#acespec whump

[whump-queen]

The aspec whump thing is so real cause when ppl are like “are you into bdsm?” I’m like yes but if there was no sex. At all. And I feel like every here understands!

YES—like, that’s really it.

i just wanna beat the shit out of a pretty boy and then make him clean my fucking house.

[drawing-dinos82]

I was wondering what people in the whump communities sexualities were since a large percentage seems to be neurodivergent and/or female.

Edit: Since some people are pointing out that aromatic is here, I wanted to specify what this poll is asking. It is asking what your romantic AND sexual orientation is, hence why there’s a button for multiple. No hate to any of the people who mentioned it and I can see where they’re coming from.

Reblog for a bigger sample size please.

[whumpingandsmilinglikeanidiot]

Are there a lot of aces in the whump community or is it just me noticing them because I'm ace

[anjumstar]

anjum’s bkdk recs 19

Ten more (complete) sfw bkdk fic recs. If you read any of these and enjoy them, lmk! And, more importantly, let the authors know with a comment! Plus, send me your recs, and maybe they’ll make the next list!

Legend

hyperlinked title by author | word count

Genre warning(s): where relevant Summary/review

💚🧡 = fave

Recs are under the cut, organized by word count, low to high.

51. Sheets by baku_bean | 2.1k

general A cute little pre-relationship fic with our boys. It’s short, sweet, and simple, but it suits them well.

52. X Marks the Spot by sobashouto (snowandfire) | 3.3k

fluff This feels like the fic that takes place just after the happy ending. And things are still happy! Bkdk have just started dating and Deku gives Baku the gift of some homemade Dynamight merch. The boys are silly and bad at this and them.

53. be loved by bonnia | 5.4k

fluff, hurt/comfort Baku has ptsd after Dabi kidnapped him in the forest training, and Deku helps him work through those struggles with physical touch. Not very angsty, yes very cute.

54. song on a policeman’s radio by ohwickedsoul | 6.6k

angst, drama warning: MCD This was an interesting mixed media fic! It’s an amalgam of article intros, tweets, and court reports. It’s a toughie, don’t miss that MCD tag (like I did, lol), but its unique style captures lots of relationships in a succinct way, and it feels very professional in terms of the court-speak, although, I’m certainly no expert!

55. What Was Missing by Randstad | 8.2k

general, fluff Bakugou gets hit with an honesty quirk, but he has some things he’s not quite ready to be honest about. Yet, being honest feels a bit better than he thought? Lovely prose and a good balance of Baku’s character. Definitely focused on him, but good moments from Deku too.

56. Not All Heroes Wear Capes by vulcanhighblood | 11k

pining, fluff Fake dating…kind of? Deku is suddenly a great subject of interest to the paparazzi and Baku intervenes in many ways and they start spending more time together. Baku is appropriately immature and selfish and selfless and Deku pushes back on and off against Baku’s behavior. It’s fluff that doesn’t just rot your teeth—there’s proper balance.

57. close but not quite by blossomshed | 13.9k

action/adventure, romance Okay, this one had extra special bonus good characterization. It had details from Katsuki that absolutely have canon basis, but that I so rarely see drawn on in fic, and I was floored. This is a classic “Deku gives Baku OFA via kissing” fic, featuring acespec!Katsuki trying to figure out what the heck kissing is about. So much explored in so little. Fantastic.

58. invincible by supercrunch | 20k

action/adventure warning: non-graphic human trafficking An interesting canon-divergence, here! The sludge villain never goes after Katsuki, so Izuku never goes to UA. And he falls into a pit of depression. With only a bit of parental nudging, Katsuki goes to help, and his idea? To start being vigilante partners together. I found it to be a compelling alternate view for them!

59. we will wait and wait in that space by roadtripwithlucifer | 22k 💚🧡

angst warning: MCD, manga spoilers ch367 Okay, only read this one if you’re ready for the real real hurt. Because know that it has an uplifting ending, it is not needless pain, but I, the robot of the bkdk fandom, cried real tears with this one. It twists the most beautiful knife and has some of the best Deku characterization to date. And such gorgeous love. It is worth the pain, but do not read in public!

