just as much trouble letting people in, so knowing that you'll always be there to remind him of exactly where he's wanted... is more helpful than it is a hindrance!!! And you're sparing him from having to ask, too LOL

As for your ADHD, I doubt being chatty about things would bother him. When you love someone, you want to hear them talk... and regardless, I'm sure he has his own subjects that he goes wayyy overboard with (Deku + All Might), as well. I can argue about this, but he's also canonically (?) an extrovert LOL so if anything (w/ you both giving the other quiet time when you need it), he understands.

SO like I said... THERE'S NO NEED TO BE INSECURE!!! It's easy to be worried about this kind of stuff but Bakugo is one of the last people who'd care... he knows anxiety is anxiety just as much as you do... and besides, he is how you make him LOL!

But i hope this helps with your daydreams and whatnot <3333

[onsunnyside]

heeyyy sonny :)) i’m srry if this is silly, and feel free to ignore, but i need advice and sort of have no one else to ask but the owner of my fav blog on here. so my friends have been slowly excluding me from stuff or just making plans and somehow,more times than not , forgetting to tell me until the absolute last second. they’re not bad people so i don’t think they’re doing this on purpose, but it hurts me so much and i’m constantly down and crying because i love them a lot and they’re always my primary thought. clearly i am not theirs lol. it kinda started when this one guy joined our friend group and for some reason he doesn’t seem to like me at all (either picks at every word i say or just straight up ignores me completely etc) but my friends like him a looottt and when i express my uneasiness about him they seem to be on my side... until they go and talk and hang out with him again. i guess the easiest thing would be to drop or distance myself from them, but it’s not that easy for me rn so that’s out of the picture. we’re all supposed to hang out tomorrow and watch a movie but they sort of hung out without telling me two days in a row now (made up some stupid excuses when i brought it up) and that leaves me so discouraged :( i feel so unwanted, and disrespected ?? idk what to do anymore or if i should even go see them tomorrow lolz i’m srry this is SO long, but i need to hear a totally unbiased opinion from someone who’s not involved. in case you choose to respond, tysm you have no idea how much you’ll help 💓

Hi friend !! this isn’t silly at all, and thank you for being patient with this ask, omg and your fave 🥺 and I’m so sorry you’re going through this, friend, no one deserves to feel like they’re pushed to the side or forgotten. Oh no, I should have answered this before !! How did it go when you saw them, if you did?

Anyway, here’s my unbiased opinion, again this is just what I think: I think your friends are only telling you what you want to hear without taking it into consideration, they’re agreeing with you about your uneasiness but turning back around whenever that new guy comes by. and that isn’t what friends should do—but, again, there are so many factors that could be overlooked in this situation. (Or maybe they genuinely mean it and just forgot, I don’t know). Perhaps, in their mind, they’re doing you a favour by not inviting you, but they’re also hurting you by doing so. I think you should be completely honest with them about how they’re making you feel, tell them they’re hurting you, and maybe even talk to the guy about how he’s making you feel and don’t let them invalidate your feelings. If nothing changes after you communicated with them, please remember none of it is your fault. Sometimes we just don’t like people, with or without reason (in your case, with reason since the guy picks at your every word/ignores you).

I’ve said this before, it isn’t your job to make the people who hurt you feel better. Protect your peace, be compassionate and don’t invalidate anyone. We all go through things, and I went through something similar to this with my best friend, we ended up talking it out (crying a bit) and now we’re way better. But also, sometimes things just don’t work out too. I don’t want you to continue to feel disrespected and unwanted, because no one deserves that. I want you to be in a friendship with people who care about you as much as you care about them. I hope this helped at least a little bit, I love you friend and I’m hoping for healing and for the best !!

[shenanigans-and-imagines]

Are you still taking ships!!! If not just delete this dw!

(She/her bisexual) Can I pleaaaaase get a star wars ship (preferably tcw/tbb/the movies/mando bc I haven't seen rebels) so I'm actually a really spiritual person and my spirituality is really important to me. I love sharing my beliefs and asking people about theirs, like the nature of the universe and the purpose of life. I'm also a tarot reader and while I don't do astrology I WILL try to guess your big three and fail 😁

I like talking about political stuff and social issues, which can certainly be tricky with some people. My sense of humour is situational if that makes sense, sarcastic, and nonsensical. I'm able to identify at least 30 constellations just by eye, I fuckin love space 🥺 I will try and fail to flex my knowledge because my adhd brain doesn't let me make coherent sentences 😅. I have like serious attachment issues from trauma but we don't need to get into that hsjdjd. It just makes me clingy but also nervous about being clingy.

I try to be a very understanding and compassionate person, even when it comes to people hurting me, because everyone is on their own life journey learning lessons about how to be better people and grow 🙃. I really want to be the big sister I never had to as many people as I can and I think that sums it up.

You are truly doing the lords work by shipping us with people and you deserve a tax break 😂😂 thank you so much love!!!

