#cisqueer

[imoga-pride]

Just because some identity is contradictory to you doesn't mean it can't make sense. Actually, nuanced identities are often contradictory when you know the basics of it, ignoring all details and complexity a multilabeled or combined identity can be.

If you think cisgender nonbinary people can't have a definition bc then it would describe someone who is not cis, then you're in the wrong bc just cause something describes you it doesn't mean it applies or include you bc the identity requires self-identification as well.

Same goes for bi lesbian, demisexual, or lesboy, you 'are technically lesboy' (/demi/lunian) but refuses to label yourself as such? Cool then you're not/don't experience that identity 🤯 and that's okay. But to imply anyone with such identity are not that thing bc it can't exist, then you're being a reality denier, bc ppl with such identities exist regardless if you recognize them or not. For instance, just bc someone uses ungrammatical conlangs doesn't mean that language can't exist. In fact, it's written already and it's on you if you're gonna cry or ignore.

Also transhet people are allowed to be nonbinary; binaryn't transfems/transmascs are allowed to be hetero due to their alignment, presentation, AGAB, or any other typical reason.

[revenant-coining]

Cisoqueer

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Cisoqueer; a term for being cisqueer & isogender!

etymology; cis, (is)o, queer

for anon!

tagging; @radiomogai

[mogaiminty]

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[polygamousfistingchaos]

Hets can be queer, Cishets can be queer, Allocishets can be queer.

Stop using these words to mean "non-queer". Unless you're talking about EVERY straight person, don't say straight. Unless you're talking about EVERY cishet person, don't say cishet. Unless you're talking about EVERY allocishet person, don't say allocishet.

I've seen a lot of people switch from "straight" to "cishet" and from "cishet" to "allocishet" but none of these are good words to use.

hets can be trans, cishets can be asexual, allocishets can be intersex aroallos, hets can be heteroflexible, cishets can be polyam non-binary, allocishets can be agender cuspers. these are just a handful of identities out of MANY, and they already cover a shit ton of people in the queer community. they are not less queer than you.

my heart goes out to the queerhets, cisqueerhets, allocisqueerhets, and all your queer wonder and weirdness and whimsy.

[neopronouns]

flag id: a flag with 5 stripes, which are light pink, grey-white, dark purple, near-black, and soft green. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

centiqfluid: being fluid between cisqueer, cistrans, isocis, and sensgender

[pt: centiqfluid: being fluid between cisqueer, cistrans, isocis, and sensgender. end pt]

for anon! colors are from the cisqueer, cistrans, isocis, and sensgender flags. the term is 'c' from 'cis', 'en' from 'sens', 'i' from 'iso', 'q' from 'queer', + 'fluid'

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @sugar-and-vice-mogai

tags cont: @prettypinknarc, @skrimbliest

dni link

[pawsteps]

also, don't think i ever talked about this, but now that i'm more comfortable in my orientation and consider it very important to me, i've realized that being aroace effects my gender and how i view/feel it; i've also started feeling like being aroace is a part of my gender. so this is why i've started using the label aroacegender along with the other terms i use.

[your-bigender-big-brother]

Your take on the alitercis and cisqueer flags?

I made the cisqueer flag but couldn't think of anything for alitercis because the two are so similar. I hope this is okay. I borrowed colors from my conformant redesign and my nonbinary redesign to give it some nice earthy tones, with a slight purple tone added to the bottom two stripes to give it a queer feel. - 💙💚

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Cisgender Bisexual Pride Flag

Cisgender or cismodal: a gender modality that describes someone experiencing the gender they were assigned at birth.

Bi-: identity that encompasses experiencing attraction between two genders and all genders, with or without gender preferences.

Since I made cisdian and cisbian flags, I felt the need of this one today. This is inclusive of AGAB nonconforming (ANC) people, and multimodal people (those with multiple gender modalities).

See also: cisqueer.

[ashtonisvibing]

almost put normalcy!chase down as "cisqueer" and honestly i don't think there's a better term to describe that fucker's gender. i don't care if it's not a "real term" i'm keeping that for him

[mogaiminty]

its honestly really frustrating and kinda hurts when people say they support lesboys/turigirls but also say "cis men cant be lesboys" or "cis women cant be turigirls" as if genderqueer , cistrans, adgender, and overall gender diverse cis people dont exist

[polygamousfistingchaos]

Cisdemigirl

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A label for when you're a cisgender demigirl. You feel being a demigirl is cisgender.

[pawsteps]

i keep thinking about my gender again and i feel conflicted and confused. i like being a cis woman in a queer way but i don't feel fully connected to cisness bc of being aroace, bc sometimes i don't follow gender roles, bc i'm intersex (i think??), and bc... idk, i just don't feel like a "typical" woman (probably bc of the other points i mentioned). and also bc i thought i wasn't cis for multiple years, i feel like i betrayed the non-cis community by going back to my assigned gender. i also feel really stupid bc i keep thinking about how i tried coming out to my family multiple times and they brushed it off every time and i was mad at them for it but in the end, they were right... i hate myself.

idk how to explain what i'm feeling properly... it's like, i'm cis and i have a complicated relationship with my gender so i still think of my gender as being queer but i feel like i'm not allowed to feel like that bc i'm cis. i think it's unfair that ppl think that only nb/trans ppl can have unique gender experiences and think of their gender as queer but cis ppl can't; but idk if i'm allowed to think that or if i'm just being a whiny cis person. and i keep feeling like i shouldn't be cis bc i insisted on not being cis for so long, i feel like i'm a traitor and i feel so stupid bc my family was correct on me being cis... but i like being a woman in a queer way and that's okay... right?

idk. sorry for the stupid vent.