60. Sink to Swim by cinnabee | 35.7k

angst warning: big torture, constant suffering for our boys. Remember what I said about the real real hurt? Yeah, that one was the big cry one, this one is the big tension, big whump one. As the warning says, this fic has very explicit, repeated torture in it, the game is basically that the boys have been teleported from UA into a torture maze that they’re trying to find their way out of. I, personally, loved the tension and the pacing, but it’s def not for everyone!

✨ Bonus! ✨

perfect by eggstasy | 2.7k

fluff No bkdk in this one, just Bakugou x 3. It’s Bakugou and his parents from when he’s born to when he develops his quirk and them just loving on him as a little baby, despite him still having some of those, hrm, lesser traits that he has as a teenager. So cute.

more recs can be found here 💚🧡

[kuralkara]

Whumperless Whump Event- Day 7

Accidental Cryotherapy

Falling Through a Frozen Lake/Hypothermia/ "Hey, C'mon, You Gotta Stay Awake"

I don't know how Obvious this is, but I Do fullfil the acespec stereotype of Monsterfucker(theoretical) so this involves yet another oc

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And now you were being held against their chest, arms and wings and tail curled completely around you, a hand roughly rubbing your back. You couldn't feel the heat of the fire, or the warmth of their embrace. It just... was? You knew someone was touching you. You could feel the breaths in your hair as they started flatly out in the distance, muttering to themselves.

It didn't hurt. There wasn't much of a sensation that came with the plunge. More a shock of a sudden total loss, forcing all the air out of your lungs. You had stared up at the ebbing cracks in the ice, dark and unsteady for way too long- they needed to plunge into the ice to get you out.

No questions. No demands as to what happened. Just action. Just reassurance. Mostly for themselves, but hey, it was words of encouragement, and that was an improvement. You leaned your face into Eos a touch more. "Hey, hey," they said quickly, sounding vaguely alarmed, "c'mon, c'mon, you gotta stay awake."

"Not sleeping," you managed to slur. Pings of needles were starting to dance their way down your back. "Just resting."

A disbelieving hum was your only response. They were a phoenix. Bound in the intangible, actively electing to make themselves tangible. Extremes in heat and cold were their domain. They knew fully good and well how easy it was to kill a mortal with either of those extremes, and knew how to prevent such deaths.

A mistake in their youth caused the first of those lessons. They were honest about that part. And it felt like the starting domino that lead to everything about them now: from the voluntary exile to the haphephobia (a part of you, still choking on brine water, was giddy at how much of them was coiled and curled around you) to the self reference as a force of destruction only. In a short lived species, that kind of series of events was disastrous. Violent, even. But with their lifespan, it was different.

"Open your eyes," they firmly snapped, and you jolted. The tingles were worse, and spreading across your shoulder and up your face. "See, there you are."

It took a moment of blinking to realize that one of those heated talons had found its way under the coat that replaced your soaked pull over, and was rubbing a pattern on your back. "I didn't mean to," you mumbled, slowly pushing away. Sensations were back, and you could feel the cold teeth in your muscles and nerves. It'd infected your bones, leaching through your organs.

"I know. Tis fine, all fine. Your kin reacts weird to magicks, as well, so all it be." Their wings slowly dropped off your body, and you realized the shrimp-spine position they were curled in. You paused at the sight of it, and those wings promptly wrapped back around you, snagging you back down to their chest. Feathers rubbed against your cheeks as you wiggled. "Let the aches melt before going too far too soon."

@whumperless-whump-event

[scr-ppup]

@ Scr-ppup — ⚰️🍖 ; Primuscapere -> Scr-ppup

„Perkeleen Hävytön piski”

: Liomogai; neogenders, identity, alterhuman terms, NPTs

: please check BYF from underneath before following! *However* my terms/flags don't have a DNI!

Request status; open for flag & term reqs only (req count; 3 | inbox; 2)

queue: 50 - 3/per day | drafts: 400+

- Credits! moon & star divider used in posts by @/cafekitsune(link) and PFP art of my oc by pinewoif on insta!