Omfg I'm the spiritual tarot one I forgot to ship you!!!! I hope this is ok but I really ship you with Echo! I'm not familiar with how he is in tbb but he's always seemed like a more pensive, not soft but contemplative smell-the-roses kind of guy to me and I think that would go really well with your interest in art and history ❤

I ship you with Kit Fisto

Call it vibes, but I think the pair of you would get along nicely. You would often be seen together in heated conversation about the force and spirituality, not arguing, but just passionate. He's be fascinated by your perspective of the universe while providing his own unique insight. While he is the Jedi appearing to have the most fun at any given moment, he knows when to be calm and brings that presence to you. He can help you find focus which allows you to better articulate your thoughts an ideas. It's a win win for him. Also, you want to be a big sister? Here are twenty padawans you can look after!

Echo is a sassy, sassy boy who is just ready to mom Omega at any moment. So...yeah, I'll take him. :D

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[junghelioseok]

attraction tag 💜

🌻 tagged by my lovely friends @kpopfanfictrash, @hobidreams, @underthejoon, and @lcksndkys!!! thank you, loves 💕

🌻 rules: post 8-9 people you're very attracted to.

🌻 i sat down to do this and suddenly forgot every single piece of media i’ve ever consumed. who am i into? idk!!! it’s a mystery! here are some, though 🤣 

🌻 tagging: whoever wants to do this!

jung hoseok

who even am i if i don’t start with hobi? he is every inch the man of my dreams and the kind of person i aspire to be. i love that he’s a bit of a neat freak. i love that he serves as sort of a second leader to the group, even if it’s so often overlooked because of his energetic public persona. hoseok strikes me as someone who is endlessly kind and compassionate and empathetic, who strives to be his best self while also lifting up others. and this goes without saying, but he’s an incredible dancer. plus, his duality? squishy cheekies with a jaw that could cut glass? pretty, delicate wrists and fingers vs. his smoldering intensity onstage? insane. he’s insane. he’s beautiful and insane, and the way i adore this man, for real 🥺

jeon jungkook

this damn 23yo is out to ruin my life and It Is Working!!! jungkook was a bit of a slow burn for me, but one day i woke up and he’d grown into his nose and up in general and i was??? frankly? offended by how obscenely attractive he is. and now that he’s getting tattoos and piercings and experimenting with his hair? BYE. begone, demon!!! 

but seriously, it’s been a treat watching jungkook grow. i love that he’s so much more confident in himself now. i love his chaotic energy and his undying love for food. he truly has such an endearing personality, and so many cute little quirks. his little stutter and slight lisp? the way his upper lip disappears when he laughs really hard? his instinct to clap at everything? the way he zones out sometimes? and i haven’t even mentioned how infuriatingly good he is at almost everything he tries!

min yoongi

this man is a dreamboat. look at him!!! look at that smile!!! the fact that he could cook me dinner and build me a table to eat it off of??? very sexy of him!!! 

in all seriousness though, i love that we’re privy to yoongi’s soft, dorky side much more these days. i love that we get to see multiple sides of him, from agust d to squishy, gummy smile yoongi who can’t say no to the maknae line. he’s so quietly, steadfastly caring and kind. and his talent (rapping, songwriting, producing, etc.) speaks for itself. 

tom hiddleston

i, like most others, fell in love with tom’s loki, but stuck around for his superb acting in other ventures as well (speaking of which, i need to find a way to finish watching crimson peak). this man has the kind of voice that i could listen to all day. he could read me the dictionary. he could recite to me a list of world leaders in alphabetical order. he could find a phone book, present it to me as a bedtime story, and i’d listen raptly. that’s how mesmerizing he is. also? the shallow part of me just wants to say, he looks great in a suit, LOL.

benedict cumberbatch as sherlock holmes

oh, sherlock. i think i’ve seen most modern portrayals of this character by this point, and bananasplit cucumberpatch’s is undoubtedly my favorite (so long as i ignore the abysmal last season). i often think about how many lines he had to memorize for the role, and it never fails to wow me. the little tics and mannerisms he brought to the character! the dramatic coat! the hair! the scarf! it’s all excellent. 

sebastian stan as bucky barnes

captain america: the winter soldier is hands down my favorite marvel movie, and sebastian stan’s bucky is a big part of that. and yes, i know this gif is from the first avenger but look at that smile! look at the jaunty tilt of his hat! then they gave him a metal arm and a villainous edge paired with a tragic backstory, and i was sold, lmao. plus, i just finished the falcon captain america and the winter soldier, and the character development there was just *chef’s kiss*

michael b. jordan as erik killmonger

everything about this character and performance hit me hard. michael b. jordan has always been on my radar as “wow, he has a really nice face” but i honestly hadn’t seen him in anything memorable prior to black panther. but now that i have, i need more. i would love to see more of what killmonger’s life was like growing up, and how he became a navy seal and eventually a black ops mercenary. i should also watch more of michael b. jordan’s stuff in general. one of these days, i’ll get around to it!

james marsters as spike

teenage me would’ve loved spike, had i actually had the time/resources to watch buffy then. luckily, with the advent of streaming and buffy being on hulu, it turns out that adult me loves him too. 🤣 i so thoroughly enjoy his portrayal as spike, throughout both btvs and angel. the character growth and development was truly so fun to watch. and the accent! the snark! the poetry!!! the way he loves with such passion and loyalty, even as a soulless vampire! i’m basic and i love a good bad boy, what can i say? are we seeing a theme? 😅