[plaidos]

im finally at the end phase with my tmequeer friend group from high school. my partner and i have been trying to find better friends that actually support us, so we can drop them from our lives and luckily we're now getting there because we sure as fuck just lost a sizeable chunk of what was our social lives. it all came together when i told one of them that i dont want to go to their taylor swift themed birthday party because im a woman in my 20s and i have better things to do. they then proceeded to get all the others on their side and completely corner and dogpile me while i tried to explain that its not personal and that it just sounds like a really shit time, but apparently calling it a "nauseating and ghoulish shrine to american late stage capitalism" and explaining that "it rubs me the wrong way, how you're having a birthday party but you've sucked the individuality out of it and replaced it with a white billionaire idol", was a little too meanies of me. (note: i didnt say this until after i had already started to get pushback for declining an invite. all i had done until then was make it clear that i probably wouldnt enjoy it and that im gonna pass on it. it wasnt until i was accused of having no integrity and not valuing their friendship or whatever the fuck that i was like ykw no. fuck this. this is a clown fest.)

anyway it culminated in my friend of 10 years telling me that im always too angry and that they "will not be spoken to like that" and that i need to "change my tone", saying im way too angry and emotional and that i need to get a grip. and if your transmisogyny bingo card isnt full yet, they did in fact go on to say that theyre scared of me; claimed that theyre incapable of being a transmisogynist because they have other transfem friends (an ex girlfriend, and someone theyre currently hooking up with. lol. lmao.); they compared me to their abusive ex citing how im aggressive and emotional; and finally said that ive been like this "even when you were a guy, so you havent changed much."

never again with swifties. never again with the transmisogynistic tar pit that is the average cisqueer+theyfab "friendship/support group".

(sorry if this was long, i hope its at least somewhat entertaining how ridiculous this was)

jesus. honestly, i was ready to be like “i think you were actually low-key kind of mean and dismissive about your friend’s interests” but seeing how they spoke to you in turn makes me think they probably had it coming. even if you WERE dismissive, that is literally all it would be — dismissive — not aggressive, or angry, or scary. i’m so sorry that you had to put up with these annoying milquetoast losers. you deserve better.

[leah2eroes]

wheres the option that restricts reblogs from cis ppls accounts. i want to post about really hot sex without those cisqueer fujos tagging it as call of duty or marvel characters. my post is about either a nebulous personification of submissive characteristics i find attractive, or that one mutual. its not about omegaverse mcyt, its not about werewolf!dean winchester, its not about whatever the fu

[redacted-coiner]

Persastraight / Persahetero

[PT: Persastraight / Persahetero]

Persastraight, A persa-id(link) term for when one is comfortable referring to themself as straight/hereto, but not comfortable with others referring to them as straight/hereto!

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[Extra] @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @sylviestial, @cisqueer-archive

DNI is listed within my pinned post. Please go read it before interacting with any part of my content. Ask to tag.

[redtail-coins]

New gender term for me: Infracis

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Infracis is a identity for cisness that is queer in its cisness. It subverts traditional ideas of what 'cis' means, and/or it is being cis in such a way that identifying as cis, or as your AGAB/ASAB, is more abnormal or unexpected than identifying as trans would be.

Some reasons that someone would identify as infracis:

1. They are intersex and identify with intergender, and/or with "intersex" as their gender identity, and thus consider themselves cisgender. Because this is not the traditional image of an aptobinary, perisex cis person, they would be infracis

2. They are multigender and consider themselves at least partially cis, but since cisness usually refers to aptobinary cis people, they are infracis

3. They are nonbinary and don't want to transition, so they feel they relate more to cisness, but because they are nonbinary it is expected that they would identify with trans, and not cis, so they would be infracis

4. They identify with an identity that is close to their AGAB or aligned with it, but isn't exactly it (like an AMAB xenoboy).

5. They are transgender and cissexual, cisgender and transsexual, or any other cis-trans combo that makes their cisness queer, so they're infracis

6. They're gender non-conforming and their cisness is constantly called into question because of the way they subvert it.

Or any other queer experience with gender and sex that makes one feel like they're cis in a nonconformant way, or subverting cisness. I'm multigender (aporagender + girl), isocis, and a label collector. I've joked that I'm "the least cisgender cis person" and I feel like my cisness is both subversive to traditional cisness because of my queer gender identity, and queer in its cisness because most people would assume I'm under the trans umbrella or just fully iso, because how genderqueer I am doesn't usually fit the idea of what a cis person is.

Etymology: Infra- meaning "below" "beneath" or "under" and cis from "cisgender," meaning "identifying with one's assigned gender at birth." The prefix "Infra-" was chosen for a few reasons. First, because of the subversion aspect of infracis. Second, because in the color spectrum, infra-red is a shade of red that's just outside of the visible light spectrum, so it both explains the way infracis transcends and goes beyond traditional cisness, as well as paying homage to the relative invisibility of infracis people's inherently queer cisness.

Tagging @cisqueer-archive because you'll like this one and @genderstarbucks because you wanted to see what I would make