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— BYF.

I belong into quite a few blankqueer/-punk stances in some way, but please note that not one of these will override my personal stances & opinions; reclaimed feralqueer, hallowpunk, redemptionqueer, darlingqueer, yandequeer, (ally) rabiespride, eepyqueer, para-health, Beastpunk, mangledqueer & freakqueer.

I'm fine being tagged into posts! Promos, general tags, etc. Also please, tag me into flags done for my flagless terms! I'd love to see and share them. :3

I am pro para, anti contact, and pro recovery. I'm pro neopronouns, neo/xenogenders, & liomogai, + contradictory terms and good faith identities. I have no personal opinion on kink! however i am anti towards label lumping (aros to acespecs, ""bi-spec"" etc), (SW/T).ERFs, and R.adfem.

I am anti wrongfully used transids/x, rad.queer, and xeno.satanists. I'm anti mental disorder (including PDs) glorification/romanticization and demonization such as narc abuse believers. (glorification/romanticization in the sense that it is done by folks who do *not* have the disability/disorder!! /info).

I am anti-cop, -blue lives matter & -colonization. I am a punk, I am anti fascist, Zionists, and white supremacists — my political views are anarcho leftist aligned however I am not that political on my blogs due to these being hobby things. I believe in the land back, Black lives matter, & 4B movements, I am a feminist. plainly anti ableists, racism and the general.

I don't play with either sys- or shipcourse fire, I don't care about it! I am strictly anti harassment and I view both radical antis and pros (specifically talking about shipcourse!!) to be harmful. disclaimer, i am also a singlet thus i don't personally think syscourse about endos should be concerning me much. (i don't mind antis & pros interacting though, i interact with pro- & anti-endos alike myself)

I will block you myself, if i find you to be part of anything here and following me. Thank you :)

— about Hurtta . ★ (star symbol)

Koiri; Kalma; Sorin; Ash(lin) – He/hyr & it/its aux, pup/maw/she, sie/sien & se/sen pronouns.

Gender; multigender, genderqueer & boygirl, tnmboy, GNC nymgirl, nymangi, NINgender & MINgirl + hoard.

I'm Jaspian, omni sapphillean, lesbiconnec, dalian, and arospecfluxace

Additional; alterhuman & transspecies, neurodivergent + disabled, chronosian.

A silly undead Calamoer.

I'm 06/17, white, singlet & Finnish, my timezone is EET.

i have another coining blog called @cwrpsemutt that I coin solely about my interests while this blog is for anything really lol.

Questions are more than welcome as long as they are given with good intent!

Please use tone tags with me if you're going to question me on something you don't understand properly are confused about (example; whump) so I don't misinterpret it as hateful / angry toned because it's **not going to see the light of the day otherwise** as I will possibly see it as an accusation of some kind or an opening for discourse to be introduced to my blog that will not be tolerated. Questions about whump & xenogender vs. Neogender have been answered plenty of times on my blog, please take a look at my blog for those asks :3

Other -> tagging system(link)

[immaculatesnz]

Official intro post!

I don't really know what to put here-

Hello snzblr! You can call me Alexis/Lexi (she/they) and I'm a former account-less lurker who just realized "oh wait I can make a blog for this now lol"

I can't draw and I can't write, but I have ideas so uhh

yeah

Despite the name and pfp, I plan to post non-fandom content too so dw if you're not into genshin

obvious 18+/don't rb to vanilla blog rules apply

(more under cut)

As for non-fandom related interests/prefs (subject to change and will be updated):

Like most of us, I like the vulnerability/caretaking aspect (the hurt/comfort to whump to semi-obscure illness-related kink/affinity pipeline is real) and seeing characters lose their composure from basic human reflexes

colds >>> (I still like allergies tho)

Not particularly into mess but don't really mind unless it's excessive

I'm only into fictional content with the sole exception of listening to wavs sometimes (for complicated questioning acespec reasons)

[rocks-whump-stuff]

I'm so confused. I wanna get into whump but like I'm so confused do you like abuse or is it just some sort of fantasy

Whump is a genre of writing that people enjoy for fun! It's an attractive genre because of the hurt/comfort aspect, and people tend to enjoy drama in stories (which happens a LOT in whump). Sometimes people write about it just because it's enjoyable to read and write, some people find the sexual aspects of it (though many don't - in fact, acespec people make up quite a lot of the community!). A lot of times, people use it to channel intrusive thoughts in a healthy, creative, and entertaining way.

