#TW RANT

[niran-kisser]

tw rant

whats up with the weird misogyny in some fics?? like i get that ur all “so thirsty” but some of what ive seen is just so weird

why are you showcasing this kind of objectifying desire? and treat it as if its a good thing?

mischaracterizing characters who respect women and people in general just to make them scummy men who see the reader (mostly afab/fem aligned y/n’s) as some kind of fleshlight who doubles as a punching bag

if ur that masochistic… okay then

[lifexxxdeath]

oh no! my symptoms aren't fitting your romanticized narrative again!

[mtdreamcatcher]

I need to rant for a moment:

AROACE IS A SPECTRUM, NOT A BINARY

As someone who is on the AroAce spectrum myself, it’s beyond frustrating that people claim to advocate for AroAce rights and representation don’t understand this.

The Aromatic spectrum can mean someone isn’t interested in romance at all to someone(like me) who only wants a romantic relationship after developing a deep connection.

The Asexual spectrum can mean someone is repulsed by sex and sexual things, to someone who is okay with having sex and doing sexual things while having no sexual desires themselves.

I understand that some people are just misinformed but I’ve seen some genuine animosity floating around in the Hazbin Hotel fandom specifically.

Alastor is canonically AroAce, but we don’t know what points are of the spectrums he’s on. On top of that Vivzipop herself has stated she’s okay with people shipping Alastor with other characters

In addition to that, QPR(queer platonic relationships) exist.

[a-j-s-the-only]

Would you rather be alone in the woods with a man or a bear?

“a bear would stop at death”

“we aren’t choosing the bear because we’d think we’d survive.”

“I’d rather feed a bear and it’s cubs than feed a man’s sick fantasies”

“people would believe me when I told them I was attacked by a bear”

“people would stop the bear”

“if I survived a bear attack, people would call me a warrior, not a whore.”

“a bear wouldn’t come into my room again.”

“A bear would do it out of survival, not enjoyment.”

“I wouldn’t have to see the bear at family reunions”

“a bear wouldn’t rape you.”

“if it was a bear, who’s going to ask me what I was wearing?”

“bears live in the woods, not in your house.”

“I wouldn’t be told to forgive the bear.”

“a bear can kill her or leave her alone, and a man has that and a million other opportunities.”

-a collection of women, and men

[xo-vinnie]

okay but where did the “sally is tall, mysterious, hot, and he fucks everyone” thing come from cause SOME PEOPLE (mostly ao3 writers) think hes some kind of playboy bastard who smokes and leaves after sex

THAT BOY WOULD BLUSH IF YOUR HANDS TOUCH FOR 000.001 SECONDS WHILE BEING FLUSTERED AS FUCK

i hate it when a character is reduced to some shallow sex god flirt. dont paint my babe like that 😭

[eloquentsisyphianturmoil]

It’s just that Fingon’s like that stereotypical son who calls his mum and walks old ladies across the street, mows the lawn for his neighbours, brings home nice, pretty girls who want to be kindergarten teachers or something and is really passionate about some niche compassionate topic like children in poverty’s access to multiple sclerosis treatment and who everyone says is ‘such a nice boy’ but then he goes and dates the eldest kid of Mr. Stay Away From My Boys, Son, a flaming ginger who most people haven’t heard speak. And this is hilarious.

[ijusthavesomanyblorbos]

Nobody even talk to me right now.

HOW DO WE GO FROM THIS-

TO THIS???????????

WHY?????? WHO??????? HOW??????? His LIPS?? His stupid glasses??? WHY IS HE BROWN!!!

I can't even. The Bumblebee movie NAILED their designs. It was perfect blend of G1 designs and realism. It was so fun to watch. ALL I WANTED WAS TO SEE MORE OF IT. BUT NO. NO!! ALL WE GET ARE 2 FREAKING MINUTES OF ACTION AND THEN THIS MONSTROSITY. WHO EVEN SIGNED OFF ON THIS. IT LOOKS MORE UGLY EVERY TIME I SEE IT. THEY DIDNT EVEN INCLUDE HIS HEADFINS!!!! WHEELJACKS DESIGN IS SO MUCH FUN AND THEY LITERALLY JUST THREW IT OUT THE WINDOW AND FOR WHAY????????? I hate him.

To everyone who likes this design. I am sorry. I respect your decision. I am happy that at least someone can find joy in... this. But dear god. I hate him so much.

