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fandomsandfeminism · 1 year

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Yall wanna hear a kinda funny, kinda sad story about my grandmother and hetero-normativity?

Ok, so... when my grandmother was in her 50s (I was an infant), she met a woman at the Unitarian Church. And, as can happen when you meet your soul mate, this event made it impossible for her to deny parts of herself that she had fiercely hidden her whole life.

All the drama- their affair being found out, the divorce with my grandfather, the court battle over who got the house, happened while I was a baby. Even in my earliest memories, it's just Mama Jo and Oma, and my grandfather lived elsewhere (first his own apartment, then a nursing home, then with us.)

But here's the thing- no one ever explained any of this to me. No one ever sat down and was like "hey, Rosie, so do you know what a lesbian is?" It was the 90s. It was Texas. I think my mom was still kinda processing all this, and just assumed that like... I was gonna figure it out. Don't mention it, let it just be normal. Like I think my mom thought that if she explained the situation, she would be making it weird? I dunno.

But like. In the 90s, in all the movies I had seen and books I had read, do you know how many same sex couples I had seen? Like. 0. Do you know how many "platonic best friend/roommates" I had seen? A lot. I had no context, is what I'm saying.

I literally thought this was a Golden Girls, roommates, besties situation until I was like...I dunno, 11? 12?

It was actually their parrot, an African Grey named Spike, imitating my grandmothers voice saying "Johanna, honey, it's getting late", that triggered the MIND BLOWN moment as I realized that *there's only one master bedroom and it only has 1 waterbed* when all the pieces finally clicked.

Anyway. I think it's a real important thing for kids to know queer people exist, for a lot of reasons, but also because kids can be clueless and it's embarrassing to have your grandmother be outted by a parrot because everyone just thought you'd figure it out on your own.

Anyway, here is my grandma and her wife, my Oma, after they moved to Albuquerque to be artsy gay cowboys and live their best life. They helped run a "Lesbian Dude Ranch" out there (basically just with funding and financial support. As Oma has explained "traditionally, most lesbians don't have a lot of money" so they wrote the checks and let the younger ladies actually run the ranch.)

#this is the grandmother who passed away unexpectedly earlier this month #she was so cool yall #and so weird #they got married twice by the way once when Massachusetts legalized it and once when New Mexico did #they hiked the grand canyon together #they had a european river cruise planned for this fall #she was 89 and she wanted to see the whole world with her wife #and they were working on it #literally i thought they were roommates #and there was only one bed

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ryllen · 25 days

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#enough heartbreak guys time to be happy #tho now that i think of it... it's really sad if that post was trey visiting restaurant jade works at while they never exactly be together #or trey is married to someone else; and when he got dementia even tho he didn't remember the wife he married anymore he still remembers jad #and was taken there to visit his restaurant again; or jade was called to deliver food to the aged care trey was at #augh...... also if anyone wants more clarification jade eating his own poison is implying he ended his own life #lmao what am i saying on this happy post let's get to tagging #twst #twisted wonderland #treyjade #trey clover #jade leech #fanart

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eastgaysian · 7 months

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the specific frustration with dungeon meshi is that there's been a very distinct shift in fan content and a very clear reason for it. it was one of the rare cases of a decently popular work where the vast majority of fan content you saw was gen or f/f; m/m ships existed but they were not anywhere near as overwhelming as in other fan spaces, and people who heard about dunmeshi by word of mouth often came in knowing about farcille. the anime started airing after the manga was completed and is a pretty faithful adaptation, it's not as if it added any more fanservice/sexualization/shipping fodder. the only difference is that it made dunmeshi more mainstream/popular, and that's when the focus started shifting towards m/m ships and away from gen and f/f. for the people who enjoyed being in a fan space that unlike 99% of fandoms wasn't m/m focused, that fucking sucks, and there's nothing you can do about it because you are always flat out outnumbered

#chilchuck got his ARM BITTEN OFF for being faithful to his wife and you want to yaoify him.#like its literally just if you reach critical mass it becomes a game of finding two guys to smack together. sorry!#has nothing to do with the work itself the characters and their relationships the themes etc #babbling

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cozylittleartblog · 2 months

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Columbo and the Knight (1984)

put me in the universe where Columbo ran through the 1980s and had a crossover episode with Knight Rider. I think they deserved it, and I am not just saying that because they're my two favorite Old Shows. @telebeast wrote a little fanfic blurb about it and I HAD to visualize it into a comic (which is also the longest comic I have finished thus far at five pages...), so writing credit goes to them.

Autism W!