But no, nobody enjoys actual abuse, nor should anyone condone real-life abuse or violence.

If you have any other questions, im happy to help!

[a-crumb-of-whump]

who needs sex when you got a head full of whump-y goodness :))

[whump-queen]

great, perfect. just sign here, here and here…

[drawing-dinos82]

Since my poll last week got so many votes in the ace and aroace categories (but interestingly a significantly amount less in the just aro category. Is this because people are more certain of being asexual? Because they’re still questioning their romantic orientation? Who knows!) I wanted to do this poll to find out how many people really are aroace spec in the Whump community. This poll is meant for people who are asexual and/or aromantic or people who are in the Whump community (mainly both).

Answering Yes ____ means that you do enjoy Whump. Answering No____ means you don’t enjoy Whump.

Edit for clarification: Whump is when you enjoy hurting and/or torturing fictional characters for fun. It can be emotional, physical or both. For some people it can be sexual, but for many it’s just simply something they enjoy

Reblog for a bigger sample size please!

[royalwhumpness]

This is a very long post I wrote in celebration of Ace Week and me finding a new label. I'll put it all under the cut, thank you if you take the time to read it <3.

We are nearing the end of Ace Week and during this time I’ve been thinking a lot about my sexuality. Of course, I think about it almost all the time. It’s always been something I’ve never felt completely grounded in. I’m sure there are plenty of others that feel this way. Some people reject labels for this very reason; it seems to keep you separate from all the other labels you might feel describe you. There is also this stigma that you must only choose one label as well, which can further alienate you from labels in general.

Ace Week has been fantastic. I’ve learned a lot about the ace spectrum and have been introduced to a lot of new terminologies. The people in the ace community are so genuine, welcoming, warm, inviting, and understanding. Unfortunately, as with most communities, people can get territorial, hostile, and make someone feel outcasted. In the LGBTQ+ community, this happens to more people than we’d like to admit. I will get into this a bit more here in a minute. But, out of every group, I’ve never felt so cared for like I have when I talk to my ace friends. They bring you in from the cold, set you by their fireplace, stick a cup of warm hot tea or coffee (so accommodating!) in your hands, and put on some comforting music. They ask if you’d like to see their dog or cat or whatever reptile child they have, and they make sure you feel warm, safe, and welcomed. If you’re questioning that you might be ace, they never sneer. They simply bring out their chalkboard full of information and go over all of it with you so YOU can make the distinction, and they never judge you based on your outcome. This sort of hospitality is rare when it comes to labels and self-identification. I’ve never understood the mindset that each label is a closed club, that you’ll have to match rules and guidelines specifically in order to join. With so many gatekeepers, it’s easy to be dissuaded.

Earlier I mentioned the issue with the LGBTQ+ community being a little closed-minded when it comes to different aspects of sexuality and gender identity and whether their acronyms belong. I don’t want to get into that fight, but it’s no secret that it exists. Unfortunately, bisexuals, pansexuals, trans people, ace spec people, and more, all fall under that umbrella of outcasts. I used to identify as Pansexual, I don’t anymore because of the arguments that fall around using that term. When I did use it, I was told multiple times, to my face, that I wasn’t real. I’ve also been called biphobic for using pan. So, in the end, I felt shunned from describing myself as pan. Not to mention the term “Pansexual” never really sat well with me anyway, it was just what I knew existed at the time that explained me a little better than other labels.

