#stop romanticizing it

[love-and-books320]

Alchoholism is not is not romantic please stop

[whatupcherry]

if I have to see one more toxic relationship dynamic being romanticized in the cod x readers, hell I’ve seen straight-up sexism and rape being romanticized I might actually go fucking crazy. Cause no it’s not hot to have grown-ass men sneak into your fucking house and jerk off or being a fucking perv to a woman half their age??? Please for the love of god get therapy and stop romanticizing rape and unhealthy relationships/behavior. The saddest part is that it’s women doing this shit too? seriously??? stop romanticizing women’s pain, it’s not cute. Stop normalizing it for the love of god.

[trxppedmind]

Romantisized Borderline.

If you have bpd this may triggers you!

Why the fuck would people even do that?

"I wan't a borderliner as my significant other."

No you don't. Its hell for you and for them.

You want someone who is absolutely obsessed, to the point just a wrong breath make them think you hate them.

You want someone who's probably is suicidal, self-destructive and self harming? "I can fix them." No you can't. Neither i think you can stop them.

You want someone that is extremly lovingly and affectionate only to become distant, ignoring and maybe even offensive in a eyeblink because they got triggered into Splitting or rage?

You want someone that probably feels offended if you need time for yourself or do spend time with your friends and don't answer your phone.

You want someone that may shouts and yells in one moment, only to cry and feel guilty in the next moment, maybe begging you to stay?

You do realise that its not just from time to time, but every fucking day? If they have a bad day's maybe even hourly moodswings?

You want just to help them? Thank you, but that's not your task in a relationship/friendship. Take care of yourself because the chance that you just ruin yourself is high.

Fuck, imagine cuddling in bed in a comfortable silence, they overthought something and suddenly push you off, just because a single though.

Wanna know what the worst is?

Maybe you noticed that I am extremely aware of my bpd. But that doesn't mean i can change, or fix myself. Because with the sudden overwhelming emotion, my mind is drowning in things like selfhate and that everyone will leave, no more awareness or control. I think its like that for many borderliners.

Please don't romantisize something people are suffering from. Thank you.

[lovefks]

TRIGGER WARNING: SENSITIVE TOPIC!!!!

‼️FKCING STOP R*PE(FANFICS)‼️

I just saw a FF for ghost and Price where they are r*pist???? Guys stop publishing shit like that… This is really nothing to romanticize and it’s even worse to thing it’s okay or to publish shit like that and make people think that r*pe is good or hot…. People who experienced disgusting shit like that are traumatized for their life, now imagine what these innocent people must feel when they see that there are people who write fucking fanfics about that shit!‼️STOP R*PE‼️

[black--cherryy]

[sadigailover]

gilfhub defenders seek help!

[st4r-cr0ssed-l0v3r]

Rant//TW

I hate booktok and booktok girlies so much, like i get the whole “don’t like it don’t read it” memo but we shouldn’t be romanticising and sexualising real life issues like i don’t know… stalking, rape, sexual harassment/assault, abuse, pedophilia, incest, etc. because it actually happens to real people all the time?? Like people die because of shit like this, people are traumatized and fucked up after shit like this

And I don’t want no stupid motherfucker saying some dumb shit like “it’s fiction it’s not real so why does it matter” like shut up you sound like a fucking proshipper dear god. Just because it’s fiction doesn’t drown out the fact that you are romanticising something that shouldn’t be fucking romanticised. And just because something is fiction doesn’t mean it won’t affect someone.

Like it’s honestly disgusting and i’m sick of it.

[cybers-shithole]

STOP ROMANTICIZING TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS.

i CANNOT believe i have to make this post. they arent cute or fun. people need to grow the fuck up and realize that people arent being dramatic when they talk about the effect of toxicity. being ignored all the time until they need something ISNT FUCKING ATTRACTIVE. youre being insensitive to victims and generally an awful person.

[i-never-grew-up]

You'll often see posts on this blog about silly quirky system things like 'hee hoo silly introjects brain go brr'

But those are just the parts we choose to disclose.