[xvelvetcoffinx]

You see, if everyone around you tells you you're the problem. You eventually internalize it. I wish I never existed, maybe then people around me wouldn't be so miserable. They'd be happy. And that's all I want.

[anon-unofficial]

ok so before I go to sleep tonight I'm just gonna say:

AROMANTIC. IS A REAL. THING. OKAY????

I am SICK and TIRED OF AROMANTICISM BEING IGNORED. today I saw a thread here on tumblr about openly-queer youtubers to check out and I was like oh! okay! I'll just read through the list! :D

and then I saw JaidenAnimations

yk what I saw?

"openly ace"

no.

she is openly AROace

I can't believe I even have to search this up but HERE. YOU. GO.

SEE THAT??? THERE?????

AROMANTIC

AND

AND

A N D

ASEXUAL

OKAY????

PLEASE DON'T IGNORE THAT. OKAY?????

I am NOT going to @ the person in the thread who said that because for all I know they could've just been misinformed/uninformed OR it could've just been a mistake, but GOD it pisses me off so badly to have aromanticism not be considered as something important enough to be mentioned, as if it's a synonym to asexuality, which it is NOT.

being aromantic is valid and is as EQUALLY IMPORTANT and AMAZING and BEAUTIFUL as BEING ASEXUAL. OKAY??????

OKAY?

OKAY?

OKAY.

thank you.

goodnight.

[sh00kspeared]

Can we talk about Johnny's bi erasure in-game? Because really, it makes me kinda mad.

Now, I'm not the kind of person who shouts 'homophobia' at everything because it's just not my way of things... but the amount that Johnny's attraction to men has been completely shafted throughout the game is really a disservice to him and to all the people who ship their male characters with him. A few examples:

Cutting or making really hard to trigger the line where Johnny says he got a lap dance from a man at a gay strip club (I've seen some people claim they experienced it, which is why I think it may still be in the game)

Johnny saying he didn't sleep with Kerry because he had a dick despite the official, director-sanctioned game guide saying that he did.

Johnny telling female V that the two are arguing "like an old married couple", yet telling male V that they're arguing "like two geezers on a park bench." (Johnny's definitely not the kind of guy to change his language depending on the gender of person he's with).

Never, ever alluding to any of his flings with male characters outside of the strip club line despite him saying that he did swing both ways now and then.

Now, why do I care so much about this? Because it's really sparked more debate than necessary. This post got hate for making him "gay" Cyberpunk 2077 on X: "Johnny Silverhand 🎤 Art by: @painperdues https://t.co/ABiBzSCZvm" / X (twitter.com) and so did this one Cyberpunk 2077 on X: "V and Johnny, Johnny and V… By: @hanbyeo0526 https://t.co/JlGNBmRYJH" / X (twitter.com) (I believe some of the comments have been deleted since because I don't see a lot of the meanest ones there anymore). Mind you, after the latter was posted, a fem V x Johnny post was made not too long afterward and it got markedly fewer hate comments. Also, funny story, my old male V x Johnny post is the third most controversial post of all time on r/lowsodiumcyberpunk at the moment (please go downvote it if possible; I wanna be first again lmao /hj).

But, all this to say, much of the playerbase sees Johnny as an alpha straight manly man when he's... well... not. While many people including me assume that the choice to keep his bisexuality under wraps is due to his addled memory in Mikoshi misremembering the fact that he canonically slept with Kerry, I just think this is a really odd thing to use to demonstrate that. Of all the things the devs could've chosen to display this, they chose one of the things that is most likely to get male V x Johnny shippers belittled and seen as the 'lesser' version of the ship for just existing.

They chose to erase a massive part of Johnny's identity, either to prove the point of his memories being addled or because they were scared of backlash. I just don't see how it would've been so hard for him to allude to some of his male flings more often, make the dicky twister line easier to trigger, and just not have him say that he didn't sleep with kerry because he had a dick. Ffs CDPR, stop being so dodgy your bi characters' identities.

[borderline-culture-is]

BPD culture is wishing that people would realize just how exhausting and torturous being obsessed with someone is. First of all, it's not like we fucking CHOOSE to obsess over something, and second of all, once you're deep in the obsession, it literally starts to control your whole life. At one point, the way I spoke, the way I dressed, my opinions, my interests, literally everything I did and thought was catered to appeal to my FP because I was just so so desperate to be something they found interesting or fun because I was literally kept up at night by the idea of me not being "enough" or "perfect" for them and they would realize and want nothing to do with me. It really sucks to see people talk so badly about people with BPD because obviously, if you are obsessive that automatically makes you evil and abusive, right? It hurts so bad to be demonized for something that you can hardly control, all the while it's just destroying you.