Anyway, fast forward some years and I’ve just resulted to calling myself fluid. Even then, fluid never seemed to fit either. It didn’t feel stable, it didn’t feel like a label. And who cares about labels anyway right? Well, I thought I didn’t, until this week. I anonymously asked someone here a question about some aspects of myself and is there a term on the ace spectrum that could fit me. You know what happened? They were extremely respectful, informative, and they gave me a few terms to look up. If it wasn’t for them, I wouldn’t have found something that I finally feel explains me.

It’s so hard to move through the world without something to explain yourself with. If you don’t have the words, it’s frustrating, isn’t it? Words are powerful. That’s why labels are important, and I’ve finally figured it out. When you’re traveling for so long not understanding yourself, not knowing if anyone around you could understand you, and you're trying so desperately to grasp onto this label and that label just to feel as though you belong somewhere; but then being cast out because you don’t belong “enough”... it’s disorienting, disheartening, and lonely. FRUSTRATING.

When I found this label, let me tell you, I nearly cried. It felt like I was finally understood! I’ve never heard this term before, I never knew it existed, but I’m glad it does. I’m glad I’m not the only one and I’m glad I can be a part of something.

Abrosexual.

I’ll link below some information on Abrosexuality.

lgbt wiki web MD MGB Relationships Definition Dictionary.com

It is on the ace spectrum and I gotta say, I’m extremely proud of that. Now does this mean I can’t adopt other labels? No. If you have one label or many labels, you’re no less valid than anyone else. (I found out that there is also Abrogender, and OH MY GOD if that isn’t EXACTLY what I feel like… I wanted to keep this topic on the sexuality aspect which is why I won’t go too far into it.)(Also I'm abroromantic, so basically, I'm all over Abro and I'm in love with that.)

Thank you ace community for being so helpful and kind. I hope you all had a very exciting Ace Week, and that you felt validated, and loved, and welcomed, as you should be. There is so much to the Ace community that I highly recommend EVERYONE do their research and learn the different terminologies. (Like aesthetic attraction, what a good term!!!!) Thank you whump community too. A lot of whumpers here are ace and I just LOVE it. It’s the best two communities (if I do say so myself) combined to make one ultimately amazing community.

[whumpster-dumpster]

Whumper has siren-like powers and lures Whumpee in with their seductive charms. Caretaker is aro/ace, completely unfazed as they go to rescue them. 

(Bonus if Whumpee is completely baffled as to why Whumper’s powers didn’t work on Caretaker too, and it’s Caretaker’s opportunity to come out to them.)

[lokigodofaces]

Fic authors self rec! When you get this, reply with your favorite five fics that you've written, then pass on to at least five other writers. Let’s spread the self-love 💙

Thank you for this but why would you ask me to compliment myself on writing my insecurities hate me already.

So, there's Captive which is my favorite. I know it's a Loki/reader, but really it's a Loki/myself and I'm letting y'all enjoy the ride. Like this is the sort of stuff I daydream about which is kind of concerning that I find this as my ideal romance but whatever it's my ideal fake romance I don't want anything like it idk I don't think. I think it's fun to write because: (1) it's the one outlet I really have for my attraction to Loki; (2) complicated plot; (3) there's a lot of stuff I know but my readers don't so I'm sitting over here like a handlebar mustache villain planning an evil scheme; (4) Bucky, my other favorite character, is there and is very important; (5) I'm drawing inspiration from different things, everything from Psych to the Hunt for Red October to Princess Bride; (6) WHUMP. As for the plot, basically all you have to know right now is that Loki captured [Y/N], an Avenger, for unknown to you, not me 😇 reasons.

I know there's only one chapter so far, but I'm already in love with You Lack Conviction. I decided to put my obsession with the Hunt for Red October to good use. In this, Loki plays the part of Marko Ramius and Coulson as Jack Ryan. It also has platonic Infinoki with Mind as Vasily Borodin and Tess as Skip Tyler. I'm so excited to write more 😃.

We also have Astronimical Love, my first and only Tesseroki fic. I really liked it and plan to do more Tesseroki. The story behind this is Tess introducing herself to Loki on Sanctuary and the two of them teaming up to defeat Thanos (and a possible sequel is a thing).