#columbo #knight rider #art #michael knight #kitt #comic #highlight reel #crossover #telebeast #there are two small easter eggs here. can you find them. they were somehow not Entirely lost when i resized these for the public #this is what i mean when i say I Draw And It's Everyone Else's Problem. look at my INCREDIBLY niche crossover comic boy #if the knight rider fandom has like 12 people in it. how many of y'all have seen columbo #this comic is for like 4 people and me and phoenix are already two of them #niche is my specialty lets be real. weird niche obscure shit and ships nobody's paid attention to yet #not to suggest this is ship art. columbo has his wife and michael has his car lmfao #stylizing real people is EXTREMELY hard btw sorry for when they get off model. its partly a 'better imperfect than never finished' situatio #cant tell you how much i redrew some of these panels. weeps #this took me 2 weeks but i think i thumbnailed it all in may and the ideas been rollin around in my head since march #is anybody good at editing. please edit michael and columbo into an image together like its a screenshot. NOT generated. edited.#it would be so cool #ive drawn columbo a lot but i haven't drawn a lot of michaels. i was learning things about his outfit AS I WAS DOING THE DAMN #COLORS ON THIS. all the lines done. it was too late to change anything. i did all the lines and colored page by page #i realized my mistakes on like page 3. 1 and 2 were already done. it was Too Late.#imagine it though. them working a case together. switching between the more serious tone of columbo vs the goofier #action antics of michael and kitt. columbo being so impressed by Modern Technology. there's more i could say but phoenix may write #more of this crossover and i don't want to spoil it :'3 #there's opportunity here though i swear. there's gold to be dug.#i like how kitt gets shading but columbo's junker peugeot doesn't. kitt looked wrong without any. columbo's car is matte and dirty #i also applied effects to this to make it look a little film-grainy and VHS like. some CRT TV vibes #the only question left is. did they put knight rider into columbo; or columbo into knight rider 🤔

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maxtermind · 2 months

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heyaaa :) could you maybe do a text post with the drivers where they ask abt last nights activities bc it felt off (reader didn’t actually finish and faked it)? just them being comforting but confusing and maybe even a little offended? love yaaa🖤

telling your f1 boyfriend that you faked an orgasm

( texts masterlist \ main masterlist \ drop a request ) ★: feat :: max verstappen, lewis hamilton, carlos sainz, charles leclerc, lando norris, oscar piastri, george russell ★ : genre :: crack ★ : a/n :: rmb gals life is too short to fake orgasms for a man's ego. haven't posted in a few so this has more texts <3 also so sorry for playing around with the request this just made more sense to me😭 ★ : requested :: yes

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ochiody · 2 months

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he is gone for her bro. hanging out with uranus

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#who needs drugs when you have a wife #i dont really like how this one turned out but i dont have more time to work on it lol #my artwork #the odyssey #the iliad #epic the musical #odysseus #penelope #odypen #greek mythology #tagamemnon #art #sketch #redraw

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ruushes · 3 months

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a quick Him bc my math was off trying to figure out the timeline between games and it made me irl a little emotional to think about him turning 50

#zevran arainai #dragon age #my art #something something reaching an age you never thought you'd to live to see something something it's real sweet to grow old #also hes got uh. hes got. crows feet #OH but you know who IS 50?? WIFE OF ALL TIME ISABELA DRAGONAGE but hers wasnt working out so im gonna start it over

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rs-hawk · 5 months

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Dragon pinning you down by the throat with their claws and using you as a flesh light. Chuckling at your mewling and whimpering. Telling you how sure they are that you can take more when you cry out it’s too much. Praising and degrading you for each orgasm that shakes your little human form. “That’s my perfect slutty toy. My gorgeous and pathetic human. You’re such a good hole for me.” Pulling out to cover your torso and lower body in cum as a sign of dominance because you do and always will belong to them.

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superbat-love · 11 months

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Batman sounding the most normal about falling to his death, like it’s an expected thing by now for Superman to catch him

#picking up your wife at work #one time he even reprimanded superman about being later than usual #superbat #dc #dc animation #official #superman x batman #batman x superman #superman/batman #batman/superman #superman #batman #clark kent #bruce wayne #justice league

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abbyshands · 2 months

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wife!abby anderson who has no issues carrying you to bed when you accidentally fall asleep on the couch, cradling you in her arms because you’re her pride, her joy, her baby. so, when she falls asleep on the couch, you try your best to lift her, scooping your arms under her body like she always does to you. but, to no avail, you can’t. abby wakes up then, rubbing her eyes, angelic blues peering sleepily into yours as she rasps out in that tired voice of hers, “baby? what are you doing?” you feel so bad for waking her, giving her a little frown as you pull back and stand up. “i’m sorry, i didn’t mean to wake you, i just, i wanted to bring you to bed. like you always do to me,” you mutter a bit embarrassedly. abby chuckles, sleep deprived brain making melodies of your words, because how could she be so enamored by a single human being? “oh, sweetie,” she laughs, taking your hand and kissing the back of it, her eyes reassuring. “i love you so much.”

#♥︎ ❛ THIS IS MY BABY! ❜ ♥︎#second installment of THIS IS MY BABY #my gf wife babygirl etc #abby anderson #abby anderson x reader #abby tlou #tlou abby #abby anderson imagine #abby anderson imagines #ᡣ𐭩ྀིྀི₊ ⊹ kit’s works

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eliotbaum · 11 months

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Fiona has a higher STR score than both Lydia and Kasper which also means — she can carry them

#illustration #art #artists on tumblr #curse of strahd #curse of strahd art #fiona wachter #lydia petrovna #kasper dunant #hope you enjoy my post-work doodles #cleric dump stat str who's with me #poor guy can barely lift his own wife…#konstantin petrovich

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gleafer · 4 months

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I love me some JimBeez shenanigans!

#illustrator #illustration #digital artist #artist on tumblr #good omens #good omens art #gleafer art #good omens gabriel #jimbriel #jimbeez #good omens beelzebub #work event #manDUHtory #he’s the work wife

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elementroar · 6 months

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Paracelsus gets visibly angry if A.B.A gets a full hit instead of him. Even if it hurts to be used as her shield, obviously prefers it over his wife getting hurt instead 😤