#IRL identity

[chaoscoining]

Icosahuman / Multialtertype

A term for an alterhuman who identifies with their alterhuman identity in many or all of the possible ways.

Examples of identities which may be icosahuman:

Lacking personal distinction between types of alterhumanity.

Having multiple interpretations of one's alterhumanity.

Being both kin and copinglink due to clinging to one's kin as a coping mechanism.

Being a fictive or extranthrope who also identifies with other alterhuman terminology.

An alterhuman with fluidity in their type of identity, such as sometimes being kin and sometimes being hearted.

And more!

It is intended for those who are multiple kinds of alterhuman regarding a single identity (ex. being foxkin and a fox copinglink), rather than those who have multiple alterhuman identities of different types. Someone with multiple alterhuman identities who has singular identities of multiple types is also included.

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Please don't do alterhuman discourse on this post. People have varied experiences regarding their identity and restricting people to one category for the sake of protecting the label does no one favors.

[PT above: Please don't do alterhuman discourse on this post. /End]

[comicbookluv3r]

Nubil

A term for when the line between fictionkin and IRL is blurred due to the nature of one’s delusions. This can be affected by or heightened by other neurodivergency but that is not always the case. The name is from the Latin word for cloudy, nubilus. The verb form would be nubi, for example, I nubi __. I coined this term.

[hypnosiacon-archived]

IRL Identity Flags, Basic and personal Alterhuman Flag + Symbols

✖ Tagging @gender-mailman

[transfem-clownpierce]

i have. quastions. bcuz this stuff is surprisingly difficult to find info on

are there any da/irl community tags?

why is irl the more popular term? why is da considered controversial or whatever?

IS irl inclusive of non-delusional identities like ive seen some people say? or is it delusion based?

[gender-mailman]

Y/n IRL flag!

A IRL flag for when you are a y/n in real life

Requested by no one. Tagging @hypnosiacon

[damianwaynerocks]

batfamily as things my friend group has said/done:

bruce, 21 years old: “someone needs to talk me out of adopting a 17 year old bc i’m about to write a letter to the court” “bruce have you taken your meds today” “that’s unrelated.”

alfred: “i’d be worried if stephanie started dating someone who did meth because then she’d start doing meth”

dick: had to be hospitalized for eating nothing but microwave mac and cheese for two weeks straight

jason: “sorry i didn’t answer your call, i walked in on someone getting murdered last night and i felt pressured to intervene. i’m fine though. like concerningly fine. do we think this traces back to my father.”

tim: “sorry to call you at 2am but can i talk to you about nuclear terrorism? i think i just discovered russia’s secret weapon” (she did in fact discover it when we saw it hit the news six months later. she will not reveal how she discovered it)

duke: “i also know when jason is off his meds because he starts asking people to buy him hammers”

stephanie: accidentally heart reacted to someone texting her that they got roofied

cass: responded to someone confiding in her that they think they’re an alcoholic with the 😟 emoji

damian: accidentally told papa kent that he’s his favorite grandfather figure because “the spot opened up.” (the original one died)

[aro-and-ace-memes-thoughts]

It's kinda sad people accept more when I say "I'm not interested in dating" than "I'm aroace" (or similar). They assume the first one is temporary, they can't accept I'm not like them and not liking someone ever doesn't mean something's wrong with me

[vivulapom]

scrolling thru the whump tag is like

male whump (every character in the story/snippet/etc is male)

male whump

prompt with placeholder names that uses masculine pronouns

male whump

male whumpee and whumper with female caretaker

male whump

gender neutral prompt

male whump

gender neutral prompt

male whumpee by himself

art of male whump

male whumpe

this isn't directed at anyone specifically but how about some FEMALE CHARACTERS perhaps. how about some WOMEN? and not just delegated to the role of "caretaker/the Responsible One"?? so often it feels like especially in fandom all the characters are not just male, but also gay, so the author doesn't have to subject themselves to the untold horror of Writing A Woman

[sixth-light]

I do wanna say without derailing the other post that there are, absolutely, books and TV series and movies out there, including adaptations of things I love, that I hate. No nuance, no complex relationship, no I-hate-this-but-I-love-that, I just think they're terrible, sometimes for reasons of genuine objective badness and sometimes for reasons of my personal taste and often for a mix of both. And I certainly have complained, and will in future complain, about these things both to my friends and in public.

What I don't do is make hating those things a long-term lynchpin of my fannish experience, because...I hate them, so I do not wish to spend time thinking about them. Yeah, it's satisfying to know other people feel the same way I do, but once we've established that then what else is there to talk about? There's joy in a good Fisking, to be sure, but that requires extended and thoughtful engagement with the thing (that I hate) and even, I would argue, a measure of affection for what it could be in other circumstances.

Cultivate profound indifference to the stuff you hate. Cultivate happiness within yourself for the people who don't hate it, having fun over there. Cultivate the ability to exorcise your demons in the group chat and then let it go. I promise, with all my heart, it makes fannish life a hell of a lot nicer.

[habken]

How do you feel about bkdk accidentally edating au?

been thinking about bkdk unknowingly dating online for years I love the concept so much :’)

In general that whole “cornered by the middle school bully so you send one last text to your minecraft gf and his phone vibrates” as bkdk is so funny to me

[comicbookluv3r]

Mimikyunubil

A nubil term for when you nubi Mimikyu. For those who dont know, nubil is a term i created for when the line between fictionkin and IRL is blurred.

[veryaren]

toxic YAOI lives. a sketch

[clownsuu]

Small detour of what I usually post, but I absolutely wish (other) clown the best of luck during these confusing and almost hopeless times- nobody knows how to deal with such amount of attention in such short amount of time- a blessing and a curse to behold

[gender-mailman]

Darling IRL flag!

A IRL flag for when you are a darling in real life

Requested by no one. Tagging @hypnosiacon

[clover-mouse]

when you stumble into being a furry they do not tell you how seriously you might end up taking your animal choice for your fursona. i am definitely definitely taking it too seriously but the facets of my identity i want to explore and acknowledge add up to too many different animals to choose just one. the other day i made a chart about it. the chart .. was not enlightening

[jesncin]

I'm upset with this knowledge I have

the perfect Golden Boy/Mage casting already exists unfortunately,,,,, I've been the only one who knows and I can't keep it to myself anymore