And there's Let Me Help. This is a Bucky/OC story where the OC, Jennifer, is a telempath that meets Bucky post-TWS. They become friends, and eventually live with the Avengers but Hydra's still out there. Bucky is one of my favorite characters so this is fun. It also will a very acespec story, since I headcanon Bucky as greyace and Jennifer is demi. And eventually I will write an alternative version of this where Hydra captures the two of them early on. Very whumpy.

Last but not least, Psych. This is a Chrises/Reader. You choose your ending based on who you want to be with out of Steve Rogers, Peter Quill, and Thor. [Y/N] is from our universe and accidentally ends up in the MCU 2008 with superpowers. She knows way to much and pretends to be a psychic to cover it up.

So, yeah, thanks for the ask! For those receiving asks, you'll be getting anons from me since this is a sideblog.

[aethelflaedladyofmercia]

New Story - “The Dark of Eden”

New story posted in my Sawdust of Words series - “The Dark of Eden” is a short one-off looking at the last night Crowley and Aziraphale spent in Eden. (This takes place between chapters 4 and 5 of Early Days). 

If you’re feeling burned out from “What it Means to Be A Demon” (or sat that one out because it was too much Whump) - this is intended as a bit of balm for the soul. A little sad - Crowley and Aziraphale are reflecting on things that they’ve lost - but ultimately a story of their connection.

(Note: This is the fist Sawdust of Words fic to have “Asexual” tags. I have always written both characters as aspec/acespec but I am aware that people searching for those tags are generally looking for fluffy relationship stuff, not TW-filled, soul-crushing whump. As such, I haven’t really been using them.)

Words: 2,980

Summary: 

On their last night in Eden, Aziraphale and Crawley walk together through the Garden, each reflecting on what he lost.

But perhaps there is something that they have gained...

Excerpt:

“It’s just right here,” Aziraphale said, leading the way through the trees. “Sorry about the undergrowth.”

The path, if you could call it that, was hardly wide enough for a single being to walk between grasping branches and thorny bushes, gently curving through the forest of Eden.

It was dark – the sounds of dusk had long given way to the softer noises of night – but Crawley could easily make out the angel before him, the roots growing on the path, even an owl sitting in a nearby juniper. He couldn’t stop his eyes from darting around, trying to take in everything. He’d only been in the Garden as a serpent, and snake eyes were no match for human.

It was a trade-off, really. As a snake he could feel vibrations through the ground and taste the air; in this body, he could see and hear clearly. Neither was better.

No, that was wrong. A snake couldn’t detect all the subtle shades of color in the world. A snake couldn’t hear music, or understand laughter as anything other than a faint, distant buzz. A snake couldn’t feel the cool night air brushing his skin without it penetrating down to the bones, sapping his energy. A snake wouldn’t notice how Aziraphale glanced over his shoulder – a flash of eyes in the dark – to make sure Crawley was still there, then stood a little straighter, not from fear or defensiveness but excitement for what he was about to reveal –

No, one form was definitely better.

“This,” the angel said, “is one of my favorite places in the Garden.” And with another step the forest fell away behind them.

Crawley didn’t notice the details of the clearing; later he would recall the soft ground under his feet, the chirp and croak of frogs in the lake piercing a distant background roar, the cool breeze tugging his hair. But for now, all he saw was the stars.

Read the rest on AO3!

Rating: General Audiences

Archive Warning: No Archive Warnings Apply

Category: M/M

Fandom: Good Omens (TV)

Relationship: Aziraphale/Crowley (Good Omens)

Characters: Aziraphale (Good Omens), Crowley (Good Omens)

Additional Tags: Ineffable Husbands (Good Omens), Canon Compliant, During Canon, Prequel, Backstory, Scene: Garden of Eden (Good Omens), Fluff and Angst, Crowley's Name is Crawly | Crawley (Good Omens), Happy Ending, Light Angst, Crowley Created the Stars (Good Omens), Lonely Aziraphale (Good Omens), Short & Sweet, Asexual Aziraphale (Good Omens), Asexual Crowley (Good Omens), Asexual Aziraphale/Crowley (Good Omens)