Sorry for the rant, it's just been on my mind

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[andvys]

how are the girls doing that have never been in relationships, but are too afraid to even get into any because they have a deep fear of getting hurt and cheated on but also struggle to even fall in love because they only want the real love. the kind you read about in books or fics, the kind that you feel for your fictional lovers?

[sdvshanewife]

"haley actually changed unlike..." SHUT THE FUCK UP

SHANE HAS AN ACTUAL REASON BEHIND HIM BEING AN ASSHOLE UNLIKE MS I WAS A MEAN GIRL IN HIGHSCHOOL

HES LITERALLY DEPRESSED, SUICIDAL AN ALCOHOLIC AND WORKS A DEAD END JOB!!!! YEAH ID BE AN ASS TOO!!! THE REASON HE DOESNT STOP DRINKING AFTER MARRIAGE IS BECAUSE NUMBER 1

ADDICTION IS HARD TO BEAT

AND NUMBER 2

IT CAN FUCKING KILL HIM!!!!!!!1!1!1!1!1

HE GOES FROM BEING A RAGING AND RUDE ALCOHOLIC TO BEING NICER AND DRINKING LESS UNLIKE MS HALEY WHO WENT FROM HIGHSCHOOL BULLY TO A NORMAL FUCKING PERSON WITH DECENCY

I HATE EVERYONE WHO IGNORES SHANES VERY OBVIOUS CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT BECAUSE HE STILL DRINKS??? ARE YOU FR JUST GONNA IGNORE ALL THE PROGRESS HE MADE??? BECAUSE HE CANT FULL ON BREAK HIS ALCOHOL ADDICTION THAT HAS BEEN THERE FOR (PROBABLY) YEARS?? yeah okay YOU FUCKING IDIOT

[zoinks-world]

hello hi! i need to complain and my fiance has a cold rn and i don’t want to bother him. i have a theory that a pharmacist at walgreens messed up my prescription and now i have two different ones for the same drug in the system and one is for 30 tablets (right one) and the other is for 15 and now whenever i go they surprise me with whatever amount they plan on giving me and usually as long as i show in the app that im supposed to get 30 it’s all good, but last time the pharmacist said and i quote “your insurance doesn’t cover 30” and i will take accountability and say i reacted poorly after 5 minutes of back and forth i asked if she wanted me to kill myself cuz if i go through withdrawal i just might and the blood will be one her hands. then she told me i can either pay full price for my OFF BRAND ZOLOFT, take half my prescription or leave. so i took half and these withdrawals are hilarious and im going to walgreens soon to work all this out and i pray that the same pharmacist is there because i will trauma dump on that woman until she cries. I now request that whoever sees this voted on which trauma i should dump

[numba1meikinnie]

istg everytime I draw these ninja the design gets more and more rushed but my friends have been asking me to draw Cole for a while now so I kinda felt like I had to do it but I kinda wanna stop drawing them cause drawing these doodles is really demotivating (rant down below vv)

like whenever I draw a doodle it feels like a waste of time/talent since I mostly wanna draw more rendered or complete drawings especially since I'm coloring them which I mostly never do idk tho I feel like I should just take a break but I'll feel guilty if I do that too so it's kind of like a problem turned into an endless cycle of sadness/anxiety anyway thanks for reading if you did I appreciate everyone who takes the time to look at my work and my rants/thoughts

[icekingofhope]

if there is two things I’m pissed about the movie wish it’s this

One

we could have a romance story between a star boy (lumas first concept) and asha and OUR FIRST VILLAIN COUPLE cause both the king AND queen were meant to be villains (also impiled to be a mortal x god relationship for asha and star boy)

Two

And just know I’m not shitting you THIS WAS A IDEA THEY SCRAPPED…..THE MOVIES ANIMATION WAS SUPPOSED TO BR 2D! WE COULD HAVE 2D ANIMATED FLIMS AGAIN

Disney just dropped the ball whoever said no to those concepts were idiots!

and I’m upset cause I WANT THAT MOVIE I WANT TO SEE THE STAR BOY AND ASHA BEING TOGETHER AND HAVING A COUPLE SONG