You don't see how much sleep we lose over not knowing who we are, you didn't see what happened when the host first discovered the system and forced a protector into dormancy, you didn't see when the host went dormant and his 9 year old self formed as an alter and the fear in her eyes when she looked at her phone and saw how long it'd been since we were actually 9, you don't see the fake claiming, the imposter syndrome, the flashbacks to our past, being told that our trauma isn't severe enough to have a dissociative disorder..

You don't see that shit! You only see the 'hehe quirky brain people' mask we put on because we're scared of trauma dumping!

[lexiklecksi]

Everyone who has ever liked, reblogged or posted a “sad girl aesthetic” post needs to watch this video essay. Yes, we should all be able to express how we experience living with mental illness, but we need to stop romanticizing mental illness! It doesn't help anyone to get triggered online. It helps even less to perceive trauma, depression, anxiety etc. through a desirable lens that blurs how painful it is.

[atwistedandbrokentale]

⚠️Warning super long rant coming your way ⚠️

I think we as a society would improve if we stop romanticizing villains and serial killers. Now I’m not one to talk, since I’m guilty of this as well. I have a crush on Wally darling from welcome home and I follow his yandere tag and I read those fanfics and headcanons with a sort of twisted glee. I suppose I’m just as guilty as the people I’m calling out and if you say that invalidates what I’m saying, I understand.

But (and this is a really important but here) if someone IN REAL LIFE tried to kidnap me and cut me off from and even try to kill my family, who I love and adore more than anything, I would try them to get on the death row before I send him there myself. I think the problem is not enough people understand that.

Just because someone was abused doesn’t mean they get to abuse you. If you want to help them that’s good, but it shouldn’t be at the cost of your own safety. I think a good example of this is the canon ship catadora from the Netflix show she ra. Catadora is the canon pairing of Adora and Catra and it is unhealthy, toxic and abusive.

No one deserves a relationship like that if you’re in one I’m truly sorry and I hope you can get out of there soon. Yet people defend this ship with their lives. I don’t understand why. Catra was physically, emotionally and psychologically abusing Adora for most of her life. Yes, Catra was abused by shadow weaver but so was Adora. She should have cut catra off just like she did with shadow weaver.

I heard somewhere that the show’s creator actually based Catra’s and Adora’s relationship off her own and I hope whoever’s Adora cuts the Catra off and finds better, healthier relationships

I guess what I’m trying to say is that there’s nothing wrong with liking villains and I’m not sure what to do about yanderes if I like them yet I know how horrible they would be in real life but we need to understand how just because it’s cool or hot in fiction doesn’t make excuse it in real life and we need to tell our kids that before they become a serial killer fangirl and become part of the problem

[flibbertiigibbet]

Tiktok becoming old tumblr 2.0 is kinda sad

The amounts of teens once again publicly romanticizing their EDs, SH and mental illnesses in general is so dangerous and sad, almost infuriating tbh because not only does it affect them, it affects younger kids on the app and other teens that doesn't feel like they're "sick enough" to purposely make themselves worse

Tiktok is insanely anti-recovery and I despise "mental illness" tiktok because of it

[mrperfectlydamaged]

please stop romanticizing mental health issues, ain't healthy, and neither is cool

because every author or artist is telling you to get out and not fall into the same as theirs, talk about them. don't be afraid to get help, love you <3

[driedflowers161]

I hate them people who completely romanticizing the south for the sake of aesthetic. Just like you i was born and raised here; I love the landscapes and the culture but you can't disregard the extreme social issues that take place here and in America as a whole. It's insane how I'm constantly seeing people romanticize poverty, abuse, religious oppression, and racial oppression. People don't realize just how shallow these atrocities are buried, they are considerably recent and ongoing.

[rosatheautie]

I’m not sorry.

I’m not sorry for being unlikeable. I never loved you or the way you spoke to me. I’m not sorry no matter how many times I said sorry to you. It was in fear, I was not apologetic. I tell you I only say sorry in fear, but you say “I would never do that!” But you would, you did, you do. I do not owe you being the perfect low support needs disabled daughter, because that is not me. I am not critical to you at all times, I am simply being honest and blunt. You are the critical one. You make my wants and problems about you.

[crybbyology]