#Polygender

[genderqueerdykes]

now more than ever it's blatantly obvious that people go out of their way to erase trans men from communities and queer history. it's always been happening, but it's way easier to watch it in real time now thanks to the internet and social media. we are watching people basically gloating that they misgender trans men and don't see them as men. we are now watching people kick trans men out of queer spaces because they are often "femme and them" or "nonbinary and woman" support groups, conflating nonbinary identities with womanhood, and denying trans men or transmasc nonbinary people places to go. many of them get told that their presence would "scare" the lesbians, women and enbies because they have trauma.

where do the trans men with trauma go, though? we can't go anywhere. when i was struggling with domestic violence that ended up destroying my right leg, i was denied shelter in queer spaces and even women's spaces even though i have F on license. domestic violence shelters especially will turn trans men away if we pass. even if we partially identify as women, we can't go in because 'our voices are deep and scary and we're loud and aggressive and threatening and might prey on the defenseless scared women'

finding transmasc support groups is like trying to find a needle in a haystack. i've seen numerous organizations across the US have transfemme support groups, nonbinary/genderqueer support groups, and then nothing for transmascs. where the hell do we go when they won't let us go anywhere?

we try to exist online and they try to erase us from here, too. bickering and arguing about how we're not real men, sending trans men death and sexual assault threats, acting like they're saviors for kicking out the "dangerous ugly men" from the queer community, as if we don't belong to it at all.

i refuse to be erased. i refuse to sit in silence while people tell me my problems don't matter because now i "have male privilege". I don't. once people find out what my legal name is they view me as a woman. strangers however view me as a cis man and will deny me help, either through programs, or because i'm a "strong young man, i should be able to pick myself up by my boot straps." i'm not white. i'm not abled.

i'm proud to be a trans man and i will be here to fight for other trans men's rights to have a platform to speak, and spaces to occupy. i will not rest until trans men & mascs have safe places to be and meet other trans men.

trans men are queer. we belong here. we are taking up the space we rightfully deserve and we are not leaving.

[transmultiphobia]

“We need more weird queer people” Y’all can’t handle 90% of the ways multigenders label their sexualities

[lolliepops-rox]

This is my petition for people who create pins/stickers/other things with "she/they" & "he/they" to also include "she/he". I'm kind of sick of being excluded, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who feel the same.

[that-bisexual]

People that gender me right:

-5 year olds

-Old ladies that can't see shit

[eggdoesthings]

Begging people to get normal about the way multigender people label their attraction

[multigenderswag]

Remember the survey I did in June? Well, I'm doing another one! This survey is to collect information about people who feel that the multigender label describes them. If you don't feel that way, this survey is not for you, but it would be appreciated if you reblog this or share it with multigender people you know. If you are questioning whether you identify as multigender, you may take the survey, but please specify in the first question that you are questioning. 

You can take the survey here :)

[shrimplore]

Testing Something

Apparently there is huge correlation between being asexual and agender (up to 50% of asexuals are agender) and considering only about 0.7-1% of the pop is ace and 0.1-0.5% is agender thats a huge amount! Im curious if this checks out on Tumblr

[lemongrass77777]

why are you multigender? wrong answers only

[corvidcaeneus]

i don’t know who needs to hear this today but moving away from a binary trans label and becoming more comfortable with things typically associated with your gender assigned at birth is not detransitioning. you were not wrong. you were not lying. you are not less trans. you are valid, and you are loved.

[transonlyspace]

mfs claim they support multigender people and then they go on to disregard and mock every label multigender people use

[genderqueerdykes]

[transmultiphobia]

Everyone needs to get real normal about how male/female multigender people label their attraction Right Now. I am no longer asking.

[that-bisexual]

I wanna be a masculine girl and a feminine boy...if that makes any sense whatsoever.

[scoutpologist]

this is my favorite "am i nonbinary" quiz of all time, if you're ever questioning then this is a good one to try

[acewithobsessions]

All these people saying "oh it's so hard to figure out what gender you are" like no. It's easy. Just check what's in your pants. I'm 80% cotton, 18% polyester and 2% spandex. Trigender mode activated.