coming out as asexual is way harder than it should be - because the majority people still have no idea what asexuality is. plus it is very different for each person.
I always struggled with coming out - I still do! - and I thought it was because I’m too protective of my inner peace. which in a way is true, only when I used to think I was bi, or gay, I thought “when the time is right I’ll just tell people and be done with it”. guess what! every time I have considered coming out as ace I freak out because I will have to ✨explain✨.
my point is, I wish people knew about asexuality, and I’m not just talking about cishet people but also the lgbtq+ community. it would just be so much easier.
and of course, it would take the fucking shame away, because it’s time. (but that’s a whole other discussion).
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Cupid Parasite 💘😈 Regarding the Headcanon of Allan Asexuality Thread/Essay (spoilers for Allan route)
I’m transferring my thread from twitter onto tumblr to help archive a lot of headcannons and thread a lot more better to search as well it was originally posted like a thread rather than an essay as well not used to posting on tumblr
💘 - refers to Lynette Mirror
😈 - refers to Allan Melville
1) What will always get me the most about their relationship is how much the two of them put the most emphasis on emotional intimacy vs their physical intimacy with how all of the choices for 😈 gain love/affection from the emotional choices than spice
2) In the chapter, “Kinder Than Anyone” the choices to get the best ending for 😈 are regarding the events that were the most emotional for the two vs spending the night as that choice will end up locking into the bad ending, showcasing 💘😈 as succubi, the list of the former
3) As well I can recalled the chapter, “I Still Reach For You” as this is the closest I have ever seen a writer from a company get so close to how my brain function about this topic: The way 💘 softly hugs 😈 back when they’re in bed, 😈 admitting that he never had a physical -
4) relationship/sexual relationships with anyone before 💘 as he could find a way to avoid having sex in the real world as he only feed off of dreams and never really saw a need to do it, and how the way he looks when he look at 💘
5) [ On This Post I have posted another thread to relates the story/theme of Cupid and Psyche Headcannon onto 💘😈 which is the main reason I really liked them that I would like to transfer at a later time ] as well the words 😈 used later in the route becomes more emotional as he refers to 💘 “my honey/darling” -
(how I can derail this whole entire thread by stating in a translation of Cupid & Psyche where Psyche states this line to Cupid, “O my honey, O my husband, O you sweet sweet soul of your Psyche”)
- and even tried to actively avoid her as he saw having an emotional attachment as his sacrifice for her happiness
6) The only times he would use physical intimacy without this specific bond, is in order to make him the worst possible person in front of 💘, someone who she wishes to never talked to again after the whole entire Parasite 5 event is done, but in the route 😈 values his relationship so much much with 💘 that she wish to have a
7) more sexual relationship, he would agree to it as the two built up the bond throughout the chapters before, and even then 💘 would always make sure to check on if he was comfortable with the decision after they have done it, which he gently smile at her
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Chapters: 1/1
Fandom: No Fandom
Rating: Mature
Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply
Additional Tags: Asexuality, How Do I Tag, I Wrote This Instead of Sleeping, Aromantic, Confessions, Kinky
Summary:
This took me on the way home in the car.
First piece of writing I did that felt emotional enought to be worth something.
Not related to any fandom
It stayed in my notes for a year, but I like it so I post it.
... enjoy?
And if someone actually end up reading this and relating, please leave a comment!
You're not alone
You're valid
It’s Asexuality week, so i’m sharing this little bit I wrote a year ago
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I'm sex negative
I rotate around my sex positive and sex neutral friends
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Flipping the trope on its head. Made a fully Charisma centric character…
Then made them a completely inexperienced asexual.
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A couple months ago I came out as aroace and I thought that I had it all figured out but noooOOOooo apparently I’m agender
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